Episode 28: Girls Gone BiAugust 2025‘Main Topic’: We attempt to define the three (3) categories of ‘Bi’ and clear up any confusion surrounding the different ‘Bi’ terms used in conjunction Girl-Girl Action. The discussion includes Dee’s own experiences and JR’s extensive ‘observations!’‘What Have We Done Lately’: An extended weekend trip to Sunny Rest Resort for the Regatta Event provided some memorable moments especially for one lucky lady and JR! Our Sexy August 9th House Party was beyond ‘Full Swing’ with over 60 people in attendance while JR ‘Doubled Down’. Plus, several Bi women made the evening a Big Splash! Details on this are at the ‘tail end’ of our Main Topic. ‘Where We Are Going Next’: Friday August 29 we are hosting a Meet Greet where my Pop/Rock Band will be performing again at Patrick’s Pub, Lake Hopatcong NJ. September 5 6 is ShareNation Detention/White Party Weekend where we will be hosting the Couples Speed Dating and Sexy Pool Party. ‘Teddy-Love-Adult-Toys’ will be onsite as well. Two friends’ house parties should provide some interesting mid-month excitement and shenanigans. We close out September at Sunny Rest for their ‘Last Blast’ weekend and Halloween Party (YES in September!) But we are not done, “Don’t You Worry”! Oct 2-10 we will be in Cancun at Desire RM Pearl. Oct 31-Nov 1 is the ShareNation Halloween Party so get your Tickets at LifestyleLynx.com. Nov 8-15 we are on the ‘Sold Out’ Bliss Cruise. The 2026 February April Cruises are sold out with November nearing capacity, so book our April 2027 Bliss Cruise group event with our Posse. Check our website LifestyleLynx.com Events Page 2, for Booking with a Special Perk while there are still good cabins available.For booking a Bliss Cruise, your next IPG and ShareNation Events, visit: https://lifestylelynx.com/events%2Ftrips%2FcruisesVisit us at https://www.LifestyleLynx.com for related Adult Events, Cruises, Resorts, Clubs, Parties, Meet Greets, Swinger Websites and more...
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hello you beautiful people i am jr and i'm d and we're here to share our sexy stories and experiences if you're not 18 this podcast is not for you. And if you are, please go visit LifestyleLinks.com. That's L-Y-N-X. Hello, beautiful people. Welcome to episode number 28. And Dee, what is the name of this episode? It is named Girls Gone By. Girls Gone By. Oh my God, okay. Instead of Girls Gone Wild. Right, exactly. Instead of Girls Gone Wild, Girls Gone By. Exactly. And we have very explicit- Information. Information, hand-to-hand contact. Hand-to-hand. Combat.
and then contact combat contact exactly so anyway oh my goodness so what have we done this is what we've done lately is that right right no no so yes now we do the segment where it's called what have you done lately i thought so right i thought so okay but the first thing that we've done lately what is jr had a really good month i did i really did he's been busy he's been busy oh wow good for him so what have we done lately well we went to sunny rest we did with our dear friends m and d we did at their place. We did. He's the one that officiated our wedding. Correct.
He's a DJ and all the rest of the stuff there like that. Yeah, exactly. And it was so much fun. We did the regatta thing. Which is the boat race. The boat races with the cardboard boxes. And I got sucked into that, so to speak. And I did, too. So they had like seven couples that were going to do it. Seven groups. Seven groups, and they needed number eight. One more boat. So he enlisted these two females, right? Well, they were just the rowers. And we put the boat together. We did it. Right. No, we all put the boat together for these beautiful girls. And we had like two hours.
And they did so good. We only have three and a half hours. I think they got like third or fourth place. And one of the women was afraid of water because it's in the pool. No, but she could row. They did a good job. And the boat lasted. We instructed them. It lasted three rounds. And I got third place. And they won some money. Yeah. Thank you.
