What does it really mean to be a Hotwife? Join AC Maxwell on this sizzling episode of The Swinging Single Podcast as we peel back the layers of this dynamic lifestyle beyond just a label. Discover how to navigate the journey of becoming a Hotwife—from honest communication and finding the right platforms, to understanding the juicy differences between Hotwife and cuckold dynamics.Learn how to keep your Hotwife experiences healthy, consensual, and filled with respect and well-being. Plus, AC’s unapologetic tips for staying fresh and confident in the game—you know, like making sure to shave your cock and balls before the fun begins.Ready to embrace your sexual liberation and connect with a supportive community? Head over to swingingsinglepodcast.com and let’s get started.#HotwifeLifestyle #SwingingSinglePodcast #ConsentIsSexy #Swingers #ShaveYourCockAndBalls #OpenRelationships
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Treat it, feel better, then start all over again. That was my pattern for years. I kept dealing with the same symptoms, getting the same treatments, and ending up right back where I started. That's when I found Evie. Evie is an at-home vaginal microbiome test that analyzes over 700 bacteria and fungi from a single swab. It goes far beyond traditional testing that only checks a few things. When I used Evie, I finally saw patterns that had never been explained to me before.
Then, a licensed clinician reviewed my results and created a personalized prescription care plan based on my actual microbiome. And for the first time, I wasn't just reacting. I had direction. Evie also isn't just data. It connects you to real clinical next steps based on your results. If you're tired of repeating the same cycle, this is where that changes. Visit Evie.com and take the Evie test at home today. Welcome to the Swinging Single Podcast with your host, A.C. Maxwell.
For over 20 years, i've been navigating the swinging lifestyle as a single gentleman yes sir experiencing all the excitement challenges and everything in between this podcast is my honest and unfiltered take on that journey a fresh set of eyes diving deep into real stories lessons learned and practical advice for anyone exploring or curious about the lifestyle.
Whether you're new, seasoned, single, or partnered, join me as I share my experiences, bust, miss, and help you swing your best in this exhilarating world. So let's get real, keep it respectful, and keep swinging single. But first, go to swingingsinglepodcast.
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Till the day that she died Going on vacation in France Need a soul deported to Spain It's making the flick It's their kind of kick The love in the limb made a pain It's a cackle and a heart rife Swing on, swing on It's a cackle and a heart rife Swing on, swing on It's a cackle in the hot way Swing on, swing on Oh yeah, let's get it going, let's get it on Hello lovers and seekers Welcome back to the Swing a Single Podcast Where we dive deep into the boldest, most passionate corners of the lifestyle you crave I'm your host, Maxwell, ready to guide you through tonight's steamy hot topic, the hot wife lifestyle.
Now, you might be wondering, do you really need to be hot and a wife to be a hot wife? Spoiler alert, it's way more than just illegal. So tonight, we'll unpack the whole journey. What it means. Where to start. How to find your hot wife river. Whether you're a curious couple or a single looking to connect.
We'll also explore The spicy Intersections of We'll also explore the spicy intersections of Hot Wife and Cockhole Dynamics and how to keep your hot life lifestyle healthy, sexy, and safe with consent and respect at its core.
And hey, tech and preparation go hand in hand so don't forget to shave your cock and balls before you dive in it's the little things that keep you feeling fresh confident and ready to play so all right let's slide in to a nice beautiful juicy hot life so what does the hot life really mean you know i see a lot of people from time to time getting wrong and all that they think oh my wife's hot so she has a hot wife i don't think people really know what a hot wife is in the lifestyle i think people just don't do any research they just talk and they just think and think and think instead of actually doing some research right so?
So first off, let's clear the air. The word half-wife gets tossed around a lot. We know that if you're a spirit swinger, you know that if you're a newbie, you're going to learn something. But it's not just about looks or marital status. Excuse me. Being a half-wife isn't simply about being hot or simply being a wife. It's a dynamic and lifestyle choice filled with power, freedom, trust, and desire.
