Welcome to the Swinging Single Podcast hosted by AC Maxwell. In today's episode, we're diving deep into the fascinating topic of why couples choose to explore the swingers lifestyle. Join us as we explore the 9 most compelling reasons behind these decisions, from spicing up relationships to embracing non-monogamous dynamics. Get ready for a thought-provoking conversation that unpacks the nuances of swinging and sheds light on the motivations that drive individuals to embark on this unconventional relationship journey.
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The reasons behind why couples choose to swap partners or begin to swing. We're about to embark on a riveting exploration of the complex motivations that drive individuals and couples to engage in the proactive lifestyle of partner swapping. Join me as we examine the diverse and compelling factors that lead couples down this unconventional yet undeniably intriguing path. Throughout the centuries, human relationships and sexual dynamics have evolved in fascinating ways. And today we'll unravel the top nine reasons behind this modern phenomenon.
from a quest for heightened passion to the excitement to the pursuit of an emotional and physical fulfillment will unravel the intricacies and underpin these decisions so fasten your seat belts or loosen your belt buckles gentlemen and prepare for an in-depth journey into the intricacies of partner swapping whether you're a seasoned participant a curious observer or a skeptic aim to broaden your understanding this episode promises to spark contemplation conversation and quite possibly a new perspective so let's not delay any further it's time to unravel the captivating world of partner swapping and uncover the multiple raisins why couples bravely venture into this unorthodox yet undeniably alluring realm.
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Oh yeah, shave those cock and balls, gentlemen, for those sexy ladies in your life or the future sexy ladies in your life. All righty. So let's get into it. Why are couples swapping? But first, let's talk about my new website. It's swingandsinglepodcast.com. Go see all things AC. Get my new podcast when I do them.
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Let's talk about fucking because that's what we're here for and swinging and partner swapping so i'm gonna be unveiling unveiling the motives behind partners uh swapping partners in the swinging lifestyle why do couples do this and all that so have you ever ponder the reasons why behind swingers why swingers engage in partner swapping for sexual encounters i don't know i have but you know it you know i thought about it and i always love it because you know i like the fuck i don't know about you ladies and gentlemen but i love to fucking have sex and all that so i wonder how long it's gonna take me to get kicked off the Twitch again this time.
Anyways, so partner swapping, it just seemed natural to you, your boy AC. You know, I love watching my girl with other men and women and all that stuff in different various ways and all that. So, you know, it just comes naturally to me. Why? I know maybe it's empowerment. Maybe it's a different strange pussy that you're going to get once in a while or something like that.
And your girl your wife your girlfriend or what your partner moaning in ecstasy and having a great old time and it's all because of you so but this practice extends beyond mere sexual gratification for some couples so join me ac as we delve into nine compelling rationales that dive drive individuals to swap partners in swinging community, all right? Now, these are not all nine reasons. Listen, I only got nine. You know, I could do a 2,000 reasons why and all that, and we'll go be here all day. But I don't want to be here all day. It's a beautiful day out. The sun is shining.
The humidity is low here in Houston. So, you know, I'm going to go out and enjoy myself. So I'm going to break it down to nine ones that I think are pretty cool and all that. So, why do swingers opt in? Number one, they're seeking new sexual horizons, embracing partner swapping as a means to explore uncharted sexual territories. Now, we all had fantasies, right? At least I hope everyone does. Everyone here does. I'm sure they do. So, what are some of your fantasies that you have? I know I have a fantasy when I was young, you know, to always have two girls at once.
And that was always like the most common one as a young man. And as I have grown, I don't have that desire to be with two women at one time. I have that desire to have a female partner that likes to go out and just be a little fucking whore. You know, go out and fuck.
I tell her, go fuck that guy over go flirt with him let's take him back to the car i want you to ride his cock like a fucking stallion and there you go lo and behold there there's my fantasy now that's my fantasy that i always have because i have changed over the years and all that we all change so you know as we as we get married, and let's face it, when you get married and all the married people out there know this and all that, they will say the one thing that comes in mind, that they have get to be in a place where they're kind of dull, boring, it gets boring and all that.
So they try to think of ways to spice it up. How do you spice it up? I don't know. Fuck out in public, and all that. So they try to think of ways to spice it up. How do you spice it up? I don't know. Fuck out in public, something like that. But then you start talking. You do that, but then you start talking about your fantasies that you had as a female or as a male. You know, one of the things you see always is guys want to have two girls. But that's not always necessarily true.
I have a buddy, great buddy here, and talked to him on on text and all that he loves watching his girl get trained his wife get trained by a bunch of dudes and she likes it i guess she likes it enough she does it for him and all that she likes it but she really loves being with other couples you know because it helps her but there's another female in the room and it relaxes her and you know it doesn't make her um nervous that she's the only one but she does love being a center of attention which is kind of strange to me but okay but good for her you know so you know he's a good friend and he likes doing that so his fantasy is his wife to be with other men and while he watches maybe participates and all that he loves that stuff and i mean i mean him feel i mean him i feel like the same way so his fantasy is to have other men some couples have fantasies where they want to swap with another couple maybe they're complete strangers they don't know each other and anything they fuck and they go separate ways.
