Episode 18: A Blissful InterviewSeptember 2024 ‘Main Topic’: We were interviewed by fellow swinger podcasters, David Carol, on the November 2023 Bliss Cruise. Our discussions centered around hosting House parties, how we got started in the Lifestyle and other interesting topics. ‘What Have We Done Lately’: Takes us to a sexy Memorial Day party at Lake Hopatcong, a day at Polo with our racehorse Lifestyle friends, the debut of JR’s new band in Morristown where multiple swinger friends attended, a weekend trip to Sunny Rest for their Halloween Party where the Flintstones made an appearance. ‘Where We Are Going Next’: We are set to attend a sexy House Party that is not ours for a change, weekend filled with intertwining vanilla and lifestyle events, staying with Lifestyle friends in Delaware and details on how to attend the HUGE October 25-26 ShareNation Halloween event. We, JR Dee, will be hosting the Game Show “Wheel of Fornication” at the Event on Saturday October 26 at 3:00pm. Don’t miss this! Get Tickets and information on our website Events page at:LifestyleLynx.comVisit us at https://www.LifestyleLynx.com for related Adult Events, Cruises, Resorts, Clubs, Parties, Meet Greets, Swinger Websites and more...
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hello you beautiful people i am jr and i'm d we have been in the lifestyle for seven plus years and we're here to share our sexy stories and experiences if you're not 18 this podcast is not for you and if you are please go visit lifestylinks.com that's l-y-n-x hello beautiful people and welcome to episode number 18 what's the name of this episode it's called a blissful interview oh okay a blissful interview yeah and what would that entail we were fortunate enough the last time we were on the bliss cruise is that we were interviewed by another lifestyle podcast we were david and carol yes so yeah we're gonna have that later on in our main topic area of us yeah it's us but this is what what is this well you know what we always do what do we do it's what have we done lately what have we done lately that's correct oh my god i almost forgot so what have we done lately?
What have we done lately? That's correct. Oh, my God. I almost forgot. So what have we done lately? You have the list. Yeah. So right after we released our episode 17, we attended a party at Friends House at Lake of Packon. And they have this great, like, garage, but it's half a garage and half a playroom. Right. So it was a whole bunch of people. Well, and he built a new bed. He did. He built this crazy bed with, like, stockades and straps and books and all kinds of stuff. It was starting to get used, too. Yeah. And also a St. Andrew's Cross he built, too. Yeah. He built. That's pretty neat.
He's very handy. He's very, very handy. Our friend C&C. Yeah. Very good. We just saw them. We just saw them. Yeah, yeah. So that was great. A lot of friends there. Yeah. Some new people. Right. Some new people. That was cool. Yeah. Like everybody brings food. Yeah, a typical thing. Yeah. Everybody brings food and booze and this and that. Right. It's kind of like a house party, but they have like this extra space. Yeah. It's like that it's built just for house parties. Yeah, it is. Yeah. It's pretty cool. Yeah. Really cool. What about after that? We did a, we went to a horse event, polo.
You know, if anyone's not familiar with polo, you know, there's riders and there's a ball rolling around. They have a mallet and they're hitting a ball around us. It's a very cool thing. And there's how many chuckers in a polo match? Thank you very much.
with polo you know there's riders and there's a ball rolling around it's big they have a mallet and they're hitting a ball around it's it's a very there's how many chuckers in a polo match a six there is oh because i learned something yeah oh wow and the trucker is like a period like you know exactly quartered football you have to have a horse for every chucker you do like so when you're a polo player you have to bring six horses right to play it's the reason why i mentioned it we went with our really good really great lifestyle friends who owned racehorses right and we brought them to our like polo event something and it was the first time they had seen polo right which was super fun it was super cool so it was great hanging out with them as always it was really great then middle of the month as people know i have a musician i'm a drummer and i got together with some former musicians that are really really good that i've done recordings with and you know cds with our own music and this and that and we got together again and created a new band with a new singer who's very good yeah and we had a debut and this is more like rock blues kind of more difficult kind of music and it's highly arranged the keyboard player arranges everything so yeah it's great it's really it's The level of musicianship is so astonishing.
He'll start a song on the keyboards or something. You don't know what it is until we get into it. It's like, whoa, that's what that is. Really, really cool stuff. But the reason why we mention it is that we had the 20 lifestyle friends come. We did. And that's what lifestyle people do. They come and they support. People loved it. They were dancing. It was great. We had a great crowd. We mentioned this before. You know, even when you don't have sex with your friends and stuff, you get together. Right. And you do fun things together. Yeah. It was just wonderful. It was. It was really good.
