Episode 11: Exposè January 2024Main Topic: We ‘expose’ true stories from members of a live audience at a New Year’s Eve weekend event. Have laughs with this episode!! What Have We Done Lately , covers the ShareNation New Year’s Eve 3-Day weekend event, a big house party orgy, a very sexy hotel suite party and an evening with our best couple friends. Where We Are Going Next , highlights JR’s upcoming trip to NAMM, a Music industry convention in Anaheim CA while Dee attends a lifestyle house party with friends and the February 23-24 ShareNation ‘Mardi Trois’ hotel take-over in New Jersey. Get tickets on our website LifestyleLynx.com.Visit us at https://www.LifestyleLynx.com for related Adult Events, Cruises, Resorts, Clubs, Parties, Meet Greets, Swinger Websites and more...
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hello you beautiful people i am jr and i'm d we have been in the lifestyle for seven plus years and we're here to share our sexy stories and experiences if you're not 18 this podcast is not for you and if you are please go visit lifestylinks.com that's l-y-n-x hello you beautiful people this is episode 11 2024 sort of a series series two series Thank you. Hello, you beautiful people. This is episode 11, 2024. Sort of a series, series two of our podcast. And the name of this episode is Expose. Yes, because people are going to be exposing their stories. They are. They are. Yeah, where were we?
That's what I'm saying. Where the hell were we? We always start with what have we done lately. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. What was it? Well, New Year's Eve was off the charts. It was. We were up in Sturbridge, Massachusetts at the Share Nation New Year's Eve party. It was a three-day event. It was very cool. It was actually three nights. It was three nights.
So it was kind of four days yeah it was oh yeah we got there friday afternoon it was saturday all day sunday we left on monday morning exactly yes it's about three hour trip for us but well worth it right yes the hotel was super cool super cool loved it people were great they had an indoor pool yeah totally different people than we're used to yes a nice crowd and we had friends there too so it was new people and some people that we were busy we were very busy and the main highlight was the wedding and jr and i were fortunate enough to actually be in the wedding the wedding party yes yes i was like a groomsman you were a little bridesmaid.
Yeah. Actually, I was the maid of honor. You had your little bouquet. Yeah. You had a little boutonniere. Oh, yeah. It was great. It was beautiful. And we'll get to it because we're going to go in order. We are. I just want to say that it was the most beautiful vows, wedding vows, that I had ever heard. Ridiculous. And I actually helped Amanda a little bit.
She had a bunch of different stuff and we brought it all together and carlos did a beautiful job on his vows too people were crying and the person officiating yes the wedding who is a dj yep he was spectacular he was amazing the best officiant I've ever heard. Yeah. So if you've got kids getting married. Are you getting married? Come to us. We'll tell you who to get to officiate the wedding. Because it was amazing. It was just amazing. So we got there Friday afternoon. And I was helping a little bit with check-in for a little bit. But you had to carry so much stuff in.
We had so much we had did so many things right we hosted some events well we did the live podcast on saturday correct so we had all the recording equipment which we're using right now right and then and that's why our episode is called expose that's right because it's it's folks that came to the event and we had a live recording and these people talked and then we were in the wedding parties we had a lot of stuff for that flowers i had to run out and get the flowers and i had to put this special tablecloth on we had our lifestyle things banner we had yeah it was like crazy and then of course we hosted on sunday yeah wheel of Fornication.
Right. Hello. Yeah. We have a projector and microphones and stands and all kinds of stuff. Buzzers. And that was the first time that the New England crowd actually had heard or had seen or participated in Wheel of Fornication. And it was funny because they wanted us to keep going. They did. They didn't feel like it was long enough. We went like 40 minutes maybe. Right. They wanted more questions. They wanted more rounds. We're going to add two more rounds next time. Yeah. Try to go like a full hour. But, you know, it was new for them, and we didn't know how it was going to be received.
There were a couple of crazy women in audience they were being really naughty and unruly they're like hinting the clues and how i like put them in i like yeah turn around and say no no no no don't give it away because it's just like the wheel of fortune game exactly yeah it's like tv right and then and then of course there's a winner there's a winner there's a couple that couple that wins. Yeah, it was. Yeah, we keep score and how many points. And it's just super fun. And what did they get? They got a free ShareNation event. And what else? And a discount on the Bliss Cruise.
$200 off a future Bliss Cruise. Yeah, yeah. The $200 off the Bliss Cruise. And what is it? A couple's ticket? A couple's ticket to the next ShareNation event. Yeah. No matter where that is. Yeah. Whatever it is. Yeah, which was super cool.