That could be another fantasy, but it's that reason why a lot of people, they want to expand their sexual horizons. Now, sometimes let's remember you could be, listen, I'm a true swinger. I love swinging. I don't like people when they come to a swinger club, they're not swingers. They just want to check it out. Go to, go somewhere else, go to another club.
I worked at a club that was like that they would like if you're new you're brand new to the swinging lifestyle they would not allow you into the club they say no go get your experience and come back we would love to have you when you get your experience because you know one thing they do bring new couples bring drama they don't have the experience to you know all right my wife's gonna we're gonna swap with this couple the guy pulls out his cock it's fucking eight inches or it's three inches whatever or the wife is moaning and groaning like she never moaned and groaned before and the husband gets jealous or vice versa the lady gets jealous the lady takes off her bra her tits are perky looking like they're 20 years old even though she's 45 you know she know, she has a flat stomach or whatever, big ass and all that.
And she gets jealous because there's jealousy in this lifestyle. We can't lie about that. It's undeniably that there's a lot of jealousy, you know, and I'm jealous of guys with big fucking dicks because you know what? I always hear women, size don't matter on these swinger websites, but yet whenever I look at an ad, they're always looking for eight plus inches. So it's like, fuck, man. So what is it? Does size matter or does it not matter? So come on. But we all know size does matter. So where was I? I can't remember because I'm going on a fucking rant.
But anyways, we have, you know, experienced couples come in. They bring experience and all that. New couples, you know, you don't know what you're going to get yet. So they could bring that little drama and all that. So I like when swingers are really swingers and not none of this, we're just testing it out. Go test it like me. Go test it somewhere else. I don't care to say it to them. Go do it somewhere else. Don't bring that shit over here because, you know, you bring down the mood.
You know, you go to a club and it's just a bunch of people staring at each other you know what are you there for to stare at each other you could have bought went to the bar save some money because you got to pay at least 50 bucks to get in a swingers club anywhere around the country you're gonna save that money drink it at the bar and have fun there but no you came here to just to gawk at people so but when you're swinging at the first time and all that you want to expand those new horizons you got to know what you're getting yourself into so you know either you are in you got to be fully in and you can't be halfway on the fence you know you got a lot of couples where one partner doesn't want to really do it but the other partner is all gone ho now it could be the male or it could be the female that's the gun hole partner you know that but you really got to be both got to be honest yes let's do this let's expand our sexual horizons because if it don't it will end your relationship it will hurt it it won't you know make it, you know, if you want to go to a club, you're not really going to be a swinger, but you want to watch people, you want to watch people fuck or you want to, what would be really better to me is if you want to be watched getting fucked.
You want to watch, people want, you want people to watch you fuck. Now, that's hot.
At least those experienced swingers get something out of out of it they see two people fucking because you know every club needs a fire starter and especially in houston we need fire starters here and a fire starter is just someone i call someone that'll start the fucking and everybody joins them because that's what everyone's there for and finally couples you know get over it and say okay let's all start fucking and they all start fucking instead of just staring at each other like and have their dicks in their hand and shit and their fingers in their pussies or whatever wishing that someone would start fucking because you know some people are just not they're not able to or comfortable doing it without someone else doing it all right so that's number one seeking new sexualons.
Number two could be another reason why couples start swinging when a partner swap is strengthening relationship bonds, utilizing partner swapping to enhance the connection within their romantic relationships. uh yeah i guess uh when people it could bring you it depends on how your relationship is at the first part. Like I said, if you are trying to start swinging to fix a relationship, you're going to actually end up divorced. You're going to, the relationship is going to break apart. There's no, there's no scientific experiment or no scientific data. Let's be honest.
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Now, maybe your relationship is fucked up because of the sex everything's great you communicate well everything the foundation sounds but your sex life is the bore it's boring whatever and you just can't know no matter what but when you both talk about bringing an outside female outside male or outside couple into it bam you are fucking having great sex when you talk about it so maybe you start saying maybe we should start trying to do that that relationship can survive but if you're like don't communicate well uh you have issues outside the bedroom that you haven't resolved and you think about this and you do it, you're probably not going to survive the relationship, uh, by just swinging alone.
It's like when people say they have babies to save a relationship, it never works out. They always end up being divorced and all that. Excuse me. So, you know, be very secure with this, uh, because it can make a break.
And you, like I said, jealousy will rear its ugly head at some point and every couple goes through this one even the most secure couple will get jealous you know because you there's always like my when i was in high school my coach always says there's someone bigger faster stronger than you so you got to work your ass off to be that bigger faster stronger guy well let's think about it we get older our body starts slowing down the rear and tear starts catching up with us and there's no magic pill to make your dick bit longer you know you're you got what you got right and you notice a lot of guys you check out other guys cocks and their cocks are huge and all that and you know you start getting jealous ladies you know you get a little have a couple kids you get a little stretch mark here and there things start sagging a little bit and you go to the club and fuck these girls got fucking perky titties they're older than you and they look fucking great I was I took my partner to the cracking resort in Trinity Texas on Labor Day weekend.
