Welcome to the Swinging Single Podcast with your host, AC Maxwell. Today's episode explores the often misunderstood lifestyle of swinging and the benefits it can bring to individuals and couples alike.As we dive into this topic, AC will be providing valuable insights and advice on how to navigate the world of swinging, including how to discuss it with your partner and how to find compatible partners.Join us for a frank and open discussion about the joys of consensual non-monogamy, exploring common myths and misconceptions, and discovering why more and more people are embracing this lifestyle. Tune in now to learn why swinging might be the right fit for you and your relationship.
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hello hello and welcome to the swinging single podcast i'm your host ac maxwell here to dive deep into the world of ethical non-monogamy whether you're curious experienced or just open-minded this is your go-to spot to explore the fascinating dynamics and potential benefits of a non-traditional relationship or relationships. Every week, we'll uncover the layers of love and partnership outside the monogamous norm. You know that. I'm a swinger. You're an ethical non-monogamous. From open relationships to polyamory and everything in between the sheets.
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By listening to the Swinging Single podcast, you acknowledge that you have read and understand this disclaimer and agree to its terms shave your cock and balls gentlemen all right yes ladies you ladies and gentlemen gentlemen you heard it shave your cock and balls now gentlemen are you ever at a swinger club and you're just feeling down after a couple rounds of busting nuts and you need that little pick me up Well, you go doobie energy and get that pick me up that you need to go on and fuck all night long doobie energy get all the great flavors they have offering we have a special 10 to 30 off your order if you use the promo code swing single and doobie energy go to doobie energy go to doobie.gg and get that drink get that extra shot gentlemen so you can prove that you're the man in the bedroom all right so today we are talking about some good shit like we're going to talk about people getting into swinging and what benefits do swingers have now i talked about a lot of stuff where the negativity comes in with swinging and all that but you know what there's positivity in there and a lot of relationships and swinging are very great and they actually help there have been cases you know there's a lot of cases where swinging really does benefit the couple you know they open up the communications greater sex greater communication honesty and all that opens up for a lot of these people and that's good so the interest in the non-monogamous relationships have been on the rise among these in the dating scene like i said on my dating app app i put on that i am a swinger and i'm looking for another partner or a partners to swing with uh and i get some interest you know sometimes i don't get anything but that's okay you know because swinging is not for everybody so a study was published in 2021 by frontiers in psychology it involved more than 3 000 single adults in the united states found that one in six expressed an interest in polyamory one in nine reported past experience of polyamorous relationships and one in 15 were either equated acquainted with someone who had been or were themselves currently in a polyamorous arrangement now these numbers you know like one in 15 well you gotta think about this one in 15 have been acquainted or them themselves have been in relationship a polyamorous relationship and you gotta remember what about the other 14 so 14 out Thank you.
this one of 15 have been acquainted or them themselves have been in relationship a polyamorous relationship and you gotta remember what about the other 14 so 14 out of 15 have never been are not acquainted or have ever been in a polyamorous relationship so you know those numbers you know they try to make it look sound like there's more people than it really is but you know there really is not because just for 14 out of 15 people have never so let's look at these numbers so they found out one in six expressing interest in polyamory now i bet you this is the younger generation because of the sexualization of a you know young people in this country has gone off the change look off the chains look at a look at the internet sexualized young kids so they're sexualized from the day you know they get the height fuck since they get their first phone and all that you could get you get your porn at your fingertips remember when i was growing up you had to go to a shady porn shop to get any porn or you better hope your mom and dad had a porn stash somewhere and then you found it um then that was the only way we're going to get it nowadays these girls these men these young boys these young girls now go on twitter instagram fucking tiktok and see girls twerking seeing guys twerking whatever the fuck is going on so i think the the younger generation is more maybe accepting will be a more accepting of the polyamorous lifestyle or you know and be more willing to participate in the polyamorous lifestyle.
One in nine reported past experience of polyamorous relationships. So some have already explored this type of relationship and for whatever reasons, they're still in it or they're not in it. So these are all interesting stats, like I said. So, you know, but you got to always take everything.
