Episode 10, Penetrating the Posse December 2023Main Topic: We discuss an email from a female listener regarding finding her tribe early in her lifestyle journey. What Have We Done Lately , covers our “Holiday Naughty Night” house party and a “Swirl” party that we attended. Where We Are Going Next , highlights upcoming events of the ShareNation New Years Eve 3-Day Gala in Massachusetts, the “Winter Solstice” orgy party and a friend’s party that Dee is going to as a single when JR is away in California. Also, an announcement regarding our group trip to Desire Miches Resort. Visit us at https://www.LifestyleLynx.com for related Adult Events, Cruises, Resorts, Clubs, Parties, Meet Greets, Swinger Websites and more...
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hello you beautiful people i am jr and i'm d we have been in the lifestyle for seven plus years and we're here to share our sexy stories and experiences if you you're not 18, this podcast is not for you. And if you are, please go visit LifestyleLinks.com. That's L-Y-N-X. Hello, you beautiful people. And welcome to episode 10. And what is the name of this episode? Well, it is Penetrating the Posse. Are you sure? Yeah, I'm sure. Penetrating the Posse? No, Posse. P-O-S-S-E. So it's just sort of a continuation of our entourage. And finding your tribe. And finding your tribe. Yes, yes.
So we always start with, what have we done lately? That's correct. And what have we done lately? We had an amazing house party. We did. A bunch of people. How many babies? 25 people. We'd send out invitations to much more than that, but we got 45. Yes. And it was a holiday party. It was. It was great. Everybody had holiday attire. And it was a holiday party. It was. It was great. Everybody like had holiday attire. Their house was decorated. We had holiday food. They recorded Naughty Night or something. Oh, yeah. It's like Naughty Night. Yeah. Something like that.
And I got the opportunity to hook up with. Who? A man that I haven't hooked up with yet. I know. That was great. It was very nice. Right. It was very good. I mean, we're very, very dear friends. It doesn't necessarily mean that just because you really connect that you instantly have sex. That's correct. And I believe he left part of his wardrobe here in addition to all that. So we actually had. No, no. That was the, from, the guy is the husband of G and C. Yes. Where you were with her for her birthday. Right. And so I got to hook up with him for the first time.
Yeah, but I think he'll have to sweaty her or something. I'm not sure. So I gauge the success of our house parties by the quantity and the quality of the lost and found. Right. And we had good ones this time. Yeah. So that was awesome. Earrings and jackets and sweaters and stockings and all that sort of stuff. All sorts of great things. And then you got to hook up with two single girls. I did. Well, the one girl came with a guy, but she's really single. Yeah. We were on the Bliss cruise. We talked about this last time. And we did a podcast with Carol and Dave. And they sent us.
And as a gift to us. Correct. They mailed us. A waterproof, very nice blanket. And I'm not sure how it works, but I had to test it out. get it right. Oh, my God. Right. I tested it out with our girlfriend, Jay, who, you know, that's the one who- We talk about her all the time. Yeah, I'll tell you. So, we tested it. And yeah, it worked. It was good. Mm-hmm. You know, I made a squirt, and yep, no leakage. Exactly. So, successful test. So, it's available on Amazon. Yeah. It's on Amazon. You can find it. Yeah. We should probably put a link up on that. Yeah, we probably should. Yeah. Okay.
So, our house party was amazing through the roof. It was. It was awesome. It was good. With food, good people. Yeah. With good weather. The weather was good. Yeah. Did it rain? It didn't rain. No. No. It did not rain. It did not. It did not rain. Yeah. And then we went to what is called a swirl party. Yeah, I went to a swirl party. You know, okay. Y'all know what a swirl party is? That means there's- Tell them, tell them. There's swingers and non-swingers. So the funny thing is that- There's vanilla and non-vanilla. Oh, please. They do such a beautiful job at their house.
They like have multiple Christmas trees. They do. The decorations are like out of this world. And they cater it. Yeah. Just cater it. So everything was beautiful. And it's...
job at their house they like have multiple christmas trees the decorations are like out of this world and they cater it yeah just cater so everything was beautiful and they have a bartender oh yeah and so i'm outside on the deck and i'm like talking to these people and there's this one girl there and she's assuming that all of us are swingers and i look at her she's the one that's in the military they're getting ready to get transferred to they're going to germany oh i know you're talking about yeah and she starts to talk and i look at her i'm like yo you know that dude right there is not a swinger and she's and she's like oh my goodness well that guy was brought by someone yeah is right yeah because yeah.
