Episode 10: The Sensitive Nurses (with co-host Eva)

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I'm just an average guy in the swinger lifestyle who likes to share his experiences. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Please seek a professional if you are in need of advice, guidance, or care as it relatesings, a podcast about the swinger lifestyle from the perspective of a guy in the swinger lifestyle, me. I'm Evan, and I'm half of a lifestyle couple, the other half being my lovely but hot-as-fuck wife, Eva, who is joining me again as a co-host. Hi, Eva. Hi, Evan. I'm happy to be here with you again.

Well, she is here because we have had certain experiences, like Episode 8's Alexa guy story, where it just wouldn't do it justice if it was just me retelling it. Eva's thoughts and perspectives just enhance the story, and she sometimes has a better memory than me, too. so we had a ton of amazing, wonderful experiences in the lifestyle, but sometimes the ones that were not amazing or wonderful, they're more fun to talk about. And if they are not more fun, then they can at least be classified as good learning experiences. And that's what this, what I want this podcast to be all about.

I want to be entertained but i am also hoping that you learn things about the lifestyle by hearing what we learned and have experienced so with that let us tell you the tale of the sensitive nurses and actually before we do that i want to give a shout out to a fan of the podcast yeah she's actually a actually a friend of ours. And she said that she's been listening to all the episodes. So AM, thanks for listening. Greatly appreciate it. AM initials used to protect her identity. So, all right. You ready to tell the tale? Sensitive nurses. Yep. Okay. This is one of our favorites.

Our story takes place, um of 2023. We registered to attend a hotel takeover in the Cincinnati area. Now, neither you or I, Eva, we don't really enjoy showing up at a huge event without knowing a soul in attendance. You know, we're not exactly the types that, you know, we'll just walk up to random couples introduce to introduce ourselves and start chatting i mean at least you me more than you feel that way but um to me that is daunting and you know i'm kind of the the shy till you get to know me type and you know i i lack the i lack self-confidence sometimes. Yeah. You shouldn't though.

Well, there's always that lingering fear of rejection. So, so anyway, here's what I do. Here's what I like to do. I, I, I like to peruse the guest lists of people attending the event because on certain sites like, uh, and apps like Champagne, SLS, SDC, you can indicate that you're going to an event by joining a group that was set up for that particular event. So I like to go there, check out the profiles, and if someone interests us, I'll reach out, introduce ourselves, and say hello.

Now that works out with some couples, but honestly, not always not always that many you know most times i get a polite response saying hi and yeah if you see us say hello but i can tell there's not a whole lot of genuine interest and other times couples will just flat out not respond but occasionally i'm able to establish a connection with a a couple or two and we end up chatting and looking forward to seeing each other at the event.

Well I seemed to strike gold with a particular couple that we will be referring to as the sensitive nurses and you'll find out why we call them that as we progress through the story. They seem very into us, and so we were hoping to spend some quality time with them at the takeover. So I want to tell the story about how we actually saw them for the first time at the hotel. I don't remember that. Oh, I do. I'm interested in the story. Well, we had not seen them yet.

And then Eva and I were on the dance floor and I asked her to look around and tell me if she saw a guy that that she thought was really hot. I really love it when you tell me that. I love it when you tell me you're really attracted to a guy.

And I think one reason for that is because, listeners listeners i think my wife is just the hottest most beautiful woman and i figure every other guy is thinking that too so if she's really attracted to a guy then we should probably pursue that because the chances of us scoring with them are high because no guy would want to turn down an opportunity to be with eva i feel like they have though they have which one i don't know but surely in almost three years i have been turned down i can't think of one well i wouldn't know if they turned us down like before i even met them because i don't do any of the social media stuff that is true but i don't think that happened if you say so well anyway um i lost my train of thought there so as i said like i always consider eva to be the bait so so anyway she she obliges and she starts scanning the atrium and she picks out a guy and says something like oh he's cute do you remember this now i kind of do yeah it was a hat yes he was yeah he was wearing a hat you liked it like a beanie was it a beanie i think it was yeah well up until that point eva had only you know, a few photos of the sensitive nurses.

So she didn't realize it, but she had just picked out the male sensitive nurse. I was like, holy crap, that's them. So this is this is meant to be if out of all the guys out there, she picked the one that we had been planning to hang out with. So we went up, we introduced ourselves and we seemed to really hit it off.