A hot wife typically refers to a married or committed woman who consensually explores sexual experiences outside her primary relationship. But why beyond that explanation? That's where the magic lies. Excuse me.
her primary relationship but the why beyond that expert but why beyond that expiration that's where the magic lies excuse me i got this allergy stuff that i'm going through and it's gonna be a while before i get in it'll be like sniffing and doing all that stuff so get used to it so some women and couples embrace the hot wife lifestyle as an expression of sexual liberation. A chance to play with fantasies without guilt or jealousy.
And let me know, there's a lot of guilt and a lot of jealousy in the lifestyle. You know it. Veterans, you know it. Send me an email and agree with me, swingandsinglepodcasts at gmail.com. You know there's a lot of guilt, a lot of jealousy, and all that stuff. And you see it on Reddit, the Swinger subreddit and all that. And you see it all the time. The people are very, very jealous in this lifestyle. But, you know, that's why you're here listening to the Swing and Single Podcast.
So AC will guide you through those jealousies and how to get over them. So, but it's about trust. Communication there. That word is, again, communication and consent. The two C's. And a deepened connection with their partner, the three C's, consent, connection, and communication, who might be a supportive husband, a boyfriend, or even a willing cuckold.
And singles, if you're not left out here, understanding this lifestyle can help you meet couples exploring the hot life dynamics or even inspire your own values and desires but remember it's about your experience it's about owning your story beyond labels so navigating the journey and becoming a hot wife becoming a hot wife isn't something you jump into blindly. It's a thrilling journey, but one that requires thought, clear communication, and boundaries.
I can't remember the first time I ever heard the word hot wife. I think it was way before COVID hit and people started talking about a hot wife and all that stuff. and before we just, I don't know what we called them, just a girl who loves the cock, and all that stuff, gangbang wife, stuff like that, but hot wife is a new term, I think, I haven't heard about it, and it was probably right before COVID hit, then I started hearing that word come up.
If you look up porn, and you see things see things look up porn the swinging lifestyle usually takes shape from porn whatever popular is in whatever's popular in porn at the time will be popular in the swinging lifestyle when i first started the game bank was the big thing and you could go to a game bank pretty much every weekend uh excuse me if you were connected into the lifestyle because of that was what was going on houston uh jasmine st claire we're all doing game bangs and all that stuff now you're seeing with wifey.com and all that stuff you see how mainstream you know the stack mix and the hot wife lifestyle was coming in so you know it's getting out there so start with the honest conversations with your partner all right you got to be honest with them tell them what you want what you're looking for and why you're looking for it uh tell them you know don't be saying that i just need extra dick or anything like that ladies just say yeah why you want it and be honest about it gentlemen remember how you would feel if you said to your wife let's have another threesome with another girl and how would you feel how would she feel about it.
Gentlemen, remember how you would feel if you said to your wife, let's have another threesome with another girl. And how would you feel? How would she feel about it? So remember, take deep breath and just discuss it. Be honest. So what does this mean for the both of you? What are your fantasies? What are your fears? And what are your expectations? Setting boundaries not only keeps the experience healthy and sexy. All right.
So what are your fears and what are your expectations Setting boundaries not only Keeps the experience healthy and sexy Alright So what are your fantasies Well the woman probably wants to have two guys at once Or wants to have her husband watch her get Back shots And stuff like that While he watches stuff like that So you know What are the boundaries So what are the fantasies she has And And, you know, it's just fantasies for right now. It's not reality, so you can't get upset.
Because, gentlemen, you probably have a fantasy, too. So don't get upset that she has fantasies also. She is a sexual human being. Actually, women are probably more sluttier than men. And think about sex more than men. They just don't talk about it like we do. What are your fears? Well, the guy comes out with a 12-inch cock and destroys your vagina, maybe. Or your asshole, or whatever. STDs you get, or things like that. You might have feelings for the guy you fuck. I don't know.
All kinds of fears. What are your expectations? Would it be once, one and done? Would it be ongoing? Would it be just for the time being, stuff like that? So what are your expectations?
Who are expectations who are you gonna fuck you know some guys don't want to fuck anybody that is equal to him he wants to be lesser or whatever or you want to be have a guy with a bigger cock than you whatever so it's all up to you so next you want to do consider your emotional readiness are you confident in your relationship strength yes this will not fix your relationship if you think this is going to fix your relationship you're duly wrong it was going to it will probably destroy your relationship and you're probably going to be going to the divorce court all right let's just be real about it all right if you're have any cracks in your foundation swinging or anything is not for you fix those cracks get to cement fix them holes in, make sure that foundation is strong.