Like I always take everything with a grain of salt when it comes to swinging and all that because you know what not everything is a study can actually say what's really going on i participated in this study a long time like i think uh there's a woman we're at a swinger club in albany new york i was at a swinger club in albany new york and it was a lady who said well can you fill this out as questionnaires about swinging and all that and i was like fine i'll do it and i did it like two more times she emailed me and this is like 2004 2005 you know it had a lot of questions details and all that so but i didn't really go into great detail i wasn't really honest because i really didn't know i I was too young in my 20s.
Now I can go into further detail why I started this. So these types of relationships, based on the agreement of all parties involved, allow for multiple romantic, sexual, or emotional connections with various partners. Now, if you are a swinger, I would be very wary of the emotional connections because we have past experiences where the emotional connection happens and it breaks up a couple. The rules, the multiple romantic and sexual partners I can totally get down with. I'm fine with that.
But when I have a partner, I don't want her to have any emotional connection with any other man or any other woman because, you know, that force a relationship apart so you know i would always say swingers out there be very cautious if you're just a swinger and swinging is just where you go to a club you find another couple you fuck them you go some find a club find a couple on a line online and you fuck them and that's it you go your ways that's swinging to me but if you're looking to date and all that the emotional connection is that's polyamorous so that's more polyamorous you're not really much of a swing you're more of a polyamorous than swinging in my personal opinion but i always try to stay away from those emotional connections when i have partners because it does break up relationships and i had women break me break up with me because they've had emotional connection with someone else and you know they always call crawl they always come crawling back to ac anyways the forms the forms of these relationships can take and take include but are not limited to open relationships polyamory and swinging uh open relationship is more where husband and wife are going to go out and date other people they're not going to go out and date other people together but they're going to do it them by themselves you know sometimes you know you see a lot of this especially in texas because a lot of people travel for work because they're in the oil and gas industry you see a lot of couples that have open relationships because you know the hubby's gone maybe a week out of the month two weeks out of the month and you know people have needs and people have desires and want to fuck and have fun like that uh so they'd say let's open up our relationships you do you you i'll do me we come together we don't fucking bring anything home and stuff like that that's fine polyamory you know you got people where you don't have two or three other people in the in the relationship sometimes they're living together you know and honestly you know what the way prices are in this country now polyamory seems to be the way a lot of people are gonna have to go because that's the only way they're gonna afford any fucking thing in this goddamn country because everything's so damn high now the rent's so damn high housing's high Oh, fuck.
You're going to have to fucking marry two or three women. And I predict that, I say within 25 years, polyamory marriage, multiple marriage will be legal in the United States. Because I think that's the way it's going to go. Because they opened the floodgates to everything with the gay marriage and everything. And so why not? Why can't people get married to more than one person?
And if you really want to do that and you want to be legally responsible for two other people or three other people shit go ahead go ahead do it i support that and i will support a lawsuit going through the courts that say polyamory people can get married because you know what you got to be 18 and over so you're an adult when you're doing this so it's not like when you hear the stories of utah where you got 13 year old girls marrying 50 year old men which is fucking fucked up and those people should go to jail but you know you got maybe a 230 year old 330 year olds that want to marry each other you know let them marry each other let them be happy what they do in their home doesn't affect me and you also have swinging which i am i'm a swinger i don't consider myself open open relationship or polyamory because you know i could barely find one woman i could stand for more than five minutes how the hell am i gonna find you know to another woman two women that i could stand for five minutes so you know you know you just got to figure out what you want all right so research conducted by this dr gupta marie uh tornatino, and Caroline Santa from Virginia Tech and published in the Journal of Family Theory and Review in November, devolved in November 2021, devolved into societal perceptions of non-monogamous relationships.
The findings highlighted that such relationships are often stigmatized as being more permiscuous. No shit. I would think it would be. Why wouldn't it be more promiscuous? Because you are having sexual encounters with other people. And if you're polyamory, maybe you're all having a threesome every night or the woman goes to one bed.