And I could not believe 40, 50-year-old women with the nicest tits, nicest asses. And it looked like it was an advertisement for cosmetic surgery. And she even commented on it. I go, man, did you notice all those women had fucking fake tits? She's like, yeah, I couldn't believe it. Like, it kind of makes me embarrassed to have my tits.
she has beautiful tits don't get me wrong no one fucking ever says she doesn't have for a 35 year old woman she has tits of a 20 year old and she was a little jealous about a lot of well i don't know she was a lot jealous but she was a little jealous of all she was definitely jealous of some of those women that were there. And it's just, and like I said, jealousy will rear its ugly head at one point in your swinging career and all that. I've been jealous. I'm still jealous of guys. You know, some guys go, God damn, that guy's 50 years old. He's ripped.
He's got six-pack abs, arms fucking built like Hulk Hogan and stuff like that. And I got nothing. And I'm damn you know what well you know what kind of what kind of white boy doing this goddamn lifestyle look good so but you have to definitely have that strong relationship first before you start thinking about adding other people into your bedroom you know that number three breaking the monotony seeking variety and excitement by partner swapping to break free from you. I think this is probably one of the biggest ones that reasons why couples swings. I think it is.
I think it's got to be in the top two because, you know, like I said, you start swinging and you have a lot of these newbies. They start out, they've been married like almost 20 years. And it's like, and, you know, I'm not going to say they've been cheating on each other in the past.
But, you know, if they've been married like almost 20 years and it's like and you know i'm not gonna say they've been cheating on each other in the past but you know if they've been with each other for monogamy for the past 20 years it kind of can get boring for a while there's only so many times you could fuck your wife with a dildo a 10-inch dildo or six-inch dildo you know there's only so many hand jobs blow jobs you can give your husband where it just becomes the same old, same old. It's not, you know, it's not your fault as human beings. We just get bogged down in life.
You know, we want to start a career. We want to build, buy a house. We want to buy new cars, stuff like that. We just get bogged down by all that stuff. And the routine just sets in. And you're like, before you fucking know it, it's been 15 years. You're like, shit, where the time has gone? Your kids get older.
They starting they're in high school they're in college they're in their 20s now and you're sitting there looking at each other like what do we do now and you go and you ask yourself where did what happened to us jane what happened you know we were fucking everywhere but then suddenly something happened and you you start thinking and you go thinking you're both sexually open. You know, your wife has fantasies. She's very open and communicative of her fantasies and what she wants. You're the same way. You're the same way. You talk about her. You want her to be with another woman.
You want her to fuck another couple, whatnot. And you decide maybe the break up, the routine, the monotony of life.
We just do this once in in a while now you can do it every weekend if you want I don't remember I don't recommend that as a newbie because as a newbie you just get caught up in the action and you don't really understand what's going on yet I would know once a month why you start then you go again and you add more time into it and all that stuff you find out is this lifestyle for you because you know some of these people live the lifestyle 24 7 they have friends they hang out for any day of the night the week they go out and have dinner with other swingers and all that me i don't like i said i separate my life my swinger life and my personal life and i only swing when i got time to do it so but there are other people say that so i don't recommend living your life 24 7 as a swinger when you're first starting uh because i think you just burn out swinger burnout is very common uh and all that so they do it to break up the monotony ah the routines that you have and i I agree with that.
I think as a married couple, you would want to do this and all that. Not just to, you know, just to cheat on each other or whatever you want to do, but just, you know, just change shit up. It gets, you know, you go to a club, you might partner swap, you might partner swap with one or two couples at night. Then you're good for the rest of the month or the rest couple of months. And you're like, yeah, I remember that night. You just go back into that and you just start fucking everywhere.
You know, you start doing what you're doing in your 20s and before you had the family, the kids, the house, mortgage, all that stuff. So, you know, number three is probably the best, breaking up the monotony. Number four, and I think this is one that we don't really talk about that much, confronting fears. Using partner swapping as a tool to conquer personal inhibitions and fears. Ms. Joyride, she's fears that as she fully embraces her swinger lifestyle that women will judge her based on that she's a slut.
And I always try to talk to her and go, one, who are you telling that you're going to a club and fucking everybody?
And two, what any business is it of anybody's or what you do as an adult in the privacy of your own home like i tell people i don't care what people do inside the bedroom i don't care if you're a gay trans or whatever what you do outside inside your bedroom you're fucking whatever as long as you're not dealing with kids and shit like that i don't care not like teachers i don't care that your teachers are fucking swingers fine i they should be because they're goddamn, so goddamn uptight because of the way the education system is. They need a release.
Going to the bar, going to a sex club and getting gang banged by a bunch of dudes or fucking partner swapping with your husband and wife, that's okay with me. But as long as you don't bring it to the classroom, I'm fine. I'm not a problem. Root cops, same thing. I don't care what they do.
Firefighters, I don't care what you do in the as you don't bring it to the classroom i'm fine i'm not probably root cops same thing i don't care what they do firefighters i don't care what you do in the bedroom don't bring it to work and you know and a lot of people have inhibitions and like like i said miss joyride talks about that she doesn't you know she's worried about people thinking she's a fucking whore and i'm like you don't have to worry about that, you don't have to tell no one. It's no one's business what you are, what you can be and all that.
