Episode 33: Etiquette‘Main Topic’: A refresher on the Do’s Don’ts for proper Lifestyle “Etiquette”. We review several scenarios to make your journey a smooth, rewarding experience. ‘What Have We Done Lately’: Once again we attend one of the largest, most attended house parties with an orgy theme. Then we host an intimate house party coupled to a birthday celebration for our dearest friend. The following weekend onto Atlantic City for a six-couple trip to ‘Boogie Nights’ then straight to a very sexy house party hosted by delicious friends. Next, we travel to Philly for an evening at ‘Pleasure Farden Club and continue to Delaware meeting more friends. Yeah, that’s all we did!‘Where We Are Going Next’: Well, it’s on, BIG Time! Our HUGE Meet Greet scheduled for March 7 at ‘Revolution Bar Social House’ in Morristown. As of this writing 232 people are confirmed to attend. If you want in on the action, RSVP on SLS at ‘Events/SLS Groups’ and post a Hot Date. Our next exciting M G is scheduled for April 3, 2026 in King of Prussia, PA at the ‘Valley Forge Casino Hotel’. We also mention several potential group trips for 2026 you can join. AND…Don’t miss the opportunity to join us on the April 2027 Bliss Cruise! Our Special Cabins are almost gone, so book NOW to get ‘Prime’ Cabin locations while they last. Go to our Events Page 2, for Bliss Cruise Bookings with a Special Perk or click this lynx : https://lifestylelynx.com/events%2Ftrips%2FcruisesPlus, we are at 8150 listens to our Podcast… Thank you!!Visit us at https://www.LifestyleLynx.com for related Adult Events, Cruises, Resorts, Clubs, Parties, Meet Greets, Swinger Websites and more...
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hello you beautiful people i am jr and i'm d and we're here to share our sexy stories and experiences if you're not 18 this podcast is not for you. And if you are, please go visit LifestyleLinks.com. That's L-Y-N-X. Hello, beautiful people. Welcome to episode... 33. 33. Oh my God, 33. And we haven't done this this for a little while. Maybe like a month and a half or something. I don't know. Because we had a lot going on. Right. But... But what? But, but? What's the name of this episode? The name of this episode is... Etiquette. Etiquette. That's right. Etiquette.
But we always start out with, what have we done lately and it was a lot i know that's why there's such a pause between the two it's it's you're gonna find out in about two minutes all the shit we've been doing two seconds oh my gosh so we're gonna start off with the biannual not that kind of pie biannual orgy party yes with our friends it's a I don't know. with the biannual, not that kind of bi, biannual orgy party with our friends, J&A. It's a winter solstice and a summer solstice. That's it. Those two. Which is the biggest house party that ever happens. Yeah. I think there was 102 people.
So that's not ridiculous. It keeps growing. The house doesn't. I know. But we fit. We fit. Yeah. Yeah. It was fun. It was fun. Yeah, it was good. It's got a lot of people. Did we do the chop? We did a chop block. Yes, we did. We did that. It was Italian. Yes. It was really good. We had recipes to prepare. Oh, man. And it's nice when we do the chop block because it's just a small group. Yeah. And we kind of get to know the people really well that we're chopping, lucking with. I made the lasagna. I was in charge of lasagna. I know. It came out great. I can't remember what I was cooking. Lasagna.
It was a couple of things. I don't know. Beautiful. I know I had to cut a lot of bread. You were cutting bread? Yes. And F of F and E. F of F and E. They have the wrestler. Oh, right. Yeah, sure. Yeah. He was a good bread cutter. He's big and strong. Strong like a bull. Yes. We had a ball and we just, we meet new people. We get to hook up with our old friends. And new friends. It's, yeah, yeah. It's awesome. It's awesome. It is awesome. And what do we do after that?
that oh we had a birthday party we did a birthday at a house small intimate kind of i don't know how many people 12 yeah 14 no 15 because it was an odd number remember that's right yeah and it was great all lifestyle people so much fun yeah yeah we've had food and drinks and it was a small gathering and it was for our dearest friends dearest dearest friends yes jnc yes absolutely and then we went for valentine's day oh yeah to atlantic city with a bunch of people yeah were there 12 or 14 of us was it it 12? 12. Okay. Some people kind of hooked on to us and stuff. Yeah, it was great.
