Episode #8, The Green-Eyed Monster (Jealousy) Sept-Oct 2023. What is Jealousy and how to deal with it, plus other concepts like Compersion . What Have We Done Lately , covers Asbury Park fun, our October House Party and a sexy time in Las Vegas at Pod Bash 2023! Where Are We Going Next looks ahead to the sold out ShareNation Halloween party, the epic November 2023 Bliss Cruise and a chance to attend our next House Party. Listen for all the details!!Visit us at https://www.LifestyleLynx.com for related Adult Events, Cruises, Resorts, Clubs, Parties, Meet Greets, Swinger Websites and more...
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hello you beautiful people i am jr and i'm d we have been in the lifestyle for seven plus years and we're here to share our sexy stories and experiences if you're not 18 this podcast is not for you and if you are please go visit lifestylinks.com that's l-y-n-x hello people welcome to episode eight which is which is and which is actually our september october combination because we had a lot going on and we're going to talk about that yes but what do we do first we do what we do first we talk about what we've done lately lately yeah we've lots of stuff yeah. We've done lots of stuff lately.
That's why we have a combination podcast, right? Yeah, so what have we done? Well, we did an event with a bunch of couples, five couples, in Asbury Park. Right. We went to see this band called Almost Queen. Tribute band. Yeah, tribute band for Queen. Yes. And what happened? At the Stone Pony. outside outside we got lucky yep great weather it didn't rain on us and the band was fabulous fabulous yes and the couples we were with were fabulous fabulous yes and we had a great time and from there we went to where do we go from there the there? The Paradise Club. And what is that? It is a gay bar.
It is a gay bar. And it's, oh. It's fantastic. We love it. So we go there a lot. And why do we go there a lot? Because, first of all, no one bothers us. We go with a bunch of couples, and the music unbelievable they have old school sound systems which are absolutely fantastic and and you know what's funny lighting oh yeah the lighting is oh yeah music and the lighting and the facility is great but what i really was gonna say what's funny is that and what's cool for swingers is that we'll be together.
There's eight couples, and I'm dancing with one guy, and then I'm dancing with another guy, and then I'm dancing with another girl, and then I'm kissing one guy, and then kissing another girl. And you know what? It does not bother the gay people at all. They love us. They don't even see it. Yeah.
a comfortable and what happens too there's a bunch of bachelorette parties that come in yeah because the girls come in they know it's a great environment they're not gonna get bothered by guys right right so it's a safe place it is but it's especially cool place for swingers because we typically really appreciate and like there are some guys that dress up as girls. Oh, my God. That look like girls. Like really good. Wait, wait. JR, exactly. That's the big thing. I do. And this is the ongoing topic. It is. Our friends say, look at that girl.
Oh, my's beautiful right that's a guy no no yeah and it's because so you know our friends from the good the bad and the ugly episodes episode uh four yes right so we're at a club or it probably was that club no it was another, it was a lifestyle place in Pittsburgh. In any case. Yes, it was. In any case, J.R. Often. But you know, the guy, girl walks in, whatever it may be. Whatever. And it's a six-foot Asian girl. Right. Right. I'm like, oh my God, she's beautiful.
And my friend's like, go over and take a close look i'm like i guess she's beautiful i guess yeah and i'm like i'm half i'm half in a tank already i know but it's super fun and everybody's so friendly but anyway back to the point is though is that it was what five couples five couples you know we all went to paradise club and then only one j and c came back to the boat with us and everybody else went home right and we just you know hang out we had drinks and the point is that well we didn't get we didn't get we didn't have sex no one had sex if there's vanilla people listening in on this we don't no one has sex all the time right not a mandatory thing.
Right. It's not a prerequisite. It's not any of that. We have fun with our couple friends because we love them. We have such a great time. We could talk about anything. It's just fantastic. We can kiss. Yeah. We're all like-minded and super fun. What else did do we did pod bash we went to las vegas with a whole bunch of people it was eight other pod bash couples yes and and first of all i want to say thank you to brian and brennan brian brennan Porch Swingers. Oh, my God. Who arranged the whole thing. Yeah. Fantastic. Awesome. And so the other podcasters that were there were… Tell me. Tell me.