I don't, if I don't, you know, if your partners don't have a problem with you fucking around, then no one else should have a problem with you. You know, you don't have to tell everybody. You know, some people have a fair, you know, they want to have a fantasy. I know women, they want to have a fantasy of two males or getting gang banged, but it's just, they're so scared to try it and maybe let loose of her inhibitions. It's like opening Pandora's box. You know, you have a lot of couples like, God, the guy, guy is, you know, most of the time it's the guy's gun hole about this. Yeah.
I want to fuck. I want to partner swap and all that. And finally the wife says, yes, let's do it. We'll go to a club. And they go and they've ended up swapping with the partner or two, whatever, a couple, another couple or two. And the wife finds out she is fucking DTS. She is down for swinging.
She's down to fuck and all that and you let out the pandora box of this inner slut that your wife had and she wants to fully do it and now she's fucking thinking about fucking all the time she's fucking she can become she's becoming the slut that everybody knew she was and every the slut that you would hope she would be but then she is just like i want to fuck this person i want to fuck that person and she's just going all off the place that you would hope she would be. But then she is just like, I want to fuck this person. I want to fuck that person. And she's just going all off the place.
And you're like, whoa, whoa, wait a minute. I thought we were going to do it with other couples. You want to bring in women. You want to bring in men. It's definitely men. Men always be, whenever they start talking about single men, that's when it goes, whoa, whoa, wait a minute. I thought my cock was the best cock and that you're the only one. And now you open up the Pandora's box and saying, hey, no, other cocks are available for her. And it just becomes a big hubble-doo because of now you open up, you brung out her inner slut.
That fear, and she knew that if this happened, she might enjoy it way too much. And that was one of her fears, that she might enjoy this lifestyle so much that she might not be able to stop. Because there have been cases where couples, you know, one couple I know from Caliente, she loved the fucking swing. She loved it. She wanted to do it all the time. The other guy was like, well, shit, you know, I can't keep up with you. You're doing all this stuff. But she was just, you know, the biological clock was ticking. Everything was going right for her.
So she's like, I want to fuck and just fucking, fucking fuck. So when she got to the club at Caliente at night, she just wanted to go out and cock to cock and all that. And the husband's like, shit. She'd get drunk and get all crazy and all that. And it's just, you know, you just got to watch out what you ask. And you got to confront that fear. And what are you going to do if your wife enjoys it way more than you thought or your husband enjoys it way more? Because you got to remember, there are women now. Women are having the idea of swinging for their Thank you. Thank you. Bye-bye.
if your wife enjoys it way more than you thought, or your husband enjoys it way more for you, because you got to remember there are women now, women are having the idea of swinging for their husbands and the husbands don't even think about it. And the wife comes up and say, Hey, what do you think about adding a couple to our sex? So, you know, you just got to confront those fears and you got to be able to deal with them when those fears come true or those fears don't come true, and you open a Pandora's box to an inner slut that you never knew you had. You know?
Me, personally, I, fuck, I wish I could find someone like that, where I could just, she just come over, grab my cock, and just suck at it and fuck me without fucking being a little, you know, tease or anything about it. Or when we go out to a club, you know, I'm fucking him, I'm fucking him, her, maybe, her, her, him, them, all that, you know. Like I had one, I met one girl at Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee, Florida, and she was like that. And, you know, she was great, about 38, nice tight little body.
She was, oh, she was good looking, very nice, beautiful woman nice beautiful woman I really liked her but it's just the timing was wrong for us you know she will she was not very open to communicate up now she when I was with her she would communicate to me well who she wants and what she wants and that was great but outside when we were leave she's out banging other dudes bareback and I you know I take pride in getting STD checked every three months and taking pills to make sure I prevent any STDs and all that but she had no problem fucking guys bareback that I didn't know now when one of my like I said I told him one of my rules was wear condos with single men and couples that we don't know or single men, period, single couples, period.
We just got to keep safe because, you know, maybe this is a future. Maybe we might get married and all that and start family shit. But, you know. Let's be honest. Buying cannabis shouldn't be complicated, sketchy, or low quality. That's why I want to tell you about mood.com. That's M-O-O-D dot com. Mood ships federally legal cannabis straight to your door. No medical card, no hassle. And here's the kicker. The quality is better than anything you'll find at your local dispensary. Yeah, I said it.
Whether you're into edibles, concentrates, flour, or just looking to explore, you'll find it all at Mood. And it's not just the variety that makes them stand out. Every product is sourced from small, American-owned family farms that care deeply about what they grow. It's cannabis you can trust, delivered discreetly, and ready to elevate your mood. And because you're a listener, you get 20% off your first order. Just head to mood.com. That's M-O-O-D.com to get started. But that was my fear that she would not be able to stop fucking these men on the side when we were together.
And that's, I had to consider what could possibly go wrong. So I had to confront my fears. All right. So enough about fears. Let's talk about five rejuvenating marital dynamics, dynamics, injecting new life into marriages by engaging in partner swapping to reunite passion that you had once had before. Remember, let's think about it. You're a couple listening to the eight, the swinging single podcast, go to swinging single podcast.com. Check all my new stuff and, gentlemen, shave your cock and balls.