Yeah, because we go to the Tropicana. Boogie Nights. Boogie Nights. It was like a 70s disco thing. 80s, too. And the funny thing is that we get this VIP section. Oh, it was great. And there's like 12 of of us and then we're kind of to the side and like i'm kissing one guy and then i'm kissing another and then jr is dancing with one girl and then he's dancing with another and it's just like a constant swap and the and the crowd, I'm not sure everybody notices it. But there are people that notice it. Yeah, I'm between this one's legs and this girl's legs.
Yeah, it's like that kind of thing, you know. It was great. We got to, we went a day early with our really dear friends, J&C. And we went to Chef Vola again. Oh, my God. Can't recommend it anymore. We shouldn't tell people about it. I know, right? We should. We shouldn't tell people. I had to make reservations six weeks in advance. Yeah, six weeks. And you have to talk to them on the phone. And they know us. You know, we've been there several. You've been there longer. You've been going for years. Yeah, exactly. So, you know, we get in. Crazy.
But if you call, like, you know, they don't really know you you've got to come to the bottom of the list it's it's tough to get in on a culture six weeks in advance and we got it was amazing they put us upstairs this time yeah that was really cool it's a house so it's a house yeah there's no signs like no there's nothing chef vola v-o-l-a Don't tell them. My God. Insider's secret. Oh, goodness gracious. So that was fun.
Lenox, it was fun And And we had to spend time with like really dear friends But right, so we were there like Friday, Saturday Yes And the very next day The Sunday We had to go to a party Right, was the sunday of um president's day something like that that night that sunday night exactly so everybody was supposedly off right and it was this really cool house party to celebrate a birthday and a promotion our dear friend who's a pilot, just got promoted to become a captain. Yes. And that was like a kick-ass house party. We won't mention the airline. We're not going to mention what? The airline.
Oh, yeah. We're not going to mention the airline. But, you know, the funny thing is that. It's good. There's nothing wrong with it. I know. You love that airline. I'm just not going to mention it. But in any case, we're at the house party, and I somehow ended up with this single black guy who was beautiful. You were a little bit, let's say, toasted. A little toasted. Oh, my gosh. It was a single black guy. Single black guy. Very nice guy. Very nice guy. Yeah, beautiful. Right? We'll go downstairs where the playroom is. So I followed her down. And oh my. You want to tell her? No, no.
The last thing I remember is I'm just looking at JR saying, baby, can I have some more lube? This guy was huge. I know. I was like, oh. He took it out. I'm like my goodness i know right good luck with that he was good luck i my cookie was sore for a week later you're trying to get on top of it you're trying to mount them it wasn't going it just wasn't going it wouldn't go in you called for the lube. I'm like looking back. I'm like, JR, baby, help me here. Oh, my God. But it was fun. It was a good party. Oh, my goodness. And the nice thing about that party is that a lot of people played. Yeah.
So it's like, you don't know. When you go to a house party, you don't know how many people are going to play, how many aren't. But it was like a lot of people played. There was. Yeah. And they were just so sweet. And she has always drinks that she puts out. I know. Specialty stuff. Yeah, really. Lots of food. She puts out lots of food. Yeah. It was great. It was good. It was snowing out. It was like crazy snow that night. It was. Yeah. That was a good party. Slippery. Slippery was good. Slippery. Not slippery enough for me, though. Not slippery enough for you. It was right.
And then onward, past weekend, we were on our way to Delaware. We stopped in Pennsylvania for a family thing, plus- We went to- Pleasure Garden. Yes. Yes, pleasure. With our friends. Yes. Well, they met us there. Yeah. Yeah. Dear friends, GNC. GNC, who we talked about before. They've been at our wedding. And they were on a podcast. They did one of our podcasts. Yeah. Yeah. Super fun. They were guests. And you know what was fun is that we met other people there that we knew. Yeah. So there was this one couple from Sunny Rest. Correct. Yeah, that I didn't get to talk to for very much.
And another couple that came to our wedding. Right. Yes, they go to Pleasure Garden all the time. And then there was the other couple, is it M and N, that we met at R&R's house party? Oh, my goodness. So cute. So they're of Asian descent. Oh, so beautiful. And the both of them are gorgeous. Oh, my gosh. And she's so adorable. And the shirt he had on was so kick-ass. It was a kick-ass shirt. So we got to spend time with them. We had to dance, hang out. Yeah, that was great. It was very good. That was unexpected. That was good. That was unexpected.
And the really fun thing is that our dear friends, G and C that came, she was like a little wild, right? So we're in the back bar and she's like, I'm going to do this stripper pole. She did a beautiful job. But she got naked. She did. To do it. She did. I know she did and she freaking looked awesome she couldn't get her pants off over her shoes she's trying to take her pants off over her shoes we were helping her oh my goodness this is terrible they're great we had such a good time there we love it and then we headed down to delaware d had some work she had to do down there not me though i'm.
