Episode 6 features an interview with a couple discussing their journey from Newbies to Knowbies as our Main Topic. What Have We Done Lately , covers a 100-person house party with intimate details and a fabulous, quick trip to Caliente Resort including a sizzling three-some encounter. Where We Are Going Next highlights the very popular July 21-22 ShareNation Pool White Party, a second White Party in the prestigious Hamptons, Long Island NY, a long weekend at Sunny Rest Resort in Pennsylvania and finally a house party of our own mid-August.Visit us at https://www.LifestyleLynx.com for related Adult Events, Cruises, Resorts, Clubs, Parties, Meet Greets, Swinger Websites and more...
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hello you beautiful people i am jr and i'm d we have been in the lifestyle for seven plus years and we're here to share our sexy stories and experiences if you're not 18 this podcast is not for you and if you are please go visit lifestylinks.com that's l-y-n-x hello beautiful people this is episode six and the title of this episode is from newbies to nobies and that's k-n-o-w-b's by the way yeah exactly and that's going to be our main topic exactly yeah we're we have an interview with some dear friends of ours and uh they're going gonna talk about their journey and the lifestyle was a slow journey Yeah, but this particular segment is is what it's what have we done lately and what is that well goodness?
So recently we got to go to a spectacular house party.
It's hosted by our friends J and a correct and they do it twice a year twice a year this was summer solstice correct they also have winter solstice yeah they do yeah which is and they line those up right with those deeds they do and we were fortunate enough to go to the chop lock and what that is they do a theme sort of cuisine yes this time it was vietnamese right other times it's what oh it's been everything it's been french it's been thai it's been all sorts of stuff so what they do is they crazy stuff too yeah they provide all the ingredients you know the protein and the vegetables and this and that and we cut them up chop them up yep you bring a cutting board and a knife we do yeah then we put them all together there's about 20 of us yeah we break into groups about three hours before the main right and we make four to five different recipes we do yep we have team captains it's super fun yeah super fun yeah it's great and the food's great yeah yeah great crowd but then the real party starts exactly hello that's a little bit of a crazy orgy yeah yeah it's it's actually it's it's not for newbies yeah probably not yeah yeah probably you could be a newbie and stay on the main floor right so there's a main floor where there's more like interaction and sort of just mingling mingling and talking this and that but upstairs right you're naked and having yes fun yeah yeah like lots of fun yeah so we got very lucky we did jnas because one of our good single girlfriends jay you might remember her from the last episode right she was the one that talked about the chiropractor that's right yeah in the yeah yeah sure nation uh live podcast sort of thing yeah right right so she actually brought a guy she did which was my first time ever you have to realize that jr and i have been doing lifestyle for eight years and i've been sharing my man with single girls all this time and this is actually the first time that a single girl shared her man with me right and that was great yes and he was good right Thank you.
and this is actually the first time that a single girl shared her man with me right and that was great yes and he was good right he was beautiful he was beautiful yeah he's ex-military yeah very fit very fit very handsome handsome yeah blue eyes right uh a light-skinned black man with blue eyes I even commented yes after words yeah would you say to him I said you should be beautiful you beautiful eyes thank you very much but it was a great experience um so we got to the room yeah let's go into it let's go into it so we get to the room and it was just instantly very comfortable and like we were all attracted to each other exactly and so jr and j went down to the air mattress on the floor yeah at first and then and you guys were on the bed and yeah we were on the bed and the really neat thing is that i don't orgasm easily.
That's correct. But in this instance, it didn't take me too long. It did not. Yes. And what I really liked about him, I kind of find this happens to me often is that when I'm with a new person, I like to try different things to just kind of try it on for size, different positions. And I was able to orgasm with him. And of course, he got to orgasm with me. There you go. Yeah, which was super cool. But then you and Jay. Yeah, we said, let's go up to the bed. Right. So then it was the four of us. Yeah, on the bed. On the bed. Yeah, it was good. Which was, and you've been with Jay before. I have.
So that's a good connection. Yeah, it was a warm connection.