But your marriage gets a little stale because, you know, you're not doing what you're doing all the time. Kids get in the way, those little fucking bastards, get in the way, and you're thinking, what can we do to spice it up, spice our relationship? Now, you know what? Think about this.
As much as I don the non the non-swingers attending swinger events are you open would you be open to going to a swinger club and just hanging out you know doing shit with you know having people watch you fuck something like that would you be cool with that uh would you be all right with you know just being an exhibitionist you know something maybe you want to be an exhibitionist where you know people can watch you that can reunite your passion even though you don't have to partner swap with anybody but if you're really looking forward to partner swapping good i hope so we we can always use some good fresh new meat in the swinging lifestyle you know you got those couples there.
Be forewarned, people. When you first start, there are couples out there that can smell fresh meat from miles away. They're like sharks in the ocean. They can smell that blood. And if you're new, they know, and they love those newbies. A lot of couples, a lot of swinging veterans love breaking in newbies. Me, I don't care.
As long as you bring respect and bring the pussy ac don't care so you're gonna reignite that passion and you can go home think about it you can go home talk about oh that couple loved you they those gentlemen all of them wanted to fuck you and i get to fuck you you know that girl she had such a fucking huge rack and great. She wanted to fuck us and all that. And that brings that passion in the bedroom back for you guys. And there's nothing wrong with that. We have to, all of us, every single, there isn't one, you know what? There isn't.
If you feel ashamed that you have to do this, don't feel ashamed. Because guess what? 100% of the couples on this planet had to do this at least once. They all go through this. There is not one marriage on this planet where they're fucking and sucking all through their marriage. They're having a great time. Sometimes you have to rejuvenate, reunite that passion. All right? So don't feel bad. Don't feel like, oh, this is us. We're horrible people.
No, you're normal that is the norm now you know people say oh hey see our marriage we've been fucking and sucking our passion is there i go yeah but how old were you when you got married were you 40 years old and you're in your prime or you're a fucking pussy you got no one to bother you got no three-year-old waking up in the morning puking and shit in their. Or do you got a bunch of high school, college kids that could take care of themselves pretty much now. And you can go on a weekend away and go to a fucking secrets hideaway, Caliente Resort. You know, they go to Rooftop Resort.
You go to Hedoism in Jamaica and fuck all weekend. There's a difference. There's a difference. It's not like when you're 20 years old, you get married, you start a family young and all that, and all of a sudden you're 40. Bam, you're 40, and now you are in the doldrums. You have to reunite that passion. So that's why some people will get into it. Rejuvenate that marital statics, that dynamics. Damn it, can't say shit.
You know AC has a speech impediment, guys, so don't worry about it make fun of it i don't care number six enhancing sexual communication leveraging partner swapping to foster better communication around sexual desires and boundaries oh yeah i think oh between this one and uh number three breaking the monotony of your marriage i think these are the one and two you could interchange them based on you but when you take your girl your wife to a sex club a sex party whatnot it does break down her walls now make sure she knows where she's going because i had had times where couples would go to a swimmer club and the husband would not tell the wife where they were going.
And it just makes for a night. For me, it's funny to watch the drama that develops because of it. But still, you know, tell your wife where you're going. That's an AC rule right there. Tell the person where you're going.
But anyways, but you take her to the club and, you know, people, there's fire starters starters there people are fucking doing whatever they're doing at the club and that's a good way to bring out what she likes what she wants is it something that she wants to experience does she want a partner swap does she wants to have a threesome with another female or another male all that stuff will come out she will be like okay because you know what it's like when i was a young youngster young lad before i started swinging i thought swinging was just basically for pornos and people on fucking jerry springer i didn't know people actually did this you know you turn 18 i go to the porn you know the adult bookstore this is back in the early 90s and there's no remember there's no internet now but i see my swinger magazine and i'm like oh look at i'm like holy shit people actually do this guys want other guys to fuck their wives they partner swap with other couples they fuck other women and all that and it's like wow and it opened up a whole new world and that what it can do with you swing can actually bring up a whole new sexual sexual communication where you honey man i really want to fuck a big dick honey i really want to eat pussy i want someone girl to eat my pussy i want to suck on some titties and all of a sudden you're fucking like yes finally we're gonna have some great sex or we're gonna you know have a lot of fun having some great sex and all that uh and all that plus it can set boundaries what i don't what the husband and wife husband and wife don't want to do, they don't want to play with single men they don't want to play with females, they just want to partner swap with other couples, or they just want to play with single men, they don't want to play with couples or they just want single females and they don't want to play with anybody else or if the couple is, if a woman has to be bi and stuff like that so it sets up those sexual desires and it sets up those boundaries that you're going to have.
And it makes communication. It's like my girlfriend in Louisiana, Ms. D, and the D is not for dick. Ms. D, she has her boyfriend and she really wants to do threesomes with men. She wants to do threesomes with women and couple swaps.