I'm just a chauffeur. That's it, you know? Yes. We met our dear friends, Dee and I. Yes. At a place called Lefties. They have a bowling league. That's how I went to see them, right? Well, you walk in, and it's way more than a ball. It's so cool. It's a huge bar. This guy was doing trivia thing. Which we liked. With the crowd. There was like an axe throwing thing. Yes. There was a whole arcade. There's a golf simulator. There's a golf simulator. There's an arcade. It was so cool. It was so cool. And we did get to meet a couple. Well, there was this one other couple that was like, so. We think.
No. Well, obviously, because I sent me a message the next day and she's like oh so glad seeing you guys just the guy the guy yeah he's like he has the hots for you which was cute which was cute yeah well she was way hotter than he was she She was. Yeah. Yeah. She had a huge rack. She did. Oh, my God. Yeah, yeah. I couldn't stop looking at it. I mean, he was nice enough, though. So, you know, you don't know. It made me help her with her bowling. Actually, she wasn't bowling. That's right. She didn't. No, I know. I said to her, are you playing? Are you bowling? Are you playing tonight?
She goes, no, I do other sports. I'm like, oh, okay. All righty then. Okey-doke. No, so we had a lot of fun. Yeah. Yeah, so that's what we have done lately. Yeah, it's six things. We just rattled off six things. I know. Yeah, I know. That's why we're late with this one. We keep busy. Oh, my God. I know. And we're off again tomorrow. Exactly. Back down. So that's part of what's coming up next. It is, I know. So we won't get that away. But in the meantime. In the meantime. We're going to take you to our mean topic. Which is, again. Which is all about etiquette. Etiquette.
What to do, what not to do. That kind of stuff. The appropriate way. Right. And most people, well, we'll talk later talk later all right we'll see you in a few minutes okay episode 33 etiquette yeah and i think a lot of you folks Thank you.
okay episode 33 etiquette yeah and i think a lot of you folks in the lifestyle maybe for a while or not you're gonna know some of this but some people may not so like a little refresher course on etiquette what to do what not to do we have several different categories yes of this right so the first thing we thought about is like just couples couples etiquette in general yes like respect people's boundaries what their style is are they full swap soft swap somewhere in between just you know just warriors? Right. They're just there for the party. Right.
So find that out when you're talking to people. Exactly. Respect that. Understand it. Right. What else? What else did you say to that? I think in general, yeah, just understanding where people are in their journey and the lifestyle. And you can't expect them to be like you. I mean, that's what it's all about, is that not everybody does it like you do it. If you meet a couple and you say, well, yeah, we're full swap. And they say, well, we're kind of, we're not really there, we're kind of soft swap, we take it on a slow. I mean, don't push it. Right. Don't push the full swap thing on.
But also don't. It's going to turn them off. But also don't walk away from that. Right. Because in the future, you might be their first people. And we have episodes. We talk about that. Yeah. Our newbies to nobies episode. Stay with it. With our dear friends. Yeah. Stay with it. It took them like four years to get the full swap. Exactly. We have such a great time with them now.
And in the same token, we'll have friends that are like open like completely open and and we may not want to do exactly but hey we meet their other friends that they're doing open with yeah and it enhances our life and it's going to broaden your horizons exactly yeah yeah to be cognizant of other people's style exactly what they're interested so they're not interested not interested in. Right, yeah, be open-minded. Next thing is sort of be appropriate. Don't talk about politics.
Regardless of where you are, whether you're on a hot date, you're at a hotel takeover, you're at a club, at a resort, just in general, these are like general kind of guidelines of appropriate etiquette. Good point, Good point. Like, don't be bragging about what you got or what you do. I think the lifestyle puts everyone sort of on the same playing field. You know, same ballpark, you know? Equal playing field. Right. Yes, yes. Beyond bragging, JR and I have to be very careful. You know, we don't want to talk politics because, you know what?