And then you can start thinking about this. All right. So you've got to be confident in that your relationship is unbreakable and that foundation is unbreakable. Are you in touch with your desires and comfortable expressing them? If you can't tell your husband what you want, this ain't going to work. Treat it, feel better, then start all over again. That was my pattern for years. I kept dealing with the same symptoms, getting the same treatments, and ending up right back where I started.
That's when I found Evie. Evie is an at-home vaginal microbiome test that analyzes over 700 bacteria and fungi from a single swab. It goes far beyond traditional testing that only checks a few things. When I used Evie, I finally saw patterns that had never been explained to me before. Then, a licensed clinician reviewed my results and created a personalized prescription care plan based on my actual microbiome.
And for the first time, I wasn't just had direction evi also isn't just data it connects you to real clinical next steps based on your results if you're tired of repeating the same cycle this is where that changes visit evi.com and take the evi test at home today gentlemen you can't tell your wife what you want to walk because maybe you are the one that wants to watch it with other men you have to tell her that and if you can't tell her that then don't do this all right be able to communicate what you're looking for what you want when you have this threesome foursome gangbang whatever you're doing tell them because it's all up to you it's going to be about you and it's going to be about her and if you can't express yourself with her Thank you.
you're doing tell them because it's all up to you it's going to be about you and it's going to be about her and if you can't express yourself with her who can you express yourself with i know it's kind of difficult sometimes it's very intimidating to tell someone that you love that you want to watch them have sex with other people or you want to swap people with people stuff like that and sex is a big emotional thing for a lot of people you me everybody so then everybody.
So then there's the fun part, all right? So you get through all that, the fun part, self-exploration. Maybe you want to try flirting online first. That would be very easy to do since everyone's fucking flirting online. Everyone's online, and you can get anything you want online, all right? So that's the easy part, flirting there. Or attend a swingers event together, all right? That's another easy part.
Unless you live out in the middle of nowhere, so that's where you're going to have to do your research. Google. Google is your friend. Swinger clubs near me or whatever. Find a club you could go to. Go to find an event to go to. Maybe you don't want to swing in your own hometown. Maybe you want to go on vacation and swing.
Google google where you're swinging if you're going to orlando you know there's a bunch of places tampa same place uh las vegas same place so you know you want to be able to find the events there are events everywhere all over the country even in the middle of nowhere you can find an event you just got to know and take the time to figure figure it out and go online maybe you want to establish a safe word you know if you're talking to a guy at a club or a guy online well i guess a guy in a club you talk to a guy in a club or a guy at an event what's the safe word they go into the bathroom is that the word that means no or you stick around and, you know, whatever, whatever it is.
So you got to establish that with your partner. Now, remember, when you do a safe word, make it something that he or she is going to recognize. You know, sometimes you choose a safe word and the person says it and you don't it doesn't come up. It doesn't register in your brain until later that, oh, that's a safe word.
So make it a safe word that you definitely will know once you hear it, you know, something like that, set the rules about what's allowed, you know, all that stuff, what's going to be allowed, talking after you have this forte, condoms, no condoms, anal, no anal, things like that, what are the rules, what's allowed, can you kiss, you know, kiss the person, stuff like that, so there's a lot of things you have to discuss, and as a newbie, you're going to hit a lot of bumps in the road, all right, that's what I'm here for, you got to remember, as a newbie, you got to sit back and analyze everything, relax, don't get upset, all right, things happen, things don't always go as planned, remember, life is not like a porn movie, it doesn't go easy like that, it's difficult, it's going to be bumpy, you're not going to find the hottest looking guy, maybe you get turned down by the hottest looking guy in the club, your wife really turned down by some guy that walks in, okay, he doesn't want to have anything to do with you, or stuff like that, he doesn't want to play with you, it's going to be okay, maybe, maybe you know you're not as hot as you thought you were and you don't get the amount of attention that you're seeking so i don't know it could be a lot so set the rules of what you're looking for all right and you should be fine if you stick to those rules through all this you know you got to keep reminding yourself and your partner communication is always sexy talk to each other um when you're having the when you find that partner you find that guy or two at the club talk to keep remember focus on your partner too ladies don't just talk to the guys talk to your husband you know get him in the conversation because i've been where i've been in conversations where the husband when you talk to the husband it's like pulling teeth get anything out of them and the woman's doing all the work which is i guess maybe that's their dynamic maybe they've been doing this for a long enough time it doesn't really matter to him anymore because after after a while for me with my partner i don't really care anymore to talk to the guy or You know, just can you get hard and fuck the shit out of my girl?