Because he was like interested and whatever. Right, and I was like, but she needed to know the reference. That's true. Yeah. That's true. But we were hoping that party was going to turn. It was supposed to. So I heard what happened. The kids were there, and they've got a hotel room for the kids kids and they were going to go to the hotel room. And the older kids did, but there was younger kids. Right. Hello. That one little girl loved you. Oh, I know. She was very cute. It was super fun. It was a great party. We loved it. It was good. So that's what we have done lately. I know.
It was not a lot. Not a lot? It's been the holidays. It's the holiday season. Yeah. Thanksgiving and all that. So in our next segment, we're actually going to give to you guys an email that we received from a listener. We did. We're going to read you her email. Correct. And then we're going to talk to her email and explain our thoughts. And we hope that you enjoy it. Hence the posse. Right. We'll be back in just a few moments. Okay. Hold on to our main topic of episode 10, which is penetrating the posse. Penetrating the pussy? No, posse. Penetrating the posse.
Okay, so we received an email on our LifestyleLinks.com website. All right. Penetrating the pussy? No, posse. Penetrating the posse. Okay. So we received an email on our lifestylelinks.com website from a, well, let's just call her what, Robin. She's a listener. She's a listener. Robin. And Dee is going to read it. And that's what generated and made us do this podcast, this episode. Okay. Good, Dee. So this is what she says.
Hi, Dee and jr i binged all nine of your podcast episodes this weekend thanks for putting that all out there i really enjoyed listening to your stories i listened to several lifestyle podcasts and yours is right up there with my other favorites looking forward forward to your next episode. I don't have any specific questions, but in general, I haven't found my tribe yet. I think it's primarily due to the limited amount of time I can dedicate to lifestyle adventures. Also, some events are a little daunting to a single female. I went to one event by myself in Chicago.
It wasn't a bad time, but I really didn't connect with anyone. I was also only three or four months into my journey. Green was definitely part of it. You've got words of wisdom. I'd love to hear them. Okay, that's good. That's what she said. And it inspired us to kind of continue our entourage sort of discussion. And the finding the tribe discussion. Yeah, and this is more finding the tribe as a single female. I think that all of the things we're going to say would apply to a single person or to a couple. Yes, that's true. That's true.
so first thing i have to say is you know you'll find you when you find couples that or people that you have chemistry with you have something in common with that you feel a connection with try to cultivate that yeah and stay with them and communicate with them and go to parties with them try to get invited as maybe a third as a third a third person to find other people that they like. And I think it's like when you find people that think the same way, act the same way, feel the same way, move the same way, it's important to like stay in touch with them. Exactly.
Like so communication is like, I'm going to skip a little bit forward here, but I'm going to skip a little forward here, but communication with them, like when you find somebody really cool, man, woman, whatever, like you are texting them the next day and you're, you are saying, oh my God, I was so happy to meet you. We had such a great time. Let's stay in touch. Right, exactly. You know, and have them try to introduce you to their friends. Because their friends are probably like they are. Right, right. And that's how we kind of cultivated a lot of people in our tribe. Yeah. For sure.
Yeah, we have really great friends right now that were introduced to us by other people. Right. Thank you. lot of people in our tribe yeah for sure yeah we have really great friends right now that were introduced to us by other people right and that's actually the best way actually the best way you know yeah and don't get discouraged right because this takes time it does you know she's she's saying she's only into it for like three or four months you gotta yeah that's very short exactly really short. So my point, my point to three or four months. I know, you gotta, yeah, that's very short.
Exactly. Really short. So my point, my point to three or four months is that it creates, you know, to create a tribe, it takes consistency. You have to do the same thing over and over again. You have to go to the same lifestyle club.
You have to go to the same hotel takeover groups now mind you those hotel takeover groups and those lifestyle clubs have to be a good place for you right because if they're not you go and you don't like it you move on well you hit on something very important either you join a group or you said create now to create a group right you have to go a little more out of your way and have a party of your own. Right, right, which is definitely important. But the thing is consistency. And you can't expect to find a tribe in three or four months. It's just too soon.
