Episode 20: Diary of a UnicornNovember 2024 ‘Main Topic’: Recording in the studio with our favorite Unicorn, we explore her personal experiences, how Unicorns navigate the Lifestyle and the benefits afforded to couples. Plus, some interesting, real-life adventures.‘What Have We Done Lately’: We attended a “Silver Spicy’ IPG event in Scranton PA and had a great time. We did not attend the Friction ‘SpanksGiving’ party but instead decided to have our own ‘FriendsGiving’ party at our home with a few very close lifestyle couples. On the Wednesday before Thanksgiving, we hosted a Swinger M G at a club on Lake Hopatcong NJ where JR’s band was performing. The ‘conversion’ saw two nights of interactive partying and exploring the Lifestyle in a positive direction. ‘Where We Are Going Next’: A planned evening to be intimate with a special couple, another M G at a gig in Morristown with my new band on December 8th, our annual New Years Eve Party is back in full ‘Swing’ and the Winter Solstice/Orgy party is ‘on’ for early January 2025. Our Group Trip to Temptation Resort Cancun Mexico May 1-5, 2025, is filling up, so book your spot for this monumental event at LifestyleLynx.comNext ShareNation Party in Parsippany NJ is ‘Mardi Trois’ Feb 28-March 1. Details and tickets for this special event are on our website: LifestyleLynx.comVisit us at https://www.LifestyleLynx.com for related Adult Events, Cruises, Resorts, Clubs, Parties, Meet Greets, Swinger Websites and more...
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hello you beautiful people i am jr and i'm d we have been in the lifestyle for seven plus years and we're here to share our sexy stories and experiences if you're not 18 this podcast is not for you and if you are please go visit lifestylinks.com that's l-y-n-x hello beautiful people and welcome to episode 20 episode 20 can you believe it i know actually i'm gonna interject oh right exactly i am go ahead because we were ranked number one polyamorous podcast we were we were and we didn't even know it i did a google search no no i think i told the listeners before maybe but still yeah yeah but still it's like really cool we got about 5 000 listeners yeah exactly yeah yeah anyway so welcome to listening we're so glad that you are here yeah exactly so this segment is oh the name of the podcast yes not not the podcast i'm sorry the name of the episode right is a unicorn's diary right exactly and that's what we're talking about we have our great good friend jay here she's fabulous and an amazing unicorn she's very she's very.
Insider perspective. Yeah. And we're also going to talk about how it's beneficial to a couple, not only from the obvious sexual perspective, but just from a social perspective as well. Yeah. And it's also like inside the mind and the soul and the heart of a unicorn like what how can you be a unicorn right it's partly that yeah it is a lot of people can't be can't be that exactly so yeah she talks about that which is really cool but now we're talking about what have we done lately yes and i got it right this time you did which amazing. It's amazing. It's amazing. Okay. So we went to Scranton.
We did. PA. PA. To a silver and spicy party. Yes. Which is like a 50 and older kind of event. Right. Very cool. And it was hosted by Joe and Maddie. Of IPG.
Who are an intimate party who are intimate party group yep you know people that's that they've been doing they did such a beautiful job fantastic they're so organized very like you check in you get this envelope it has the rules and then inside they have like every event that's going to happen for the weekend because it was a whole hotel takeover it was like friday saturday right and they had all sorts of cool stuff going on it's like speed dating wine tasting boob painting comedian show wait i missed the boob painting i would have gone to that i missed that what are you talking about and then they had the cards in there where you meet another couple right like match up like you're you're a little symbol and you try to find the other.
So they're like really proficient, really proficient at these parties. And they have four groups. One is that Silver and Spicy, then they have a Kink Unlimited group. On FetLife. On FetLife. Right. And a Buy group. Someone's got to be, I think you both have to be bye. I don't know. I'm not sure. Yeah, it says it. We're going to be meeting with them. Yeah. And then the regular IPG group, the intimate party group, which they've been doing for years. And then the old people. They're not the old people. Stop. No, it was cute. We met some older people that were like really hot. They were. Yeah.
It was like. That one, the tall blonde. Well, sort of blonde, more white, gray, but still. I know. She had a great body. Oh, no. I mean. I would have done it. I would have done that. I would have gone there. And he was beautiful, too. Oh, my God. Yeah. So why didn't we? We only got, like, a glimpse of a couple minutes with them. Oh, yeah, fine. Yeah. Next time, fine. Yeah. All right. Anyway. It was fun. It was good. It was a really nice group, and they only do pool party events? Yeah. Like, they only do- They only book hotel takeovers that have a indoor pool. Yeah, very interesting.