The next day he goes to another bed, whatever they do you know so yes it's going to be considered more polite uh promiscuous also it's considered perverted yeah for people that are closed-minded who are i guess you would say busy bodies you know those people where they want to know everything that's going on they gossip you have them at work they gossip a lot about other people yeah it's going to be perverted to them but to anybody me it's like okay whatever you know all right are we gonna have are we gonna go bowling friday night or what let's do this they don't really care and it could be untrustworthy also characterized as untrustworthy you know and these are all compared to being monogamous uh the monogamous ones relationships that people have they also they are also commonly viewed as unsustainable and more likely to experience issues like jealousy now this is one thing i would agree with some of these words unsustainable if you're poly and you have let's say you have a couple of thruple three people in a couple i do think that it will won't last forever it's not gonna last long maybe it could last 5 10 15 20 years but after a while i think because we as humans evolved and our thinking and our feeling and our emotions evolve that it just turns sour at one point now it could be just because you know hormones kick in you know things like that people change men you know we're horny at 20 we're fucking rock hard our dicks are hard we're thinking about sex every time you see a girl walk by then we hit our 40s and we're not fucking thinking about sex we're thinking about work or whatever else we're thinking about and now our libidos are lower so maybe things change where you know i don't want to have two pussies but i could just do one do with one or i could get rid of all when we get and get with a new pussy but you know i do believe sometimes polyamorous is just unsustainable for the long term now that's not saying that it's not possible yeah sure it's possible that you know you stay forever like an old age all three of you are on the porch yelling at the kids to stay off your lawn things like that but i just don't see polyamorous being unsus being sustainable over a long term not short term short term yes long term no i don't think so uh also with open relationships i think they're sustainable open relationships can be if you have good communication honest and open communication if you don't it's not going to work it's not sustainable swinging it can be sustainable but you got to watch out for a swing or burnout and a lot of couples do this they swing they burn out because they just do too much at too fast of a pace and all that and like i say it could be very addicting this lifestyle you know think about it you you're you meet your high school sweetheart you marry them and you go on 10 years 15 20 years you raise your kids everything's good now what you had the same pussy for you know the past 20 years you had the same cock for the past 20 years and you decide to open up your marriage you go to a club you meet another couple online you meet other singles online and boom now you got this fucking lifestyle in front of you that is open your doors open your eyes so the possibilities of new things and damn you want to just fucking do it every day fucking you know now you start thinking about all the people at your work who's a swinger who's not who would i fuck who would be down for this and it just overwhelms a lot of couples where they just can't do it and they get swinger burnout so you know it is sustainable but sometimes a lot of couples it's unsustainable sometimes some couples just do it for the fantasy they get it done and over with and after a year they're done and they're never doing it again so that's despite these negative stereotypes the intriguing question is why non-traditional relationship to continue to continue contain gain traction and succeed i could tell you one thing it's social media it's the sexualization of the world of the country now think about it it's not it's you see a girl's tits on tv now okay big deal you see girls bush big deal you know um actors put out sex tapes now oh who cares it actually fucking hurt it actually helps their career look at kim kardashian she became a billionaire because she fucked ray j and all the other ones pam all pam anderson and all tommy lee fuck it they it didn't hurt their career it fucking helped their careers so we have a sexualization of the united states and now people are like opening their eyes like fuck i don't need a connection to someone i could fucking spread my legs and let some guy in and fucking have a great night and that's it i don't need the fucking connection anymore we're going to we're getting away from that so social media has taught all these youngsters and all these older people now that you know fucking go out and have a good time is it good no i don't think it is that great you know because the more the morality of the country is going down the hill you know you got to have some standards right can we have some standards but a lot of people a lot of people are young especially these youngs you watch listen to their interviews on tiktok they'll do shit they'll stick bottles up their assholes now they'll do all kinds of shit they'll stick fucking alcohol pills up their ass do they get a high better it's like fucking the world is fucking weird now but i think the reason why it's gaining traction is because it's social media now everyone knows okay so this couples are coming out as swingers and all that and polyamorous and now they see that and they go oh what is that okay poly i would like that fucking yeah man i have two pussies yeah that there's a lot of guys and girls like oh maybe i can have my best friend and my boyfriend you know whatever so it's just one of those things where yeah social media has made this place gain made this lifestyle gain traction which is good which can be bad the The raising trend in non-monogamy can be better understood by examining various factors that contribute to growing appeal as outlined in the study.
So one, exploring the motivations behind choosing non-monogamy. There is a mix of underlying reasons that motivate people to deviate from traditional monogamous relationships as discovered through the literature review. I'm going to tell you right now, the cost of shit will change people.
