Episode 11: Eva's Fantasy Fulfilled

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Warning, the following podcast contains adult content, adult language, and adult situations. I talk openly about sex and explicit topics. If you are under the age of 18 or are uncomfortable listening to sexually explicit narratives, please listen no further. I am not a professional therapist, counselor, or doctor. I'm just an average guy in the swinger lifestyle who likes to share his experiences. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Please don't forget to subscribe to our channel. or doctor.

I'm just an average guy in the swinger lifestyle who likes to share his experiences. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Please seek a professional if you are in need of advice, guidance, or care as it Swings, a podcast about the swinger lifestyle from the perspective of a guy in the swinger lifestyle. That would be me, Evan. I am half of a lifestyle couple, the other half being my wife, Eva. And we're just a normal couple in our late 40s during the week, but then those Friday nights and weekends roll around. It's a totally different story.

We're not just your average couple. If this is your first time listening, welcome. Please keep listening. But I would actually encourage you to go back and start from episode one. as my first seven episodes, they chronologically detail our plunge into the lifestyle. And then I deviate from the chronology after that. But, but yeah, that's just a recommendation. And if you are a returning listener, thank you so much.

You are making my day to see my listener numbers and podcast plays go up is just such a great feeling and I'm doing this because I enjoy it I'm not looking to be rich or famous from doing this podcast I just want to share the adventures of Eva and myself in hopes that it would that it will entertain and inform others in their lifestyle journey. So I suppose this would be a good time to reiterate something. I am not an expert. Okay. I am not an expert on the lifestyle and I don't pretend to be.

I am really just an average guy eva is just an average girl okay we've only been in the lifestyle for about three years so not a huge sample size and again the purpose of this podcast mostly to entertain but to also hopefully provide insights and perspectives about the lifestyle.

So it's my hope that hearing about our adventures will help listeners as they navigate their journey through the lifestyle today i'm going to talk about fantasies or i guess you could refer to them as lifestyle goals all right the the you know what you hope to accomplish or do or what you hope to experience in the lifestyle so we're going to talk about the ones that we have fulfilled and the ones we have yet to and i'll also share a story about how eva fulfilled one of her biggest fantasies so be ready because it is a hot one. But first I want to give you a little background information.

If you listened to previous episodes, you may remember that I used to be a professional DJ. And my DJ partner was in the lifestyle and he would tell me all about his and his wife's adventures whenever we had a DJ gig. I can 100% guarantee that I would not be in the lifestyle right now if I had not been his DJ partner. Eva and I were very lucky, very lucky that, you know, we had him and his wife to talk to whenever we had questions as we were, as we were getting into it. They were, and, and still are, uh, voices of experience whom we can trust.

Well, I'll never forget some words of wisdom he told me while describing the lifestyle. He said, it revolves around the women. It's all about the women. And he was absolutely correct. And it should absolutely revolve around them. I'm not arguing that one bit. Just head to a club for the first time and you'll find out really quick. So we got a tour from one of the gentlemen on staff at Club Princeton in Columbus, our first time there, and he pretty much said women can do what they want there. The only rules they have are for men, like literally said that actually.

There's no dress code that applies to women there, just as an example. Okay, so women can wear anything or absolutely nothing. They can handle their wardrobe however they wish. But men do not, and in my opinion should not, have the same liberties. But it goes beyond dress codes, and it goes beyond club rules and policies. It is also much easier for women to make their fantasies a reality. And I want to give you some examples of what I mean.

Going back to episode one of this podcast, when we first started out in the lifestyle, like before we had even swapped for the first time, I wanted to have an FMF threesome. That was my biggest fantasy. That was my goal, entering the lifestyle. and you know what here we we are, about three years later, and that fantasy has still not been fulfilled. It's not that Eva and I haven't wanted to or haven't tried to make it happen. It's just that the opportunity has never presented itself.