Very interesting. And cool. Then after that, we talked about this last time, the night before Thanksgiving, the band that I've been for a while, we played at a club here in New Jersey. We invited a whole bunch of lifestyle people. And they came. It was fun. It was fun. So dancing and kissing on the dance floor. I'm behind a drum saying, I want to be out there. Oh. Anyway, that's usually how that works. And let's see. Oh. The conversion. The conversion. We've got, we had two strikes. We had, no. Not strikes. No, no. Two attempts. Two attempts. We had two opportunities. Two at-bats, yes, yes.
Two opportunities. So the first opportunity was they invited us to come out to drinks after they were at dinner with another couple.
Yeah, to another couple and they called us hey we're at this place we're having drinks you want to come over i'm like yeah okay yeah so we hooked up with them yeah well us hold on we did not hook up with them in the terms of swinging exactly we went and we joined them for drinks exactly and then the other couple bailed and then it was just the four of us yeah right but again no but again no no no no it was movement in the right direction correct yes it was like we didn't say anything about being swingers it was just like we were just like these fun party people to be with we knew we had to approach it pretty gracefully because like the woman is totally foreign but the husband is sort of oblivious exactly yeah so we're like easing him in.
Like, yeah, sort of, yeah. So it was fun. We went to drinks, and then we went back to their house. Which is beautiful. Back to their place, beautiful. And then JR would run around the corner, and he'd be like making out with the girl. And then I'd be keeping the guy entertained, and then they would come back. But you kissed him. I did kiss him. Yeah, I made out him, too. Which we found out a couple days later. He didn't remember it at all. He didn't remember it yet. Yes, you did. No, but he was comfortable with me. Yeah, well, at the time.
But the really cool thing is that the reason why they're so primed for the lifestyle is two things. They're like, number one is he is so enamored oh we're walking like down the street he's like she is a goddess she's a russian model like he's so enamored with her which is like so cool well yeah yeah no but that's the way i know i know he does yes yes and And then the other thing, the second thing is that. And she loves him just as, like, even more. So she's, like, looking at me, she's like, well, I can't do this unless he's involved, too.
Like, I'm not going to, like, have sex with somebody else unless. Like me. She's not going to have sex with me unless he's on board and it's going to be, like, a switch. Well, no, she was so concerned about him being happy, too. Exactly's like this immense like consideration for each other exact which is perfect yeah like lifestyle perfect exactly like it they're they're like very very sweet and they're and because you have to be that way like you don't do lifestyle without being committed and into each other. So that was our first meeting, and it went well.
But at this point, we're not really sure. But now we have dinner plans with them the following week. And we did that. We met with them again. Like a few days ago. Yeah, yeah. And it went well. It went great. We had to dinner. Yeah. We're talking. And we're at the table, and we're talking about the Bliss Cruise. Right. How cool that is. And it's all adults. Right. And you can kind of be naked. And we'll see the table, and we're talking about the Bliss Cruise. Right. How cool that is, and it's all adults. Right. And you can kind of be naked.
We're getting into the whole, you know, topples, naked thing. And she's like looking at him like, you could do that, right? And he's like, yeah, I think I can do that. Yeah, sort of. Yeah. He was. He is not objective. Yeah. Like, he's not saying no. Right right he has an open mind to it but the really fun thing was is like oh yeah i'll go on that and i'll do that is wait for it girl girl i think we mentioned something oh yeah i'll do a girl girl thing no problem and i'm like well that's great but you have to kind of kind of belly up to the to the bar with your female person, too.
Yeah, but that's a good place to start because she's bi enough. Oh, I don't know. No, not the Bliss Cruise, but it's a good place to start from a lifestyle standpoint. So he's okay allowing his wife to be with another girl and him. And him.
Yeah, so he's okay with that aspect of polyamory you know i did mention i did say this i said there's a flip side of that where it's her and two guys like no no i don't know about that it might take some time so in any case it was it has been positive i think we told you about this conversion we did kind of thing that was going on so more to come on that and exactly i do think it's moving in the right direction i hope so yeah yeah they're perfect for it yeah they really are really sweet and yeah kind and attractive and fun and all those things and the first night we polished off like three quarters of a bottle of Johnny Worker blue.