Because it's in the pool No, but she could row They did a good job And the boat lasted We instructed them It lasted three rounds And I got third place And they won some money Yeah, it was really cool And I was like using the X-Acto knife Cutting out little things Because our friends T and Y They were like And he was like So we gotta build the boat He was so technical I know But it was a good boat It was good And it lasted And we were parading it around You have to parade it around It was so fun Thank you. We've got to build the boat. He was so technical. I know. But it was a good boat.
It was good. And it lasted, and we were parading it around. You have to parade it around the whole pool first and put it in the water. Yeah, it was so fun. Sonny Russ is so fun. Oh, my God. In any case, JR got a nice experience. I think I went to bed. I think it was like at, I don't know, midnight, 1 o'clock. But this was not a bye experience at all. No. No. It was just you getting invited. So it was like midnight, 1 a.m., whatever it was. The neighbors. The neighbors to M&D. It was his birthday. T's. That's right. T's birthday. And we're over there. It was three guys. It was T, M, and me.
T, M, and me. Thank you. T, T's birthday, and we're over there, it was three guys, it was T, M, and me, T, M, and me, with his girlfriend, and we're all sitting around drinking, and it was just them, it was three guys and a girl, and something, I don't know what came up, something came up, and M said to the girl, well, are you willing to take three of us on? She's like, let's go. And we're like, okay. And so the three of us and her. I know. And I was so glad you were included. It was one in each hole. It was like, oh, it was really good. I know. She's got a smoking-ass body.
Yeah, and that was a fun experience.
We started experience we started outside and let's go inside we're on the deck we're on this frickin deck you know yeah let me go inside and it was magnificent it was it was good very good yeah that's great good for you that was that week right August the first of the third something right this beginning of august yeah but then we had a house party our house party yeah very very well attended we had 69 rsvps and we wound up with like 61 people so we had like 70 people about and we got pared down so like people can you know you know the babysitter doesn't show up the last minute the dog throws up yeah who knows what the hell yeah that was a great party it was a great party we had a couple of people there that we hadn't seen in like seven to nine years oh yeah that one couple the one couple that we love we love and he was available he wasn't usually works weekends yeah because he's like a sportscaster kind of film kind of guy yes and he's always working on the weekends but he was around and they were like hey can we come and we have another couple we can bring like absolutely what are Yeah, that was so great.
So they came, and I'm going to extrapolate on this in the next segment with the bye-bye thing, because at one point- The girl's going bye. At one point, there was five females in our kitchen bye, and they were going at it.
Yes, bye oh my god and we had a flood there was a flood in the kitchen so we'll talk about that later but and then jeff got to hook up with a single girl in the lifestyle i haven't seen in a while yeah twice right like twice in one night twice at one night yeah which is big yeah she like she was waiting for the for the half bath in our general area and she's like i can just just go on just go in our master bedroom we have the master bedroom on the first floor so she goes in the mess i said wait a minute let me follow her in there we so i did hello hello and then unbeknownst to me i know and i like walk in i'm like why are the lights so bright in here a few lights on these start turning lights off i'm like you need a more intimate setting but then then later in the night but she got passed around she yeah but later in the night like 2 a.m like 2 a.m yeah you got to be with downstairs i finally got a dress off you know she was she was uh doing everything with the dress just yanked up i finally take the fucking dress off you know okay and jr had a great night i got really close with this one guy i got really close with this one guy that was telling me his fantasies.
What do you mean? I didn't hook up, but I was very close. Why not? You know, just go with the flow. There was no flow, obviously. No, I was very close. He was telling me his kink, and I loved it. Really? Yeah. But I was like, eh, okay. It'll happen.
So yeah, it was a great party great party people we had a few good lost and found items we did we did so a couple people's earrings yeah yeah and there was some other things that people knew about such a nice crowd yeah oh my gosh we had a bunch of new people which was great and we had a great night we had you know we're out under the stars with tiki torches it was beautiful gonna going it was it was great so that is what happened in august so far is that it was that that's it yeah that's it okay damn you did it seems like a lot more damn okay fine well we're gonna get main topic, which is, what's the name of it again?