I mean, we spent really nice yeah and we spent a significant portion of the the rest of the evening with them you know not necessarily on the dance floor but just talking and stuff this was friday this was friday okay yes and do you remember we went to uh at and i don't know if they had it at the most recent takeover but at this particular takeover they had the side room a bdsm side room and we went there with them yeah and you know not not to do anything there we were just looking around kind of taking in the scenery you know nothing spicy well it was more of an instructional side room well sure but but you could try out some of the things yeah i did try out the flogger on you a little bit that was nice well i should note um if you are a loyal listener and have listened to episode eight about the alexa guy you might find it to be an interesting note that the alexa guy and his wife who we called alex and siri um they were part of this group we were hanging with at the time, but we didn't talk to them much.

Well, that's where we met them. That's how we met them, through the sensitive nurses. But in all honesty, our targets were the sensitive nurses. So, and you can correct me if I'm wrong here, but I don't think there's much else to tell about that first evening except that they went to bed shortly before midnight. Yeah, because we were like, oh, okay, goodnight. I think they left the dance floor because they were tired. It was pretty sudden. Yeah.

And we were a little disappointed and a little surprised, but we really didn't think too much of it well mainly because going to bed early is not conducive to being in the lifestyle exactly it's not typical and because they were very obviously going to sleep yes yeah yeah i agree and at these hotel takeovers the parties last the, you know, one and two o'clock hours. Yeah. Or later. Yeah. And they were headed straight to bed before midnight. They were fading past. Well, we'll get to that. And it wasn't, I don't think it was anything bad. It was just unusual.

And we didn't really feel the strong urge to hang out with the rest of the group we somehow managed to be with. So I don't remember what we did. Do you? I think we just went. I don't think so. I think we just went and walked around by ourselves at the after party. Yeah, that was pretty much it. So like I said, not much else to tell for night one. But let's go to night two. Let's go to the next day.

We were contacted by the sensitive nurses, and they invited us to go out to dinner am i missing something am i forgetting something i do think that when we were walking around up there we were looking for another couple that we had also just met i don't remember that okay maybe it's the wrong one but the um he never has a shirt on oh um but we missed them we did they were already yes occupied yes with someone else they were already behind closed doors you're absolutely right we were looking for them and i actually have that in my notes that will i'll come into here.

So the next day we are, um, we were contacted by the sensitive nurses. They invited us to go out to dinner because there's this nice casual bar and grill type place right around the corner from the hotel. So we accepted, you know, we were, we were interested in this couple.

So before I go any further, I want to mention again, for those who have listened to episode eight, Alex and siri were also present at this dinner was it dinner or lunch i thought it was dinner was it lunch it was an early dinner maybe i think so i i don't know well i think there was four couples if i'm not mistaken yeah four couples yeah but because alex and siri were at the far end of the table so so I couldn't talk to anyone except the people right next to me. Which were the sensitive nurses. Okay, yeah. But, you know, our focus was on the sensitive nurses.

They were our quote-unquote targets. And I do remember thinking Siri was really attractive, but that's about all I remember.

So we sat close to the sensitive nurses, and i thought we were really hitting it off we were yeah definitely were there's no question and you can you can be attracted to people but i feel it's easy to lose that attraction if there isn't a a solid connection like there's there isn't any chemistry like if They don't hold a conversation well yeah but this couple was awesome i have that new rule now that we are never gonna break again yeah well this couple the sensitive nurses they were kind they were intelligent he was hilarious he was really funny and sense of humor is very important to both of us and we we talked about how long we'd each been in the lifestyle, and we'd both been in almost two years.

Yeah, at the time, sure. Yeah, at the time. And so Eva and I really thought that this is the couple that we would be playing with that evening. And it seemed like the feeling was very mutual. Yeah.

And that's coming from me, and I don't even read people very well so even i knew it so after dinner we returned to the hotel got changed and a little bit later on we found them on the dance floor i danced with her eva danced with him seemed to be going well yes and maybe we should point out something here yeah you want to tell what happened no you can tell okay i could see it coming up i have like a i have a screen of notes because i don't want to forget things so so there were on the dance floor and eva asked him if she could kiss him because kissing is very important to me as it is to me very sexy i agree and when when she asked, he immediately turned to his wife and asked her for permission.

So permission was granted, but that seemed a little strange. I was taken aback. I thought, huh, that's odd that he specifically had to ask, can I kiss Eva?