You did. You and him. Oh, my God. He kept pouring. I was like, I'll have a taste. And he kept pouring. And I was so trashed. And that's like $2.50 a bottle. It's like crazy. You have to listen. Her and I were dancing. Like she's totally into me. She just looks at me and she's like, I can do this if you're going to do it with me. She's like, I want you to do it with me. I kept disappearing around the corner. Yeah, yeah. But she's also very comfortable with me. So it's all good. Oh, my God. So more to come on that. More to come. But now.
Now we're going gonna get into our main topic the unicorn diaries all right Stay tuned. Okay, welcome to our main topic as I have found out that I am large and in charge. I said he's large and in charge. And so this is, we have our unicorn friend here, Jay, and that's what we're talking about. Yeah. Go ahead, yeah. So what's our topic? Listen, listen, she's making a really cool sound. I don't know. unicorn friend here Jay and that's what we're talking about yeah yeah it's so what's our topic listen she's making a really cool sounds what is that oh you You galloped it on a horse, okay, got it.
No, she's a unicorn, honey. Oh, he's a unicorn. Yeah. A little slow on the draw. Drink the grammy. Yeah.
a horse okay got it no she's a unicorn honey so we wanted to share with you all a couple things first of all what it's like to be a unicorn from the insider scoop that's right and then we're going to talk a little bit about what it's like as a couple to be with a unicorn and kind of how you work that out and engaging with one exactly exactly we've talked about jay in the past where you've put her in charge of me at certain events right when i was working that's right and it's more like a wolf in charge of the hen house right yeah i'm like jay i have to work will you take care of him at the pool party actually i think it's what they call saint unicorn we are the chosen ones to receive all the appropriate hall passes and we're so grateful for those exactly which is cool i want to start with how does one a woman decide and want to be a unicorn like how does that happen right yeah good question so is it just by you know attrition right you just kind of galloping monday and you're like oh different saddle no no Yeah, We're letting her answer.
I know. Please. Well, so I was thinking about this topic. I think some women, and I've met them, they're just a unicorn. They've always been that way. And maybe when they were younger, they were like, yeah, I'm a ho and I love it. And that's what I do. I got lovers everywhere.
And we're getting into the Christmas season, so ho, so ho ho ho you're saying they started that way just that they just realized like i just like being with different people and i own my own life and i don't want to have children i don't want to be tied down and i want to have lovers in every zip code and the variety, the variety of it. And the freedom. Yeah, the freedom. Yeah. Personally, for me, I just kind of tripped over it in my life gallop, right? Just cruising through life. And then my life shifted. And then I was still in the lifestyle and realized, okay, I'm in the lifestyle.
And I'm single now. And so I'm really going to work this situation to the best of my ability. And you do, by the way. Thank you. People are low out there. She does. Thank you.
Yeah, so how do you do that how do you work it to let's say maybe you were never with a partner or maybe you were with a partner but you're interested in lifestyle and you want to be a unicorn like what do you recommend yeah so interestingly enough i've i've been so blessed throughout my life to have one long-term lovely loving relationship after another so my experience i just literally tripped into being a unicorn after ending a long experience and then i realized you know this is really good for me because now i don't have to now that we have a name for it right i'll just be a unicorn i'll date i'll experience other people in their relationships um and just have a different experience for myself from the wise words of a sexologist i worked with it's almost like the wheel of fortune right and so you you enjoy different patterns you enjoy different colors that's right you talked about the feeling on that yeah the thing on the floor yeah and i think explain that again what is that it's the in really the enjoyment of the variety saying i seek variety in my life in all of different experiences meaning the different relationships that i'm having and the different experiences obviously because they're going to be there for a season a reason or a lifetime or like one night yeah or 10 minutes a very good distinction between something that really feels that way and experiences that way rather than we have other girlfriends that sort of are unicorns until they find a man a man yeah And out.
I think that that's always a possibility. You know, so that I look at Jay and, you know, do I trust that, you know, if she finds a boyfriend, she will share that man with me like I have shared my man with her so much? I think so. But you know what? Even if doesn't i'm not going to be angry you know because like again it's a time it's a reason it's a season and it's almost like capture what you can right while it's there in front of you sure and you're right i mean i i do think we've got that one girlfriend that swore she was she wasn't gonna go we've had a guy We've had a couple.