So it's it's a pretty good prize right that's a few hundred dollars so yeah so friday we got there and then friday night was the barbie party that was in pink i know i had i had these pink boots on they were pretty cool and a pink shirt yeah it was good and oh that's the night no is that the night not yet no no keep going not yet okay don't give it away and then saturday was the wedding the wedding yeah i think i started with amanda getting ready at like i would say 2 2 30 and then these other two girls came in and did her hair and makeup right she looked like a princess yeah i know it's great yeah that's yeah yeah they just did a beautiful job i looked good and the photographer was great oh fantastic so if you need a recommendation on photographer he does sexy couples photo shoots right but he really good he did a beautiful job he got so many great shots he was all over the video too right well he was the guy that did the photo booth for all the events too if you're on facebook that particular weekend all those photos of couples are him he had this like It was not like a mirror it was right it was like a mirror thing and you stepped on a button switch yeah it took your picture yeah it was awesome you could see in the mirror what it was going to be right you could pose yeah and it took your picture and then yeah we got a couple group shots we did yeah which was yeah he's a fabulous photographer yeah we got some there's some there's some naughty ones too yeah and of course you know all the djs were amazing yeah there was like five six djs they just rotated around the clock yeah and what was cool is that amanda picked out some really really meaningful songs for the ceremony and like you know what the bridesmaids were going to walk down to what she was going to walk down to their first dance and some of the djs and of course we have to do a shout out for the av guy right the funny thing yeah we're going to say his name uh we can a good nickname nate yeah oh my goodness what a great sense of all the audio visual stuff such an awesome techie oh my god you're teaching me stuff which is you know yeah i know a lot but he's teaching me stuff which is unheard of so okay saturday during the day was the wedding but the funny thing for me with all that back and forth between a room oh which was way on one end of the hotel we were in what siberia yeah it crazy.
And then all the way around the hotel was the ballroom. Where we set up everything like a few times. So far. But on the way, I had my little cart. I wheeled my cart. And the funny thing is there was one couple. It was like an inside pavilion. There was a pool. And there was rooms inside. Right, that overlooked the pool. That looked the pool. So people had like- Inside. Yeah, so people had like, they're on their porch. And they have balconies that overlook the inside pool too. But if you're on the ground floor, it was like a porch of your house. And this one couple was always sitting there.
I passed them by all the time, talking to them. And I tell them about every event and things that were going on. They never showed up. They never showed up. Well, that happens. Oh my God, was that crazy? Well, they were nice to you. Yeah, we were joking around. We liked that crowd. It's a different crowd, but we liked it. It was just super fun. It was good. So Saturday night was, what was the theme Saturday night? It was like a Mardi Gras thing. Oh, carnival. Yeah, carnival. Carnival. Right. Oh, that's the night. It was a purple kind of bead. Well, yeah, yeah. Like kind of Mardi Gras. Yeah.
That's the night that we got to hook up with R&L and M&D and what's the other couple? S&J. The new couple, yeah. They're from Massachusetts. Right. They're from up there. The neat thing is that all those people that we just mentioned are actually, they recorded. Yeah, they were doing a recording. Yeah, and then what was really fun is- And our girlfriend, J, who we talk about all the time. Right. The two couples kind of went off, and then it was me and J.R. and R. and L. And J. shows up. She shows up.
Yeah, and of course we're not going to tell her no you can't join us please right so the thing is is that she had never been with the male of r and l right right and so did he give her a pounding or what he did oh my god i think she was quite surprised i didn't think she knew it was coming yeah yeah well that's okay no no i think she liked it yeah it was it was a very good thing so that was super fun and then sunday during the day we did well they have speed dating too they had speed dating twice twice saturday and sunday i thought it was friday it might have been yeah i'm not sure yeah right if there are a few bottles of vodka you know and then of course uh new year's eve was a white party correct yeah new year's eve and white party combined which was nice combined.
Which was nice. Which was super fun. So, yeah. We hope they have an event there at that facility again. Yeah. Management was super nice. Super nice. I worked with... Really good. I was creating the arch. I was putting lights onto the arch. Yeah. And she was the manager there. It was just super. But the strike of 12 Midnight was great.
We had all the Cher Nation team on stage, stage you know with all the people in the audience and it was good oh they opened up bottles of champagne on stages sprayed us all super fun so that was a great weekend and then the following weekend we had a super duper house party orgy event that we go to twice a year oh that one our very dear friends that's right yeah j and a j and a yeah it was big old house we've talked about this on the podcast yeah there's usually like about 90 to 100 people i think there was 92 yes well it snowed remember it snow the weather was bad it was bad so there were some folks that didn't come it's still 92 and snow was great fabulous crowd yeah yeah it was good yeah it was super good and it was really good we got to hook up with a bunch of people it was great it was beautiful then what did we do we did the next weekend with A&J.
Was that the next weekend? The hotel. Oh. The hotel suite party. Was it the next weekend? I'm not sure. It was in there. Yes. It was in there somewhere. Which is, yeah, just recent. It was actually the Sunday before Martin Luther King. Yes, it was the Sunday before Martin Luther King. We took advantage of people being off on the Monday. Right. And you know what? We have not been to a hotel suite party in a long time. It was great. It was a beautiful suite. Really beautiful. Huge living room, dining room, common area. Then there was a master bedroom with a bathroom.
There was another bathroom in the common area. Right. And then there was a second bedroom with double beds and another bathroom. B&D rented and adjoining room. So it was two bedrooms. Two bedrooms. With ensuite bathrooms and then a big big you know common area probably what 35 it was about 35 30 35 people very nice crowd very nice crowd they bought food it was nice it was beautiful really good and we we were lucky we got to hook up yeah it was great yeah i got the opportunity to be with a guy that a couple we were couple. We were with a couple. Yeah.