But what you do is that you step back and you say to yourself, oh, what did I like the most? You know, did I meet people that I liked? You know, did I have sex with good people? Did I, you know, were the women nice to me? It's very difficult as a single woman. You know, I can't even imagine navigating the lifestyle as a single woman.
So you probably want to have like maybe a couple or a single guy by your side to try to right you know to protect you from right you know crazy the crazy people right and which they're out there jr's point in many cases is like find a couple that will take you under their wing that's right you know because if you're you're out there on sls and you're like you're trying to find a single guy yeah i'm not recommending that yeah yeah it's better to find like a couple exactly that are good people that have good friends you know and have them take you under their wing and you know do it that way yeah single guys just have a different agenda and that's fine right.
Right. And it's good for, you know, it's good for what it is. Right. Nothing wrong with that. But she's trying to find a tribe. Right. Right. Yeah. And find a place. Usually not good to find a tribe. We do have a single friend who had parties of his own. Yes. At his house. A guy single friend. A guy single friend. Great guy, and he had parties at his house, which were super. We met so many people there. Right. So there it goes. So many people. What JR is talking about, instead of expecting it to come to you. There you go. You create it. That's right.
And this is what this guy did is that monthly he would post a house party on sls yes and he would get exactly and he would get responses and in reality he filtered those he vetted it he did he filtered and vetted and he would have house parties every month, I would say there was probably 20, 30 people. He filtered and vetted. He did. And he would have house parties every month. I would say there was probably 20, 30 people. Yeah, tops. 20, 30. Yes, exactly. Exactly. And we met some of our best friends. I know, I know. It's incredible. Amazing.
So in any case, the point is, is that it's a two-way street. Let's talk about some other avenues. So, Facebook groups. Yeah. There's a bunch of Facebook groups. A lot of them are just, you know, okay. But there's a bunch of Facebook groups where you can meet people, you can see people, you can kind of see what they're all about, and then go check out the rest of those profiles, and you can use that. Yeah, you can meet people that way.
And you can you know and you can go to lifestyle clubs yeah it's no no we've had great success at lifestyle clubs so philadelphia for instance that life those lifestyle clubs are great yes i would suggest the lifestyle clubs in philadelphia pleasure garden clubs saints and sinners really excellent clubs You know, the Friction, the Share Nations are great places in the New Jersey, Pennsylvania area to meet people. Right. And there's other locations that have amazing hotels. Florida. Huge. Yeah. Huge in Florida. So the point, though, I will go back to is that be consistent. So go every time.
I don't think that JR and I have. We've missed a Share Nation event. Exactly. We've missed lots of friction ones. Go every time. When you find the group, the hotel takeover party group that you really like, go every time. And're at a like for instance we'll go to a club with like 30 40 people right and we'll see people and invite them into the group yeah come on in there's so many times where we talk to people and invite them over to talk to us, talk to the people in the group, and they don't come over. Right. Like, what are you doing? Right. You're missing out. You're missing out. Right.
So this is the other thing for Robin is that part of connecting is remembering people's names, remembering things about their life. So you have to do some sort of association. So I played these little association games. Oh, your name is this. Oh, that was my cousin's name. Or, oh, your name sounds like this. So it's important to really, when you meet somebody that you really like, remember their name, remember details about them, get their contact information. This is old-time networking. Like, the people that are so successful in the lifestyle know how to network. Networking.
So, you know about networking in your business life. It's the same thing here. It's networking. A little secret I do for D and I is on SLS, we'll meet couples or I message them. We have messages and I take notes. He has notes. There's that little thing on SLS. Side notes. Where you can take notes on people. And I take notes.
know where I met them what day what time right are we interested in them are we not interested in them are they possible members of our tribe right I take notes on SLS yeah so if they come up again you know who you know who we're talking about yeah the other thing and we'll go back to we're talking about hosting your own parties like our friends that did that but if you don't want to go that far if you don't want to like actually invite people strangers into your home you can all always organize a meet and greet right there's been several instances where we've met people where they're like oh yeah you know let's put together a's put together a meet and greet.