Yeah so that was a very good full swap full swap and you know and the other bedrooms upstairs were at that point were full right a lot of people up there you know yeah you know having you know orgasms and well it's being having sex and whatever it was great some of the some of the rooms it'll just be like maybe two couples other rooms will be six or eight and some of the rooms you can get more than that and there's another room where he has a andrew's cross right where he puts you know yeah women for people that are into that exactly but i was so grateful to jay um thank you girl uh we have known so many other single girls in our eight years.
And a lot of times what happens is they will hang out with us when they're single. And then all of a sudden, they get a boyfriend. A vanilla boyfriend. And I've been sharing my man with her all this time. And then she gets a guy, and she's not sharing him with me. Or she's totally out of the lifestyle. Gone. Yeah. Like, ghosted. That's happened. That happens all the time. Yeah, quite a bit. Yeah. Yeah. So, what else have we done lately? What's the next thing? I don't know. What did we do lately? Oh, Caliente. Yes. Yeah. And a big shout out. Big shout out.
To J and got us rooms not rooms but condos yes right they had what they what did they had points their members their members right yeah so they got two different condos condos two bedroom condos right two two bedroom condos and the first condo it was jay and v who got them with with jay and c who were on our podcast the good the bad the ugly that was our interview people right and then we had l a single girlfriend a single girlfriend with us in our room hello people in our condo hello i know yeah well yeah it was our first time at caliante right well we know her right we've known her for years we met on a cruise years ago right and so it was a beautiful resort the pool was fabulous friday fantastic at the pool warm beautiful in the water with cocktails you know it was great it was but saturday it was raining rain like like ridiculous tropical storms ridiculous so what do you do what do we do yeah what did what did we do what was recently jr's birthday oh that's right right and so l and i were his birthday present oh it was it was beautiful.
It was great. It was great. So, we're, you know, in the bed, in our bedroom. Yeah. I had the two girls and, you know, I'm mostly with. Elle. Yeah. But I'm there because her and I are really good friends. Right. And I'm and I'm especially I'm good being bi with her because we're we love each other and it's easy it's easy for me to kiss her and touch her and her and I are touching JR at the same time so I'm having sex with her but I'm kissing both of them and I'm sucking both their breasts at the same time we're kind of all touching each other the big thing was what?
right there was a mirror the mirror on the headboard yeah so the same time kind of all touching each other the big thing was what right there was a mirror the mirror at the on the headboard yeah yeah so the headboard was a freaking mirror right and i'm like look i go i look up and like oh my god this is this is really cool he could see himself with two girls freaking bird's eye view of the action it was great great. So that was a beautiful birthday present. But then we got home and what happened. That's right. So then we got home. Well, no.
When we were there, we both looked at each other and we said, we have a mirror. And our bed. We've never done it this way. Yeah. We used to do it sideways. Yeah. So a couple of days ago, we did it. We turned around. Yeah. This is really great. Right. So we learned something. Yeah. Crazy. It gave us inspiration to do something new. It took us 10 years to turn around. Okay, all right, fine. All right, good. But we will go back to Caliente. We will. Yes. We'll probably get a group together. We're going to try that. Yeah. It was really great. They have a couple different special things.
They have a five-night, what is it, five-night, four-day for like $5.99 in the hotel? It's vice versa. Yeah. It's four-night, five-day. Is that what you said? I'm not sure. Whatever it is. But we met the membership director. We did. Who is also a singer. Fantastic singer. Yeah. And she she went on the she was singing this like old standard song and she went on to the piano with like a split dress on and it was like so sexy yeah she's pretty yeah she's yeah and sweet too oh yeah oh my god we met so many nice people really good highly recommended highly recommend.
It's not far from the Tampa airport. You can get to it pretty easily. Caliente, recommended highly. It was awesome. It was good. And we met some new people. Yeah. It was great. Yeah. It was really good. So that's what we've done lately. That's right. And now we're going to talk about our friends that were newbies. Al? Nobies. So listen, we'll just hang in there. And in a few seconds, you hear from us. Okay. Hello, people.
this is one of our segments where we have guests in the studio we have our very good friends r and l which we've met and i think it's been quite a while right how long have we known each other it's Yeah. Yeah. And I will describe these sexy people sitting in the studio with us. Oh, cool. Go ahead. We're going to call her Luscious Elle. That's right. She has the most beautiful hair. Oh, my goodness. And, of course, her breasts are spectacular. They are. I've been there.