Well, I hadn't been with the one guy because it was the single girl that we know, and this is the second time she brought him to our house party, and then his first name begins with a B. It was great. Awesome, awesome. And then we got to hook up with some long-time friends. That's what I'm talking about. That's what I'm talking about. Oh, no, I'm talking about the young guy. What are you talking about? Oh, yeah. I'm not talking about that. I call them puppies. I'm not talking about that. She does. I got to hook up with a puppy. He's in, I think he's doing his residency or something.
Something like that. He's young. He's young. Yeah, but he's smart. He's good. I know. It was awesome. A long-time couple that we had not hooked up with yes yes beautiful it was great yeah yep they both went down on me how interesting is that the guy and the girl and I was I was behind her yes while she's going down on me which was awesome yeah yeah truly a foursome thing but actually with the husband then there was I think at on me, which was awesome. It was great. Yeah, yeah. Truly a foursome thing.
But actually, with the husband then, there was, I think, at another point, it was him and me and one of the other female friends. Right. Yeah. Yes. Of M&P. That's right. Yeah. So it was just a great experience. It was. Then we came out, we mixed in with the people again.
And the sad part of that is that there were like two other couples that we wanted to hook up with that we didn't have time to that's okay yeah yeah there's like yeah but no there was one of that there's a bunch of couples well there's at least two other couples it's a lot more than that so i don't want to hook up i don't know where you're at i don't know what part of you went to no but we talked in advance we said it would be really nice yeah if we could hook up with f and a yeah but that was the top of the list you know there was there was a secondary list for me what are you talking about if it'd be really cool we could hook up with f and a and then if we could hook up with um i'm doing the whole list i'm going down the list just wait let me just say the other couple that i wanted to hook up with um um um oh f and a definitely right they invited us to the house we have to do that j and m oh j and m we wanted to hook up with them so we kind of had a pre-plan and we said well let's try but it ended up going a completely different way which is okay this is actually a very interesting point so a lot of times in my mind when we go to a party like that and we've already hooked up with certain couples, you know, I kind of want to hook up with the couples we haven't hooked up with yet.
I know, but see me, yeah, but me, I like being with something that I know, that I know is good. But we didn't do that, though. I know, we didn't, we didn't, but. I kind of directed us the other way, that's why.
The the truth of it is is that everybody there we would have hooked up exactly there was there was nobody we were gonna say no to that's my point here yeah i mean it was that good of a part exactly there was really it was really our core group yeah it was our core core tribe with a couple new people which is great yeah yeah so we had a big group text message going and there was only four telephone numbers i didn't know right out of like 30 people 30 people yeah telephone numbers i didn't know yeah so we got there i i seeked out those four telephone numbers now i got it right now now we know who those people are yeah yeah all right what else what else oh oh last weekend yeah you want to talk about that i did because the fun thing is we hooked up with our dear friends from the good the bad and the ugly we did yes that episode and or our best friends yeah yeah we talked about we went out to dinner we did we tried a new restaurant we did try and it was good it was okay yeah but we have other more favorite places it was like mediocre food i thought the food was good yeah it wasn't okay but we have connections in other places they messed up my credit card i know you're laughing because i'm so pissed off about it so freaking pissed off yeah this is so they missed it i don't know i don't know what they did the funny thing is is that they the bank put a hold on a credit card it was like and then and then jay of uh j and c paid twice they paid twice but the fun thing is that we play games we do we come back home right and we drink we get a little sloppy sort of and we play heads up right a naughty heads up right dirty minds heads up yes so dirty dirty stuff you have to realize that j and c are so good at this game just so good and good.
And we are trying to develop this heads-up game to bring it to an event. Like Share Nation. Like a Share Nation. Or Friction. Or whatever. The cruise on the list. Or whatever. And so we were getting them to help us with the questions. Yes. So we haven't. How many puzzles do we? How many? We have 200 words. We have more than that now. Now, yeah. They gave us like another 25. Okay. Yeah. But you think about it, you need a lot. Right. So we're thinking do like four couples. No. No. Four teams of four. Four teams of four. Right. 16 participants. 16 participants.
And you're going to rotate who gives the clues. Then the other three people try to guess the clues. Right. So the audience who we're talking to right now, all those people out in podcast land. Right. May not know what the hell we're talking about. So you got to look it up. Yeah. It's called Heads Up. And the naughty time is all of these crazy words like Dirty Sanchez. Right, right. And there's like other crazy terms that we're going to be putting out there. So we really hope we can figure it out. I, of course, am the one that always runs the PowerPoint.
And of course, JR is always the, he's the showman. I'm out front. Yes. I got the pressure on.
I got to think think of shit so we'll let you know when we uh we're developing that one now i think it's gonna be super so we have the wheel of fornication right the lifestyle family feud and then we're gonna we'll name it we'll name it something naughty heads up something yeah dirty minds whatever yeah so in any case that That is what we done lately that is and next is going to be the interviews of the folks that joined us right yes we asked them yes we asked them questions right and they're going to tell you their stories so i have to make one little um little warning we did this live in front of an audience we had some new equipment that was not cooperating so there's a little buzz i've tried to take the buzz out there's a little buzz in the background and the audio is not as crisp as you're hearing right now right so but you'll enjoy it beautiful stories from beautiful people right okay well we're gonna do that and we'll we'll talk in a few minutes okay hello you beautiful people here we are at share nation new year's eve party up in stirbridge massachusetts yeah with a whole new group of people a whole new group of people sexy people we've got people in the room and we're here doing a sort of live recording of a podcast right it's audience participation that's correct yeah so we've prepared some questions and uh the first question is how has your interaction with others in the lifestyle changed from the beginning compared to current day right does anyone want to talk about that yeah we've got rnl are going to come on and talk about okay rn, R&L.