Girls Gone By. Girls Gone By. Okay. And that is going to be pretty good. Yeah. So hold on to your by things, whatever, and here we go. Said I'm all about it. Yeah, I'm all about it. Said I'm all about it. Yeah. Said I'm all topic, and we're going to talk about bi-ness. Women bi-ness. binus. Yes. Because there seems to be confusion, controversy, things about that that people don't understand. Right. So we've kind of narrowed it down to three categories with one before that being. Straight. Straight. Right. So there's, you know, people in the lab that are straight. Women that are straight.
I don't want to talk about women now. I don't want to talk about guys, but I'm talking about women. Because 99, 95% of guys in the lifestyle are straight. So this is the women now. At least the profiles that we look at.
Yeah, well a few there's a few here and there so when we talk about by we're talking about by women we are yes yes so the first thing is the straight women so there's you know couples are straight and they only play with you know opposite sex right okay so that's good so we'll finish with that that's clear that's clear yes so the unclearness is the next stuff yes so first category that we feel is appropriate to talk about and is mentioned and propagated yes on websites like sls sdc cassidy and so forth is by curious and that can be picked as a category right and we also feel that's sort of a by curious and by sometimes one way right and what do we mean by that you know it's not about what i mean it do we mean by that?
No, no. It's not about what I mean. It's about what you mean. No, no. It's about what we mean. We're talking about it. So there's a lot of women that are only one way. For instance, they say they're bicurious. Right. And let's tackle that first. Yes. They say they're bicurious.
But really, they're only putting that in their profile to attract other couples right they're really not by at all right they're not no they won't they won't do anything and i think i think that they say by curious because they're by acceptance like they accept women that are by but they're not gonna do anything exactly exactly Right, right. Like they accept women that are bi. But they're not going to do anything. Exactly. They're not going to do anything. Exactly. Yeah. Right.
Or they are the kind of women that, they're okay with having someone, another woman, give them pleasure, but they're not necessarily going to reciprocate. But that's the one way situation. Exactly. But that's all bi-curious. So I think there's two separate things. One is it's bi-curious and not going to do anything, and then it's one way where they'll let some woman go down on them, but they're never going to suck another pussy. Yeah. And they say that. They're open about that.
And actually, I think that there's a third thing that falls into that category okay so it's also the women that have just begun in the lifestyle okay and they truly are curious so I think that the curious may have some honesty there correct and they truly are curious and they want to see what it is right and then it's the other thing where the man on the on the sls profile puts it on because he wants to make it seem like his woman is okay and accepting that's a great point right a lot of the profiles are done by the guys right and they'll put by curious by curious right just to attract couples exactly gotcha yes and then there's the other the other situation where the truly they are by curious and they're not very by experienced and they're willing to allow a woman to do things to them in situations where they may not be comfortable or not know how to respond so you know that's all that category of bi-curious and what you just said is a great segue into category two right which is bi-friendly bi-situational right which can mean the same thing well they're bi-friendly which means or bi situational so in certain instances they get with another couple and the woman they're with is sexy and alluring and sensual so they start exploring and it works and they go further than they thought they were gonna go yeah and you know for me i've experienced this personally in six homes you know that's like we're all together and i'm like oh i'd rather be with her than him and i'm like yeah i'm gonna go there she's a better kisser and you know just things start to happen exactly oh so i've been there many times in threesomes you know with jr and i you know typically i'm not really going to have a threesome with a girl that i'm not necessarily i have to be attracted to that girl right like so it has to be a mutual attraction and it goes in varying degrees sometimes i'm with jr with a girl and maybe i'm just kissing her and in other situations i'm using a double-sided dildo you know and and so that's by situational i mean i think that that's a good description of by situation what you say is almost by open you're open to right a situation where you could be comfortable with the woman and you both are enjoying each other to the fullest.
And I think that that is where I basically sit, you know, for my own personal self. Yes.