And I mentioned that we just saw C&C. We just got back, like a few hours ago, from Sunny Rest. I know. Such a cool place. Such a great place. Our dear friends, M&D. He's a DJ, and she works there, and we stay with them in their cabin, in their camper. In their camper. In their luxury camper. In their tiki bar. In their Bukkake Palace.
Oh, my God, all kinds of crazy stuff their next door neighbors have a little like a walkway like a catwalk to go across to the neighbors and there's always parties if you guys haven't been to sunny rest highly recommend it in pennsylvania yeah oh my goodness it's like the funnest place ever it's like a mini hito yeah i mean there are some nudists but most of the People are swingers and they're just lovely. And we had fun. Oh, so we were with J&C and C&C. C&C. And then there was that new couple. New couple, friends of theirs. Yeah. And we all dressed up. Well, it was.
So even though it's September. No, we did the Friday night first. Right. Oh, that was crazy. We were on the golf carts following the hayride. Oh, yeah. And it was like a pub crawl. Well, let me just back up for a second. So even though it's the last weekend of September, they close down for the season because they have to shut the water off. Yeah. So this was their big final weekend, and they do Halloween. Right. Halloween.
So that's the point of the hayride and the trick-or-treat the trick-or-treat like parade golf course just stop at different houses there was like nine stops nine stops and we just give it a shot and treats and candy and actually the folks that were next to m&d's place yeah on the stop yeah so we went back we did that yeah k yeah it's funny they were a spot yeah they were and she had made all these special like fall type shots yeah it was like apple cider or something like caramel yeah that's what it was was like really cool really cool and they're they're super sexy really nice people oh yeah yeah in fact she was like before time she's like parading around naked trying to get ready and the fun thing is I'll like wake up in the morning and I come out I'm like having my coffee and I I can kind of see them and hear them to the side yeah having sex we've heard her before oh yeah she's not like crazy loud no but she's just a little loud but she's sexy cute no it was yeah it's very nice it's very nice so the saturday night that was a friday night with that whole pub crawl kind of thing saturday night within and then what was his birthday he got like a threesome yeah well he was on he's, women on the cross, on the angels cross, vlogging.
Oh, my God. It's crazy. But the Saturday night, they do Halloween. Right. It was a costume contest. It was a costume contest. People's costumes were pretty elaborate. Very good. We did the Flintstones. It was like eight of us. We had Fred, Wilma, Barney, and Betty. Dino. Yeah. So one of our friends had this huge Dino inflatable costume. Oh, it was really good. He was like eight feet tall. It was crazy. And then when he danced, it would like move around. It was beautiful. Problem was, he couldn't take a drink because he was in a big suit.
Then the whole golf cart looked like the Flintstone mobile. So the guy, C&C, who's very good at it. He's the handyman. Very handyman. He made cutouts. Oh, yeah. And he decorated the golf cart like the Flintstone mobile. Exactly. With the top, the ruffly top. And the bones. The bones and the lumber for wheel. Yeah, yeah. It was great. It was great. Yeah, yeah. Awesome, awesome. So we just got back from that a little while ago. I know. And the other really cool thing that's happened lately that JR didn't know that I was going to talk about is that I have suddenly became multi-orgasmic.
That's right. Oh, my God. Yeah. So we'll have sex, and I kind of make her comfort. Right know that's right and then we focus on him but then she comes like well i'm trying to do my thing and it throws the whole thing off and then i'm i'm coming again and then and like then we try for him again and then i'm like coming again i'm like oh my god okay fine where did this come from all of a, I can have like two or three orgasms in one session, which is completely new for me. Yes. So, this is a good thing. So, I must be doing something right. Exactly. Oh, my goodness gracious. All right.
So, you guys stay tuned. We have a very exciting middle episode that's going to come up here. Our main content was we were on the Bliss Cruise, and we got interviewed by another lifestyle podcast. Yeah. Who contacted us several weeks before time? You'll hear us being interviewed. Don't you worry. On the Bliss Cruise. All right. Well, stay tuned, and we'll be right back. Said I'm all about it. Yeah, and we are so excited to welcome today's special guests to continue our discussions about sexy swinger lifestyle parties. So we have Dee and JR from Lifestyle Links.
They have a podcast about their journey into the lifestyle. Of course, we met them right here on the Bliss Cruise. They're here with us and lots of other sexy peeps. Welcome. Thank you so much. And thanks for reaching out to us and doing this with us. It's great. We are very excited to meet you.