You don't know how that other person feels or believes, and it's not made for having fun. Right. We don't want to get that serious. No, and it can turn people off. Right. The country is so divided right now. Exactly. This is one place you don't have to do that. Exactly. We're all safe and happy together. Be nonjudgmental. Yes. And big thing, don't gossip about a couple. We see this somewhere. Oh, my gosh. Rule number one is no politics. Rule number two is no gossiping. Right. You cannot talk about other people. Oh, my gosh.
it sometimes oh my gosh really and and they're they're saying these things about these people and it's like like yeah but then are they gonna say that about me right so you you can't trust them so you don't right you don't want to walk away from them right yeah so Yeah. So, it's not good. Yeah. No talking about other people. Right. All you're focused on in those moments, whether it's a hot date or a connection, whatever, you're focused on talking about each other and yourselves. Right. I mean, all in all, you know, it makes you look bad and it diminishes trust. Right. Within the group.
It gossiping is like oh so just be cool yeah just be cool and enjoy exactly all right be approachable now you know you want to make you're there to make friends you're there to converse with people we'll go into a club with a bunch of let's say we go with 20 people And that's what we do. We travel in a posse. And we'll see a couple in the corner standing there. And we'll go over. Say, hey, how you doing? Right. It's just your first time here. But I'm going to start telling them, yeah, we'll talk a little bit. I say, well, we have a big group over here. Yeah, come on over.
And you see them not come over. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. A lot of times they don't. And then I check on them. I look at them. And they're still standing in it. Then they leave. Yeah. I'm like, why did you come here in the first place? Well, it's also, regardless of the situation, whether it's a club or it's a hotel takeover, it's a cruise, if you really want to get the most out of the experience, you have to put yourself out just a bit. You know, you have to get outside your comfort level just a bit and just say, hi, how are you? And try to start a conversation.
You know, I understand that it's uncomfortable and it's kind of new for some people, but none of us are going to, especially us that are experienced in the lifestyle we're not going to like attack you if you just want to say hi how are you and begin the conversation that's all it's the easiest place in the world a lifestyle situation to talk to people yes because people talk to you yes that's what they're there for and they will accept you yes and they will love you all that and they will appreciate you they will for putting yourself out even just a little bit you could talk about anything that's the greatest part i said to myself i say i thought where else can you say this yeah You can't say any of this any place else yeah so it's an anal sex conversation you can't talk about anything oh you like anal and how do you like it and like you know whatever it's the most comfortable place to bring some topics up that you wouldn't anywhere else exactly like you can be free and open.
Exactly. Read body language, facial expressions, kind of read what's going on. You may be talking about something, and you don't think it's inappropriate, but maybe the other couple does, and you get a funny face or a little squ, read, you know, read the signals. And then back off. Right. You know, if that doesn't seem like a topic they want to talk about or, you know, a situation. It's like you have to be adjustable and flexible. Well, mentally, verbally, and physically. Exactly. Other thing is we call this respect for the sexes. Yeah. What do we mean by that?
You know, if you meet a couple, like, don't, if you're the guy, they'll say, you know, couple, and the guy in this one couple starts texting, sexting, sexting? Yeah, sexting.
Sexting the other yeah sexting me yes you know all the time now that may not be cool with the other husband or boyfriend and it might not be cool with your partner as well well because so like so i always feel like there's a girl code and one of the greatest things that happened for jr and i when we were on the cruise last time is the female had a hall pass and she actually came up to me and she said i have a hall pass can jr have a hall pass too you know and so i was like so What did you say to that?
I said, J.R pass all the time yes yeah i said jr has a whole pass all the time but in any case yes it is true oh please in any case i was so appreciative that she came up it's like the girl code you know i mean like she says you know is it okay and i think that i think that couples need to set up their boundaries of what's good or not good for them so like for me i'm not all that really happy when i get all these girls that are texting or sexting j.R. Like they're sending naked photos and they're texting separately. And because I don't actually do that. So like a little bit of measure on that.
But as a couple, like we do it as a couple.
And typically what we're doing is that we're creating text messages between the four of us correct so so that we can all share in but that's just the way we do it that's usually cool with most people yes between the four of us between yeah yeah but you know like so two couples exactly like typically that's a very safe like you know you got the numbers, typically I don't even have the guys number, I have very few guys numbers, but in any case, but you have to decide that amongst yourselves, like between the two of you, are you good with texts from the outside and phone calls and photos and all of that Some people are So make sure that's clear between the two of you And it's also clear between that couple that you just met That's right Communication Yes, because you know what?
Communication There are some girls that can get Some wives that can get really pissed off Really pissed off, right And that maybe could have been avoidable You know, had you said Here's how we do it I'll see you next time.
lives that can get really pissed off really pissed off right and that maybe could have been avoidable you know had you said here's how we do it you know let's do it as a group or not i mean if you're open then go for it you know and the key is asking permission communication asking permission you know playing by playing by other people's rules and boundaries and all the rest of that. It's about thinking, am I going to hurt somebody else? Right. You know, you really have to keep other people in mind. Like, you know, we get in these situations where we're like, oh, my God, this is so great.