Now, I can think of about 10 guys, literally, off the top of my head, that would jump at the opportunity to have an MFM with Eva and me. We don't play with single guys, but if we did, I would bet thousands of dollars on the fact that I could find a single guy to have a threesome with us, like a date, a location, a time planned. I can have all that within an hour. Or even just a willing male from a lifestyle couple. But, finding a single woman, or a hot wife, or a unicorn, or just the female half of a lifestyle couple who is allowed to play separately without her husband.

That has proven to be damn near impossible. least for us we have certainly tried trust me it it's out there okay any anyone who clicks on our profile on any of the the lifestyle sites or apps they'll see that you know listed right on there that we are interested in hoping to find a female for an FMF. But three years into this, that fantasy remains unfulfilled. We've had some nibbles of interest, but they just never seem to pan out. You know, fake profiles, getting ghosted, just being too far away, location. We've pretty much experienced it all.

But again, this is because the lifestyle is easier for women than men. Eva could hop online and post something like, hey, I'm looking for a guy to fuck this weekend. Who's in? I guarantee you she'd have responses within a half hour, maybe within minutes, from multiple guys begging for her to pick them.

that wouldn't be the case for me in fact i can prove it when eva went out of town one weekend and this had to be this was sometime last year i did in fact post something like that so i posted a pic of myself myself, and I said something like, my wife is out of town, who'd be interested in keeping me company? Something like that. Not a single response. And honestly, that was expected, though. I was not surprised at all. I knew it would be a total long shot, but I thought, what the heck, I'll put it out there. But there are other fantasies or goals that Eva has been able to fulfill.

Now, some of these weren't necessarily fantasies or goals that she had, just very exciting situations or, you know, just memorable experiences. So let me give you the rundown, okay? She has, and again, I'm talking about Eva here, she has driven by herself to a guy's house to fuck him on two separate occasions. She's driven to meet a guy at a hotel and fuck him there. She met a guy at a hotel and fucked him while his wife watched and took photos and video.

She met a guy for lunch and then fucked him in the car in a parking garage that was right by the restaurant she's played with three guys at one time she fucked a dude in the backseat of his truck and she even met another woman at a hotel for a play date once now these are all things i would love to do i would love to experience things like this but the opportunities have not been there for me because of two reasons i think number one i am not a hot woman like eva is and number two Eva is cool as fuck and super hot and is open to doing sexy things like that.

Finding another woman, like even remotely as cool as my wife, who is willing and able to do those sorts of things that's that's been impossible and i and i mean that sincerely my wife is that cool and i guess i must be at least slightly as cool because i've allowed and encouraged eva to do all these things but honestly i'm not i'm not the the tall dark muscular handsome type that that women would typically you know scour profiles for if they wanted some side action or if they wanted to be in an fmf now i'm not unattractive don't get me wrong i mean otherwise eva would would not be with me in the first place but but my personality and my sense of humor those are my weapons okay and if and you have to meet me in person to experience those you can't get those from skimming through online profiles so if a woman is looking for an fmf you know or you know some side action i mean the first thing they're going to do is go to pictures, go to photos.

And honestly, I just don't really fit that tall, dark, handsome, muscular type that I think most people, that I think most women would be on the lookout for, for one of those to happen.

I not gonna lie i am extremely jealous of eva now don't get me wrong for most of the you know most of these experiences it was a huge turn on for me too you know there was there was one that was not a turn on and maybe i'll devote an episode to that incident in the future but for now i'll just move on and we'll just say that most of them were huge turn-ons so i am thankful all right i'm i'm thankful and proud i guess to have the the trusting relationship that i do with eva that allows me to be okay with her fucking other guys in in those situations you know without me there but again i can't lie you know i wish i could experience those things too with a woman of course.

Okay. Not, not can't lie. You know, I wish I could experience those things too. With a woman, of course. Okay, not with a guy. Eva has had a hell of a good time. And I'd love to experience that. You know, the excitement and the fun and the pleasure of it all. You know, I want to meet a girl for a naughty rendezvous at a hotel. You know, I want to meet a girl for a naughty rendezvous at a hotel. You know, I'd love to meet a woman for lunch and fuck her in the backseat of a car. So, I admit, I'm jealous of that.