Maybe they're not going to be truly monogamous where they're all fucking each other, but you know what, maybe couples will put, two or three couples will put their money in together so they can buy stuff or everything and have like a financial co-op this type of relationship and stuff but you know cost of stuff could be I truly believe that's what's going on because it's just fucking crazy so demographic influences what can they be the review found that certain demographic groups which include younger individuals white members belong to sexual minorities and those identified as non-binary or transgressors are more inclined to pursue non-monogamous arrangement yeah because it kind of is weird when I see couples especially black couples oh is there a place for black people to swing in and all that it's like dude you're in a start your own club for one two swinging has been predominantly been a white person scene for shit since I fuck since 1998 I'll see you next time.
swinging is has been predominantly been a white uh person's scene for shit since i fuck since 1998 when i started you go to a club it's nine you know a lot of times especially if you go to places up north it's more white people uh you got sprinkles on hispanics you got a sprinkle a little sprinkle of black people now but you know it has been predominantly white so more white people so I would say more white people are more inclined to have that swinger open relationship type of mentality uh sexual minorities too yeah because they're seeking some some sense of normalcy with them themselves they're trying to seek the common ground with someone like I'm friends with people who i have common shit with common things with so you know sexual minorities would probably have that if you're bi gay whatever you probably flock to those other bi gay um sexual minorities uh non-binary transgender shit i can't talk about because i don't know nothing about them so whatever so younger like i said younger because and it says younger because the younger people are on instagram and all that shit and they're being influenced by these people you go you have all these other podcasts to talk about swinging and all that and guess what they hear it they stop think about it a little bit they go maybe that's something i'd like to try and that's why we have more and more young people joining the lifestyle which is good because you guess you guess what?
Eventually, A.C. Maxwell will perish from this earth. Eventually, all the other Swinger podcasts will leave this earth. They'll be buried six feet or cremated. So we got to have someone to pick up the torch and all that. So the values and beliefs. People who believe there are plenty of romantic options available and possesses more aggressive political and religious ideologies appear to be more predisposed to question and move beyond established relationship boundaries. More progressive. OK, yeah. So more liberal. You know, I'm not liberal at all. I'm more when I vote for politics.
I'm more conservative, more libertarian. I'm not. But I'm liberal when it comes to certain things like sex. I'm very liberal with that, with sexual orientation. People could do. I don't care what you do as long as it doesn't affect me, don't affect my kids or anything like that. We're cool. I don't have any problem with anybody.
It's just when you start fucking doing that weird shit that people are doing these days and all that that affect other kids you know don't be diddling no kids don't be talking to little kids about sex and stuff like that we ain't gonna have a problem other than that you know just let people be let them let them enjoy the lives because you know sometimes life does suck and you never know what people are going through. And maybe the swinging, maybe polyamory, maybe open relationship is all the release they have. So go ahead and do it. I have a very stressful job.
You know, running the company is very stressful. So I take it out at the swing club. I fuck my aggression out and all that. And I feel great. Personality traits. So what type of personality traits do these people have?
The inclination toward non-monogamous relationships is also tied to certain personality characteristics let's see if i have any uh specifically those who score high in traits linked to openness and are often more attracted to the diversity novelty and variety associated with non-conventional relationships all right let's see diversity uh i you know i'm i love all pussy but i have a preference of white and hispanic women latin women i love those girls uh novelty it's all right variety the variety is what really gets me there's nothing like fucking a new person you know when you meet that when i meet a couple at a club and we're talking and she finally says yes she wants to have a threesome or she wants to have sex with me husband's watching i love that challenge of trying to get that woman off now there's no better feeling than me being able to get a strange woman who i never met maybe five minutes ago maybe hours ago and i make her fucking come make her squirt and do shit that owner husband can do when you can when I get up to that level where wow you're the only you and my husband only one that can finger me great or eat my pussy or fuck me great when I hear that that's like the ultimate compliment and the most respect I can get from a couple and I just love it because you know I did it did it.
That's the variety that I get. And I like doing it over and over, getting a new couple. I know couples who, people who play with the same couple all the time. I go, doesn't that kind of get kind of boring and all that? And I have a couple that I hang out with and talk to. We fuck sometimes whenever it's convenient. And she talks. She gets bored at clothes because it's the same people all the time.