And what that is, you can do a meet and greet at a bar, restaurant, club, whatever you say. You post it on like SLS. Say, look, on such and such a date, we have a meet and greet at this bar. We're going to be at the back of the bar, you know, whatever. Right, yeah. And you'll recognize it.
I have a red rose on my hair but it's all about consistency yes so the consistency is that you did it in september and then you did it again in october and then you did it again in november and that you're counted on and you're creating you're creating your tribe right and then you can branch out from there you can have like if you can find the hotel possibly where there's some adjoining rooms you can have like a party yeah two or three adjoining rooms yeah turn it into a sweet party move from the meet and greet to a sweet party exactly you know and you you take it as you go you know depending on where you are in the lifestyle and like what you want to do with it.
But there's so many, so many options with that. It's about putting yourself out there. Exactly. You know, and it's not just waiting for people to come to you. Just like JR and I, anytime we're at a hotel takeover, anytime we're at a lifestyle club, we put ourselves out there. We introduce ourselves. We meet new people. We ask them to join our group. As a single female, it's a little difficult. A little more daunting. Yeah. A little more daunting. I get it.
But there are opportunities where host a house party host a meet and greet and then the other thing that i suggest highly which i have done all of my life is volunteer yeah okay go ahead so what i mean by that is is that i contribute my mind my soul my talents towards my hotel takeover party group. And so I'll do a dress exchange. I'll do a sexy dress exchange. Oh, that's true. I'll organize. A single female could do that. Yes, absolutely. That's true. It's like bring something to the table that nobody else brings.
That's and so and you'll meet people that way yeah so i say okay i'm gonna put together a dress swap a sexy dress swap and we actually do this at we have done it we haven't done in a while but but when you're volunteering and you're giving your time and talents, you know, to the group, innately, innately, you're going to meet people. That's right. Yeah. So, I mean, it's highly recommended. And I can give you lots of other ideas. If you want to email me about how you can contribute, yes, email us. Right. Yeah. So that's sort of our advice in a little, in about a nutshell, but.
It's some extra ideas. You know, it's about putting yourself forward. And you know, she's really brave, you know. I know. I know. And the cool thing is that now she is coming. She is. Yes. She's coming to the Share Nation New Year's Eve party in like two days. Exactly. Yeah. Well, we're just right before New Year's Eve. Which will be like super. And we so appreciate our listeners. We do. Please, if you have any comments or any suggestions, any ideas. I should tell you that. We listen, and we're going to put it right on the air. Yeah. We want to hear from you. We do. Yes. We do, pretty much so.
So in our next segment, we're going to talk about what's coming up next. We will. Okay, we'll be back in a few okay welcome back to penetrating the posse the pussy posse stop with that oh my god speak for speaking for yourself. I know, but it's our last segment, which is what's coming up next. So what is that? So we're going to actually, I know what it is. I always say that. So we're going to start kind of backwards. So we're going to start with the last thing we did. But first, there is actually some good news and bad news. All right.
Well, tell us the i'll tell you the good news first so the good news is we had put together a group trip group tour to desire me chase right in august right and it's posted now on the castaways travel website yeah that's good news. But the bad news is the resort closed. You can't book it. They're closed. Meechay's. Yeah, Desire Meechay's. Yes, go on. The ownership changed as of January 15th, 2025. It was too good to be true. It was the best resort. It was the best. Oh, my gosh. Yeah. And so they gave it up. And what they're doing is they're adding to Desire in Cancun. What's it called?
Riviera or Maya? Right. They have a whole new section. They're creating this Eden section. It's more upper scale and blah. Who knows? We'll have to see what it is. But that's what they're doing. So they probably... So that trip is cancelled. Yeah, that trip is cancelled. We'll try to find something else. And we're going to invite you all to it. Yes, we are trying to invite something else. Yeah, we're going to invite everybody to it. It was going to be so much fun. We're going to do something crazy. But we're going to do something else. I don't know. Yeah, yeah. Anyway. What's coming up next?
So at the end of January, I do this crazy thing. And I've been doing it for 20 years i go to this thing called nam n-a-m-m is national association of musical merchandisers and it's an invitation only do you go there because i'm a musician and i'm sponsored by you know different musical companies you all know he's a drummer yeah and? Yeah, and it's 130,000 of your closest rock star friends. It's fab. You meet everybody in rock and roll and jazz. Oh, yeah. And all these obscure artists as well. Oh, yeah. Famous artists. Oh, no, I know. Oh, yeah, I met the drummer in Stone Tumble Violet.