Don't't worry about it and are a way to describe are ready to go are ready to go like that yeah yes because he is always ready to go and he's very fit and very sweet and thin and good looking yes all the rest of that good stuff But not too thin. No, thanks. Yes, yes. Right. And he's also handy. Yes.
sweet and thin and good looking yes all the rest of that good stuff but not too thin no thanks yes yes and he's also handy yes and i love handymen so how did we meet tell us okay so we were at an ipg party and it was our very first takeover yes we were newbies yes and we were basically deer in the headlights yes you were oh my god i remember i think we were up against the wall and we've mentioned this we tend to gravitate to those people that are kind of huddled in the corner looking like scared so well we appreciated that because we didn't know what was going on we didn't know what to do yes so we see d in the hallway and d approached us and asked us our names and took it from there yeah and started to chat and there was this other couple we friended them as well and they were also new in lifestyle that's right right so we we happened to have a jacuzzi suite.
And we said, why don't we go back to our room? And both couples were like, oh, we're kind of new. We're like, nothing needs to happen. We're just going to have a good time, have a couple of drinks. Yeah, go ahead. You guys were very good about that. Yeah. We felt that their first time that we were going to have to jump right in. And we never feel pressured to do anything. Right. Cause that was your worry. You show up to a hotel, take a party, your first one. It was our first one. We were at a sex club before, but we just were like warriors. We just kind of looked around. Right.
And we just didn't know what to expect. And we just thought you were inviting us to our room. We were like pressured into doing something. But we made it clear happen we're just gonna have a good time we have a jacuzzi we're all going in the jacuzzi right that's right and get to know each other yes we had w and t with us we all went back and we all just kind of it was the six of us six of us and we jumped in this jacuzzi made for four yes yes it was tight, but it was a lot of fun. And the crazy thing is, he was a wrestler. Yeah, right. And I knew a lot about wrestling.
So we were like practicing moves on each other. And then, didn't a funny thing happen where he put on a piece of my lingerie? Yes, that was hyster we were laughing so hard so the five of us are in the hot tub and he leaves the room where the hot tub is and he puts on a piece of these lingerie and he comes back in and it fit him it did yeah he was small yeah yeah but i like small guys so i i was completely good but it was there i think it might have been there first Hotel Jack Dover Party as well. Yeah, yeah. But I like small guys, so I was completely good.
But it was their, I think it might have been their first hotel takeover party as well. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. So we had two newbie couples that were kind of introduced to just have fun. Right. That's it. Just have fun. And it didn't matter, really. It didn't matter at all. Yeah. It didn't matter.
So basically, from the point of view from a newbie, we thought,'t know what to expect yes exactly we thought going in we were very excited we wanted to see what it was all about but we honestly thought that we were gonna get raped by a gang of people which we weren't ready for right right exactly d and r came in and made us feel very comfortable and welcome and we invited them to our wedding yeah a couple years later years later yeah that was a vanilla thing we did it was a vanilla thing it was like our kids were there it was like two couples you invited it was us lifestyle and the other couple's sort of lifestyle yes yes and that was it it was so much fun yeah and then of course later your daughter your older daughter kind of knows yes right she does so oh yeah this is hysterical she says to her daughter like a week later two weeks later so can you guess who our friends at the wedding were actually the lifestyle couple and your daughter guessed one guess yeah yes jr jr and d yes she could tell although i mean we didn't act any no differently no no no you're very respectful no yeah but she could kind of yeah You didn't come in lingerie or anything.