Who they were. Yeah, yeah. It was the Negged Relationship. That's right. And then it was the Kitchen Sink. Kitchen Sink. They were beautiful people. Yeah. Friends with a twist. Oh, my God. Who live not too far from us. Fantastic.
the guys we finally met them and in person i mean we've always talked to them but yeah it was really cool to like meet them it was great swinging flamingos yeah the bulls and queens which is a single black male yeah and he brings in different females and that's what the queens are all yeah yeah which is cool yeah and then one of our favorite meetings well oh my god my favorite meetings really was meeting the accidental swingers oh my god which is marina and tristan oh my god and and then crimson and phoenix were there with them also just for them and they really inspired us to do this podcast yes and we told them that and he was almost crying yeah it was just they was they had so many experiences of people telling them that hey you know you helped us become swingers or you helped us become better swingers.
And they looked at us and they said- This is the first time. Anybody ever said that we inspired you to be podcasters too? And we all kind of had tears in our eyes. It was a moment. It was a real moment. It was a real moment. It was a moment. And they're beautiful people. I mean, gosh. It was like. Fantastic. Yeah. So the other cool thing about Podbash is the Vegas experience. Off strip. Brian and Brenna really did a great job of doing some different events for us. Yes. So Thursday night. Right. The first night.
We all got there on thursday people came in and this and that and they arranged a trip and they had two big buses right to the palomino club which is a uh gentlemen's a very very nice gentlemen's club in las vegas and at first i was very apprehensive about it like a strip really, why don't we just go to like a lifestyle club? But they had us in a private room upstairs with bottle service and drinks and waitress service and… The private dancers. Private dancers. Oh, my goodness. It was great. These girls were so beautiful.
And it's like inspiring me that maybe I need to take some pole dancing lessons. They were really good. Oh, my gosh. They were. And they made, of course, a lot of tips. They made a lot of tips. Because our crowd was like especially appreciative. Exactly. But it was a nice meet and greet. So that's what happened.
It was a nice meet and greet so that's what happened it was a great meet and greet we mingle with everybody talk with people first night talk with people share like experiences and really it was great really cool it was very great so the hotel staff was super sweet well let's first talk about that it was private, it was a very small private boutique hotel. Right, maybe like 68 rooms, something like that. Something like that, yeah. And then Brian and Brenna had taken one of the big suites and turned that into a playroom. They did. Which was beautiful. It was beautiful.
And the pool was beautiful. The pool was great.
We were all at the pool yeah every day and they had pool games and prizes and t-shirts yeah and it was super fun yeah and then and a bar there was a bar outside right yeah and then they had a female impersonator right that was saturday night i believe yeah before the dance party yeah yeah the dance party yeah this is a great female oh and they had the comedian which wasn't the comedian was not near as good as the female impersonator yeah the female person he she whatever it was really funny yeah she was yeah it was funnier than the comedian it's very good yeah yeah so and everybody i mean.
And everybody, I mean, she made a lot of tips. So the crowd was amazing. It was great. Yeah. Really nice. And we loved it. And we got to visit some casinos. We did. So was it Sunday or Saturday? I forget it wasn't. I think we did it. I don't remember. I think we did it Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. Yeah, we broke out. We went over to the Strip. And we visited through the Venetian, and the Wynn Hotels, and stuff, we went through that. And you know what the other really cool thing is that J.R.
has been in music for all of his life, and the previous singer of Sly and the Family Stone, which- Well, the later singer, after Sly took a spot.
Yeah, is a good friend of things together they're not lifestyle they're not yes but they know about us yes they know and uh we got to meet up with them yeah yeah on sunday yeah sushi and stuff with their house yeah so we slipped in some vanilla stuff we did yeah with an amazing musician oh it's great oh so what else oh next what else have we done lately right we just from our last episode which was talking about how to host a house party yeah what happened what did we do i don't know tell me we just hosted creatures of the night house party sort of Halloween, but we didn't want to do a Halloween theme.