She's like, i never get to see anyone new and all that because she likes variety she's like me she likes the variety of the people and all that so diversity and the variety are some of my characteristics that i have that i can agree with uh with this article satisfactions of varied needs one of the compelling arguments in favor ofmonogamous is the ability to meet different needs through multiple partners. An article in the Current Sexual Health Reports in 2020 found that 42% of survey respondents felt non-monogamous partnership allowed for a more comprehensive fulfillment of needs.
Yeah, I don't know if I get any of that from any of this. Maybe do and i just don't know it but for a lot of other people yeah i could see uh that and all okay hold on one second all right so back so like i don't know if i get any of this stuff uh i could but you know i just like I said, I might not just know it. For instance, someone in a hierarchical polyamorous relationship may derive great emotional support and communication from their primary partner. While they experience heightened passion and sexual exhilaration from a secondary partners. Yeah, I can. I think I'm that, too.
I think that's one thing I got.
I i'm like that too so i agree that that one the insights because i get my my support from my primary than any woman i'm with it's just passion sexual acceleration that i can do because some things you can't do because some women don't want to do certain things and i want to do certain things like i would just my perfect partner would be a woman that walks into a club's takes off her clothes and says let's fuck a lot of women women are not like that anymore they want to have that connection or they want to talk they want to do the blah you know let's do that stuff and i'm not like i don't want that i want just just get to the club let's fuck and have a great time and you know do all that stuff but you know it is what it is the insights offered by these studies provide a complex picture of the motives and outcomes linked to the practice of non-monogamy and why it continues to capture the attention and interest of a growing number of individuals i do believe so the phenomenon of non-monogamy is gaining ground not only due to its challenge to traditional relationships pair paradigms but significantly for the enhanced relationship satisfaction and sexual gratification reported by those who practice it that's a good positive thing that's it's good that people are finding happiness and they're finding their purpose with this type of relationship these relationships are not easy don't go for one thing and if you're listening to this and you want to have another girlfriend and you and your wife you want to have another girlfriend don't think it's going to be easy think about your relationship with just you two now add a third person that third person does not think it's not going to think like you always it's not going to have the same emotional balance that you two have so you got to be very careful who you allow into your home when you're doing polyamory anything like that because they can set off a balance that is a no-no which is not going to be good for you it's not going to be good for her and all that it's just going to create more drama now i hear more stories about that drama coming from a polyamorous couple than i do the happy stories where we're all get along we're great we love each other yada things like that so you know you got to be very careful who you are allowing into that home your your dynamics will change immensely especially if you got kids how are you going to explain this woman that's living in your home sleeping in your bed like i said i don't know polyamorous i don't really get into them when i talk i don't sit there and say hey what how do you sleep and i and i don't i don't know i don't care but i'm just wondering you know do they sleep in the same bed or do i don't know i don't care but i'm just wondering you know do they sleep in the same bed or does she sleep in another room how are you going to explain and what happens she brings kids now you got that dynamic you both of you bringing in more people but also what about an ex does that woman have an ex and how is he going to feel with you know you know the three of you shacking up together is he going to be okay with it does he take that woman to court now for i don't know custody full custody or something like that because guess what courts are not lifestyle friendly they're not very lifestyle friendly they're going to sit there say is this the best thing for a child which they should but you know we know the courts are fucking biased sometimes is this the best thing for the child and i don't know if it will be and i don't know so you got to deal with all that so you got to ask yourself before you get into any polyamorous relationship if you're bringing in another woman are you bringing in another man how are they going to affect you know because for the first there's a honeymoon phase of course where everything's great everything's having fun we're all fucking or doing whatever we're doing we're all hanging out but then later the honeymoon's over and the real life happens where bills come in mortgages come in car payments come in medical payments shit like that all starts creeping in and it's fucking called adulting and that's when things get real that's when drama starts you know one person shit what happens one person you know are you going to have credit cards together are you going to bank accounts together nothing tears a family apart quicker than finance finances just ask women when their husbands lost their jobs how quick women file for divorce