That's all I want to know and all that. So keep it, if you're a newbie, make sure your husband's involved, your boyfriend's involved, all right? Keep them in the conversation. Same thing for you guys. You guys always got to make sure you don't just talk to the woman.
Talk to the man, too, because ultimately it's going to go through go through me is going to decide if you're going to be with her all right because it's a two-way street guys uh let's see what else um yeah so i don't know i'm trying to think of the communication that a couple would have i'm trying to think of when i'm a part of a couple um you know, just to be able to communicate, be able to talk and all that stuff. Because ultimately, we're there for the sex, right?
We're not there to be making friends and friendships and stuff with people. We just want to go in there and find a person or guy or two that can, you know, give it to my girl. So, you know, it's pretty simple with us.
For other people, they want want a connection see if you have a connection with people you know talk to those guys see how they are see what you want do you want a guy who has a brain or no brain at all and you don't really care so you know you just got to find that where you want where that communication is and communicate back and forth with your husband or your boyfriend what's going on and and what you think.
You know, if the guy leaves, you know, let's discuss, you know, do you like him, honey? Or do you like him, honey, the husband? And all that stuff. Because, you know, you both should need to like him. Now, the husband, you don't need the line to fuck him, but you should be able to like him because this guy is going to be entering your mouth, your wife's pussy, and you have his dick in her mouth and all that.
So, and with that communication that you have, you create that both that's both adventurous and respectful for each other all right so where to start in finding a hot wife near you all right so you're ready to take steps forward where do you start how do you find a hot wife or couples exploring the lifestyle near you here's what i would do start with local swinger clubs you know meetups and lifestyle events are excellent places to meet like-minded people without the pressure of jumping into relationships right away now if you live out in the middle of nowhere because there's a lot of space in the united states and wherever you might live in the country you're going to have to maybe travel so the internet's going to be one so put travel you might have to start thinking about it these spaces encourage open conversations connections there's websites for hot wives so you can go there remember to come prepared yes that means keeping yourself yourself sharp and sexy and again my personal tip shave your cock and balls it sounds simple but can make all the differences in confidence and first impressions you don't want to hear a bush down there girls ladies don't want to see that anymore you know this ain't the 70s porn anymore all right online platforms are also provide a fantastic getaway some popular lifestyle uh, sites like swing lifestyle.com Cassidy uh sdc uh and you know hashtag open offer filters to find hot wife couples singles and groups near you here's a pro tip use only replicable respectful platforms that prioritize privacy and consent because this lifestyle is as much about safety as it is about pleasure there are a lot of shitty you know websites out there you got to find one that's reputable reputable all right because you're going to get scammed and there's a lot of scammers always there all right and always be genuine in your approach authenticity cuts through through the noise and gets you closer to the connections you desire.
Don't be a bullshitter. If you're not into this lifestyle, I know there's couples out there that like to go online and flirt with people because it gets them off. You're the problem with this lifestyle. If you're not in it, stay the fuck off our lifestyle platforms.
If you're not into it, stay the fuck off our lifestyle uh platforms if you're not into it stay the fuck off our lifestyle platforms it's that easy go watch porn you know you know do that you two gentlemen you guys are a big culprit in there too because you know women do it when i get emails all the time from women they just want to discuss it they don't ever want to meet it so i don't discuss it with women anymore i say if you want to discuss this lifestyle i'll be glad to meet up for dinner on such a such date guys you too if your wife's not into it your wife's not into it just move on with your life it's a lot better stop watching porn you know do something else all right so so we have a problem people don't really understand the difference between hot wife and the cock hold dynamics.