We did Creatures of the Night house party. Sort of Halloween, but we didn't want to do a Halloween theme. Right. We did Creatures of the Night, and it was absolutely fantastic. Oh, M-G. We had 52 people in our house. Yep, yep. And these, I'm talking about, these people were all sexy. Hot. H-W-P. Oh, my goodness. People. Unbelievable. It was such a crowd. There was not a bad-looking person in the place. It was crazy. It was one of our best house parties ever. Yeah, and every time we have a house party, people tell us it was the best house party. But this really was. This really was, yeah.
At one point, everyone was downstairs in the playroom, like naked. It was just, I mean, the food was great. Everybody brought amazing things, and of course, I cooked. Yeah, of course. Yeah, yeah.
So in New Jersey, it was raining, of course, on on that saturday night right but we have this huge cabana on the deck and i sort of hooked it up where you created a cover a sort of a cover and a gutter system when it was no rain right and so it was it was out in the cabana we have like a fire pit and all this crazy lighting and so it was like extra space it was like an outside room people loved it it was like great yeah and of course i got to have a threesome you did oh you did i did right but jr the naughty boy that he is which segues into this next segment about jealousy.
I want to hear this. We had one of our lovely unicorn girlfriends come fly from Buffalo, and we picked her up from the airport Friday night. Oh, that was really cool. Right? So we pick her up from the airport Friday night, and the three of us go out to this really cool spanish restaurant in in the iron bound section of newark new jersey right if you know newark new jersey so we go to four nose of speed four nose yeah we pick her up and we go and i say to jr well here's a table right here he's like we're gonna situh, uh-uh. We're going to sit in the main section. You know why?
Because he wanted to sit in the main dining room with two beautiful blondes. Of course. Hello. And they were going to see this like halfway between the bathrooms and the end. I'm like, no. That seat wasn't going to do. No. Put us in the main dining room. No. Exactly. And everybody in the dining room is like looking at us.
Of what is this guy doing with these two two blondes in any case that's what i'm talking about yeah so i have to work on saturday because i have this like crazy interesting job but in any case so i'm working right right and they're supposed to be setting up right we have we all this setting and then i get home and they're running around like banshees and i still haven't thought anything about it right because they're trying to oh they did a beautiful job with the the spider webs oh yeah and the spider was crazy decor was just like beautiful spiders and all kinds of stuff.
Well, needless to say. What do you know with this? Needless to say is that J.R. and our beautiful single girlfriend from Buffalo had taken a little break. We took a little detour to the bedroom. you know now he did not he did not tell me in advance which we will talk about but there was some level of expectation no it's fine don't worry about it no it is fine it is fine in any case so it was uh it was a great party yeah good party. So I judge our parties by the quantity and the quality of the lost and found items. Oh, that's right. And this party, oh my God. Yes. Great lost and found items.
Like high quality lost and found items. Leather jacket. Leather jackets, glasses, laces, like stockingsings all kinds of stuff underwear it was great yeah all right so we're gonna be right back we are with our main content which is what jealousy and how to deal with that jealousy compersion different things like that and how to deal with that in the lifestyle all right we'll see you guys in a few seconds. All right. Okay.
Welcome back to our main topic, which is, what is our main topic yeah it's uh the green-eyed monster the green-eyed monster what the hell is that also known as jealousy jealousy yeah which is something that can happen in the lifestyle it does yeah. Yeah. Well, it happens just in life and just naturally. We could talk about how to kind of prevent that or derail that or sidestep it or whatever. And it's a thinking. Yeah. It's how to perceive. Exactly. Right. So the crazy thing for me is that I grew up always knowing that there was somebody prettier, somebody smarter, somebody richer.
And so as a woman. I didn't. No, of course. He's it. I'm sorry. Go ahead. But as a woman, you know, you have to recognize that that's just the way life is. And I have girlfriends that I have these conversations with all the time. And I exude this confidence and lovingness of myself. You know, I'm not perfect, but I like me. Thank you very much. And I exude this confidence and lovingness of myself. You know, I'm not perfect, but I like me. And I also have a very secure place in myself that it allows me to be not jealous. And so I'll give you this little example.