She really wants to into the swing with lisa so i told her you know why don't you just check out a porno a swinging porno you know the title in it and just watch it with your man because they watch porno and just say hey what do you think about that what do you think about this and all that and just bring you into the conversation hey what if we found another woman to fuck or another couple to fuck fuck, or another man to fuck, and see how that works out, what's his reaction and all that, so you know, I think enhancing the sexual communication and the breaking down and the monotony would be the number one and number two reasons why couples start partner swapping, fostering trust building trust and intimacy by swapping partner is a consensual and respectful manner, alright, you You've got to be very trustful in the swinging lifestyle because you know what?
Temptation is a motherfucker. I'm going to tell you what. I think with Miss, the lady in Florida at Secrets, Hadaway, when I met her, I think the temptation of just endless cock for her. She was a minfo. She had her inner slut.
I love that had her inner slut i love that about her i still love that about her i have no ill will towards her but i think just her trust in me and her trust in herself would be is the problem with her and all that so you got to be very trustful of your partner because you never know because i have had it where women would come up to me say hey you know we don't play with single men but i play with single men on the side stuff my husband don't know yada stuff like that you know and i'm gonna be honest if the husband's a good guy he's respectful to me i'm not touching that shit but if you're if the guy was an asshole to me didn't show me the time of day was disrespectful you know i'm gonna anger fuck her i'm gonna fuck her the best fuck she has ever given i'm gonna stay down on that pussy and I'll see asshole, so I'm going to do you know because the husband's an asshole and you know and i'm an asshole so i'm gonna do it but the husband's great guy you know i had to tell i had to tell women no i had to tell some couples no i don't want to do that especially when i was working at caliente you know because they would see you all the time you would see them all the time and they would just you know pass notes say hey you know come on you're gonna come on out with me you know like that.
I had husbands ask me to take their girls out and fuck them and do all that stuff. But, you know, and I, and I gladly done it cause they know it, but they've been doing it, they, these women were doing it behind their husband's back. So it's like one of those things where, you know, you got to have that trust, you know, is your wife going to step out? Is your husband going to step out? Stuff like that. And that does happen a lot in the swingers lifestyle.
Do not sit there and have say oh it doesn't happen yes it does happen vanilla lifestyle and the swingers lifestyle are the same except for we just fuck everybody or we try to fuck everybody and we fuck other people all right i can't speak for you couples you know a lot of couples don't they just they're picky i'm not picky anyways that's number seven eight, embracing comparison and embodying the joy and fulfillment derived from seeing one partner's experience of pleasure with someone else. You know, there's always going to be a comparison.
You know, when I ask my partners, hey, did you have sex? Oh, yeah. I go, how was his cock? Was it big, small, medium size? Well, you know, I want to know. I want to know what she likes because it's not going to, listen, I understand I'm an average size, you know, cock. I got, it's thick and all that, but it's still just average size, maybe six inches, but it's not fucking eight. It's not nine. It's not BBC. It's none of that stuff. It's not black or it's not Latin. It's just white. So, you know, I got to figure out what my girl likes because I want her to be happy.
I want her to feel, you know, that want and all that. So, you know, yeah. So, you know, you, you just got to, you know, figure out what she, thank you. Thank you. Yes, I know. Oh, great. Thank you. Thank you. Yes, I know. I know guys. But anyways, so I know, you know, what she likes and all that. So, you know, it is something you have to compare, you know, what is your husband like? What type of woman does your husband like? You know, you got to pay attention to that stuff. Does she want someone like me or how about something different? I'm a blonde. How about some brunettes or a redhead?
Redheads, I think are very, uh, wanted in their lifestyle because you don't see too many redheads, you know, and we all know redheads a lot of them out there, so you see one that's different. You go to a club, you don't see a lot of black women. So when a black woman goes to a swing club, she might get more attention than a lot of other people or vice versa. I don't know. We're all going to compare each other. We are very judgy people. There is judgment. There is not. Don't ever let someone that's judgment free. Yes, we are judging everybody.
Every swinger club, every place, they all judge everybody. It's just human nature. We cannot not be non-judgmental. We're going to judge people. It's just like when swingers say, oh, swinging lifestyle is inclusive. No, it's not. It doesn't include everyone. Single men are not included in a lot of the lifestyle events. If they were, it would be a lot more happier. I guarantee you that.
Women would be a lot more happy because I'm telling you what, a lot of these women that sit there and say, we don't want to play with single men, if you really got them, set them down and really talked to them, they would.
They get influenced by the husbands and other couples where they say, oh, single men are bad that you know whatever dude whatever but you know you're going to compare everyone compares everybody to everyone else you know i do it you're going to do it don't ever sit there's thing and the law number nine is forming deeper emotional connections engaging in partner swapping to cultivate profound emotional bonds and shared experiences. All right. I don't think there's any other thing deeper than having sex with another couple with your wife or husband.
I don't think there's – is there anything deeper? I don't know. You tell me. Email me at swingandsinglepodcast at gmail.com. Let me know. Also, make sure you check out my website swinging single podcast.com check out every all things ac uh next week maybe if there's no hurricane hitting florida again i will be at the rooftop resort partying slinging my dick all over south florida so we'll see how that goes hopefully let's pray there's no more hurricanes hitting it doesn't form out in the gulf there's one that has a forming, but fuck, we're fucked. Hopefully it's not.