And by the way, to this day, driving past that parking garage, oh my gosh, such a turn-on.

Just to see that parking garage where she gosh such a turn on just just to see that parking garage where where she was that's just it's just fantastic so yeah I'm jealous and and she's already talking about uh being there for one of the one of the gentlemen that I that I mentioned a moment ago when his his recently pregnant wife gives birth and and you know they have to abstain from sex for a while she wants to be there for him now that's awesome for her and I'm so happy for her but but man does make me feel left out sometimes and kind of like you know why why can't i be lucky enough to find a woman like like those other lucky bastards who who found eva and i'm sorry to brag but but she is such a damn catch let me tell you so of course all these guys want to fuck her i don't't blame them at all.

But either I am not interested in playing with their wives separately, or the wives are unwilling, or they are just unable for whatever reason. And it's just really frustrating sometimes. The lifestyle is set up for women especially one who is cool as fuck like my wife and for those and for those others who have cool uh trusting understanding and uh open-minded husbands like me okay so so don't get me wrong. Some guys love the fact that their wives are hot wives and, and don't mind not getting in on the action. And I like it too. Okay. I really do.

But there's always a big part of me that feels like I'm being left out or excluded but knowing knowing eva is having a great time and and fulfilling her fantasies and exploring her sexuality and and just having a blast that's enough for me to overcome the the feelings of jealousy and there's even a video of a couple of these occasions uh that was actually one of my requirements as you will hear about shortly but it's such a turn-on to watch these videos and see her getting railed by a dude just moaning with pleasure and having intense orgasms and of course the the reclaimed sex is always amazing so there's tons of positives that outweigh the negatives and i want to tell you about one of these experiences that eva had because it is it is a hot tale this is my favorite one to tell like i said said, just so damn hot, right?

Plus, it shows just how smart my wife is. She's such a good planner and like a forward thinker. So that all contributes here, okay? So she had this fantasy she wanted to fill. So you know what? Damn it. She made it happen. She planned the whole thing from the bottom to the top and pulled it off beautifully. Her fantasy was to show up at a guy's house wearing nothing but lingerie under under a trench coat, and fuck him. Now again, we don't play with single guys. It's just something we're not interested in doing, and I hope to tackle that subject actually in another episode.

but because we don't play with single guys that means her play options they were limited okay they were they were limited to the male half of lifestyle couples whom we've already established you know we've already had an established, trusting relationship. So Eva contacted the female half of a lifestyle couple we are really good friends with, like really comfortable with them, trust them. And she explained what she wanted to do, and they began plotting. Now, this woman is also super cool and loves watching her husband play with other women.

So she was very comfortable and very open to the idea of this happening. Now, she occasionally worked away from home overnight, leaving her husband home alone. this was actually her second husband, so her kids from her first marriage sometimes stayed with their dad, so there was a possibility that this guy, Eva's target, would be home alone one evening while his wife worked a night shift without kids around. So Eva and this woman got to planning the details. And I have to say it was pretty cool to see it all come together. And there was even another situation that helped.

The last time we saw this couple, we had gone to Princeton. If you don't remember me mentioning from a previous episode, Club Princeton is a lifestyle club just outside of Columbus. And to get in, you have to show your ID. Somehow, someway, Eva's driver's license wound up in the other woman's purse. And she didn't realize she had it until several days later. You know, we thought her license was lost. But the woman found it, contacted Eva, and told her that the next time we got together for a play date, she would return it. This was a couple that we played with fairly regularly.

So she would just return it the next time we saw them. But this just played into Eva's master plan. They found a date where the guy would be home alone.