So before I met i met jr i had this boyfriend who was like this high roller in atlantic city and he stayed friends with his old girlfriends and now mind you i didn't even know that the lifestyle existed at this point i mean i had experienced lifestyle things like all my life so in any case he stayed friends with these. They had broken up. And every now and then he'd say to me, well, let's invite Kim or let's invite Kathy, you know, and she'll, they'll come with us to Atlantic City and we'll all get a suite, we'll all gamble. And in all of those instances, I was constantly doing threesomes.
So in my mind, listen, listen, he had already dated them. They broke up. They're not going to be together forever, but they're beautiful, sweet, kind people that we all got along and had fun. And I never allowed myself to be threatened.
So the jealousy element didn't enter into that with you, those with that situation yes yes because you were comfortable with him and her and those girls yes right so being like that just naturally it's like you know in the lifestyle that's the beauty is that we meet another couple what is that woman she's gonna leave her husband to run off with my man just gonna say that exactly so you're always gonna go back with your partner right and and i actually feel like the lifestyle is the safer place absolutely totally yes yes there are some stories of where couples switch and it it's very rare.
It's kind of rare. Very rare. And it goes to what you opened up with is expectations. Yes, so there's expectations. Communication. Communication. Compersion. Compersion. So what is that, baby? All these elements. What's compersion? You say it. No, no, you tell me what you think it is.
So, so compersion so what is that all these elements and what's conversion you you say no no you tell me so so compersion to me is making sure and knowing that my partner is loved and compensated in a sexual manner and she's gonna love that and i'm in all in favor of that that's kind of compersion that i want her to feel and get pleasure and be excited about about the situation right and so the other concept which is all of that is so true the other concept is is that there are some people that take compersion so far that they actually get off watching their partner get off well i do yeah i do with you yes i do yeah we're we're in a room with another couple and we're on like one bed i'll look over and i love to see your legs up in the air and you getting fucked and your face and your moaning.
I'm like, oh yeah, oh yeah, I love that. So the couple that introduced us to compersion, their initials are P and M. Exactly. And we were at this unbelievable house party, you know, the house that has a hundred people. Exactly. as jr and and i went yes he and him were there upstairs and so the four of us go together right right and you are with her i have one bed yeah and i'm with him on the other bed and he's so sensual and oh yes like So we're having sex, and him and I both look over at J.R., and she is in the middle of an orgasm, and her toes are actually curling.
Like incredibly— Her toes are curling, and I'm with M, and I say, oh, my God. You have to see this, you have to see this. And we both turn our heads and we were just like, so ecstatic, you know, so it made our experience better.
And part of getting over jealousy is realizing, and this is going to be a little deep, if JR finds a woman that he's deeper connected with that he's more sexually attracted to that he finds something better i'm okay i'm okay because you know what i love him so much why would i deny that of him well that's total conversion why because i believe that because i am the sweetest and smartest and she is person that i know in the world that the world will bring me something to replace that and so you have to let go can't hold on tight okay but that situation's never gonna happen because i know we love each other we love each other but but when you approach life that way you have nothing to worry about that's right yeah you have to realize you two of you are gonna come together you're gonna have sex with maybe a different couple this or a different person.
But you're going to always come back together and go home together. Right. And that's the bond. Yeah. That's the thing. Because we do this together. Oh, yeah. And most people that we interact with do it together. Right. Although I will say there are open marriages. We have one friend set that have open marriage, and they date separately. Different thing, though. But they are exceptional. They still love each other. Oh, my God. So much. I could talk about... I'm not going to go into it now. We'll do a segment on that. Yeah, so many stories where they have...
We've seen them in situations where, like, oh, my God, look at them yeah it's incredible and i think you you've talked about this in the past yeah yeah well so expectations for a minute yes so to prepare yourself so jealousy you gotta talk about expectations in advance in advance like what are you gonna do how are going to do it are we going to stay together in the same room in the same building you know you got you got to talk about that and you know how are you going to deal with single people that you know single people in the lifestyle you know so like i'm okay with single girls you know and so are you good with single guys and it it depends on, I think it depends on where you're at.