you know you do ladies because you know you know not every woman stands by their man but you see a lot of that as a divorce attorney finances are how i can forgive cheating but you know what i cannot forgive losing all my fucking money if i've you know if i was married and she lost all my money i'd be like fuck i could not forgive that because money's hard to come by money is not easy to recoup unless you're fucking you know you have a lot of money and you just do more but if you work your ass off you're a blue collar dude you're white collar dude and you're working your ass off and your wife comes home says she lost all your money uh whatever for whatever reason i think that's even worse than cheating i would rather have you fuck another dude behind my back then you do that because i can regain trust quicker than i can regain that money because you know what there are people that save up their whole lives and they only got like four hundred thousand dollars to their name now if you say wow that's a lot of money no it's not in the real scheme of things it is not a lot of money it's all shit it's what it's a cancer you get cancer that's that shit down to zero because you're gonna be paying a fucking half a million dollars for that treatment if you want to live so you know you gotta always ask yourself what what dynamic is this person gonna bring don't be stupid and just jump in like a lot of people do don't think with your brain the big brain the three feet above your ass brain not your brain between your legs so participants and non-monogamous agreements often report high levels of satisfaction and commitment in comparison to those in non-monogamous setups yeah i yeah sure they're satisfied right now but this is a new phenomenon where you know we don't have a lot of data now people say oh well they did this shit back in the medieval days or you know back in the greek days okay but we don't have data now the greeks didn't have fucking internet they didn't have basically a lot of stuff that we have options you know you pretty much married and fucked in your city state that you're in during those times now you can fucking fly all over the world within a day so you have a lot more options out there you have more chances of finding what you need and i don't think there's a lot of data that's that we can go off saying that this is can be really true we don't i don't i can't they say it's true i don't think it's true i would think we have to wait another cup you know another decade or two before we this can say this is the truth because you know it really hasn't started you know i never heard of polyamory and only time I ever heard of polyamory was when the Mormons and all that in Utah and stuff like that.
Now, you know, mom and mom and pops are doing this polyamorous stuff. Now that the Internet's out there and we can see it, we can actually hear it put a face to the lifestyle.
So such relationships are characterized by superior communication increased openness and a more constant of a comprehensive fulfillment of needs yes you got to have great communication if you are going to allow anyone into your bedroom or into your relationship you need that communication uh i was at a party last night two gang bangs uh for this one lady the husband's talking about we always did it you know I'll see you next time.
communication uh i was at a party last night two gang bangs uh for this one lady the husband's talking about we always did it you know great woman great pussy fucking nice ass nice pussy nice tits and she you know she liked the attention she's she loves the attention of multiple men but she never really got into having a gang bang which was gangbang is one woman many men one after another one two cocks on her hands one in her pussy maybe one of her ass if she's very uh fun but they always most she ever had was a three a foursome with her and her husband and two other guys she never had i think there was like 10 15 guys when I was there now I don't know what time that party started I just laughed after I busted two nuts last night but I went but I left early and so she went through 15 guys now they had that open communication where they would talk about it and I think it took them over six years to get to this point they kept talking about it they always made sure how they were going to do it how what's the setup and all that and that's something that they had they had superior communication you need to have superior communication in a polyamorous open relationship type of relationship because you are going to run into those issues like what happens if you meet someone at a bar you know and they want to go home with you and they don't care you're married or not married or whatever you know what's the what do you do do you just call the wife do you call the husband say hey this is it you know do you facetime it and all that i had girlfriends where i said if you're going to meet someone at a bar i want to facetime me and i'll watch through facetime because you know we can't always be together and they're like oh you know they give you the that little stare like i don't know stuff like that but you know that's one of my rules i said if we're um boyfriend and girlfriend you have to respect my rules just like i respect all your rules but you know it is what it is so increased openness fuck you got like isn't it obvious that you have increased openness if you're willing to let another man or another woman into your bedroom you gotta have this does it's not that's a no-brainer i don't know why they i guess they would have put it in their article for whatever reasons and more comp more comprehensive fulfillment of needs.