Because that's what he said can i kiss eva and you're at a hotel party you're at a swingers hotel party yeah that should have been in my opinion an established rule ahead of time but i thought well maybe their rule is they ask every time they different people have different rules that's true yeah so we danced for a while and they actually invited us up to their room for drinks now we haven't been to a ton of takeover takeovers and we're certainly not experts but usually if you invite a couple away from a big party back to a more like your hotel room, for drinks, that's kind of signal that there is some potential for some spiciness.

Yes. Well, it didn't quite go as planned. But at that point, it wasn't necessarily bad. It was just kind of awkward. So Eva sat on the couch next to the dude and I sat on the other chair and she sat across the room away from me in another chair so you know I suddenly was not getting a good vibe that this girl was into me but I've said it a million times I don read people. So I figured this is probably a me problem. But, of course, I was too shy to make a move or even go sit by her or ask her to sit by me. And she didn't either. Like, so maybe we were just both nervous. Who knows?

You both were. Meanwhile, though, Eva, as she always does, was pulling out all the stops. She was flirtatious. She was outgoing. She was conversative. Is that a word? Conversational. She engaged in lots of conversation. Loquacious. Loquacious. I don't know. But you were pulling out all the stops, and I even distinctly remember you saying to him, I really want you to fuck me tonight.

Like, it came out, like, something like that something like that yeah yeah and that is when we found out that they had never done a full swap yes they did not tell us that when when i hear someone who has on their profile full swap and they tell you they've been in the lifestyle for a couple of almost a couple of years and they tell you they the people in your dinner party that they have played with you assume at least i assumed now i learned a lesson that those had been full swaps at least some of them had been full swaps. Because I know they had had some encounters. Yeah. But it was not.

Yeah. And I said, oh. And so I said, well, we've never done a soft swap. But I'm more than willing to if that's what you want to do. You just, you let us know.

But yeah they didn't no and and we spent a good amount of time with them with dinner and talking and dancing and that's just something that that never that they never told us that was information that was never provided and we didn't think it needed to be because it was right there in their profile that it said full swap so all right well i think you looked again and it said soft or full swap soft i think it said soft or full okay one or both i don't know yeah but it was on there so yeah it was definitely on there well and you can tell me if i'm if i'm forgetting something here but after talking for a bit, a decision was made.

He said he needed to shower, but then the plan was we were going to meet on the fifth floor, hang out for a bit, because that's where the after party is. And then the plan was to return to our room after that, presumably to play. Now, I can't remember if it was exactly stated that way but that was the assumption am i right okay yeah and we were very clear of saying whatever type of play you want to do we will do well i was very excited went back to our room eva changed into her sexy fifth floor outfit, and then we went upstairs to meet our dates, supposedly.

Well, something to note, and this is what Eva alluded to earlier, while we were up there, we ran into a couple that we met earlier who approached us after seeing our profile, and they seemed really interested in us. And in fact, to this date, they've actually become some of our good friends and regular playmates in the lifestyle. But that night, we didn't play with them. We probably could have. Oh, we 100% could have. If we had no. We were saving ourselves for the sensitive nurses. Yeah, we already had a play date set. Yeah.

So we talked to them a bit, but ultimately parted ways because we were waiting for our sensitive nurse friends to show up. But they never did. They never showed up. They stood us up. 1 a.m. rolls around and they are nowhere to be seen. You know, we were up there for what, an hour? Maybe? I think so. Maybe a little less. I don't know. But I want to remind you that after we left their room, when we were walking back to our room, I said to you, I bet they don't show up. You did. You predicted it. I did not expect them to ghost us. I expected a text saying, we went to bed. We're sorry.

We're not ready. Anything like that. that but but eventually they did text us and i'm trying to remember her i think it was around 1 45 a.m well we had already gone back and oh yeah to our room we had gone back at our own sex and we did yeah so we got a message at about 1 45 and i think it was her supposedly and it said her husband got out of the shower and started fading fast so they decided to just go to bed fading fast so ladies and gentlemen hotel takeovers are expensive we put a lot of time effort and cash when we attend these events.

Now, I don't want to sound rude, but we know what we attended a swinger hotel party to do. Yes. It was to fuck other people. And that did not happen. You and I could have stayed home. And had the same amount of fun. And saved a couple hundred dollars and had the same amount of fun, except that we did meet the other couple. And so that was worth it. Yes. It was worth it in that respect.