Yeah, hang out with Stone Tumble Violet. Or, yeah, the bass player of Earth, Wind & Fire. I know the Earth, Wind & Fire guys. It's like insane. that's crazy so he's going i go every year right and i'm not going but our friends are having a house party and you're gonna go as a single female right or now who did the newbies to nobies segment i'm Do you want me to go as a single girl. She is. I'm glad for her because now she has something to do. That's great. Which will be fun. Dear, dear friends.
And so before that, right after the weekend's after New Year's Eve, which we'll get to in a few minutes, is the big, big kind of orgy thing. As Jay says. Yeah, the big orgy thing in the big house. So there's like 100 people in that thing. Yeah, yeah. It's a beautiful property, and it's a beautiful tradition. And it's winter solstice now. It is. And they only have two parties a year. They have summer solststice and they have winter solstice. That's it. That's all. And we're going to get to do chop block. Yeah. We talked about this before. Yeah, we have chop block. Yeah, yeah.
It's going to be Italian. It's Italian this time. And we get a room. We do. We get the winter bedroom. Whatever. Who knows? That means it's going to be warm. We used to bring an air mattress, but that spot in the house got taken up. It's now a changing room. It's now a changing room. Yeah, yeah. So they had to give us a room. The best effing party ever. That's good. That's all I will say. Yeah. So before that, New Year's Eve. Now, usually. Which is this weekend now. It is this weekend. Yeah. New Year's Eve, we traditionally for the last 10 years have had a New Year's Eve party at our house.
Yes. And it's usually like, yeah, 40, 50 people, usual thing. It's usually a great party, really good. People stay over. It's usually fabulous. But... Back in August. August, the proprietors came to us and did we ever talk about this? I'm not sure we did. I think we did. This has been mentioned. Yeah. So they came to us and say, hey, they say, we got to talk to you. I go, we're in trouble. Oh, no, we're in trouble. I know. You said we're in trouble. What did we do? Yeah. What did we do wrong? He said, no. He said, we know you have a New Year's party. Annually. Annually.
But we're getting married. Right. And we want you to be there. We want you to be there. Wedding party and be part of it. And what I'm going to say, no, of course I say yes. Yeah. So that's what we're doing. And we're doing two events. Right. We're doing a. Wheel of Fornication. Wheel of Fornication. Which is this really cool... Game show. Yeah. And the puzzles are like so sexy fun. And then we're also going to record another live... Podcast episode. Yes, audience. What it is with the audience. Because this is a different audience. This is New England audience.
We changed the questions a little bit. Yeah, yeah.
And then, then of course i'm a bridesmaid yeah i'm a standing groomsmaid exactly in case his son can't make exactly it's looking good like his son's not gonna make we'll see how it goes oh i know yeah yeah but a three-day event at this stir bridge host stir bridge host hotel which you can actually book on our website yes oh please join us I know if you're listening to this podcast and you have nowhere else to go and you're going to be like completely bored you don't have to book all three days you don't you don't have to book Friday, Saturday, Sunday you can just book whatever day you want right so just come out and check it out it's going to be so much much fun.
So the deal is if you only do one or two nights and you need a hotel room, you book the tickets for one or two nights. And in the RSVP, in the comments, you tell them we need a room for Friday or Saturday or Friday. Because initially they wanted everybody to book for all three nights. All three nights. But now it's fair game. It's up for grabs. Just come on out. It's going to be so much fun. Yeah. And it's also this indoor pool. Oh, yeah. So. I know. Pool party. Pool party every day. Pool party every day. It's going to be great.
And if you come and if you're listening to this and you've never met us please come up yes come up introduce yourselves podcast is saturday at noon yeah and we're doing the uh wheel of fornication game show on sunday at seven yeah yeah. So it'll be great fun. It'll be fun. Happy New Year. Happy New Year. So much thankfulness. So I got an email today from one of our sponsors that we hit 2,500 downloads. So we have 2,500 listeners as of today. So thank you very much. Yes. And stay with us. Yes. More more to come okay bye bye you beautiful people We'll see you next time.