Now, if you remember, R&L are from our... Newbies to nobies. Yeah, so they're with us again today. Welcome. Hello. Thanks for having us. How has your interaction with others in the lifestyle changed when it's getting compared to the current day?
so we've been in the lifestyle since 2016 and it's basically changed from we had a lot of rules we were unsure of what the lifestyle was our interpretation of it was we would go to a party and get attacked or raped we were like you know like a deer in a headlight yes exactly but we were curious nonetheless so we went to our first hotel takeover and we met these lovely people jr and d and they basically indoctrinated us and showed us that that's not how the lifestyle was, that it was indeed a lot of fun. They didn't give it up on the first date. Oh, no. They did not.
They didn't give it up on the first couple years. It was no pressure, though. It wasn't anything like we expected. Yeah. So basically, we had rules where we had no kissing rules. For a long time. For a long time, yes. If you remember, I said, do no anal. Do that. Soft swap only. It took us, I want to say. It took us a while. Four years. We moved very slow. Yes, it took us four years to go to full swap. But that's okay. Every time we experience something, we took it to the next level. We were always comfortable with each other.
right and now you're even having your own little parties at your house now we're hosting yes yes yeah gir is going to be in california yes and i'll be alone but i get to go to their house yeah for a small little swinger party yeah which that's exciting yeah we've hosted a few get togethers at our house yeah yeah so and And now, you know, we are full swap, but... We still have some rules, you know.
Yeah, we still have some rules you know we still have some slowly to do everything together in the same room okay so that's your you're still same room we're still same room yeah which is safe that's what we feel comfortable with you know yeah right everybody has different rules or what's comfortable with them. Yeah. Great. Thank you so much. You're right. Oh, beautiful answer. All right. Yay. What do you got there, Pete? All right, now we have. What do you got? S and J are going to come up. Okay. And they're taking question number three. Good deal. I'm going to read the question.
And I think we might ask them some questions, too. Oh, I don't know about that. While you're talking. So the question is, what type of lifestyle events do you enjoy, and how far would you travel to attend them? Well, where are you guys from first?
Massachusetts because uh messages messages okay thank you for inviting us thank you yeah thank you for being here right so um we've uh traveled far and you know a few many places but we uh we tend to go uh where there's a lot of people a lot of uh we like to people watch so we find ourselves going on the cruises we find ourselves going to hedonism uh places like secrets um or caliente yeah so we um we'll uh we'll travel very far for a fun party um and we find that that a lot of sexy people in the same atmosphere you know, place is just, it's very much of a turnoff sexy energy, lots of people good people watching and you can find the more people there are, the more likely you are to find people that you have something in common with.
Yes so that's what we enjoy um definitely enjoy Hedo uh it's just a really um cool place to just unwind and just be naked for a week uh we find ourselves um enjoying just walking around you know bare ass doing nothing yeah why not now you had mentioned that you went to a lifestyle thing somewhere in europe so um every time we travel we we like to find you know different places if there's a new club and just you know check things out but we found um europeans a little bit more open and forthcoming you know what uh in the states we find it hard where you're you're on the sites and you're looking and you start to have conversations um but it seems like a lot of people either ghost you and you know times you know times coming to meet up or then they always have some kind of uh maybe you know maybe where their second choice so they come up with a babysitter problem or something yeah they come up with an excuse always ghost they're worried about updating their pictures yeah oh i got you and that's you've gotten that have the bait and switch so many times.
Really? Oh, so much. It happens. So you see their picture online, and then you meet them in person, and it's not who you thought it was going to be. We've been there. Oh, you have to look three or four times. You say, oh, yeah, I guess it is. We've been there. Maybe 15, 20 years ago. I remember pulling up one time. We'd meet these people, and I a yacht or something and they'd get out and be like, who are those people? That can't be that. Right. And they're looking at you waving, you know, because you are who you are. Who are those people? They're not.
But traveling so far internationally has been wonderful people. They track you in a good way. They show up on time. They're more reliable. Places to be. And they always look better than their pictures. Oh, that's good. There's a switch. That's cool. They bring presents. They're very international. Really? So they're warm. Very warm and welcoming. They're welcome to their country. Oh, goodness, yeah. I need to know where these places are. It's funny.
I mean, i mean they really set up the rooms very very sexy they have music they bring like pre pre you know like the foreplay music foreplay music middle play after play music i'm like wow we gotta really step up our game oh wow that's awesome awesome so you'll travel far we will we will especially you go to resorts You go to the resorts yeah they go to hito and yes i've been to bliss many many times on the cruise yes oh bliss oh we do it all the time love love bliss yeah well there's so many people on the cruise if you can't find any yeah you really have a hard time exactly when you go november or april once um actually both both of us we're actually doing april we already we just just in november just in the last we did we did too it was on ninth one i'm just you know it's so funny i tell people that you know there's like three to four thousand people on the cruise and we didn't see you i never never saw you guys exactly that's crazy it's oh yeah and that's the that's the funny part um when when i say uh to jay over here here you go i say to her i'm like you know what if there's uh something that comes out of if you're talking and you have um the ability to you know play or whatever you got to take it then yes because other than that you won't see each other you know on the cruise you know the next seven days it's you won't find them again no yes it's amazing it's so small but it's yet so big it's amazing you know now I know you said when you go overseas and you go to Europe the folks are warm and they're more reliable how do you hook up with those people how do you find those people so we find them uh sdc is uh the place to go for international international yeah definitely um and had actually had better luck on sdc uh in the states here that includes canada as well okay okay good yeah so definitely i'll be but that's good advice enjoyed it yeah yeah thank you so much great answer all right we have uh our next couple is going to take the question of, have you ever taken one for the team?