We reached out before the cruise like a lot of people do right to get to know some people so you have some friends already on the cruise and we met up right away when you got here so that's pretty good so d tell us briefly about your couple how long you've been together yeah yeah do you like anal sex you asked me that earlier okay yes but it wasn't on air because he thinks. I know, right? Yes, yes. Sometimes I do like anal sex. I'm good with it sometimes. So we have a very, it's a very crazy story. We've been together for about eight years.
And it's actually in our episode one where we talk about how we became swingers. I organically have been a swinger my whole life.
So it's not anything that I woke up one day and decided to do i've kind of always been this way my first threesome was when i was 19 years old i was separated from my ex-husband for six years i lived with a guy and a girl we're all boyfriend and girlfriend together i just didn't know there were any names for any of this so jr and i meet on match match.com yeah and so this is like eight years ago and we're emailing we're talking on the phone and all of a sudden he says I'm a swinger I'm like okay what's that so yeah we have this house parties hotel takeovers and cruises and a website I'm like it's organized I was the only one in the world organically it happens to me so what's interesting about that is you know Carol andlyn and i have been swingers for 18 years and we found out about it when we went to temptation in cancun and a couple from england uh we were sitting next to them on the beach and they were just telling us all about you know this underground world that exists and carolyn and i our whole careers have been traveling we were both in sales and marketing we've been all over the world and we got back to our room and said how the fuck did we not know about this i'm saying we were clueless absolutely but so intrigued we asked a million questions were there what that sounds like fun i want to do it and that's actually why a lot of people end up listening to podcasts yes when you're new yeah it's the best source.
Yeah, absolutely. A little kickstart, you know? Jair, where did you learn about it, though? So the next night, we played with them. Oh, the same couple, yes. They told you about it, and then you dove in. Right. We played with them. The next night, we played with another couple. The next night, we played with another couple full swap, and we've never looked back. Oh, good news. Yeah, we went in. Head first. Yeah. Yeah, so I was with someone else before Dee, and she had been playing around with different clubs and things in New Jersey. So she kind of introduced me.
So she was in the lifestyle before you were in the lifestyle. Yeah, she got in your ex. Yeah, yeah. Okay. And we went to a club in New Jersey, and they handed us a one-year free subscription to SLS. Okay. So that, you know, obviously blasted me into the lifestyle. We're actually going to do a podcast because the way he did the lifestyle with the other girl for the couple years is very different than the way we do the lifestyle. Very different. I like that because it doesn't really matter how you do it. It's whatever works for your couple, right? Yes. Right.
So tell us a little bit about how you used to do it in the past. So we really didn't have the friend tribe that I have with Dee at all. We would just go to clubs on the bliss cruise. Hotel takeover. Yeah, hotel takeover. More about kind of like the show and the... Yeah, she was more into the showiness of... Like the costumes. Yeah.
More like the hot wifing type thing yeah yeah sort of yeah yeah but then we developed friends and friendships and a tribe along the way that we uh we cultivate and bring new people yeah because the lifestyle really ultimately is about the people it's not about the sex exactly yes yeah we have friends that we don't play with us too same you know same thing we have people we play with who aren't our friends we don't have a lot of that because we always say oh we've only had one one-night stand yeah I'm bliss here you can do that we make it so you guys have been together for eight years right technically you've been in the lifestyle together for eight years yes so you didn't want to like start start by strengthening your couple you didn't worry about sharing partners before you know each other to us the lifestyle does strengthen our relationship we are individually yeah but then we were so lucky to find each other that we could actually do it together that's amazing so right from the get- the get-go, I mean, I have an episode, we just did an episode on the Green-Eyed Monster.
The jealousy thing. So, we're, neither one of us are jealous kind of people. Yeah. So, it just innately came easy to us. It works for us. Like, it strengthens our relationship. And keeps it spicy too makes the variety it brought us closer for us and helped us discover each other and you know so do you prefer playing with couples or do you do threesomes as well? Both and do you prefer two girls or two guys? typically it's female, male, female just because I did that in my vanilla life for so long, like I look back at any of my previous sexual Thank you.
Typically, it's female, male, female, just because I did that in my vanilla life for so long. I look back at any of my previous sexual experiences. I said, all my boyfriends in the past, I've done threesomes with. We've done male. They didn't even know lifestyle existed. Yeah, yeah, exactly. So organically, that's easier. Once in a blue moon, we'll have a single guy.