We've had a few. I know. I know. That they said, oh, yeah, I'm into the lifestyle and I'm always going to be in lifestyle. And whatever guy I'm with and she met someone, she's gone. Right. Right. Gone. Exactly. Gone. And that may happen. But for me, I think the risk of that is worth it.
I mean, it's better to be with you for now and to have never been with you yeah and i think too it's always important to remember that even though you might meet a woman and she is a unicorn at that moment i think everyone's always searching some i shouldn't say everyone but i think people are searching for that love and that connection like even for me yeah like i embrace being that unicorn and owning the space where, yeah, for a while there, I was like, I don't want a serious relationship. I need to have different experiences.
But really, to the core of me, most of my life was one long-term loving relationship after me. So you just never know. People are looking for different things.
Right, but in in reality right now what's great about you is that you can move through life as a unicorn but at the same time you'd love to have a boyfriend you would love to have a partner yeah and at the same time i'm the perfect unicorn because i hold such a high value to matrimony and partnerships yeah you respect that oh yeah and so i think to be a good unicorn is really starting so let's talk about how you you approach the single life as a unicorn how do you do that how do you get into parties how do you meet people yeah semantically yeah yeah so i mean i think one of the good traits of a positive unicorn is someone who is not afraid to go out alone on their own buy their own tickets get there and expect to spend the whole night alone it's okay right go there like expect set up for everything but expecting nothing right prepared for everything expecting nothing yeah and then i think another great attribute of good unicorns is being able to go into a space and be emotionally available and intelligent and also the ability to be able to read the room and read the vibe.
Sure. And watch people. Yeah. And also, too, pick up on the cues, both good and bad. Right. Because what's really interesting for me is that jr and i are very unicorn positive so i mean i started life i started most of my life being bisexual like so for me it's all about how i connect with a woman yeah and i really i when i have a good connection and it's real natural, I really enjoy that. And I think that's one aspect too, people think, well, all unicorns are bisexual, not necessarily.
I know if you want to get into the ground where it's like, okay, well then technically you are a this or that, right? You know, I'm bi when the time is right. And being a unicorn, because I'm around couples, I'm always'm always first very spatially and emotionally aware of the wife yeah the female side of it yeah and making sure that that's good because that's the runway very important and yeah it is because that's what she sees through these experiences you're creating this website and this group oh yeah I just want to let her talk about it just for a minute. Sure, definitely.
It's in the development phase.
Yeah, so one of the things that works into who I am as a woman and the fact that I am a unicorn at this time in my life and all of the amazing experiences I've had, I previously worked with a type of a group that i think is really appropriate for our time and now especially in the lifestyle because there's not a space where i've been able to find confidence in a group setting where i'm speaking with other women that are in the lifestyle married single thinking about the lifestyle i'm not to do like where is that space yeah and i previously sponsored um a group and was involved with one so yeah well more on that but see that's the point the reason why jay is like such a great unicorn to us is that her and i vibe so well number one we look similar and number two it's like two peas in a body how right and it's like we also kind of see the world and a lot of the same way in the law I would say like 90% of the way and you know so there's so much commonality and so for me as a woman in a relationship when jr and i are at a party and he likes oh yeah there's a unicorn i will go and talk to that unicorn sure if i feel a connection very important yeah if i feel a connection like i like her that's what we're looking for exactly and i'm like i'm getting her like she's on the same page as me then yeah i'll be like yeah okay next party i can't be there pool party jr's with you there's gotta be chemistry there's gotta be the chemistry else forget it you know it's the same with us and other couples you have to have chemistry right right i think that and that's important to think about too from the unicorn perspective because you might meet a unicorn and you're gonna you like the two of you are like oh yeah she's great but do you know about her because she's also a woman and like i i'm very honest in most of my experience all of my experiences when it comes to the point if i need to make it necessary listen i'm really in this for the guy but if you and i want to play alone exactly because again that dictionary version is we're definitely we're always supposed to be by not necessarily but i think by by open is exactly by friendly by situational it's that and and actually jay and i don't really we don't really have lesbian experience no no we don't not that i I wouldn't, but, you know, we have't but he's large and in charge we are his disciples don't you worry don't you worry i'm larger but another thing is we talked about this on the last podcast we met a woman at that that event in delaware yes and she was the one that was um in the middle of a divorce yeah and really cool but she wasn't a unicorn but yeah but she was unicorn ready kind of thing and the chemistry wasn't good the situation wasn't And we let it go.