No, no. We looked like everybody else, I guess. I think it was because we were friendly to everyone. We met your friend. Yes. We were just talking to everyone. We were friendly to everyone. And it was a beautiful wedding on the beach. On the beach. It was great. Yes. I mean, they were married with the ocean in the background. And then the reception was this beautiful, like, seaside resort. Yeah, it was cool. And we're glad you guys were there, because you guys are our first, you know, introduction into the lifestyle. Yes. Right.
The thing that we never understood getting into the lifestyle was, we just thought that once you get in, you just have sex and that's it no see and that's we never realized there were so many different levels right you can go in there you could be a voyeur you can do soft swap you could do hard you know full swap you yeah let's talk about that so people that are not in the lifestyle i think it's like a big orgy we just get together there is different levels yes that's what we thought we was that as soon as you get in you just have to go into an orgy and that's it and like i gotta say when they first came into the lifestyle well they took their time they did but they had this rule and the rule and the rule was we had a lot of rules and he came there says listen we had this one thing we're gonna keep for ourselves and we want to just bounce it off you i go okay what is that we're going to hold kissing for us i'm like no i understood it pick something like anal all right well i i was able to kiss the female counterpart right but we were not able to kiss the opposite sex right and that was something that we felt comfortable with at the time sure first you understand one thing this is a new marriage for us when actually when we met you you weren't yet married before this marriage neither of us did anything like this in the lifestyle or anything like it even though we wanted to even though we both wanted to yes but we talked about it once we, levels.
So we started at the very slow, basic level. Some people jump in head first, and we just went little by little. At first, we went to a sex club, and we'd have sex next to another couple. We would watch other people. They would watch us. Then we went to SoftSwap. With another couple. For a very long time.
We stayed at soft swap yeah how long do you think you were two to three years yeah you stayed at soft swap and then we gradually got into full very slowly yes everything we did was we were just check with each other and make sure we were comfortable with it which is the right thing to do yes and when we were comfortable we'd say hey let's try a little bit more and every level along the way i was so what surprised me so much is that everybody that we were with was so respectful of what our level was nobody ever tried to force us into doing more than we wanted to do and that's sort of i think that's sort of normal for the lifestyle yeah which was surprised me yeah if people out there if you're finding people not respectful that's sort of normal for the lifestyle.
Yeah, which would surprise me. Yeah. If people out there, if you find people not respectful, that's sort of a red flag. Yes. People are very respectful. They wanted to come in at your level, and they'll work with that. Well, good people will. Yeah. And if they don't, again, red flag, you know. Right. People you want to stay away from. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. But now, of course, you know. You've graduated. Yeah. You've graduated.
We've come a long way baby so the thing that i would say that is most important with every level we've ever been is the only thing that's important is what level you're at with your partner so as long as you're both on the same level you know i've seen couples that like the the husband's trying to push the wife into doing more than she wants to do and vice versa yes so as long as you're on the both in the same level that's all that counts it don't matter if you're at the lowest level or if you're full swap you're right and separate rooms open marriages whatever it don't matter as long as you're both okay with it yeah right exactly that's all that matters so i think we were one of your first uh full swap couples yes you are which was great for us it was worth waiting for yes yes it was and you guys are very patient broke the cherries so to speak i think that a lot of people don't understand what the lifestyle really is.
Yes, exactly. It's not just about sex. It's about connection. It's about friendship. It's about just having things in common and being able to share them. I think a lot of people, people who are not in the lifestyle, have these fantasies. And they don't get to live them out.
yeah because the other partner is jealous or doesn't understand but i honestly think that the majority of people have these feelings that they want to you know act out yeah and explore yeah exactly because we were talking at dinner it's like you guys still have things you want to explore i mean it's like it never ends it's like oh maybe we should try this or maybe we should do that all right it opens up a whole new world and it can be very healthy it doesn't have to be what people who aren't in the lifestyle think about people who are right yeah i think there's it's important to communicate yeah, right before this, we were out to dinner.
So we came back and Elle made these delicious Manhattans. Yes. She's a good bartender. Grandma, yay. Oh, yeah, fantastic. Yeah. And we're drinking them right now, by the way. Yes. They are good. Now, you guys have gotten to go to lots of lifestyle resorts. Yes.