Have I been extreme in my life where I'll be at a club and even a vanilla club and J.R this and i meet this girl and i'm like oh god is that a girl or a guy and what do you mean oh my god and she's really cute you know and i end up in the bathroom what are you talking about and i end up in the girl's bathroom i know what you're talking about and i end up in the girls bathroom i have so many stories like this you do i have a story where my father and i we've got hotel rooms on the beach and i i said and we had gone to dinner and i'm like i have to go watch the eagles game and i go to this like rockin nightclub it's like rockin' ass nightclub.
And I talk for a long time to like this military guy from Alaska. And he was like super hot. And he wanted me to come back to his room with him. And I'm like thinking to myself, not all that safe. Yes, he's really cool. And then I meet this beautiful girl.
girl oh my god shut the club down with her we were there for the last minute we're in the bathroom the staff is like pounding on the door and then i'm and i'm going home with her now i'm going home with her now right and my dad i'm sitting on a bench I'm sitting on a bench we've ordered an Uber and I'm going home with her now right and my dad i'm sitting on a bench this is great i'm sitting on a bench we've ordered an uber and i'm going home with her completely trust her this is going to be fucking awesome right oh my god crazy my dad walks over from the hotel next door where we were staying and he looks at me he's like are you coming totally cock-blocked me.
Well, he pussy-blocked you. Yes. Oh, it's a beaver dam. Yes. Beaver dam. Whatever. In any case, but you have to realize I'm not really bye-bye. I'm not really like bye. So you're definitely this category. I am the situational. By open, by situational, by friendly, yes. It's like.
Depending on what's going on exactly and you have to realize like it is a two-way street for me like we jr and i were on the cruise and we hooked up with this single girl oh my god she did things to me right but i reciprocate yeah of course i reciprocate like you know what i mean it was like but then there's a couple that we know oh this is this is the real story yeah so this is the category that i live in in my life it's by situational so we knew this i knew this couple before i was with d and we're on the cruise and i see her It's like 2.30 in the morning, 3 o'clock in the morning.
I go down for a couple of drinks to the martini bar, and she's there. We kissed, and she walked away, and she came back. She's like, I wanted you from the first time I met you, and we're going to get together tomorrow. I want you badly. I'm like, blah so next we got together the first time i met her i understood completely complete so what jr was talking about so this woman so sexy just eludes eludes sexuality yeah no and it's like like soft and you're just like, it's just like the kissing and the bye is like so good, right? So good. So good.
And the next day we get together, but you and her go on to bed first. It was so sexy. Yeah. It was so sexy. She is the most sensual, beautiful, amazing person to be with. Soft. It's like, oh, my goodness. Soft, sensual, like sexy, sensual, like crazy ass. Yeah, yeah. It's like, wow. And then we, the guys, got invited on. Yeah. And it was a great guys, got invited on. Yeah. And it was a great foursome thing because you guys are warmed up by this time. Yeah. But I'll always pick her above you and him. That's my answer. Okay, that's fine. Because she's crazy sexy. Exactly. Exactly. Okay.
And the next level is bye-bye, where women are actually seeking women. That's not you. That's true. That's not you. So we see a lot of that at big lifestyle events. The couple is there because the woman wants to be with another woman. Right. And that's where they can do it. Right.
And and a lot of times that's how they enter the lifestyle exactly yeah exactly they want another woman yeah you'll see that if you go on sls you'll see profiles that they're looking people are looking for another woman yeah for their female partner right in the relationship yes you'll see that a lot yes yes i think that it goes to another level as well there were times at some of the share nation parties years ago where it would be just women getting together and it was like a bye-bye meeting like a bye-bye hookup and no men were even allowed to be there they did have things Thank you.
and it was like a bye bye meeting like a bye bye hookup and no men were even allowed to be there they did have things like that yeah that's right there was like bye bye female groups like a party thing yeah without any men exactly yeah yeah but that's not what happened in our party no so so what I talked about in the last segment was our party, our house party, there was a bunch of females in the kitchen. There was a mix of bye-bye women, bye-curious women, whatever. Yeah. And it was a total bye fuckfest. Yes.