For instance, in our house parties, it's a small environment and it's a free-for-all. There's 50 people here in the room, or 50 people here in the house. Yeah, it's fine. As opposed to a hotel takeover or a cruise. Right. Or a resort. Or a resort. Yeah. So in that case, we have one rule, and that's letting each other know where we are and what we're doing. Exactly. That's it. Communication. That's our one rule. Communication. Is our communication rule. That's it.
But we only have, that's probably our only rule yeah we have no other rules i said yeah but there are some people that have more rules yeah and same room sex which is completely fine yeah you know whatever or or you know they don't do threesomes or she's not bi or whatever they're, whatever that is. It's kind of limiting, but whatever that is, that's fine. Exactly. As long as you communicate. We have a lot of friends, babe, that don't do threesomes. That's true. Yes. And that will not accept single girls. That's correct. Yeah. Or will accept single guys. Exactly. Right. Exactly. Right.
So it depends yeah communication right is is key and setting expectations and the crazy thing that i started to try to say earlier is that we have a lot of friends that we've been friends as couples with exactly and there can be jealousy within the two couples talk about that yes so there can be possessiveness yeah okay i know what you're talking about yeah the same friends that we saw her toes curl they went to a lifestyle club with another couple two couples yes went to a lifestyle club together and thinking that, we can kind of hang together and maybe have sex together you'll go to the playroom and bring maybe another couple have a maybe maybe not thing yeah and what happened go ahead the other couple that they went to the club with disappeared they disappeared they ghosted them they ghosted them and went off with other people right so they were left in the lurch and they were like oh so what are we supposed to do now we're supposed to wait for them so back to the communication right jr and i had this discussion so if we were going to a lifestyle club with another couple we would talk in advance exactly yes are we thinking we're going to go to the playroom and then if we got there and we met another couple that we hadn't seen a long time or something was going to make that whole plan change we would go back to the couple that we went with and say came with right yeah and say look hey we're here with you but there's other couples here and we haven't seen them yeah we're gonna kind of want to play with them and we'll come back to you later or we would or come on come with us come with us yeah exactly exactly so there's so much of it yeah communication's key It's key in every aspect of life.
And so much more in the lifestyle. If you're confident in who you are, if you're confident in your relationship, you have to just put that to the side. Right. It's like compartmentalize that. JR's not going to leave me for somebody else's wife. Absolutely not. And in reality, if that happens. But, you know, don't think that. I understand. Because people, if people think that way, and it's crazy. Right, it doesn't happen. It doesn't happen. That's not the purpose here. That's not the purpose of the whole lifestyle.
And it's also, a lot of the purpose of the lifestyle is actually to avoid the jealousy, to avoid the cheating. That's right. And so- That's right, exactly. What perplexes us in our minds is that once in a while we'll meet a lifestyle couple and they actually freaking cheat. Yeah.
Which is, I'm like- We meet a couple that are not married and they're there together and they have other husbands yeah and the husbands don't know or the wife doesn't know i'm like no not going there not going there which is crazy absolutely not in any case it's like you have to find the people that do the lifestyle like you do that you can trust it's like my single girlfriends so coming up next we're going to talk about the chair nation party right yeah and i again have to work on a saturday and unicorns yeah and unicorns right so i have one of my dear girlfriends we have a lot of unicorns one of my dear girlfriends jay is going to be there.
And I'm like, I have to work Saturday. Will you take care of JR? So Dee asked her to take care of JR. And to me, that's like the wolf washing the hen house. She's way more wild than you are. She's wilder than I am. So we're going to have a fun time. So she's got a fun time back and she's like i've always wanted a dp i'm like well that's cool you have my blessing and it's just a fun yeah yeah i mean i'm bringing a whole box of condoms yeah exactly yeah exactly but in any case. What else is, yeah. So I just want to touch just a little bit further on jealousy and how to get over it.