Oh, I love this question. Explain in detail. I love this question. So M and D, come on up. M and D are our dear friends. Yeah, M is a DJ. Yeah. He does a lot of lifestyle events. Actually, you DJ Amito. I do DJ Amito, three weeks a year. We've talked about them at Sunny Rest. You guys love going to Sunburst. It's funny, I was telling my story earlier. I started out as a DJ in a roller skating rink as a kid, and over the last eight, nine years, I became this lifestyle DJ doing all these events.
It's crazy, right's a demand for it for sure okay so who I'm sure you both have taken one for the team right but it's mainly you it's all it's them it's the male and it's the male that takes it no she doesn't do it yeah yeah honestly I I you yeah yeah i mean honestly i have a few times one or two compared to my loss no no no there's there was one time that you always will tease me about as you mentioned i i dj in lifestyle i run entertainment at a resort in the poconos called sunny rust that's right and i was DJing there one day, and I got done DJing a pool party, and this woman comes up, beautiful blonde woman, voluptuous body, had the accent.
She looked like me? Exactly. Dressed just like yours. And she had this accent, and I was enamored by her accent. So I'm like, where are you from? I'm from Sweden. And she was actually one of the Swedish bikini models back in the day. And then we just started talking. And then she started talking to me about how she gives the world's greatest blowjob. Okay. She was bragging. She was bragging. Nice. And like any guy in the lifestyle would do, your curiosity question mark is all, oh, really? I need to find out about this. You know, if it's the world's best blowjob, I need to know. Absolutely.
Well, you need the experience. You need to judge. Exactly. Let me judge. I said to her, I said, listen, I will pennsylvania vote for you since you're from sweden so uh we invited them or i invited them back to uh our place up in uh sunny rest to experience this world's greatest blow job smart jobs it was it was all me well you know listen any guy would be the same way. Right? Right, guy? If someone says, I give the world's greatest blowjob, I want to find out about him. So we went back to our place. So it is a couple now. It is a man and a woman. It was a couple. She had a husband.
She had a husband. She did. Okay. I have no idea what he looked like. Or cared. Exactly. Because I had this beautiful blonde. From Sweden. From Sweden that wanted to show me her world's greatest blowjob. So we go back to, or we leave the pool, we go back to our place. Dee is like, where are we going? I'm like, we're going back to our place. I've got to check out this world's greatest blowjob. And she just shakes her head.
And she's like, all right, we're we're gonna go back and the funny part of the whole story is you know we we get undressed you know i lay down and she starts performing the world's greatest blowjob but wait so now is d with the husband yes so describe the husband how's that going is he swedish too no okay he was actually uh an italian italian okay he wasn't bad but i i was forced i didn't even know him i didn't even know his name so you really got dragged into this yeah so my first thing is i just go for it Go for the blowjob, get it done. That's what you're saying to Em. No, to me.
That's what I do. Okay. If I don't want to be in a situation, that's the first thing I do, and it's pretty quick, and then I'm done. I'm out of there. Yeah. She's really good at it. That's what I did. Okay. And her husband popped in like two minutes. And then she looks at me. She must be good. I can attest to that. I can attest to that. But the world's greatest blowjob happened to be the worst one of my life. Really? It was horrible. I don't know. Maybe some guys like teeth.
Personally do not no you know i mean i you know and it was it was the worst experience of my life and d is looking at me like i'm laying there i'm like he's cringing i'm like get me out of here. I'm like, get me out of here. And this one is like this. She's sitting there making a little face laughing at me. She's laughing at you. You put yourself in this position and get yourself out of it. Yeah. It was so much fun sitting there listening to him. And he's trying to squirm away. Oh, she's, she's. How did you get out of it?
But isn't how it is, you know, someone brags about something something usually they're not good at it yeah so how did you get away well the husband and i were in the kitchen right in the little camper yeah just chit-chatting and i i keep peeking in there and he's he's eyeing me like get me out of here oh yeah so after i let him stew for a little bit longer, I said, Mark, we had dinner plans. We did. You said. Yeah. I said. Oh. We don't care. Sorry. When you're working in business, everybody knows you anyway. Gotcha, gotcha. I said, we got to go. We're going to be late for dinner. Oh, okay.
So you kind of. I had to wrap it up a little bit.