So tell us how you found your third wheel back then when you didn't even have a website to go to to find the extra person how did you deal with that well because I love women hey and so you're here yeah so I actually talk about it in one of our podcasts is that I had an old boyfriend who stayed friends with his ex-girlfriends okay and I became friends with the ex-girlfriends there were two of them and he was a high roller in Atlantic City so he'd say to me well why don't we bring Caviar why don't we bring Kim and I was friends with them and it so it was very natural and you knew them already and you already felt comfortable and he had already dated them and they broke up yeah so what's he gonna leave me to go back right he's already been there done done that but now now what happens sometimes is there's a couple we know and they'll break up and we'll bring the girl in and you know and sometimes a guy it depends yeah exactly your default is you prefer playing with girls than another guy for me it's easier because i don't like to be the center of attention and so for me me to entertain two guys at the same time is somewhat stressful.
It's a lot of work. But what if the other guy was into him? Yeah, but he's not by in any measure. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, he'll do like, in one of our episodes, we talk about DP. But typically, he's only doing DP with a guy he knows.
and it's not like he's kissing the guy no you know and if you know yeah but when you're doing dp there is going to be some you get close i'm not homophobic anyway so let me tell you carol loves double vag would you do that what's that absolutely he has done two cocks in her pussy i've done oh yeah yeah sure now you're caught with another guy i know that's all right you're not making out with him right it's for her both heads are making out with each other but that's okay but it's for her that's that's the point yeah oh no that's all about me i love my cock stroking against another cock against her pussies inside oh yeah that's and then once we did it barely you can hardly hold on like he comes so quickly because he's so turned on she had a double load in her pussy at the same time yeah then she squirted yeah oh wow super hot it was just really well you had to have your mattress then yeah yes our blanket for sure oh yeah the blanket i'm sorry so do you guys like orgies we do we actually have one plan for today oh you do yeah tell us what tell us what you have planned well hold it where is it and why weren't we all that that's that's classified classified yeah yeah no so we do yeah what kind of orgy is it planned for no maybe 12 of us yeah not too many but because you like selection yeah and i mean that is the nice thing about orgy it's almost like how you're when you have a house party you can like switch it up so let's say i really am into him but you know he doesn't like you you know so you can yeah and that's the beauty of the orgy for sure kind of pick and choose who you're going to be with and that's the beauty of a house party too because you can mix and match things but are you guys doing the uh orgy in basketball court?
Yes. It's going to be hot. We're going to try. We're going to try. It's going to be hot. Bring some cool, like a lot of water. Sunscreen. And sunscreen. The glow party was yesterday. But definitely take care of yourselves. The beds are great out there. We've played out there many times, but it does get hot.
We did times you know the cruises yeah don't you find sometimes when you play and it's too hot and you overheat you can't come yeah yeah because it's distract you get distracted you try to you think about how hot you are and you're not well carol gets distracted because my sweat as soon as the sweat drips on me i start worrying that his cock is going to fail to come and then i how frustrated it gets. So then I make sure he cools. Yeah. I give it a chance to cool down, stop thrusting, you know. But then she's worried about that and we're not doing it.
And she ends up taking out her womanizer and we're done. No, stop it. The womanizer. The womanizer. Yeah, what's the womanizer? Is it not a toy? It is a toy. It's a vibrating toy. It's an airbrush. It sucks on your foot. Yes, exactly. Oh, nice.
You'll have to show that to us sure yeah that's pretty cool all right so we'll talk we'll get back to the orgy after but you had mentioned house parties right so what does it take to put together a house party a lot a lot we go through a lot i don't think we should but we do it anyway yeah so we actually have a an episode where we talk about how to host a house party. We have a very large, we live in an area in the United States where there's a lot of swingers. A lot of swingers. So we have like a go-to list. You know, we're emailing eVites to people.
Is that like from the SLS where you found couples or you have your own database? We start sometimes. It's mostly friends that we made and extensions of those friends. They'll bring in other people. So your own database, basically. It's like about 250 people. It's on our kind of tribe list. We don't post our house parties on SLS. No, we don't. Not at all. So it's by private invitation. It is. But then friends bring friends. And you allow that, right? Yeah. You encourage it sometimes?
If they're friends of them and they say they're cool and they're kind of there we typically have one or two new couples yay we like that right so like our last house party we had about 52 people uh we probably had one new couple yep we did and they were friends of someone else so nice so how do you prepare your house oh a lot of preparation. Because we've done house parties. Two years ago we did one that was 20 couples. And it was too much. It was too many people. So we kind of moved the chairs away from the main dining room table. And that's where the food goes. We cook food.