And you're not a jealous man, so I can't speak about how men could possibly deal with jealousy. Usually we find that jealousy exists more in the men than the women. The women are more okay with doing whatever. It's the men that get jealous. Because you know what? Part of doing the lifestyle and being able to be in a relationship where you can allow your man to have sex with other people is that women realize that men having sex with other women affirms them. It makes them feel sexy. It makes them feel special.
And that's a lot of why all of us do a lifestyle, because it reminds us of how really awesome we are. Exactly. It's about knowing yourself and knowing your relationship and knowing you're strong in your relationship. Right. And that at the end of the day, you're going back home with her. Yeah. Or him or whatever. Yeah. You're going back home with your partner. Right.
And that's what it it's all about you have to have that visualization in your head right that no matter what happens within your rules again you have rules and guidelines and boundaries whatever whatever it might be yeah no we know some people hello but you're going back home with the one you love right to your family your kids right your love your life your life your home your career your your everything the fun you had at that weekend lifestyle hotel takeover or the cruise that goes on it's done right that's it yeah it was it was about fun but your life is with the one that you love right person yeah yeah so get over the jealousy i i don't know that's all i can say yeah yeah okay all right all right is that a wrap what's coming up is what are we doing next exactly and there's a lot of stuff i think is there there's really good stuff, though.
Okay. All right. All right, people. We'll see you in a few minutes. All right. Okay, beautiful people. this is our what are we doing next segment and what is that right t what is that so we have the beautiful share nation halloween party we do and that's this coming weekend. Right. Big party. It's freaking sold out. Yes. It's sold out. There's a long, long waiting list for hotel rooms. So what are our costumes? Oh. Our costumes are our Lifestyle Links podcast costumes. Yeah, so we're just going to be podcasters. We've done all these crazy, amazing things as costumes in the past.
Let's leave that in the past and do something different. Okay, so after ShareNation where you're going to have a DP, maybe. Oh, maybe. Maybe. You've got to be ready. I know, because our girlfriend, Jay. And then, what are you getting? What are we talking about? Are you getting the ass or the pussy? I'm not sure. I know. I'll take either one. I know, and you know the guy. I've had the pussy lots of times. Yes. So maybe I'll take the ass. I know, right? Let's hope. Let's hope. And you know the guy. You're good. Yeah. So it should be all good. It's the two of us, yeah.
We're going to do a DP on this girl, because she wants to get it, so I talked to her today. Well, it's a fantasy.
the guy you're good yeah so it should be all good the two of us yeah we're gonna do a dp on this girl because she wants to get it so i talked to her well it's a fantasy well but this terrible thing is just i want to get it off my bucket list i go okay so so you mean like once it's off you're never gonna do it again i think he might do it again no i think she's gonna like it a lot oh no oh no we're gonna have to switch it up yeah yeah so it's on my list i want to get it off my list yeah no no she'll love it and you'll get to go again don't you worry okay what else you got and then after that is what what the halloween party for a second the, the Halloween party is probably the biggest party of the year.
Right, of Share Nation. Share Nation, yeah. It's got to be 600, 700 people. It's going to be insane. Yes. It's going to be insane. And the weather is going to be 80 degrees in New Jersey. On Saturday, yeah. In New Jersey? Yeah. And this is October what? October 27th, 28th. Yeah. 80 degrees. It's when the party is, yeah, that's good. Thank you. Saturday, yeah. In New Jersey? Yeah. And this is October what? October 27th, 28th. Yeah. 80 degrees. It's when the party is, yeah, that's good. Which is just a couple days from now.
So what they have is a big ballroom, and then there's double doors to like an outside patio. I don't think this is, yeah, but, oh. Yeah. Yeah. It'll be open. It's going to be open today. 80 degrees. Which will be cool. Yeah, it's so cool. And of course, we're going to dinner with our special friends. We are, there's eight of us going to dinner. J&C. Yeah, we've got to get some of those people. We've had a couple of those couples, two of those couples that we're having dinner with have been recorded. Yes, that's true. Now we have to record the other couples. That's right. Yeah, yeah.