Yes, you're getting your needs met by two people. If you're a guy, what's the best? You have one woman or two women. You got all kinds of stuff. I would have two women. Fuck, you got two women.
you got one sitting on your face you got one playing you got one playing bouncing on your cock shit that's a fucking that's a dream every man's dream right say thing ladies you got two men at your at your all your needs to fulfill all your needs and wants and all that so you know it's one of those things where where they do everything for you so you know of course your needs are met you have that powerful needs met interestingly interestingly a study highlighted in the journal sexual relationship therapy in 2015 found that adults age 55 and older engage in non-exclusive relationships exhibit higher levels of happiness than their counterparts an exclusive one i 100 agree with that fuck yeah i from i i was i was living in florida we lived over well not close to but there is a place i can't now i can't remember it there's a place where it's a retirement home the villages the villages and so the place called villages where it's a retirement home and a lot of these people are supposedly swingers and they have loofahs different color loofahs saying what they have they're driving around in their golf carts and all that so I believe that's true because you know what after a certain age you kind of get tired of this you know you get tired of following societies what's what society tells you and you're like fuck this i'm gonna have fun i'm on on this earth my time is limited now and i'm gonna have fun and you kind of open and you're also more open-minded to the ideal too i think so i think you realize that you know your wife's gonna come home to you she ain't gonna take off for some other fucking dude or anything like that like you could you like you could be like in your 20s and 30s and 40s where you're kind of worried about stuff like that and all that so you know you just get that at that certain age you just get that i don't give a fuck anymore i i reach that age where i don't give a fuck anymore i don't care what people think and all that that's why i do a podcast you know i put my shit out there and for everybody here and they don't like it too I'll be back.
give a fuck anymore i i reach that age where i don't give a fuck anymore i don't care what people think and all that that's why i do a podcast you know i put my shit out there and for everybody here and they don't like it too bad i don't care whatever you know it's my opinion it's my swinging it's my it's my story and all that so and it's my in everything so i think once you get older 55 you become happier with your life and because i think more things you start you know you built that life together you have your kids are gone you're having grandchildren now you have money some money and you're just content with your life you already and you know that whatever happened is happening you just get more mature about it so moreover these non-monogamous seniors experience more frequent sexual activity and reported improved health outcomes when compared to those in traditional relationships.
And I would tell you, if you go to Paradise Lakes in Lutz, Florida, you'll see it's a retirement home for nudists and swingers.
And the new owner came in, he made it at Swingers Resort, and these old people are watching people fuck, and they're jacking off watching you fuck and they're doing all kinds of stuff man these old people they they want to fuck too and i go you know i hope i'm that age and have that sexual uh desire uh that they have right now because you know i'll be fucking my girl in the hot tub and there'll be two three four old couples you know grandma type couples in their 60s and 70s watching us and guys they're jerking off their wives are jerking them off and all that and they're having they're just enjoying watching us and having a good time and they're having a good time and all that so it is kind of but it does but with the younger crowd there it does kind of turn them off because they're not very open-minded because remember 20 to 30 year olds don't see themselves as a 60 year old i see myself as a 60 year old so you know what i don't mind grandpa and grandma watching me if i can grandma grandpa want to join in they better step on up you know but you know i don't care who's watching some people do so you know when i was at that place at that Paradise Lakes and it's kind of not a younger couples would not go because of that reason because there's more or there's a more older crowd which I love older people don't give a fuck they just want to have a good time like I said they know their time is limited so they just want to have a great time don't want to deal with all the bullshit the drama that happens and the drama that happens in the lifestyle polyamorous swinging over the ship all drama a lot of drama and they just want to have a good time and i think they are happier now the improved health i don't know about that because the fact that you know we all our health is just dictated by what we do what we eat i don't know if it's because you're fucking more that improves your health maybe it improves your stamina your cardio but I don't know if it improves your muscle mass, your fucking brain activity, your heart, and stuff like that.
So the advantages of non-monogamy extended notably to sexual satisfaction as well. Of course, people are bored. Maybe their wife ain't fucking good in bed. Maybe their husband ain't good in bed. I don't know. There's a distinct positive correlation between non-monogamy relationship structures and heightened levels of sexual fulfillment. A pivotal 2018 study in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships revealed that the particular form of non-monogamy practice plays a critical role in determining the extent of sexual satisfaction experience.