So, and again, Eva and I had plenty of fun on our own in our own hotel room, but I don't think it's too much to say that it was a letdown, especially, especially after thinking things were going so smoothly, but Eva knew something was up. I mean, you knew it. You can sense it. So, you know, I responded politely to that text we received, and that was it. And I guess we can fast forward now to, I think it was a few weeks later. I don't know because I don't do any of the chatting until I know someone well. And so she texted you, I think, or something. She messaged you. I forget.

But they actually reached out to us and apologized. You know, they wrecked. That was nice. That was nice. Yeah. And to this day, let me just say, I still think they're nice people. It's just they didn't know what they wanted. So we'll we'll get to that. Okay. They recognized that they, in their words, ruined our weekend. Did they say they did? They did say that. I don't think it was ruined. Well, I'm just saying they use those words. Okay. Okay. So they knew what we were hoping for. They knew what we were hoping would happen.

But they said they really did enjoy our company and wanted to know if we could get together for dinner some other time. Well, at the time, we really liked them, too. So we were happy to give them another chance. So we went to a restaurant, and things seemed to pick up right where they left off. Yeah, it was a good dinner. We had a lot of fun, a lot of good conversation. Everything went smoothly. Over the course of the conversation, they mentioned that they sometimes had their house to themselves.

And I can't remember why and the circumstances of it, but they said they wanted us they wanted to host us they wanted to have us over they invited us over like in those i mean it was directly like we would like to have you over for a play date something like that and we were like yeah that would be great so before we left they said that they would be contacting contacting us soon to set up a play date at their house. That's how we left it. Yes. But also during that dinner, we did discuss whether they had done a full swap yet. And at that time, we still had not done a soft swap.

So we didn't know that we didn't enjoy soft swapping um that's another episode okay for another date okay well so we did tell them we're like we are more than happy to do a soft swap we've never done that you can be our first try if you are not ready for a full swap that is fine just let us know that is the way it was left just let us know and i think that that's just really an important thing right there it's just respecting other people's boundaries yes but as eva just said you have to let people know of those boundaries you you have to know what the rules are you have to know what you're working with and when we left off i mean Anda and i we were we were happy it seemed like they were they had made amends and they wanted another shot at us and we were happy to give it to them yeah we are very forgiving but time went by and we continued chatting with them on and off again and and actually eva joined the chat so i did yeah we all got together it was all good chatting yep all got together on kick sexy pictures sexy chatting yeah and but the invitation never came and we're talking like a month later now right i think we met them for dinner in june okay and the next hotel takeover was in august okay so we were expecting to be invited over sometime in july sometime in the summer yeah sometime in the summer yeah yeah and that invitation never came nope so we were suddenly not getting good signals now no we were just we weren't getting bad signals but we weren't getting like excitement signals no we still were we just were not getting an invitation like there was no mention of when we were going to be getting together well i will trust your memory on that one okay so as eva said we we had registered for an aug hotel takeover, and this is, again, summer of 2023, and they were registered, too.

So, Eva and I decided that we really needed to know where we stood. We certainly did not want to waste another weekend courting them, only for them to stand us up again. Yeah.

Basically, they had stood us up twice now i mean not really stood us up but you know at the takeover and then they said they'd be contacting us they said look at we'll look at our calendars and then they never did so they left us hanging twice we'll put it that way so all four of us were on the same kick chat and one of us i can't remember which of us did this we sent them a message it might have been me and i said i doubt it it was very forward so it was probably me well we said to them we basically invited them oh this part was you yeah we basically invited them to our hotel room for drinks and fun on the Friday night of the event.

But we were very specific. We reiterated that we were a full swap couple and made it clear that that's what we were hoping for. And if that wasn't what they were hoping for, that they could tell us that. Yes, because by that time, um, we had done a soft swap with a different couple who we had met in between after in that long period of time when we were waiting for an invitation. We certainly weren't waiting by ourselves, not playing with anyone else.