That's right. Which I love. And I'm so sad that we didn't get to yet share with you our recording with our friends from Australia. Yeah. That's coming up next. Probably not. No? Yeah. Probably not. Maybe next year. In any case, after ShareNation Halloween, what is your favorite thing to do in life? Oh my God. Right?
So, this weekend is your favorite thing to do in life oh my god right so this weekend is your nation the following weekend is the freaking bliss cruise yes which jr love he does he does it's it's just so amazing it's seven days, six nights it's like a hotel takeover party for that long. Well, it's 4,000 people on a floating. Hold on. It's 4,000 swingers on a floating hotel. Thank you very much.
Now, one of the really interesting things that JR and I do, back back to the main topic just real quickly is that when we're on the boat we really need to know really need to monitor like where are you and who are you with because you can get lost for you can get really lost and i'm the kind of person where i'm not just gonna like meet up with this random guy and go to his stateateroom no not you're not gonna happen it's kind of dangerous so but in any case so much sexy stuff going on playrooms are amazing there and yeah yeah and and listen to our episode about navigating the bliss cruise exactly we talk about the fact that we don't really do one night stands but we make an exception on the bliss cruise but because you have to most of the time yeah we know people no but most of the time the new couples that we meet on the bliss cruise yeah that we hook up with end up not being one night stands because we meet them again the next year?
Well, yeah. Or they travel to us, we travel to them. But that's the initial contact. Right, right. You have to have some one night stand because otherwise how are you ever going to get it started? Yeah, so we've done one night stands, so to speak, on the bliss cruise with couples. And then now we're friends with them. Exactly. Like from all over the world. It's no longer a one-night stand. Right. Yeah, exactly. On Facebook, I just commented on a couple who's going to be in the cruise, and they're from somewhere in like Austria, O and K. Oh, nice. You know what I'm talking about? O and K.
And they were in the next stateroom next to us one time, and they were like, yeah, I'll go see you guys again. And it's amazing. Yeah. They're from some distant European country. Oh, baby, baby. And we never see them. No, no. We see them on the Blitz Cruise. Yeah, we're going to go there then. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah. So after Blitz Cruise, we have ShareNation New Year's Eve.
So we're going to have gonna have a special special our next podcast is gonna be about that yes because our dear friends who are the proprietors of share nation of share nation are getting married exactly so we usually have a new year's eve party at our house. Right. We have a house party. Right. And these people, C and A, came to us personally, in person. And asked us not to have our house party. And they were like, I thought we were in trouble. I know. They were like, we need to talk to you very seriously about blah. Like, are we in trouble? No. And they went on.
I thought we were in trouble. And they were like, no, we know you have a house party every day you see. We'll be right back. about blah. Like, are we in trouble? No, we're not in trouble. I thought we were in trouble. And they were like, no, we know you have a house party every New Year's Eve. We want you. To give that up. We need you to give that up and come to our New Year's Eve party in Sturbridge, Massachusetts. Oh, is that what it is? Sturbridge, Massachusetts, New Year's Eve, to be with us for our special event. I'm like, what am I going to say? Yeah, of course. Hello. Yeah, absolutely.
Anyway, we hope that you enjoyed our episode. And one other thing we want to mention is that if you're listening and you live anywhere in New York, New Jersey, Delaware, Pennsylvania. Connecticut. Yeah, Maryland. Somewhere close to Northern New Jersey. Yeah, a couple hours. We're going to have a house party, December 9th holiday party. So if you hit us up on our website, lifestylelinks.com. That's L-I-F-E-S-T-Y-L-E-L-Y-N-X We will what? We will get back to you and invite you to our party. So do that.
Hit us up on LifestyleLinks.com with a message that you want to come to our house party on December 9th. Yeah. And, you know, maybe you'll make it. Yeah. I don't know. with a message that you want to come to our house party on December 9th. Yeah. And, you know, maybe you'll make it. Yeah. And we'll get back to you. We will. So goodbye, you next time.