And his wife was at work as planned then eva put on us this sexy red lingerie put a trench coat over it and walked out the door and then she drove about 90 minutes to his house she went up to the door and knocked there was no answer but she heard him working out in the garage so she texted him and told him to come to the front door and eva said she heard him say something like what the fuck like something like that so he came to the door and was very surprised to see her. She told him that she was here to pick up her license. So he invited her in, noted that I strangely was not there with her.

It was just Eva. And he went to get her license from the other room. When he returned, Eva had taken off the trench coat and was standing there waiting for him with her sexy red lingerie on. I can only imagine the hot sexy look on her face and the shocked look on his. So it kind of clicked at that moment that she was not just there to pick up her license. She was there for much more. Now this dude is a total gentleman. Such a nice, respectful guy.

We get along with him and his wife great great so the first thing he asked was if his wife knew about it and eva responded of course she helped me plan it so i can only imagine the excitement he must have felt and how hard he must have gotten in that exact moment and I am so jealous of that I can only imagine what that would be like if it happened to me I can only wish that I got to experience something like that that lucky fucking bastard but again that would require me meeting someone other than eva who is equally or almost equally as cool as her so yeah i i don't think i'll i've never met her equal in the coolest fuck category and i don't think i ever will so um they went to the bedroom and started to get it on now one of my demands for allowing all this to happen was that i wanted some video i wanted some footage some some evidence of this uh occurring so eva and this guy were happy to oblige i got about 20 minutes of absolutely amazing hot footage of this guy just fucking the shit out of my wife and I'm just I'm just getting turned on thinking about it right now so I think it's safe to say that Eva has had the opportunity to fulfill a lot more fantasies or at least do a lot more wild, you know, wild and crazy things than I have in our journey so far in the lifestyle.

And I really am OK with that. I just I just hope my luck will turn around at some point to some degree you know i would really love to to fulfill some of my fantasies before i get too old or before we decide to to leave the lifestyle behind and i really only have two one is of course an fmf threesome and two to meet a woman for a steamy sexy rendezvous at a hotel eva says it is absolutely amazing but right now i can only imagine how amazing it is now this was not intended to be an oh, woe is me type narrative. I'm very happy, right?

I'm very happy in the lifestyle, and I'm happy that my wife has been able to have these experiences. my intent was simply to illustrate that the lifestyle is more conducive to the female than it is to the male. And of course, my other intent was to give you listeners a super hot sexy story to entertain. And also to prove how awesome my wife is. Sorry, as you know, I like to brag about her. And if you ever meet her, you will agree that she is one of the coolest, hottest women you've ever met. And I keep my hopes up that my time will come.

Remember the wife I told you about who will be giving birth that will hopefully be in about nine months from now then maybe a few months after that she and I can fulfill that hotel fantasy she was actually going to do that but things fell through but but she was going to she said she wanted to but now we of course we've had to postpone our rendezvous for uh for a little while and we we meet new couples uh all the time you know maybe maybe that one willing partner is out there and we just haven't met her yet And even if my fantasies or lifestyle goals even if they're never fulfilled you know that's okay all right i will be hugely disappointed of course but still so so so happy with all the amazing things that have happened to me in the lifestyle.

I am very thankful for those, for the experiences that I've had, for the great people that we've met, and of course for the time that I've spent in the lifestyle with Eva. I've said it before, this journey is the most fun we have ever had and has only brought us closer together as a married couple. Speaking of fun, I hope you had fun listening to this episode of Evan Swings. I'll be back again in a week or two with a new episode. In the meantime, feel free to connect with me.

you can find me on kick or instagram at evan deanson that's e-v-a-n-d-e-a-n-s-o-n evan deanson i'd be happy to hell i would love to connect with some listeners and answer questions that you might have or listen to suggestions for topics that I can include on future shows. And don't forget, in episode eight, my wife Eva told listeners that you are welcome to send her questions as well. And she will join me as a guest host again on a future episode to answer them for you. So please feel free to ask her questions through me. It'll make our day. Trust me. Until then, take care, everybody.

Be safe, be naughty, and swing on.