Gotcha bit so you were in the kitchen and you kind of that carried into where you were like hey we got to get ready for dinner oh yeah she's laughed at me quite a few times bliss crews one time we got invited uh bliss crews we met this couple they owned the suite on the back of the ship you know that two story oh yeah and we had friends that knew them and we got invited back to this party and the hostess she was beautiful she was um just a beautiful woman and but her husband i knew at the time donna probably was not interested but we got invited back to their suite and we went it was like 5 o'clock be there at 5 o'clock right the time donna probably was not interested but we got invited back to their their suite and we went it was like five o'clock be there at five o'clock right and it was crazy we were one of the first people in the door and in like 501 it was like a revolving door people keep coming in by 5 10 everybody was naked fucking Wow and her and i are looking at each other like we went out to we went out to the balcony and it was like watching this massive porno because the back of the ship you know they get that giant glass yeah we're sitting there watching all these people it was just this massive orgy inside there so then we're like all right we snuck out we were a little actually i was a little uncomfortable wow can you imagine that right we went back the next night we got invited back the next night and she goes she goes we want you to come back and the same thing five o'clock people came in and it's it was like a rough Well, I'll endure my 5'10", 5'10", it's a massive orgy.
Really? Yeah. Nice. Five o'clock, people came in, and it was like a rough island door by five, ten, five teams, massive orgy. Really? I know, right. I know, where it was high. You wanted to be included on that. Yeah. So we found another couple, and we were back on the back of the outside on our deck. It was us and another couple. We just had our own little private time while we were in. You're right.
So when we come back in there the hostess is i saw you out there how come you didn't join me in i don't know about you guys i want to be first i don't want to be 15th right so i'm like if if i you know i would love to be with you but i'm not going to be in line you know what i mean yes she goes all back tomorrow night. You will be first. Oh. So we went back the third night back to the suite. Nice. And another time, right, and I'm like, oh. So did you get to be first that time? So I'm walking down the hallway, and I'm actually chickened out. Really? I got nervous.
This one's like, no, we got to do it. We get to the door. It's just like private area of the boat you have to get to get up there we're walking down the hallway i said i don't know if i can do this and uh because you got 50 people watching you right so i i go in and we get to the door i'm like i can't do it babe i said let's go this one knocks on the door oh no door opens up she goes goes, you came back. I'm like, yeah, we came back. She goes, all right, you're first tonight. No slight second. I'm like, all right. So, again, 5.02, 5.03. Everybody comes in. 5.15, she comes up to me.
She goes, you ready to get this party started? I'm like, uh. I'm looking around. And I'm like, okay. So she undresses me, and then everybody's looking. I'm the only naked person in the room at this point. And they're watching the two of you. Oh, so she goes down on me. She goes down on me. She throws me on the bed. No, she didn't use teeth. She was decent. No, she was very good. Oh, good, okay. Oh, wonderful. She goes down on No, she was very good. Oh, good. Okay. Oh, wonderful. She goes down on me, and next thing you know, there were like seven, eight women in this bed trying to rape me.
Oh, that's good. Other women jumped in. Yeah. Oh, that's cool. And this one over here is with a drink in the corner, just making his face, laughing at me, pointing. Oh, that's great. I wanted it. Yep, that's right. So you had like seven women all at the same time? No. I could have, but I'm very picky. So I found one of the seven that was a beautiful woman. I'm like, whoosh, pulled her over. Okay, gotcha. But the other ones were tagging. And I'm like, no, no, don't leave, please. Don't leave. Well, it just does not sound like take a month for the team. I'm just saying. It's a good story.
You know, it's how you think about it. It's a very good story. All right. Cool. Well, thank you. That's great. Thank you so much. Awesome. What do you got, Dee? Okay. We have R. R? Yes. Oh. Yeah. She's the one that emailed us. So our 10th episode. We covered her question, we got an email from this young lady. Yeah. And we made it our topic. Did you get to listen to it yet? No. Not yet. Yeah, make sure you're close. Yeah, because it's especially for you. I will listen to it as soon as we're done here. Or on your drive home. Yeah.
All right, so the next question is, what do you look for in a couple or a guy in order to take the next step into a sexual encounter? That's a great question. So what's important? What are you looking for? Chemistry. Okay. Commonality. Some sort of common ground comfort and and as far as couples go i'm kind of feeling it out and it's still pretty new at it right thinking about social cues from couples is a little bit different yeah a few months into it into this life yeah okay you said the three c's which is comfort uh commonality Into this life. Yeah. Okay. You said the three Cs, which is?
Convert, commonality, and chemistry. Nice. Look at that. Okay. Nice. All right. Do we have any more questions? What about physical? Anything physical, nature? What do you mean? It varies from person to person. Sure. Yeah, personality is a lot more for me. Right. So you're open. Yeah. When it comes to what they physically look like. Yeah. Yeah, mostly. And where have you found people in your initial journeys here? You found people where? SLS. Okay.
That's pretty much the only place I've found no like party shed or this is this is your first hotel this is my first your first hotel takeover first hotel takeover first party first it's gonna be fun and here you are at a live podcast with us this is great yep yep all in all in jr and i have our good friend jay who we talk about in all of our episodes who is the expert single female in the lifestyle and i've said make sure you take r under your wing and teach her the tricks i'm very happy to do that there's a voice we would have an opportunity to talk and i just thought i would join you on stage here we were talking about this question earlier okay preparation and i was asking her you know the question and i wanted to just kind of elaborate on it a little more as well i've been a lifestyle for 17 years and when i'm with a couple, those Cs are excellent.