For instance, individuals in open relationships where partners are free to have multiple romantic or sexual relationships simultaneously reported similar levels of sexual satisfaction that to those in monogamous relationships okay so it's the same so if i'm allowing my wife to go out and have fun she's going to be happy just as happy as a monogamous couple would be or maybe even more i don't know we'll see but on the other hand swingers committed couples who partake in sexual activities with other couples or individual reported even higher levels of sexual satisfaction compared to individuals and monogamous relationships i can believe that because you have a variety variety is the spice of life it's a lot of fun it's a lot of things to do you know and people love it you know as much as people wanted to say criticize swingers and all that no we love they swingers are very most swingers are very happy and have a lot of sexual satisfaction now that doesn't mean they're the nicest people in the world you know you got some people are assholes and stuff like that but you know you just gotta you know find your right you gotta find your people and all that as our societal understandings and acceptance of diverse religious models continues to mature it becomes increasingly important to embrace the wide spectrum of relationship choices available respecting each individual's autonomy and selecting the format that best meets their needs and preferences.
All right. Do you hear that? Let people decide. People are not hurting them. You're you. They're not hurting you. Why do you care? Get out of people's business and enjoy your own business because that's what's going to happen in the end.
When you're buried and gone, it's all about what did you do did you make people better do you think harassing people because one guy wants to watch his girl get pounded by a bunch of dudes or they want to swap with other couples or they want to fuck other women they want to chase unicorns does that thing does that really matter in the end all that matters is that they play safe they're happy they don't hurt other people as long as they do that you should just leave them alone enjoy your life all right just like all the other stuff all the dirty shit that happens here in texas and all that stuff all the political bullshit that happens at the clubs here in texas and all that just i just let it go i gotta let it go i can't sit there i can't think for these people i only could think for me ac so you know as long as they're they're free to choose what they want to do they don't want to fuck any they don't want no they put no single males and all caps in their profiles of Of course, you know, small dick energy, but let them be, you know, someday maybe they'll see the error in a way where they should have a single male like me, AC.
All right. So the central to the exploration and success of non-monogamous relationships are the principles of open communication. Yes. Always strong, open communication. Trust.
Yes, yes you're gonna have to trust your partner because you know you can't be with them 24 7 as much as we want to and mutual consent as long as you you both agree to this now there's so many couples that swing and do this stuff and one partner is in it more than the other that's when it gets you know kind of iffy it gets that gray area where you know should you be doing this or should you not be doing this through introspection and candid conversation individuals can delineate clear boundaries and manage expectations effectively the sustainability and success of any non-monogamous relationship are underpinned by unwavering honesty and empathy towards all participants involved.
These values ensure that all relationships, regardless of their structure, are rooted within your mutual respect and understanding. So you have to remember you've got to have mutual respect. You bring it in people. You've got to have respect. You want the respect, give respect back. So many times I have people who want me to respect them, but they I'm sorry.
you're bringing in people you gotta have respect you want the respect give respect back so many times i have people who want me to respect them but they don't show any respect back towards me and all that and that's fine whatever i got what i want i got pussy i got a nut i'm fine but if you're going to bring in someone into your relationship where it's going to be one of those full-time things where you are going to have that person in your relationship dating long-term relationship possible i don't know marriage maybe if it ever gets legal you're gonna have to show that respect for that person you gotta remember that's another person you got your wife then you got your wife part two you know how do you balance that how are you going to balance that how are you going to show that you care about each one of them i'm probably you know the same i don't think anyone wants to be feel lower than the other one and like i said that's why i always believe that polyamorous in the long term is not sustainable.
But in the short term, it is because, you know, it's the lifestyle and all that. So with that, ladies and gentlemen, AC is going to get out of here. AC is going to enjoy his weekend. I had a great time last night at the two lady gang bang.
Fuck two hot ladies, got inside those pussies and made them have a lot of fun one was really demanding the other one was just take my pussy and fuck the shit out of me she really loved a good hard pounding and she had a lovely ass so anyways maybe i'll talk about it later on but anyways i'm gonna get out of here remember gentlemen shave your cock and balls guys remember if you need an energy drink go to doobie.gg enter promo code swinging single to get your lovely discount help support the swinging single podcast i'm opening up a website swinging single swinging single podcast.com i'm trying to get that working kind of hard i'm doing it all by myself guys so you know it takes time but have a great day keep on swinging and i see you in the club