So tell us where you've been and what you like what's your favorite reasons why so what's your favorite place to go all right so we've been to hito four times we've been to desire pearl three times desire rm once caliente once um i think that's about it as far as the uh resorts the resorts yeah um so you can see how they've blossomed the people Thank you.
once um i think that's about it as far as the uh resorts the resorts yeah um so you can see how they've blossomed the people yeah oh yeah there's a story i think that where you were at pearl recently and they were at the pool party and nobody was having sex was that at pearl that was the last time we were at pearl yeah yeah it was a little slow and we were at the jacuzzi the hot tub and we were in the beds and nobody was having sex and i said come on let's go to our and and we did and and afterwards we got a standing Oh, and then and then everybody else and then everybody else started having sex so we we just started it kind of broke the ice but we wouldn't have done that in the first time that we went so this was you know we've been in the lifestyle for seven years now yeah so very different from the first time yeah and just like you like you go to a bar and there's a band playing and nobody's dancing yes you know one of the couples has to get up and be the first people to dance and that's actually what you did in that instance you know nobody was having sex and you're like right this is this is not fun here let's show them how to do it.
Exactly. And you guys started doing it. And then I'm sure everybody was grateful. Yes. Yes. So you like Pearl. We do. But you like Hedo, too. We love Hedo. There's different vibes at both places. Right. Each place. But they're all good, though. You're in a sensual place. And you're going to go to the new place, right? Yes. Yes.
We get reservations to go to dr which is the new the grand mitches grand mitches and temptation yes so we'll have to follow up with you guys yes it's brand new it's just opened up right and there's two of them next door to each other it is uh grand and the regular yeah next door yeah we're looking forward to hearing that story the grand is more lifestyle grand is couples only and single women okay sure yes and beaches is is singles and whoever and yeah and whoever yes temptations is a lifestyle resort it's just topless it's not naked but it is a lifestyle resort that sounds super fun yeah so you've progressed so far that during your last house party arg gets to say to me oh i went to the last house party and i got to have sex with four women and none of them were my wife la-di-da yeah so i'm like okay tell me how that went and i'm like good for you that you're able to go four times that's why they call him superman we're gonna follow up with this couple because they have lots of stuff coming up and lots of events and lots of uh resorts they're gonna go to this was a good guest segment and uh we will talk to you all very very soon thank you guys for having us here okay people after that sizzling expose what do we have next yeah we talk about what we're doing next that's true yes usually yeah and so what is that i don't know what's on the calendar let's read the read the notes here right so it's the share nation hotel takeover party correct And we've talked about that.
And here it is again. It's July 21st, 22nd. And it's this coming weekend, as we're recording this, obviously. And you can go to our website, LifestyleLinks, L-Y-N-X.com, to get tickets. If you want to be part of that, and you do, I'm telling you. If you're anywhere close to northern New Jersey, you owe it to yourself to come to this. It's a really, really good event. Right. Because Friday night, the theme is superheroes and villains. And villains. Correct. Right.
And then Saturday during the day is a pool party and we're hosting that right of course there'll be a foam party thing we have a big foam thing that goes across the pool and we're gonna do a car wash right and probably maybe trivia again i'm not sure naughty trivia was naughty trivia and there's a couple of the things that we have. Some other raunchy things. Yeah, raunchy things. Yeah, it's going to be good. And then Saturday night is the white party. The big white party. And we've talked about this, how cool that is. Everyone dresses in white, and it's very angelic. It is. It is. It's cool.
It's awesome. It's great. It's fun. Yeah.
And's there's after parties right upstairs huge oh yeah huge it's interesting i mean share nation is such a beautiful place there's so many beautiful people there's everybody for somebody and it's just a beautiful atmosphere everybody gets along so well it's so sexy we highly recommend it they have a second white party yeah gonna be our first and this is in the prestigious long island new york exactly east of new york city so it's out there and it's beautiful and we've never been to this one we have not so it's our first time but it's been going on for a while a long time but party starts.