And then you step back and go, am I going to hurt anybody else by doing this? Because we have our natural urges and our natural desires, but we have to consider other people, whether it's our own partner or whether it's the partner to that other person. Right. Which brings us to house party etiquette. Yeah. Which plus club, cruises, a little different. So house party etiquette, we feel is different than club cruise resorts. We do. Hotel takeover. Yes. And why is that? House parties are a little more intimate. You probably know people a lot more. And it's in your home. It's in your home.
You know most of the people. Maybe you have one or two couples that are new. But when you're moving to a club cruise resort, hotel takeover, there's a lot of people you don't know. Exactly. It's more dangerous, too. Yeah, it's more risky here and there. I mean, you think about it. You know, J.R. and I, we go on a cruise. I'm not going to, like, go to some other dude's cabin that I don't know.
I mean there's three thousand to five thousand people on some of these cruises yeah so at a hotel takeover party you know if it's another couple's room that's a lot less scary than me walking into a man's room right yeah exactly yeah that's the point there right or trolling the halls like some people do the wife will go to sleep and a guy will troll the halls that's another thing like don't do that you're not supposed to actually it's against the rules on most hotel takeovers you have to be together all the time right which is never but it's okay it's okay yeah we're not going to argue that.
But there is a very different rule set in a house party situation. For us, it's just letting the other person know where we are. Like, I'm going to go with so-and-so into our bedroom and have sex. Yes. Okay. Right. You know. But it's not a hotel. It's not a cruise ship. It's not a resort. Like, I know he's going to be safe. Yeah, it's four finite walls around. Exactly. You know, how far can I get? But that's just us, like that's our rule, like that's how we feel.
I mean, you may be okay with something different, but make sure you clarify it.'s right that's right yeah yeah otherwise i'm out on the beach like you know laying in the sand which head in the head in the sand exactly one arm out you know like rigor mortis setting in but there's so much etiquette beyond just how you act appropriately. There's also like this whole aspect of J.R. and I go to a lot of parties and we host a lot of parties. Yeah, we do. And part of the etiquette is, is that we have a lot of friends and they say, hey, can I bring new friends? Right. This is our next bullet point.
Yeah. Inviting others. Yes. Inviting others. So they're very diplomatic way to do it. Exactly. So when you're invited to a house party, if you want to bring another couple, you text, email, call the host and say, hey, I've got this other couple they want to come to, is that okay? And my usual response is, send me their SLS profile, SP, whatever it is, profile, what are their names? Exactly. How do you know them? I have a few standard kind of questions. How long have you known them? Yeah. You know, it's those kind of things. Yeah. It can't just be a first hookup, actually. Right. Exactly.
Typically not. They have to know. They have to be vetted. Exactly. Especially for a house party. Right. Exactly. For a meet and greet, actually. Right. Exactly. Typically not. They have to know. They have to be vetted. Exactly. Especially for a house party. Right. Exactly. For a meet and greet, not so much. Doesn't matter. Or a club. Just come up. Come to the club. Yeah, yeah. It's not my house. I don't care. Yeah. Exactly. Last thing we're going to talk about is SLS. Yeah. The appropriateness. Yeah. You know, there's a lot of people in SLS. A lot of our friends are there.
But it's really someplace you can meet other people. Thank you. You favorite someone so you can remember them. It goes on your favorites list.
it's keeping them in a file for you yes it's keeping yes keeping them in your little yeah you know rolodex so you can remember whatever you can remember and look at them up later friends is totally different and it's not like i compare this to facebook it's not like facebook where you're making friends with every in the world you don't know it's it's not that friends on SLS is you you're really friends you know each other mm-hmm you know and then you then you go on a page and then they can see you you can see them it's it's like that I get so many we get we get some requests friends requests i never saw these people before right and they live in oshkosh my gosh who knows what the hell i don't know they live somewhere i don't even know where the place is yeah across across the world we don't use sls that way no yeah yeah we don't use sls as facebook if you're gonna do if you want to be friends, first of all, a message.
Not just hi. Oh, this is about communication. Yeah. It's not just hi. I want to say hi. We're this person and that person. We're so-and-so. And we saw your profile. We really thought it was interesting. We live across the country. We'd love to get together with you.