Fabulous, right? But I also look for the cues from a couple. Oh, a fourth C. The cue from a couple. Is the gentleman touching me? Is he leaning into me? Is she touching me? Is she leaning into me?
As a unicorn, I look for the signal first because i respect the relationship i respect the boundaries and you don't know people's boundaries until so that's what i look for i look for um the lean in the interest and you want to be picking up on those things because you don't want to feel like you're comfortable with a couple just because you've been speaking with them and all of a sudden you know your hands on the guy and the woman's like wait a minute we have rules right yeah so you need to see her comfort level yeah and all like like feel the vibe the comfort level and i mean i've made mistakes even with friends i've known or i think i know and you know hello and then all of a sudden i've kissed the man and the woman has said uh we have rules about kissing and i was like oh that's right i forgot the rule it's I saw you.
You have not made a mistake. They forgave me, but there was just a very clarity. Like, we have rules about kissing. I was like, oh, right. You want to be sure that you're aware of those things as well. And just like you said, comfort. You'll start to feel it. Or you'll start to feel the fact that one of them is not there. This is not a connection that's going to. And it could be the other way, too. Like, we just automatically assume that it's the man that's going to be, go, yes. And the woman is hesitant.
But it could actually be the other way, too, because you get a lot of bi girls in the lifestyle. Right. This is true. Yeah. This is true. Where the woman's like, go, yeah.
My husband's just kind of rolling his eyes yeah yeah and as the unicorn i'm just kind of like the third wheel toy so i'm like wait i'm like who wants to turn me on on and play with me you're the toy yeah i'm like i'm like on the shelf until you like batteries included yeah yeah i'm ready to go okay but and if i'm not you know if i don't have those seats if I don't feel good I'll politely excuse myself it's great getting to know you guys and then you quietly do the Michael Jackson the moonwalk away the moonwalk away from it well since you're sitting up here I'm going to go ahead and give you your question which is how do you educate yourself in different aspects of the lifestyle good question it's a really good question so i consider myself of the lifestyle and some people travel their life and all of a sudden they realize oh i'm in the lifestyle i didn't know there was a name for it i was of the hippie generation one love but i was also always in long-term relationships but i thought you know when i get married i don't want that man to be the last person i sleep with right and i don't want to put that on a man as well i just think it's a lot to expect that you're only going to sleep with me and you're only going to get everything you need from me it's a lot to expect from one other person that they're going to fulfill yeah all of your desire right so when i met my first husband that was established but i didn't even know about the lifestyle term i was in in Mexico.
So when I was in Cancun, I got introduced to a sexologist, PhD sexologist. She ran a high-end boutique. She ran counseling. She would run movie nights. She would have a shibari exhibition. What's a shibari? Shibari. What's shib rope time oh they figured it out they originated as like a torture and then they figured it out that you know it's a bdsm thing erotic too so it's evolved yes so i went in with a session for her with her my my ex-husband husband at the time.
was like let's go have some counseling i'm like great let's dig in the dirt let's peel back the onion what's going on one of the things that she did with me that really made it click was she had me walk on a carpet remember the wheel of fortune okay so imagine wheel of fortune of the carpet carpet just take your shoes off close your eyes walk slowly around the carpet and feel each of the different spokes some of it was soft some of it was fuzzy some of it was like turf some of it was like rope she said every time you stand on an area wiggle your toes toes and kind of feel it out because you might like it, right?
And this was a carpet that she had created that had all these different textures. Correct. Correct. She brought it out. And created different sensations. Exactly. Exactly. And this was educational to the point where, you know, when you close your eyes and you begin to feel things out, then you realize, oh, I kind of do like that. That's kind of fun, right? I kind of like that. So that was something for me as we were talking about educating yourself in a lifestyle. Sometimes it's a very personal moment or something that someone introduces you to.
And from that moment on, I was like, okay, you know what? Now I really want to study it. So then I went on the websites, STC and SLS, and I looked at the dictionary area, you know. To know what all the terms meant. Oh, we just did this. The FAQ. We're sitting outside. I have frequently asked questions.
I was like, oh, yeah, we were at a swirl party, and you looked at me and you said said what's a swirl party yeah it's a swirl party swirl party is you know half vanilla right half swingers not everybody knows this right it's a term see here we go so every day we're educating ourselves every day with all of our interactions that we have with each other but there are there are sexologists out there um and i highly encourage it for couples that are coming into the lifestyle to visit a sexologist because it's really opened you up to much more.
And sometimes learning along the way is great, but if you kind of want to fast-track it, it's worth your time. Find a good sexologist. There's many around. There's many around. And it's, I think, a lot of reason why folks listen to the podcasts. I mean, there's, like, so many lifestyle podcasts. There are. And you learn a lot by listening to other people's experiences. I mean, every podcast is different. It has a different attitude. They cover different things. But, I mean, we listen to other people's podcasts all the time.
We the time and that's a really good educational opportunity as well we try to make ours educational we learn from each other's stories make sure that you say yeah I'll go back with you but you gotta see, okay, before you tag team me in on this wrestling, give me an opportunity to know my opponent. Yeah, can I see my opponent? Exactly. Right. I think all the stories, too, teach us something. Yeah. Oh, that's good. All right. Cool. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Great answer. All right. So that wraps up. That's it, huh? Okay, that was great. We really appreciate the input. We do.