We cook a main course. People bring appetizers or a dessert. And BYOB. It's BYOB plus a mixer. And of course, it's our friends. We don't charge anything. No. But do you set it up where everybody has to play together? Or are they not going to bedrooms? We have the bedrooms. And then in the lower level, it's finished. We have a rec room with a pool table and stuff. We put out four mattresses. That's kind of like, so downstairs is all open.
So you guys need our blankets on every bed so we set up the downstairs as like a playroom yeah and then we have our bedroom and then we have other bedrooms so there's some private spots and then there's some open spots or you know more and this is And this is your private home, right? Yes. Now, does your family or friends know that you host these parties in your home? All of our friends are lifestyle people. Yeah. And your families? Yes. They know what you're doing? J.R. didn't have children, but I have adult children. Okay. And they both know.
And they don't come visit when you're having a party? No. Not more. Oh, my younger son would love to be there. He'd love to. Yeah, we'd say no. Is he curious? Oh, he's already had experiences. But is he in the lifestyle? No, because he's newly married with young children. Oh, yeah, it's tough. So they have babies. So eventually, you know. Sure. What is he, like 28? He's 26, actually. Close. Yeah, yeah. So eventually it'll happen for him. You know, you kind of got to get through that.
through that does he ask you questions or just like absolutely i've got to tell you this really funny story it's the funniest thing ever so i'm driving him we're going shopping and he's hungry right and i can't do uh i can't do uh red meat and like i have to watch my fat intake for medical reasons and we're driving and he's hungry i'm like oh look here's the five guys but i can't have five guys and he looks at me and he says mom jr gets you five guys all the time that's hilarious i love it so when the kids were younger did you have an open dialogue with them about sex and sexuality so they had that continuous discussion and education because i was raised that way you know so I was five years old and I'm in my mother's closet and I find these playing cards of these new people and it's like a deck of cards with different sexual positions and I'm five and I show it to her and she's like oh yeah that's what people do when they're in love so I mean I was always like that with my children children so they know and they're very happy for me it's really good to have that open dialogue yeah there's too many people who are afraid to talk to their kids about sex yes and they learn about it on porn hub or watching porn yes and they don't get the credible information right and you know and the emotional bonds that come with it i mean it's just like my mother saying yeah that's what people do when they're in love you know it doesn't necessarily have to be related to marriage I'll see you next time.
right and you know and the emotional bonds that come with it I mean it's just another saying yeah that's what people do when they're in love you know it doesn't necessarily have to be related to marriage but it's when you care about someone and you're having this wonderful physical and emotional and you can talk to them from first-hand experience right well you know when I was your age and I did this yeah don't make that same mistake or yeah the tips and tricks yeah so no it it's fun it's so important for not only couples within a couple to talk about their sex life but for parents to talk to their kids at age appropriate yes about sexuality and that's you have to realize my children are older yeah yeah a 26 year old you can talk you know you would never have that relationship when they're a teenager yeah but at least be open-minded there's other things to talk to them about as teenagers which is safer sex which is respecting the woman which is making sure she comes first and you know all that stuff where it's not just about her sucking your cock right and you know it's for me like my mother said to me when i was a teenager she's like when you have sex you're not doing it for anybody else if you don't like it and it doesn't feel good then you shouldn't be doing it I don't live their whole life like that even today well I figured it out on my own my mother never said a word ever right to me in my entire life about sex not as a child not as a teenager not as a young adult not as an adult yeah so never I I was fortunate I had an orgasm while I had never had penetration so I had an orgasm before but you say you're bisexual yeah Carol's by selfish yes anymore because I know all about it but yeah and by selfish when it works for me I'm good with it.
By situation. Right. By situation. Yes. Definitely.
i know all about it but yeah i definitely um and by selfish when it works for me i'm good with my situation right by situation yeah yeah definitely the other thing we do for house part you asked about that question we have a big deck in the back so we put tiki torches out and lights and music out there and we have breakfast in the morning for everyone we do a group people stay over yes they sleep anywhere in your house like where do we have okay that you know for people the persons that come the farthest they get a bedroom so the play room turns into a sleeping yeah it does i mean people that come the farthest get bedrooms okay the people bring your mattresses yeah people bring your mattresses we once we once went to our friend's house um because we had gone to a party and we ended up sleeping in their bed yeah there you go another son came well they had a king-size bed so it was good okay yeah the sun right which was not really planned i know but obviously he knew they were he did not oh no it was get under the bed get under the sheets hide hide some people stay in hotels in the area and then we encourage them to come back in the morning for the group breakfast so we used to do post parties and we used to do hotel takeovers and stuff like that and you know everybody thinks hey you're putting together a party you're going to have lots of sex and we more often than not didn't end up playing do you guys play at your parties that's interesting I usually don't because I'm the host I'm running around people say where's this where's this?