Maybe there you say something right you say something give a story then we can respond back then maybe become friends exactly right let's communicate and you're going to meet them maybe at desire or pearl or you know whatever or you fly out there who knows you know we've done that additional etiquette on sls if you're going to write a message and you're interested in another couple for instance We'll be right back. So we've done that additional etiquette on SLS.
If you're going to write a message and you're interested in another couple, for instance, write something nice that you, you know, you want to meet them. You think you're, they're hot, whatever. Give them your names, open up your face pictures so they can see you and have pictures of your guy. We see so many profiles where there's no pictures of the guy. It's a couple's thing, people. You got to have pictures of the guy. Else we're never going to meet you. That's our thing. That's one of our things. That's one of our red flags. No pictures of the guy. We're not, forget it. Not happening. Okay.
The other thing is, for instance, for our meet and greet, let us know you're coming. You've signed up on the RSVP. If you want us to recognize you at the meet and greet and talk to you, tell us your names and a message and open your pictures. Yes. Open your pictures. How are we going to recognize you? That's the point. How are we going to do that? Open your pictures. That's the point. So many people don't do that. Especially with the, especially what I talked about before. Someone sends you a friends request. They haven't sent you a message. They haven't opened their pictures.
Like, what are you doing? How are you going to be friends with that? Yeah, okay.
just get your head straight with that okay thanks yeah so that's sort of you know what you do there one of the greatest things that jr has done for us on sls is that you know we do get a lot of people approaching us and you know we're we are very normal average looking people you know so we are okay well you think you're hotter than i am but in any case like you know yeah we're a little hot right but the thing is is that we have our preferences like there are certain couples that we see and we say oh yeah they would be cool and it's so much more than just what you look like that's interesting that's a very interesting point you make up yeah because you know what you look like exactly and you know who's in and out of your league let's put it that way you know we.
We'll get couples that. Are too old, too young. Too whatever. Too fat, too skinny. Whatever. Whatever, right? But then we find this sweet spot. But they'll write to us, oh, we'd love to get together. You open the pictures. I'm like, oh, really? And I'm not trying to be mean. I'm not trying to say we're perfect. We're not. Like, you look at those pictures, and the woman has gray hair, and her boobs are down to her belly button. And then you see the other pictures where, in the opposite sense as well, they are so muscular. So ripped. Exactly. We're like, uh-uh. I'm not right now. No.
I'm not right now. We don't want them to be disappointed. Exactly.
We're but that's that's a good point right i'll see a couple that you know they've viewed us right there's a line on sls says here's who viewed us and i'll click it and these people are they're like 30 years old and they're ripped they're gym rats right i go i'm passing this one by you say the same thing again and again when they reach out what is your standard message okay not those people when people oh okay i thought you said it to everybody no well no i okay let me clarify when people write to us And we're, we're not compatible, we're not compatible, not interested.
So I always answer everybody. I will not ghost anybody yes because first of all we have a lifestyle links group out on sls we can you can join and you will get firsthand knowledge of what our events are with to do with where we're going to be. You should do that. In any case, baby. I'm selling this group. Okay. So in that case, I don't ghost anybody because there's everybody in that group. Everybody. The little shape, sizes, ages, everybody's in that group. Okay. So this is a couple that you know you and I are never going to hook up with. Right. What do you say?
I say, hi, we thank you for reaching out to us. Yeah. You two look like a lovely couple. However, we just don't feel that we're compatible with you. I don't feel that we're compatible with you i don't yeah and i say be well and happy that's how i end it be well and happy but you responded and that's the kind of way i respond very very you responded you didn't ignore them we're respectful thank you for reaching out you know you look like you look like a great couple, but we don't feel we're compatible. Which is so fair. And they'll write back, oh, thank you very much for writing back. They do.
I've never once had anyone write back, oh, you don't like this, blah. Not once. So that's being gracious. Yes. That's being kind. That's being, and you know what? We expect you to be that way as well. I'll see you next time. So that's being gracious. Yes. That's being kind. That's being, and you know what? We expect you to be that way as well. Sorry, but we do. We do. Like, this is what lifestyle is about. You know, you're going to find amazing, beautiful, sexy people that are perfect for you. You're also going to find people that, no, you're not going to hook up with.
But get to the next level and be kind to them as well. Right. And some people just write, I'm sure it's the guy, some people write, oh, she's sexy. That's a message I'll get. And I just write, thank you very much. That's it. I answered them. I say, thank you very much, because what else are you going to say to that? Right. Yeah, because they're not all that interesting. That's all they're going to say. Right. Yeah. Well, they live in, you know, somewhere in Salt Lake City, Utah. I mean, we're not getting together anytime soon. I like Salt Lake. We can go there. I know.