So during that that time we met a couple that was soft swap only and they were super hot yes and so we were like okay let's try it we'll we'll do a soft swap we met with them once and it was fine it was good it was fun it was very fun um and then we went to the club with them but we had another couple come with us So, let's do this.

fun um and then we went to the club with them but we had another couple come with us who we had already played with because both you and I knew we did not want to spend money to go to the club we did not want to spend money on a hotel room just for another soft swap so we wanted to have another full swap couple there with us and we did and that was fun too but I would never I don't know.

for another soft swap so we wanted to have another full swap couple there with us and we did and that was fun too but i would never do another full another soft swap again yeah i'm not interested though and like i said i'm gonna i'm gonna devote an episode to that at some point in the future on this podcast so we sent that message to the sensitive nurses and they got pissed Like they wrote back indicating, first of all, that they were offended by us even asking them this. They literally use the words offended. Oh, yeah, they were offended. Yeah, they said that's not their style.

They wanted things, and this is one of the things that Eva and I joke about. I do, we say it all the time.

They want things in the lifestyle to happen organically yeah they use that word organically and then that's when they drop the the infamous line when they said something like you know we're just sensitive nurses well they were telling us that we're insensitive exactly yeah but yeah but you know we're just sensitive nurses but yeah screw you guys are being never pressure on someone to and I responded I said I'm sorry that you were offended or that you think we are insensitive or that you think we were pressuring you we just want to know what your plan is so we can make our plans accordingly we said we want to we will plan around you but if you are not interested in a full swap if you just want to soft swap we want to have another couple that we can that we can full swap with after we're done warming up with you guys basically that was my plan i mean yeah like a appetizer for the main event for me so yeah um but that did not go over well no at all and it just seemed like a really silly silly things to say um and then the whole we want things to happen organically thing now you're i think you're better at explaining this like that that's a whole truckload of bullshit yeah so if they wanted they basically wanted us to meet with them in a room in their room and just see where things led and if that is your approach to Thank you.

in a room in their room and just see where things led and if that is your approach to swinging all I can say is that it's going to get you in a whole lot of trouble maybe not now maybe not tomorrow but someday and for the rest of your life because I specifically asked asked her, I said, I do not want to be in a situation where I am fucking your husband and you look over and you were not prepared to see him fucking someone else and you have a hard time with it. call it quits, throw a fit, you know, anything. And you are not prepared for that. And that is really what they were asking us to do.

After spending all that time with us already. After spending a lot of time with us already. And after us saying, if you want to just soft swap, that is absolutely yes that is all i i and i told her i said i cannot go into a situation where i do not know what you are expecting well like you said it could be dangerous i don't want to pressure somebody to fuck me who doesn't want to fuck me. I got people lined up who want to fuck me. She really does. I mean, not really. But, you know, I didn't need his cock. I have other cock. I don't know how else to say it.

So, in my mind, and I didn't say this, I wish I had, they were the ones being insensitive to us. We offered to do whatever they wanted to do. That is correct. All we were asking is that they decide amongst themselves, those two, what they want to and they could not decide they did not want to be pressured to decide which tells me that they have no established rules and obviously they have not established a kissing rule or he would not have had to ask about that and i just i don't know they're either not going to make it in the lifestyle or they're not going to make it as a couple.

Because those are the only two options. They're not doing it right. Yeah. I sensed a lot of just lack of communication between the two. Yes. And, you know, I keep on saying that I want this podcast to be a learning experience. Like if you listen to it, I'm hoping you learn things. So let me just reiterate what, what you said. And we, we feel it's important to have established rules and expectations ahead of time. So no one's offended. No one gets uncomfortable. No one gets hurt.

Taken aback by something happening they weren't ready for yeah so that's our little tip little advice for you it is you're gonna hear that advice i've heard that advice from people when we were first learning when we were first in it you have to have your rules what are your rules and we had rules they can change oh absolutely evolve of course yeah well one of our rules is if if the couple has a no kissing rule no we're out we're out we have no interest in gotta be kissing yep there has to be kissing and we have a rule that um i told evan i don't even want to meet a couple if the girl is not bisexual or bi-curious.

I'm more than happy to fulfill her curiosity. But for me, having a woman in the bed in addition to two men is a lot of fun. I really enjoy that.

So we have those two rules you have to have rules they had no rules that's yeah and yet we were the insensitive ones correct well supposedly yeah so things fizzled out fairly quickly after that you know we said we would remain friends but it seemed like this was something from which a friendship was not salvageable well i i know i did you were you were more pissed you i was pissed i remember reading that and my heart was pounding i was really really pissed off because i could not i absolutely could not have worded it in a less pressuring.

there was no pressure I worded it as tactfully as I could but we needed to know I mean in this situation where you have to ask a question like this there's only you you just do the best you can so and we ended up deleting those kick threads because I would have loved to have gone back to them and actually quoted exactly what we said and what we wrote. Oh, I deleted it immediately. Oh, I know you did. I did too, but not immediately. I let it go for a while. So anyway, to wrap this up, we did see them at the takeover.