At one point, there was two women on our bar stools in the kitchen just like spread eagle and there was one woman on the floor just going back and forth sucking them out right and then i was i was by the sink with the person i was with that night the female, and fingering her and making her squirt all over the floor and over by the stove, because it says something about, someone said, what's the only place we can't do anything? I said, I don't have a stove. So they went next to the stove, and the guy was fingering his wife, and she was squirting all over the place. It was like a river.
We went through a whole roll of paper towels just cleaning up the squirt on the floor. It was crazy. It was crazy. Yeah. It was so sexy. It was so incredible. But there were a lot of women that are intentionally by exactly yeah exactly yeah it was it was like yeah i'm gonna be here i'm gonna meet some sexy other women and yeah it was cool it was really cool all right so hang on and we're gonna talk about what's coming up next There's a lot of stuff coming up next. Yeah. Yeah. Hang on. Hang on to your horses or your dildos or whatever you got there.
Okay, we're back from the Buy Craziness and wet zone splash zone it was a it was definitely a splash zone in our kitchen yeah crazy it was great oh my god so so this segment what's that what's the segment it's what's coming up next what's coming up next of course it is all the time. Exactly. And what is that? So this coming Friday. Yes. So we're in the last week of August right now. Right. So we have a hot date posted on SLS. For JR's band. At Patrick's Pub. Patrick's Pub in Lake Hapakon. Right. And we're doing a meet and greet, which we've done before. Yeah. Which was very successful. Was.
Was. Meet us in person. Right. Yeah. At Patrick's Pub. In Lake Hapakon. Friday, August 29th. From 9 to midnight. 9 to midnight. And you never know what's going to happen. You never know. Yeah, exactly. You never know what happened afterwards. So that's this week. And then the following week, September 5th and 6th, is a Share Nation weekend hotel takeover. Right. It's the Halloween.
Well, the first night is detention, which is the little school girl thing where you want to you want to dress up a little school girl so that we can you know make believe and and fuck you right and spank and spank you fuck you whatever yeah oh so on the fifth on the friday we are we are doing the oh the speed dating yeah so it's couples speed dating. Yeah, yeah. So it's couples to couples, and you talk about whatever. You got two minutes, and then you slide down. It's very busy. It's been very, very popular. You'll meet lots of people.
We'll set up the room for what we think is going to come, and then we've got to freaking add so many chairs. Right. I know. Very popular. Oh, very popular. My God. Okay, good. And then on Saturday. The pool party. We're hosting a pool party. Yeah. During the day. It's 12 noon to like 4 or 5 o'clock. It doesn't matter. Marky Mark is going to be DJing. Marky Mark DJing. We're going to be there.
So I want to do a shout out because i want to do a game specifically not yet mentioned which is what it's going to be talk dirty to me oh so i want to do okay during the pool party be prepared i want to do a talk dirty to me contest so I'm just going to invite some ladies up to the microphone and you're just going to have to talk dirty and we're actually going to record it for one of our podcasts because JR is obsessed with talking yeah and there will be a prize because teddy love adult toys are going to give him away prizes teddy right teddy love adult toys yeah is going to be there yeah give me our prizes but if you can really talk dirty you can you're gonna win a prize you are you are and of course there's going to be the car wash just say say, if you're a female, just say, fuck me, Poppy.
Oh, my God, that's going to do it. That just, I don't know. So, sure, nature's going to be great. And then, yeah. And so, then we have Halloween. And it's also, I think there's another speed date in the night, too. And then there's a comedian thing. Oh, that's right. There's a comedy thing where one of the comedians is the lead singer in my rock pop band. She's going to be there doing a comedian thing. Yeah. I don't know.
thing where one of the comedians is the lead singer in my rock pop band yeah she's gonna be there doing a comedian thing yeah on saturday oh and then it's white night it's white that's white party for that weekend yes right so it's naughty girls school girls and then it's white night it's pool party it's a big weekend it's a freaking go to our website lifestyle links.com for details there's a link weekend. It's a freaking. Go to our website, lifestylelinks.com for details. There's a link for tickets. Get your tickets there. And that helps. That helps the promoters. That helps everybody. Right.