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Number one, number two, monotony, uh, in sexual communication, I think of the one and two where you're interchangeable, that white couple starts swinging, uh, forming deeper emotional connections could be number three in that list. I think, I don't know.
It's just one of those things where you got to think about it so you know it is what it is so you just got to remember that um and all that so let's see what else can we talk about all right so swapping wives for sex is a practice entrenched in diverse motivations as we as we talked about it with the nine reasons it's vital to bear in mind that swingers may opt for different approaches when swapping partners for physical intimacy. It's something that you have to, as a newbie, you're going to make a lot of mistakes. Don't let those mistakes stop you from a great lifestyle.
And I'm telling you what, swinging a lifestyle is a great lifestyle. You're not bogged down by down by life you get to have fun and there are some great parties people are having fun doing stuff if you like to party it's great way to party you know and you know and with the touch of sex in it some prefer to remain this in the same vicinity as they engage oh boy sorry engage in sexual activity whereas others may choose to occupy separate spaces or even different locations altogether.
Exchanging partners for intimate encounters allows individuals to delve into varied sexual experiences, providing fresh perspectives with each new encounter. Swapping sexual partners enables the exploration and experimentation of different sexual techniques, representing opportunities in the hand to engage in acts that may not be mutually preferred with one's primary partner. What happens if your life likes to eat your ass and you don't like it because you know what you shit out of there?
Or you like eating ass, but your wife don't like her ass being touched at all so this is a great way for you to fulfill sexual desires that you cannot with your wife or husband and all that now it might sound that sounds oh that sounds horrible ac i go no but it's not you're making it sound horrible but you know like you got to think about it for a minute sit back I said my wife doesn't like me eating her ass I want to eat ass but the couple there will let me eat her ass so I'm going to do it and as a wife go I don't want that shit I don't want nothing near my butthole it's an out out only it's not enter it's not enter it's an outgoing down there.
I'll be glad if some woman wants to let him eat her ass and all that stuff. They can do it. No problem. Do it. I have no problem. So it can help you out with, you know, those sexual desires that you have, you know, your wife might like fucking tugging your asshole.
You might not like it or stuff like that or have her nipples twisted and shit like that so the bdsm like my my my friend now she loves that bdsm king shit i'm not into it so i say i go here go play at that bdsm store or whatever and go have fun uh just make sure you're protected wearing condoms stuff like that when you're if you ever have sex there just you know have fun i'm not into it so but you are i'm more than you know willing to let you do that so seeking partners with shared sexual preferences can enable a safe and gratifying exploration of diverse kinks fostering experiences guided by partners well uh versed in specific experiences like i said you know you might learn a new technique how to eat pussy guys there's nothing wrong with that fine if your dick is not big or you're not just that great of a lover you don't last that long learn how to eat pussy learn to love it because you know what you you'll satisfy a lot of women and women will be very happy and loving for that all right so might learn how to do that ladies you might now ladies I'm going to tell you something not all of you are good at sucking dick now a lot of guys will most of your guys will say oh no you're good and all that when you're really fucking awful at it AC me I tell women they're bad at it because you know what I like a good dick suck it's not my end game you know my end game game is to get inside of you i love to feel the pussy i love going inside i love pumping and you know all that sweaty because you don't really get i don't sweat when i get a blowjob but when i'm pumping i'm sweating i'm and that's it's the love sweat that comes out and that feels smells good it tastes good and all that when we're both sweaty and all that so you know ladies you learn how to suck a good dick you know you got to have you know one hand could be on the balls one could be on the shaft you could do no handed stuff and stuff like that if you got three cocks in your face you know how do you suck all three and you know give each cock the enough attention that it needs to get hard and stuff like that so you know you just got to do stuff like you know and all that stuff that you know you wouldn't know but if you swap partners and you're doing all that stuff you can learn something you know so as we get older we learn more and more stuff like when i going down on a woman i i learned to listen to her moans how she's doing what what her her hips are doing, or is she just a flat fish?
If she's a flat fish, maybe she don't get off on pussy, or I'm just bad at it and I got to change it up. You know, you could talk about size discrepancies. For instance, when a partner's desires exceed the physical limitations of their primary counterpart, swapping partners can fulfill desire experience, such as accommodating preferences for varied physical attributes. maybe you know know, your wife needs, it's a size queen, which means she likes bigger dicks. And you've got a small dick. You've got a micro penis or, you know, you're just average. But she needs that age.
You know, she don't need it, but she would prefer that your dick was big. You know, there's ways you can fix that. You can use a strap-on, a hollow strap-on, put it on your cock and all that.