At 3 p.m. on Saturday and goes until 3 a.m. A.m. Yeah. The next day. Yeah. Big, big party. Yeah. So, we're looking forward to that. And then after that, we have sunny rest. We do. And we've been there before. We love it. Yeah. It's a great place. It's in the woods of… P.A. Yeah. Not too far from the Poconos. Yeah, not too far. Yeah. Yeah. But it's a great place. It's in the woods of PA. Yeah. Not too far from the Poconos. Yeah, not too far. Yeah. But it's a great place. It's very private. So it's a campground that was originally a nudist campground. Correct. But it's kind of shifted.
So now that it's about 75% swingers. Yeah, more swingers now. Yeah. We know a bunch of people there. And so C so cnc invited us they did and they're bringing a camper or something right but they invited a ton of people who are going to stay in the camper so we said oh we know the people we're going to stay with m and d that's correct yeah and actually he's a dj there he is a dj there and. Right. Yes. Yeah, they're super cool people. And they have a sort of a camper, but it doesn't even look like that anymore. They add decks, and they add on. He has a tiki bar. Outdoor kitchen.
Kitchen, refrigerators, music. Outside sound system. It's crazy. No, that camper doesn't move. It does not. And there are so many fun people there. So we're going to get to hang out with C&C, M&D. There's other people we know, too. Right. Which will be, like, super fun. And then after that, we are having our own house party. That's right. I almost forgot. Mid-August, we're going to have our own house party. If you've followed our episodes and podcasts, you've heard about our house parties. You know, deck parties and this and that. Right. We should have about maybe 50 people. 50, 55, yeah.
Yeah, something like that. That's good. And we have a playroom downstairs we set up. And there's a bar. Downstairs. There's a set up and there's a bar and downstairs there's a playroom there's a bar and of course the studio and sometimes we get crazy and we do karaoke in here we do people get crazy we have to shut the door though because sometimes people are still having sex on the air mattresses and then we're in here you know having karaoke it's like okay shut the door and then we get in here and get crazy so it's like a rehearsal studio for a band Thank you.
and then we're in here you know having karaoke it's like okay shut the door and then we get in here and get crazy so it's like a rehearsal studio for a band and a recording studio this bigger equipment since jr is the and he's been a drummer since he's been nine so and he's always in a band and the band practices here so it's it's great sounds but it sounds beautiful what's neat about our house party is that so we have have playroom downstairs, you know, and then upstairs we have bedrooms. That's right. And people go up there. And that's normally a little smaller group.
So down here we've got, you know, you can get a pretty good orgy going on down here. We have four different air mattresses down here. And then upstairs it's like bedrooms. But the rule is. The rule is. Right. So I have signs up that says, if you're a squirter, and you know who you are, proceed to the lower level immediately. Because people are sleeping in those beds. You don't want to get a little messed up here. But I've already thought about my recipes. I'm making two, like, cool different dishes. Right. We should mention that. Yeah. We make food. We have actual, you know. Real food.
Real food. Yeah. And people will bring. Appetizers. Appetizers, desserts. And their own drinks. Right. So there's a lot of. And I'm the one that cooks. That's right. But what does JR do? I set up everything. The chafing dishes. The chafing dishes. Thank you very much. Their own drinks and this and that. So there's a lot of. And I'm the one that cooks. That's right. But what does JR do? I set up everything. The chafing dishes. The chafing dishes. And the sternos. The sternos. And the outdoor stuff. The lights and the music. So it works out. So we're really looking for it.
Takes me a couple days to get it all together. I know. Especially the outside area. Right. Like we have a sun sale and a. Yeah. A whole big furniture. A whole big.
of our future podcasts we're going to talk about for us the advantages of house parties yeah yeah we will we should probably do that next maybe it might be part of what our yeah so next episode is not going to be an interview it's not back to our regular sort of format where we have a topic and maybe that's a great idea maybe that's what is house parties yeah and there is truly advantages of that and we'll get into that yeah we want to thank you so much for listening and be sure to visit our website at LifestyleLinks.com. And that's L-Y-N-X. Goodbye, you next time.