You know what I'm saying. He's hiding all those for me. You know what I'm saying. But etiquette is, like, so important. So important. I think it comes down to understanding that not everybody is on the same page as you are. That's right. And also understanding that it's like such a beautiful place to be. And let's just all have fun. Well, you said it. Be gracious. Be kind. Yep. Communicate. I mean, you know, that's it, you know? That's it. All right.
Well, that's the end of our 33 main topic so stay tuned for what's coming up next next welcome back to episode 33 and now we're going to talk about I'll see's our time. Yes. March 7th, 7 p.m. Saturday, March 7th. 7 p.m. to 10.30 p.m. You can stay late in that, but that's our time slot for the kind of private event. Yes. This is going to be at the Revolution Bar and Social Club. Yes, right on South Street. Exactly. That's what it is. So here, you park in the garage on DeHart. Which is the street right next to it. Yes, so you come down South Street and bang the garage on DeHart.
Which is the street right next to it. So you come down South Street and bang a right on DeHart. Or left, depending which way you're coming from. It's right before the green. Yeah, exactly. So the place that we've gotten is normally for kids, but the kids aren't going to be there yet. Well, not kids. Let's not say kids. olds It's not like kids It's not like a playground With romper room In any case it's a really cool bar So from the parking garage you come out There's a little alleyway And a rear entrance right into the club You don't have to go around the block You You can if you want.
Exactly. But you can come to the front entrance and then go down the stairs and we've got the whole downstairs. It's called the foundation room. I think it says it anywhere. But it's this long bar, very industrial looking and we have access to this VIP couch section as well. It'll be fun. You have to realize the last time J&R had a mean great the the we had to shut it down like we had so many people respond that we had to choose a different venue we could take like 500 people now we had to the place next to it the dance so there's only about 100 people right now.
That's a little more than that. But in any case. A little more. 520, right? Yeah. But it'll be so cool. So Saturday, March 7th, 7 to 1030. Come to Morristown. Revolution. Yes. Revolution Club right there. Park in the garage. Park in the garage. Walk out the back right into the back door. And you know the really cool thing about a meet and greet is that no expectations. You just like meet and greet and, hey, you want to get a hotel room? Or maybe you'll see them again another time. It's like that's the beauty of it. So there is a thruple couple that has posted.
And if you've got to come, first, if you're going to come, there's an RSVP. We would like you to. We would really appreciate it. So on SLS, you go to events. Yes. And there's a tab that says SLS groups. Click that. And if you're in our area, it should be the first lifestyle links, meet and greet. It should be the first thing. Click that and say, yes, we're attending.
And then please post a hot day for that yes that way more people are gonna see it more people are gonna come you're gonna meet more people you have more people more things yeah it's so good it's so good to do that yeah to do it it's gonna be epic actually it's gonna be really it's gonna be like the biggest meet and greet ever it's free entry and drinks well you have to pay for your drinks right you gotta pay for your drinks but you pay for what you drink yeah yeah it's a bar there's no entrance fee there's no nothing exactly free attendance it's awesome easy it's so easy so i got people asking me oh i got i got questions what questions you could possibly have you show up that's it i know i questions do you possibly have?
You show up. That's it. I know, I know. Show up. You know what? New people always have questions. Oh, is it going to be loud? No. It's not going to be loud. It's not going to be loud. The music will not. So we want everybody to be able to talk to each other. Exactly. And meet. Now, later on, after 10.30, the DJ is going to go on down there. And then you can stay. You can stay, if you want, and then go whatever you want to do. But then it'll get loud. At 10.30, it's going to get loud. Yeah. Because all the kids are going to come down and they're going to do like...
I say the kids, but you know what I mean? Don't say the kids. I mean the young people. The young adults. My sons. Oh, then I'm not going to be there. No, my sons aren't going to be there, but you know what I mean, like the 20 and 30-year-olds. But there's no pressure. There's nothing. It's not on premise. You can't get naked. You can't do anything. Right, right. Talk to people. Get as sexy as you want. Well, you can book a hotel room in advance and plan on it. There is a hotel. These people did that. They planned the hotel. they invited on their hot date.
They said they booked the hotel, which is almost, of course, the state at the Hyatt and we're hoping to have people back. Exactly. That's fine. Which is great. Perfectly fine. That's what we want. Yes. Yes. So that is March 7th, Morristown. Be there. Yes. Go on SLS. And then we're going to do yet another meet and greet. We are. And that's going to be in Pennsylvania. There is a really cool casino with hotels attached to it. So we'll probably get a couple, few rooms, whatever it's going to be. I'm not worried about right now.