Yes.
We it go yeah so so she showed up to the party as a recently divorced or in the middle of a divorced woman that had been in a relationship but she wasn't really a unicorn yet she was brave enough to show up on her own but her mind was not in that space not where could like i fell into my first experience yeah like really fell into it no but she wasn't ready she was right she was just so like so still angry about the past that she didn't have enough love and openness to be able to explore or experience other people because she had such a hard time still working through a lot yeah so that's just something for couples that are listening to this to be aware of don't just take a unicorn on the surface of that entirely yeah you gotta kind of dig in and see is it gonna be a good a good good fit is there any risk to it yeah yeah so yeah definitely because you know what single woman can go out to any lifestyle club can single women can go out to any hotel party and you know they represent themselves as a unicorn but are they really a unicorn and that's the point yeah i think that there's there's a real quality if you want to say yeah you know what that lady is a true unicorn.
And that's the point. Exactly. And I think that there's a real quality if you want to say, yeah, you know what? That lady is a true unicorn. One of her deepest qualities is going to be the respect for the matrimony or the partnership of the other people in the room. And the minute that that becomes a question, then you are no longer a unicorn. Yep.
You are all of a all of a sudden a threat or you exhibit a behavior that is um you know so because you unicorns never want to be threatening the whole concept of this is that it's an addition yeah this is a bonus well and think about it too from their perspective they know they're the third wheel they're like i know when i leave And you're okay with that. When I leave here, no one's coming home. No one's going to love me when I come home. But as a couple, like for JR and I. Not the bad thing. No, but we still love you. That's the thing. No, I know. And that's why we're still friends. No, yeah.
And we will always be friends. I know. But you have to realize, like, so for JR and I, we actually recognize that. And we spend time making that woman feel as sexy as me, as pretty as me. He actually spends more time on her than he does me. And I get it because he only gets how much time with her. You know, we're, I think most unicorns are aviates of the fact that you guys have someone. But we're treasuring our time with you. That's the key. Jay and I have done things together. I know. In the past. It's super great. Super great. We've done things in the past.
And you know what the other thing is? I wish you could see all of them. I know, right?
The other great thing for me is that I'm almost going to sound like a Mormon, but you have to realize that Jay does things with JR jr that is like super cool that i can't do right exactly and think about our girlfriend m that gives the best blowjobs right oh my god like so i recognize i know but no no i need to know listen listen we need to have lessons by m i'll introduce you in any case you can't be everything to everybody all the time you know and as a woman you do some really cool things with jr exactly that very cool on the board right that i would never do and just like our single girlfriend m does other things you know so lucky him that i can step back and say you know what those girls fucking rock awesome you know i never use the f word but there are times where i have to say rare so let's talk about the benefits for a couple yeah to be with a unicorn and we've done this many times where we've gone to parties and we'll be a threesome.
We'll be a threesome at a party. And it's great because maybe D will go outside and talk to people, whatever. And then I have someone to be with. I'm not alone. Right. I'm not alone. It's fantastic. And Jay is smiling at me right now. She's smiling at me. You know what? The other thing, so here is the advice as well. So first of all, I think that there's women in a lifestyle that, you know, do lifestyle as a couple that are afraid of unicorns. You know, they feel somewhat threatened.
yeah and you know the the really neat thing is is that if you get to just talk with that unicorn just for a little bit understand her intention and then also be confident that hey you know i'm going to share you with my husband right and the thing is is that it's a beautiful thing i mean it's like you're giving your man a chance to experience something that he can experience with you. I mean, because it is the diversity. It is the variety. It's also, as a woman, I get to meet another woman that I jive with. Like, we think alike. We do things alike. And I learn. I learn.
I become a better sexual partner. I don't know. That I jive with, like we think alike, we do things alike, and I learn. I learn. I become a better sexual partner. I become a better person. So it's a growth opportunity for me as well. And I think for everyone involved, because even from the unicorn perspective, I'm always learning, too. I'm always watching and observing and making sure that I'm in tune with everyone in the room, and especially myself as well, right? Because there's always going to be, there's three people, right? If you're a unicorn, you're talking to another couple.