And we probably will use this for our next episode. We probably should. Yeah, this will be aired in January. In January. It'll be our 11th one, first one of 2024. So be sure to listen to yourselves and then of course you can tell all your friends Let's get started. January. In January. It'll be our 11th one. First one of 2024. So be sure to listen for yourselves. And then of course you can tell all your friends. That's right. Listen for me. I was on this podcast. I'm on this podcast. Alright. So thanks so much guys. Bye bye you beautiful people. Thank you.
okay so that was the expose live from uh you know with the live audience yes and now we're in our segment number three right right and what's that all about that's what are we doing next what we're doing next yes what's coming up what's coming what is coming up well uh you get to go to anaheim anaheim california yeah i do without me well it's a big it's a big testosterone event I don't know. You get to go to Anaheim. Anaheim, California. Yeah. I do. Without me. Well, it's a big testosterone event in Anaheim. It's a music trade show thing.
There's 100,000 of my closest rock star friends in one spot. It's invitation only. You have to be sponsored by a company manufacturer. JR has gotten to meet so many musicians. So many. So many cool people. Unbelievable. It's an amazing event. Yep, yep. I mean, he's friends with, you know, like the bass player on Earth, Wind & Fire. The guitar player. Yeah, and the drummer from Alice Cooper. Yeah, oh yeah, really a good person. Oh yeah. A bunch of obscure, like, yeah, yeah. It's like, the guys from Toto. Right. The guys from Toto know him really well. Yeah. The family, the family Stone. Right.
Well, he's your, a lot of people. He's one of your really good friends. Yeah, we'll be standing around and we're talking and there's a bass player from Stone Top of Ohio Ohio. We'll talk to the guys. He's talking. And of course the music is amazing. It's a private event. You can't get in. Right. And I'm not going to spend five days looking at music equipment. No, like recording equipment, basses, guitars, drums, lighting. Software. Speakers, software, all kinds of stuff. Yeah, it's very techy. Plug-ins. It's very techy. It's very techy. Yeah. Not my thing.
So, I'm going to drop, yeah, I'm going to drop JR off to the airport. Right. And I'm going to work. Now, what are you doing? And then I'm going to go stay with our single girlfriend, Jay. With Jay. She gets to be with Jay now. Oh, my God. I'm missing out. Because her house is like 10 minutes from one of my offices down in Kinga, Prussia. Right. And then I'm going to stay with my kids. And then Saturday night, I'm going to a house party. That's right. You get to go alone as a unicorn. Look at you. Look at you. I was going to bring a date. No, that's ridiculous. But JR said no.
That's ridiculous. Because I can find a date to bring. That's ridiculous. I don't think they're expecting me to bring a date. No, that's all. But yeah, that's going to be awesome. Because it's like all of our really good friends. Are they coming back home after that? Or what are you doing after that? Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. You got to pick me up at the airport. I do. Yeah, yeah. So that'll be fun. And then after that, in February, is the Marty Twal party. Yeah. It's up on our website. Yeah, it is. Yeah. Which is super fun. It's a ShareNation weekend thing.
Yeah, so go to LifestyleLinks.com, and on the second is yeah which is super fun it's a share nation weekend thing yeah so go to lifestyle links.com and on the second page which is the uh you know events premier events there's the share nation party it's in parsippany new jersey yeah you can get your tickets there you got to call the hotel get your room that's okay but if you get if you get the tickets from us we can help you on a room on the best, best spot to get in a hotel. Right. For you. For you. Yeah. Yeah. It depends. If you want the noisy, fun spot. Party floor. Yeah.
Or if you want a quiet area, you know, we can tell you what, what, you know. So that'll be a fun event. More appropriately. And we'll eventually have a house party again. We will. When the weather, when the weather breaks. I'm already thinking about the next menu. Yeah, I know. You're talking about that today. And then, of course, we're still trying to put together another group trip. We are. So we were going to do, in August, we had it all ready to go. The Michi's. We had a deal with Castaway's travel. They had it up on their website. It was a really good price, too. Oh, yeah, the price.
And that was, yeah. And then two days later, you know. They closed the resort. Desire. Yes. Dominican Republic closed. It was too good to be true. Terrible. So now we're trying to figure out what we're going to do next. We have a bunch of stuff we're thinking of. Yeah. Whether it's going to be a resort or maybe a trip to a remote city where we can just walk it together. Exactly. Go to like an evening at a lifestyle club. Right. Something like that. Of course, we have our trip to Europe in June. We do.
And the funny thing is, is that all the dates and all the travel is predicated around the lifestyle clubs. Yes. Yes. So we're going to visit two lifestyle clubs in Rome. Right. And two lifestyle clubs in Paris. Correct. Yeah. Greece, we're not doing it. No. We've got to relax. We have this beautiful resort on the water with pools. Yeah, yeah. It's all-inclusive. Vanilla. Right. Because we're there with family. Yeah. But before we get to family and after we get to family, we'll be hitting up some lifestyle clubs, so we'll let you guys know.
That's be fun no holes barred exactly all right um thanks so much for listening that's it right i want future stuff yeah and feel free to email us with any questions at lifestylelinks.com all right well bye bye you beautiful people We'll see you next time.