have those i have two good ones if you want email me at swinging single podcast uh at gmail.com i'll send you a link to a great guy who makes these fucking realistic life-size fucking humongous dildos like anywhere from seven to 14 inches long and they're hollow and you can slip it over on your cock and you can fuck your wife with it that would give her size or you or if you're starting to swing you start finding guys with you know bigger penises and all that so you know you can talk about that you can have that you can fulfill that desire that your wife has your husband as a husband you your wife you don't have a big ass your ass is small flat it flattened out for some reason but your husband loves a big juicy ass and that woman over there that couple over there she has a nice big ass and all that so boom you know it just happens in size endowments for men and women you know you got no small you got small tits your a cup and your husband loves big tits and g and the girl at the club has d's and all that so it doesn't mean that you don't love that person it just means you have sexual desires you you know you know what you like and there's nothing wrong with that don't be say oh it's not you're not i'm not woman enough i'm not man enough for you and all that stuff because you know what in the end of it is if you are only going for physical attributes for a partner it ain't gonna work anyways because guess what tit sag acid sags cocks don't get hard anymore you know what's what's good having an eight inch cock when you came and get hard like i don't know how many times i've been to swinger parties where the guys with big dicks can't get hard but i want to thank those gentlemen because guess what my dick is always hard and i'm you know those girls are frustrated sexually frustrated and they want to get fucked and i'm there ac's there to fuck the shit out of them while you're trying to pound off and get your dick hard because you can't so you know what don't when you're picking a partner ladies and gentlemen don't look at the physical attributes they're they're there for a while but they don't stay there you know or you have to do some drugs you have to do trt testosterone replacement now you're 60 years old looking like you're fucking got a 20 year old body you know you're two percent body fat or you got to go to the doctors and get ten thousand dollar pair of tits and ass plant implants and all that so you know you know, those things go.
So if you're a gentleman, your penis is small, you got a micropenis or you got an average size of a gentleman, you're good. Don't worry about it. If a woman don't want you because of that, fuck her. If your wife wants to leave you because of that, fuck her too. All right? Same thing, ladies. If you got A cups, fuck it.
You know, I would rather have A cups than double Ds because guess what guess what those a cups are going to stay perky those double d's are going to sag when they get older i'm always ac always looks to the future i don't know about you i don't know what you do but i always look to the future see what's going on and i'm you know i'm just you know happy to be there and all that great stuff uh let's see what else so you know size discrepancies you know it is what it is don't look at physical attributes all the time just look at the person sometimes because you know what sometimes they bring more to the kitchen table than you think uh partner swapping contributes to fulfilling the need for novelty within a solid relationship instilling vigor and offering opportunities to acquire and surprise each other in new sexual techniques um detailed conversations accompanying sexual encounters with other partners provide avenues for enhanced communication fostering strength and emotional connections between primary partners now couples that swing do you talk about what happened at the club or the partner at the meeting that you know you meet another couple do you talk about it after it all happens say hey what you liked and what you didn't like about it uh stuff like that because i think that if you do your swinging foundation is solid you're on solid ground because you got to know you got to understand what people like and what people don't like not and all that and what your partner likes.
You could be married to someone, but you really don't truly know what they, you really truly don't know anyone in this world. I'm going to tell you that, you know, you watch all these true crime documentaries and these people murder all these people. You're like, fuck, no one really knew this person. All right. So it's just something I talk about it, you know, whenever I'm with the partner say, Hey, this this is good, this is great, this wasn't good, this wasn't bad, this is horrible, let's not do that again. So, you know, I think that's good if you do that.
And if you don't do that, I think you really need to do that. Talk about the club, talk about what you liked and what you didn't like. So swingers opt to swap partners in order to break free from the monotonyony even within their own relationships exchanging partners injects a sense of thrill and revitalizes that intimacy that you once had by diving into partner swapping couples unite a renewed vigor towards sex and discovered unexplored territories with one another this exploration often reveals new insights and preferences adding death to their sexual dynamic yeah.
Yeah, you've got to be talking, ladies. You've got to tell your husband what you want, what you need. Because if that doesn't happen, how are we supposed to know? We can't read your mind. Gentlemen, you've got to tell your wife what you want, too. It's a two-way street. If you don't say anything to anyone, how are we supposed to know what you like and what you don't like? Guys, ladies, come on. You are better than this and all that. So I see your big mouths on TikTok complaining about men all the time. Why can't you tell your husband that you need more and what you want?
And gentlemen, just a word of advice. If your wife wants it, better have it. Because you're going to be very happy because of what you're going to get out of it, because your wife's going to want it more and more, and you're going to have a lot more experiences from it, because the women run this lifestyle.
let me repeat shave your cock and balls gentlemen and the ladies run this lifestyle we do not men we're just there for the ride we're just the edit we're just like in a music park ride and hopefully we get written written a lot not a little all right so with that with that we are going to sign off for today. It's a great weekend. Get out there and party hardy. Stay safe with all those people affected with the hurricane this past week. I pray that you are safe, that everyone's safe, that you rebuild and rebuild better. Build back better.
But anyways, with that, make sure we're getting close to the election night. Go out and vote. I don't care who you vote for. AC, don't give a shit. Just vote. Because if you don't vote, you don't matter. Shave your cock and balls, gentlemen. Email me at swingingsingopodcasts at gmail.com.
If you have any questions or anything, you want to meet up or anything like that, I could do live events at your gangbang or your swinger club or whatever you want do I could do it also go to swinging single podcast.com check out my website get all my info get all my lovely uh podcasts I'm gonna start soon when I get time I'm gonna put the old ones I deleted and put them back up and fuck the people who got mad at me for it. Oh, well, sucks for you. Anyways, with that, shake your cock and balls, gentlemen, and keep on swinging.