There's three totally different perspectives involved. Yeah. And making sure that everybody feels comfortable and everybody's good. Right.
and also being able to know if it's not a go a good unicorn isn't gonna be like yeah you know clamoring it like well what's next what's next you know it's like it has to be something that yeah i'm gonna throw this out there i mean coming to a party as a threesome you're more attractive to other couples just are because hey he's looking at like so the perceptive the perception and the perception yeah yeah well let me tell you i've gone to maybe this isn't a very good thing to say but i mean i've gone to a lot of parties and not hooked up and not filmed. Me too. Same thing.
Which, I mean, I guess it's totally natural. Well, it depends on the people. Yeah, it really does. And I'm also super selective. So selective. Yeah. And you're careful. Very careful. You have to be careful. Yeah. Especially as a unicorn. Yeah. So careful. There is so much backlash that could happen. I mean, I have, you know, J.R. and I have a girlfriend that was with a man for many years, and now she's a unicorn. And there's so much criticism and backlash and, you know, like hypercritical, you know, that's hard.
Now that she's out on her own, doing her own own thing which is hard like to transition from being a woman in a couple and then becoming a unicorn but you know what she succeeds very well she does yeah right you know and not everybody is going to do that and not every woman i want to say one more thing there are women within a marriage or a relationship that actually can act as a unicorn. Jay and I have a very good friend that has been married for many years that navigates life as a unicorn, even though she's married. And that's a whole other bag.
That's a whole bag yeah right bag of tricks yeah but i mean how much power do both of them have in their relationship is just amazing it's wonderful that they feel so secure to give them each other that space that they need right there's a bunch of couples that are open relationship yeah and she's off on her own doing a unicorn thing yeah there's a bunch of people like that yeah if you go on sls you'll see them right you'll see them all the time and i think i think that you know in the end what it all comes down to is who do you resonate with who do you trust really who's like you like who do you want to be with exactly like who do you want to share your man with what woman do you want to be part of your life yeah you know and that's how you choose a unicorn yeah it's about having fun it's about the chemistry having fun you just natural with each other you know and it's just a fun thing it happens organically exactly you know look um i have a couple i've known from was my first unicorn experience after coming back to the united states and i went to a club in philly my sister i was like what's going on in this town so my sister takes me to the club and she's vanilla obviously no she's not that's why that's how she knew the club i was like yo okay i'm ready you know after seven months of in a coma like post whatever and uh postmortem of a broken relationship of a life yeah entire life gone i was like okay i know this club and then you know this couple and the woman was really not like she was drunk and she kept coming over to me and i was like oh no lord no you know she was like come on dance and i was like no no i got a bad knee because by the way i do have a bad knee you know anyway i forget what happened but before you know it i was in the middle of them too on the dance floor and i was like i guess this is happening in front of my sister but was she not a sweet person oh my god you have no idea these people are still in touch we're really good friends or they oh they're just i just love them to death so that i'm not trying to get them to meet you guys because it's also somebody who's in a band and somebody's in a certain field of business and it's like hello so after we record this right now we are headed to a gig that i'm playing this is the night before thanksgiving Yeah.
And all through the house. Which is a huge night for partying. So we're going to play at a place, and it's going to be lots of fun. We have other people coming there. Yeah. And it should be great. In the end, though, it is all about the women. It's all about the women.
You catch a unicorn because the women can women can bond yes and we trust each other and we like each other and we want to share and we want to like yeah you know do life and fun things together and yeah yeah it's that rainbows attract rainbows i'm just gonna say and you let in you want like her to do things to me that you wouldn't do exactly like which i find fascinating because he has so many effing kinks the last time exactly i love it too like sat on my face and squirted on my face oh my god wow massive disclosure okay Okay, blah, drum, blah, drum. No, he already said it.
I know, but it was a splash. I loved it, it was splashdown, yeah. It was a splash zone. No, but here's the point, though.
Jack R is just talking about it from his perspective i am you have to realize like how cool that was for her to do that i can still see every moment i can almost feel it it's like oh my god and you like lay down yeah but but it happened for her too yeah like you know what i mean yeah it's just like that exactly yeah it's in the books so cool so that's how you get a unicorn man we can revisit this soon yeah okay so all right so thank you very much for that segment our next segment is what's our next segment exactly what's coming up next okay we'll talk up next? Okay.
We'll talk to you very soon. Love you, Jay. Oh, she's so gallop. Sound effects. All right. So that was our main topic, and we hope you enjoyed that but this is what's coming up next yes what is that you have the notes in front of you okay the notes are we had a a couple's sexy night together what is that So good friends of ours who actually did the episode Newbies to Nobies, that couple, they're very sexy, and we like being with them. And what kind of happened, they were part of our house party, and they were here.