Where's that? I'm getting things for them. No, he does sometimes. Sometimes. I have to drag myself away from the hosting. The responsibility of it. Typically, I do. Not as much as I would like to. You know, so last house party, I got to hook up with a female and a male. And it was a female, male, female situation. That was beautiful.
I think the most I've ever hooked up at one of our own house parties is like maybe three times right and one night which is a big night and you so if you yeah but then I'm what happens is then if he's hooking up three times then I'm the one that's being the host so we kind of you know yeah for sure so then I'm doing all which is fine we have house parties like a lot so so your favorite play is jumping in with a couple is that what i would say here easiest for me yeah most comfortable and then you can always just get back out and go into the next one like that also you don't have to worry about consoling after how was it for you like no you're in it for yourself exactly yeah we didn't have a good time and then and then i'm not responsible for the ends right yeah yeah which Which is true.
In the last house party, we had a single come like the day before and stay with us so yeah and so i had a uh real encounter with her well they were supposed to be setting up so that was the pre-party party it was the pre-party so i had you know i had that for four times so i was satisfied why is this not done oh you guys did a great job on the decorations but what happened you know you're supposed to use lube before you put it in your ass oh is that what happened all right next time next time i'm sorry what about the next day first the next day do you have someone help you clean the house so what happens is is that it we probably prepped for a house party for a day or two like we're moving furniture around setting up decorations we have the house party and then it probably takes us about a week or two to put it all back yeah i get it yeah i get it it's not a priority anymore there's no deadline on that exactly right no deadline but i find like for us the advantage of the house parties are so we'll have couples that we meet you know and so it because it's just let's say 50 people we're all under the same roof you know where your partner is and and it's just safer and it's like you know i can go with him or he can go with her and it's just a you're within a very close proximity yeah And most of these people've had sex with before exactly like it's not so it's very known and common and comfortable which i think like from a woman's perspective if you know a guy you're more likely to have an orgasm because you're comfortable for sure so it kind of helps yeah it does you know yeah feeling safe is very important for enjoying sex so one of the rules we had about our house parties was we have either played with you or you can bring someone that you've played with okay but we really try to avoid those wild cards who you know nothing about exactly we're the same way now we'll have we have had new people so a couple invites another couple and they're new to the lifestyle.
And so for us, what happens is on our main level, there's no sex on the main level. So a new person can feel very comfortable. They don't have to worry about, oh, I'm going to a house party. Everybody's expecting me to have sex. And so there are no expectations. You can just go. And even then, you can wander upstairs. You can look around watching other people or you can go downstairs and so it's a nice, safe, nobody expects you to have sex.
So one of the first house parties we went to and we were super excited, it was out of town, we had come in the night before, it was going to be 20, 30 couples and we were really excited, we got there early and we're just sitting in the kitchen chatting and a guy comes and sticks his fingers in Carol's pussy no what would we do well I would say that wasn't very nice yeah and then we would make a decision whether we would stay or go right I mean depending on the other people the host you know it would just depend it could just be an odd occurrence where you had somebody that wasn't very it ended up being a house party that was a lot of random people and we had two other couple friends who were showing up and they came in looked around and the three of us said yeah we all we all this drama yeah back to our hotel yeah a great book right right and it was just the six of you and it was yeah I'm the kind of person I would say something to that person I would say something but we've had we've had for the future also very rarely not proper behaviors right right inappropriate yeah yeah we had we've only had in I mean we've been doing house parties for years now we had one incident where a man didn't put a condom on and the husband saw it and was very upset in probably i'm gonna say out of 20 house parties or even more that we've only had one kind of mishap there you go that's been patched up and sometimes alcohol you forget or you don't exactly whatever it was a mistake it was just a it was intentional in any way.
So as we get to the end of the show, at the end of this segment, you were telling us about this group orgasm. How did you set it up? How many people were involved? And how did it all come out? So the interesting thing about that is that it wasn't set up at all. Really? No.
there was probably about we have four air mattresses and then just probably about eight multiple maybe like 16 about 16 i would say 16 people on downstairs all in the same room i actually wasn't having sex at the time we have a bar down there as well so people sitting at the bar too naked sitting watching and then other people so it was not planned at all and um there was a lot of noise like you know you've got 60 people having sex you know there's like moans and everything and then it just happened organically all of a sudden you could you could hear like the, it was like this rise.