We said hello and exchanged pleasantries at least i did i think you might have been kind of standoffish to them i said hello and walked on past yeah but that was it i made eye contact yeah he's still really cute he is he still had a hat on she was really cute too yeah and then we never saw or heard from them ever again no not not at a hotel takeover not at a club i have not seen any posts from them online so i don't think you told me that i haven't seen it's like they don't exist all of a sudden so it is very very possible that they are no longer in the lifestyle yeah and that would not surprise us at all and i i just don't they they don't seem to be long for the lifestyle.

They just, they just didn't. Now that could change, obviously. I mean, one wild night where, where they let loose and decide to take the plunge and maybe a whole new world type. No, I agree. But, you know, maybe maybe they'll stick to soft swapping or parallel play. But that's fine. If that's what people want to do, that's fine. No, I agree. But, you know, maybe they'll stick to soft swapping or parallel play. That's fine. If that's what people want to do, that's fine. But one thing I do hope then, if that's the case, they need to take full swap off their profile.

It needs to be off of there because that is misleading. They only had it on because they were open to it. It was an option for them to consider, but it should not have been on there. Thank you. they were open to it. It was an option for them to consider, but it should not have been on there. Absolutely not. So it was a very interesting learning experience for us. We still can't hear the word organically without thinking of them. Nope. And we always joke about the sensitive nurses line.

And when we're tired, we say we say we're fading fast we're fading fast they said that more than once i believe they said it in the chat at some point they say yeah more than once we're fading and then of course you know another thing we learned is that if someone has their profile that says something like uh soft or full swap depending on the vibe or depending on how things go or or in the right situation that's a red flag for us anyway yeah that that just because yeah yeah that means we need to stay away because they're not totally sure about what they want and eva and i are very sure we know exactly what we want.

We, you know, we stayed in our profile. We are a full swap couple and, you know, we have, we have all our rules laid out. Uh, even makes fun of me sometimes because I'm a very wordy person and my, our profile has a lot of information, but everything is there written in black and white.

Like what, you know, our expectations are rules, what we like, what we we don't like so there's no doubt if someone looks at our profile there's no doubt what we're looking for so unless there's any other information you can think of to add i think that's the that's the end of the story that's the sensitive nurse's story i think it's the end of the story but i do remember when we saw them saturday night at that hotel takeover after after all that i think was it that one or was it might have been the next one i don't think it was the next one no i think we saw them that one time and that was it oh because we didn't go back until march okay remember we saw them across the dance floor after we met some other friends that we're friends with now?

Mm-hmm. And I looked smoking hot that night, I will say. That dress was really good. That was a glow dress. Mm-hmm. Yeah. I don't really know if I was smoking hot, but you were, I was, um, so as soon as I saw him across the room, I instantly became much more attached to the new person that we had literally just met.

And I told him why, and he was super happy oh yeah he loved that yeah to be the he's a fun guy to be at my beck and call and let me drape myself all over him as much as i could and all i just kept hoping was boy i bet i bet cute hat guy knows what he's missing yeah that's sensitive nurse that he is all right i wanted him to know what he was missing well yeah i agree yes Thank you.

knows what he's missing yeah that sensitive nurse that he is all right i wanted him to know what he was missing well yeah i i agree yes so hopefully he regrets it all right everyone well that's the end of our story for today and uh we're gonna wrap up the episode so thank you so much for joining us and thank you very much to my gorgeous wife eva for being my co-host again today um we hope you enjoy the episode and we'll come back and listen to future episodes of evan swings and i'm pretty sure i'll be able to convince eva to come back on once in a while to be my guest host yeah i'm sorry i just yawned.

I'm fading fast. You're fading fast. So I invite you to connect with me on kick or Instagram. I'd love to feel any questions or comments you have and maybe use them in a future episode. Eva has already said that if you have questions for her, I can relay them for her and she'll answer them as well so send them my way you can find me on kick or instagram at evan deanson that's e-v-a-n-d-e-a-n-s-o-n evan deanson until then take care everyone be naughty be safe have fun and we'll see you next time bye