So we don't get a big chance to be with them alone so they were like can we come back and so we could both four of us be alone oh yeah sure so we come up with a date it would have been awkward like yeah like so i i was saying to jr i was like you know we really wanted to be with r and l oh yeah. Right? And so how do we excuse ourselves? Yeah, we had like eight people here. So we were like, oh, like we're supposed to say, okay, we're going to run upstairs now and you guys do your own thing. It's our house. We're just going to be with them and fend for yourselves.
So anyway, that's going to happen in a couple of weeks. Oh, nice. They're going to come here.
We we're gonna have a little yeah yeah dinner or whatever some drinks and then get naked he's the one that last new year's eve at the party that jay our unicorn was shocked she had no idea right that's right yes you would never know you would never think because he's very kind of meek and mild exactly he's a very kind of he's attractive he is yeah but he's not like this you know black adonis like you know you don't look at him and say oh yeah that guy's like gonna be like right but i've heard from the women he has his stamina that's like whoa honey did you not see the stamina well i wasn't gonna say that yeah in any case it's super fun yeah he has like yeah yeah crazy stamina right like all night long stuff like like coming.
Yeah. Yeah. Crazy. Oh, my God. He's a great guy. And then on December 8th, maybe if you're in the area, if you're in the Morristown area, my new band that's really very fabulous has got great musicians and a great singer. Oh, is this the brunch? This is the brunch thing. At the bougie place. At the very bougie place. 1776. The place is called 1776. In Morristown. David Burke is the chef. Yeah, yeah. He's a famous chef. He's got places in the local. Come out. You'll find me. Yeah, she'll be there. Yeah, yeah. He will be there in the audience.
I'll behind the drums again hello we'll have we'll have some other lifestyle people we're gonna have much you will recognize us again i'm gonna have a drum you can't miss me can't miss me so it's like a brunch it's like 11 a.m to 3 p.m yes yes and it's gonna be like more soft kind of rock and jazz and stuff for the first set. And then unplugged. So it's going to be great. What else? Oh, New Year's Eve. At our house. Big, our traditional New Year's Eve party. We're doing it again. I know. We skipped it last year, but we're doing it this year.
Yeah, because we were at Carlos and Amanda's wedding. Back at our house. 50, 60 people, you know, it brings food. I think we're up to, we're about halfway filled. We're about 30, but 30 people at this point. Yeah, we have room for about 20 more. Right. 20 more people. Right. So 10 more couples. It's a really fun thing. Crazy fun thing. Yeah. What are you talking about?
Well, I think there's a winter solstice party yeah early january right after our party yeah and we've talked about this this is at a friend's house they have this huge house people come with food and this and that but it turns into a big orgy like 100 people yeah but yeah they have a bigger house than that yeah they do and their list is bigger than ours yeah kind of different group different yes a lot of the same people oh yeah a lot of same like the 50 people that come to ours are there true it's another 50 exactly yeah so and then finally finally do not forget our group trip. Group trip.
We're doing Temptations. Temptation. May 1st through 5th. Temptation Resort. Yeah. And I'm actually working on necklaces now. For everybody that's going to attend, you're going to get like this beaded name necklace. Yeah. Right. And I'm working on other things too. So it's on our website, LifestyleLinks.com..com's L-Y-N-X Lifestyle L-Y-N-X website, LifestyleLinks.com. It's L-Y-N-X, LifestyleL-Y-N-X.com. You can book it there. And we found out, if you want to book extra days before and after. And there's a lot of people doing that, actually.
On the sign-up, on the transcript where you're going to put your name and your registration there's a box on a bar for notes just put in there what extra days you want and you're going to get that also at the same rate discounted rate you have to realize listen listen the discount rate is incredible yeah like the price is like so good right Right. And book now, it's only $200 to reserve. Reserve. And then you don't pay the balance until March 1st. Exactly. Yeah. And you'll be with our tribe. You could be with everybody. It'll be fun. It's going to be so much fun. It'll be fun.
You're going to meet everybody and it's going to be great. Yeah, yeah. It's going to be great. We invite you to join us. Well, I think that just about does it. That's our episode 20. Yeah. In its entirety. Wait, wait. I think I should say it. What are you going to say? Bye-bye, you beautiful people. That's a first time. All right. Bye.