Let's just take one step at a time here In any case It's Friday April 3rd It's the Friday before April 3rd Yeah The Friday before Easter Which is We think a good night You know You're two days away from Easter Sunday Exactly You could prepare on Saturday What are you doing Friday night? Come here Exactly Come here. Exactly. Right. Come to the meeting room. And we love the Valley Forge Casino. It's really, it's fun. It's small and cool. There's no formality to it. Yes. That's what I want to say. Casual. It's casual. There's no formality. It's casual. It's loose. Super fun. Super fun.
And it's also nice for us because. And that's a good point. We're meeting at the bar. So when you come in, you go through security. It's no big deal security. You say hello. Then you go through. And when you approach this big bar in the middle, right there in the front. Thank you. You need to get the bar. So when you come in, you're going to go through security. It's no big deal, security. You say, hello. Then you go through. And when you approach this big bar in the middle, right there in the front, there's like a DJ booth and a little dance floor and stuff. That would be right there.
You won't be able to miss us. Exactly. Well. Well. Yeah. Okay. You won't be able to miss all of us. Right. Exactly. Okay. or JR But not the rest of us So that's super cool And then so then after that Because I've been kind of transplanted Down to Delaware For a new temporary position I'm thinking Oh yeah, JR So we're going to do this thing back and forth. And we have some really good lifestyle friends down in Delaware. Right. There's a lot of action down there. Well, there's also a demand. There's not enough stuff going on. That's true. But there's a lot of people there that are lifestyle.
There are. There are. But they don't have stuff to do. So, lifestyle links to the rescue. Exactly. And so, initially, I was thinking down by the beaches, but then we're like, oh, that's too far south. And so, I think we're going to do something in Dover. A little further north. Yeah, yeah. Like Dover, like the central, like the central thing. Yeah, Dover. So, that's going to come. Wilmington, somewhere in there. Yeah. Well, Wilmington's a little north, but in any case, so that's going to come up. What do I know? He doesn't know geography. I don't know anything. Well, not from Delaware.
In any case, we're going to plan something in Dover. We are. Like end of April, beginning of May. Yeah, somewhere in there. Yeah, yeah. Cool. And then further into the year, we're going to do something Caliente or Eyes Wide Shut in the Tampa area of Florida. Caliente is in Land of Lakes and Eyes Wide Shut is in Tampa. Yeah. We're thinking we're going to go there this summer. And then probably Labor Day weekend, maybe do maybe Desire Pearl Labor Day weekend. I'm thinking we might try to get a group together. Yeah, we are. We'll do that. And, you know, we do things weekends at Sunny Rest.
And we'll do that again. Boat Regatta thing. We can do that. And we do the last weekend in September. Yeah, we're Boat Garden Regatta. We'll be there that weekend. Well, the other thing, which I forgot to put on the list, is April of 2027. The cruise. The cruise. The Blitz Cruise. The Blitz Cruise. Which we're sponsoring a whole group of people on the Blitz Cruise. We got a whole section already. There's still space. There is still space.
There's still space to add you to this fantastic event where you can be in a bliss cruise with us and our posse and if you haven't been on it before yeah there's a perfect opportunity because you could be with our group who knows what they're doing we could teach you tell you how to operate where to go what to see yeah what to do with the kind of the cadence is around we take care of you we do that's the thing like so I actually get up at 8 o'clock in the morning I go down to the pool around the ship and we take care of you we do that's the thing like so i actually get up at eight o'clock in the morning and i go down to the pool not me and i save us not lounge chairs i save us a spot on these occasional chairs chairs just to the left of the bar right and it's very comfy chairs and i sit there for hours waiting for you To wake up But you know what It's so fun And I'm happy to do it It's so funny people show up When she's sitting there And they're still hung over It's hysterical No it's so funny when JR shows up Like three hours later.
It's like, yeah. It's not really three hours maybe. Yeah. But anyway, check that out. It's okay. I enjoy it. So I'm happy to do it for you. So please join us and I'll take care of you and J.R. will take care of you. That's the thing. Like there's no other cruise experience that could ever give you anything because you're just a number. But with us, you mean something. So make sure you go to LifestyleLinks.com. It's L-Y-N-X. All our events are listed there. This podcast is there. You can click on different streaming sites where you can listen to this and, you know, just join us. Join us.
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