And then there was like, the room got silent. Like all 16 people in the room were quiet. And he wasn't there. He was upstairs hosting. I was upstairs hosting. It was organic. It was not pre-planned.
So a few years ago, ago we were on another bliss cruise and we were in the playroom playing with probably three or four other couples and it was you know probably 45 minutes or an hour into our play session and then in our group you could hear the women and the men building up to that crescendo of the orgasm yes and thenols pretty loud and she came and the other girl came and then i like a domino effect yes no joke there was 20 or 30 other people in the playroom on this one after the other after the other and there's like 200 people in the playroom and it was like that domino effect and everybody started popping off these orgasms boom boom and it was such uh i wish i could tape record it yes but the sounds because everybody comes differently yeah it was just awesome it was one of those memories that we'll have forever yeah ours wasn't as big as that but it was well you don't have a big royal caribbean ship no but it's something you'll remember forever is all i'm saying like we have that sound in our head yes it was yes it really was that's why we put it in our podcast because it's a really interesting moment so let me ask you a quick question great before we get to the end um i'm gonna ask you for the first question is the most important thing that someone needs to know who's planning to do a house party and the most important thing someone needs to know who's going to a house party for the first time okay i would say on your first question is you know plan your attendee list properly get the people that are gonna be comfortable with each other and such and planning planning the party out.
So the compatibility is important for you. Yes. Who are you inviting? And for the second question of people who are coming to the party, and this is what we talk about in our last podcast, is communicate with each other. Have your expectations set up front. What are you going to do together? What are you not going to do together? What's okay? What's not okay? Right. Exactly. Make sure you're on the same page going into the house. Because that prevents drama. Yeah.
And we tell people also, if you set up your limits and you set up your boundaries, try as much as possible not to change them on the fly. You know, if you want to do something, come back to a second house party.
But, you know, stick together, stick together talk communicate and stick to what you've agreed to and if you're not going to do that pull your partner to the side go outside have a conversation yeah and say oh i don't want to do this what do you think i'm you know and you communicate it through yeah but you don't just do it yeah no for sure don't just do it yes absolutely so d and jr thanks so much for sharing your information and your stories why don't you tell people how they can find your podcast and your website so we have a website and on there there's um our podcast and certain information we list every party group and lifestyle club in the u.s so if you're going to go to colorado then where we're going to go go there you can see what lifestyle clubs are but it's lifestyle links it's l y n x dot com and there's several pages there with information and i saw your podcast is on your website as well yeah so there's one page with the podcast there's a little explanation what each one is and then there's links's links to, let's say, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts.
Just click those buttons and you'll go right to our podcast on those media stations. And, of course, if you missed any of this information, you can always go to our website, TheSexyLifestyle.com, where all of our guests have their own guest page.
And you can even contact them through there awesome wow another great show another great couple uh d and jr thanks so much for being here today well i want to thank david and carol for reaching out to us and making this happen on the bliss cruise fantastic amazing and like we do every show we want to thank all our listeners for being here week in and week out well that's it for our show today carol and I send you lots of love and great sex. Please stay safe and, of course, stay sexy, everyone. Okay, and we're back.
I hope you enjoyed that interview of the interviewers i know yeah it was super fun and i talked really fast we were so happy to get to do it it was right in the the main dining was right in the main dining room a little corner effect you probably heard people talking in the background people getting food and eating and talking and they do have this really cool blanket the waterproof they give us one they gave us one so we'll put it on our website somewhere we can do that yeah it's awesome it is awesome product you would never know it's like a blanket it's beautiful it's like a really cool it comes with different colors to coordinate with your exactly decor yeah Which is super cool.
Super cool. Yeah. All right. So this segment is what? What's this segment? What's coming up next? What's coming up next? And what is that? Well, pretty soon. Pretty soon. Like next weekend. We're going to get to go to somebody else's house party. Yes, we do. Oh, my God. Thank God. Oh, my God. It's always us having house parties.