And then you book the hotel separately. You do. And it tells you on the website. If you go to our website, you'll see that. You got to call the hotel separately and they get. The phone number's there. And the code yeah great okay what else we got so after that for the next two weekends there's a couple house parties that are in the works so we don't know if that's happening yet we will update you on the next podcast if they play out. If they happen and what transpired sexually. Experience.
you on the next podcast if they play out they happen and what transpired sexually okay experiences then the last weekend in september right or back to sunday rest because that is the last weekend that's sort of open before they start closing down and that is their halloween party which is Believe it or not, last week of September. It's so much fun. Crazy ass. Crazy ass fun. Crazy ass, yeah. Believe it or not, last week of September. It's so much fun. Crazy ass. Crazy ass, yeah. So, if you've never been to Sonny Rush, you need to do it. Yeah. To me, it's like a mini-hito kind of experience.
Yeah, it is kind of. You're right. There's a pool. He's naked at the pool. There's a bar. You get drinks. A bunch of swingers. There's a lot of swingers. It would be so nice. It's amazing. It's so much fun. All right. And then October 2nd to the 10th. Oh, that's right. That's what we're doing. We just booked this. So this is what we're doing. October 2nd to the 10th, we're going to be at Desire for five days, and then Pearl for three days. So if you want to join us, just come, and we'll be there. We'll be there.
October 2nd to the 10th, starting on the 2nd for five nights, and then on the 7th for three nights. Right, going to Pearl. Exactly. Exactly, yeah. October 31st through November 1st is another Cher Nation party. At the Holiday Inn in Parsippany. Halloween. Yes. Again, go to our website. You can get tickets.
oh my god halloween is like a big it's the really big event it's amazing and there's like costume contests exactly we'll probably do something during the day we'll probably do one of our game shows game shows either yeah lifestyle family feud or wheel of fornication or something no No, I'm working on something something new. Or something new. You never know. You never know. Exactly, right. And then, just so people know, November 8th to the 15th, we will be on the Bliss Group. Yeah. It's going to be fabulous. We'll have lots of stories to tell about that one.
And that is pretty much sold out so you can't get in yeah but we are sponsoring yeah a a cabin sort of a cabin crawl thing like a whole group of cabins together exactly cabins together on the april 20 27 bliss cruise i super early. And you may say, oh, it's so far away. Yeah, but 2026 is like freaking sold out already. It's like a two-year in advance thing. You've got to book way in advance. Yeah. So you need to book April 2027 now. On LifestyleLinks.com. Exactly. There's a link there. Yeah. And if you- We already have a bunch of people coming. We do. Yeah, we do.
It's going to be like a big posse. Right now, we can all be together on a great spot. There's a couple cabins left near us. Exactly. There's like two or three cabins left. And we can be all together.
And if you have another couple that you're interested in there are joining rooms in the section so you can get a cabin and get an adjoining room which is super fun with a couple we're doing that we're doing that yeah it's going to be so much fun yeah so much fun if you never did a bliss cruise this is your opportunity to go on it because we'll be there and we'll guide you through how to navigate and even before you go we'll give you all the advice we'll and advise you what cabin to pick exactly all that so just go on our website and send us a message and we'll take care of you yes we will jr will take care of you well maybe not the guys but i'll take care of the girls exactly don't you worry we'll take care of you thank you so much for listening oh my god we love you all i know we had so much fun this month yeah hopefully the next month after this, I think they will.
Next month's going to be crazy. Yeah. It's going to be great. Reach out to us on our website. Yeah. LifestyleLinks.com. Okay. Bye-bye, you next time.