I know our friends jay and a have two house parties a year right but this is not jay and this is not this is g and c c that live right outside of like king of prussia yeah philadelphia yeah yeah and they're having a house party more invited they're all nervous about it so i'm like coaching them don't do this do that really yeah he's a little nervous about i didn't know that yeah he's all like oh i haven't done this in a while oh yeah yeah no but at our last house party you hooked up with her oh yeah so that that's good we're not gonna have any problems there don't you worry yeah she's this beautiful blonde and she has a hair like a lion's mane it's like it's so thick i know yeah she's beautiful just wrap myself in it it's great wrap myself wrap my cock hair on my cock i do it she loves it anyway so yeah we have a house party yeah a bunch of friends there's a whole bunch of new people.
Oh, that'll be fine. Yeah, I looked at the list and I go, I don't know half these people. We might expand our tribe. I think we're definitely going to. Yeah. All right. And then the following weekend, it's kind of loose. Yeah, we have a bunch of like family things going on, but we're going to work in, like we always do. In between, it's like. And our single girlfriend, Jay, has this concert she wants us to go to. Yeah, it's a cool band she wants me to hear. But then there's a friction party we're trying to get to. Yeah, maybe. And then there's a baby shower. And then we have a wedding.
And then there's a wedding. And then there's my cousin, like a cousin's wedding in Long Island island on sunday so we got to be careful how much we do we have to like try to squeeze it all in yes we think going down during the week and staying with some lifestyle friends in the delaware area that would be fun well you've stayed with before yeah when you were down yes you stayed friends. They're really good. Yeah. Yeah, fantastic. Funny as hell. V and I. V and I. Yes. We'll let you know how that went. And then, of course, you can't miss this event. You can't miss this. It's coming up.
And we talked about this before. And people, if you want to have one of the best times ever, Share Nation, October 25th, 26th. Halloween party. It's one of the biggest parties of the year. It's just giant. It's great. It's amazing. The really cool thing about Share Nation is that it's very multicultural. Yes. You have all different races.
You have all different different ages it's like just high energy very open very friendly like it's a nice fun fun group oh and then we're gonna play a game yeah but let me just say something about what you said as you know when you go to other events and things sometimes it can can be very clicky. Yeah. It can be very clicky. There's a narrow demographics. You know, there's a very tight age group, for instance. Yeah. And Share Nation's not like that. Exactly. It's all over the place. There's a lot of nationalities and people. You can find your tribe. Absolutely. You can find your people there.
Yep. So. Absolutely. Love that. Yeah. But then we're doing a game. We're doing a game show. Yeah. Yeah. We're going to do a- Wheel of Fornication.
Wheel of of fornication this should be the last time not the last time but we should mix it up next time we probably do the lifestyle family feud again no i i i want to do that new game oh the heads up heads up we got to figure that out yeah and we do the naughty time we do the naughty ones yeah of course we do so we're trying to figure out how to do that as a group game yeah the problem is you need a lot of clues well we did it we put together 200 clues yeah in any case you got to come to share nation there are still rooms at the holiday inn in Parsippany. Last we checked. Right.
This was like Saturday night. All the information is on LifestyleLinks.com. Yeah. R-Y-N-X. Great, great swinger party. On the event page, it tells you what the hotel is, how to book it, who to call, what the room types are. There's a button there to get tickets to get tickets So just hit the button, get tickets And whether you're new or you're experienced It's a great event Regardless It is, it's fantastic And then the really exciting news is that What's that? May 1st May 1st what? May 1st of 2025 Through May 5th We're doing a group trip to Cancun Cancun To Temptations. Temptations.
So it's four nights. Four nights, that's right. All your food. Is there a echo in here? All your booze. There's seven restaurants, six bars. Oh, you researched. Two pools. You researched. On the ocean. It's only 20 minutes from the Cancun airport. Yeah. And so we're doing a group, Lifestyle Links group trip. Yeah. And right now the price is around $1,500 a couple. Right. All inclusive. Yep. You only have to pay for your flights. You can't beat that. And that's insane. And it'll include the transfers, the getting from the... It includes the transfers.
Yeah, like the getting from the airport to the hotel. Yeah, yeah, the bus ride. Yeah. It includes all the transfers. Yeah, yeah. So, oh my God. It's great. So, put that on your calendar. Yeah, we'll have it on the website soon. Yeah, and if you have any questions, email us. Yeah, we're working on a few little details here and there, but it'll be on the website too. It's going to be super fun. Yeah. What else? What's next? That's it for now. Oh, we've got to have some more stuff. Oh, no. Well, we're having some more stuff coming. Yeah, we do. Lots of stuff coming up.
So thank you very much for listening as always. And episode 18, we're getting there. I this is this is pretty cool yeah all right well until next time bye bye you beautiful people