How are they different? People ask me all the time. Well, now here's a juicy one. Hot wife and cock hold, sometimes these terms get tangled up. But they're distinct dynamics with their own flavors. And I get that all the time. Couples will, I mean, or a single woman would email me on Tinder and say, so you're into cock holding? I go, no, I'm not into cock holdingholding because cock-holding is totally different than what I like. All right.
So a hot wife scenario focuses on the wife or partner enjoying sexual freedom outside the relationship, often with enthusiastic consent and excitement from her partner, which would you the gentleman the husband or committed partner is usually very supportive sometimes involved directly or indirectly but always respectful boundaries and i am always involved directly i like watching i like happen finding guys for her and meeting those guys and tell hey man my girl likes you you want to fuck her stuff like that i love doing that so it's no big deal for me to do that all right so um directly indirectly would be where you send your girl out to a you know date and she fucks them and comes home and tells you about it that would be indirectly or whatever so cock holding on the other hand usually involves more complex emotions around submission hum humiliation, or power exchange.
In many cock-hold dynamics, the husband derives excitement from the wife's encounter with other men. Sometimes it emphasizes his own sexual denial or submission. Totally I get it that you like it, but that's not for me, and it's not going to be for everybody.
Guys, you've got to decide, is that what what you want do you want to be humiliated or feel less of less than or whatever it is you want to be humiliated the submission and humiliation is not for me i just don't think you know i'm not the greatest lover but i'm not the worst lover all right i think i'm pretty damn good at pussy eating and all that stuff and fucking and making that girl cum, you know? So, but, you know. Treat it. Feel better. Then start all over again.
That was my pattern for years. I kept dealing with the same symptoms, getting the same treatments, and ending up right back where I started. That's when I found Evy.
Evy is an at-home vaginal microbiome test that analyzes over 700 bacteria and fungi from a single swab it goes far beyond traditional testing that only checks a few things when i used evi i finally saw patterns that had never been explained to me before then a licensed clinician reviewed my results and created a personalized prescription care plan based on my actual microbiome. And for the first time, I wasn't just reacting. I had direction. Evie also isn't just data.
It connects you to real clinical next steps based on your results. If you're tired of repeating the same cycle, this is where that changes. Visit evie.com and take the Evie test at home today.
dictate your lifestyle if you want to be a cock hold be a cock hold and be a proud cock hold if you want to be a stag vixen hot wife be a stag vixen or a hot wife it's what you want i don't get to tell you what you should do and you don't ever let anyone else tell you what you to do what you should do because in this lifestyle it's like republicans and democrats they don't agree on anything if you don't agree with them then you're a piece of shit But I disagree I think Disagreeing and having Different opinions Is good for the lifestyle It brings different Point of views to the lifestyle To the You know the community We can't We're not Swinging is not one size fits all But yet A lot of swingers Want it to be one size fits all And we're not And get over it all right so both can overlap and many couples explore both dynamics fluidly the key clear understanding and communication about each uh each partner wants and the emotions evolve whichever path you walk consent and respect remain the most important navigational tools so sexy adventures are sweetest when they are safe, consensual, and rooted in respect.
The hot life lifestyle thrives on communication. You're going to have to be able to talk. Gentlemen, you have to be able to tell your girl what you want, your wife what you want. Ladies, you've got to be able to tell your man what you want. And that goes for any lifestyle, any type of dynamic in the lifestyle. If you can't tell your partner what you want, it's not going to work. You're going to be very frustrated in the end of the day. So consent isn't just a checklist.
It's a continual conversation. Checking in with your partner before, during, and after experiences open doors to deeper trust and pleasure. Respect your feelings, your partner's feelings, and the feelings of everyone involved. Jealousy, insecurity, and anxiety are natural, but they become manageable when there's honesty and patience. All right? Let's go back. Let's go back. Jealousy. All right? You're going to be jealous.
There's a guy that guys are jealous because they're fucking just hot looking They got a better body, they got a bigger dick You know, you go, damn man, why can't I have that I don't think that's bad jealousy Envy, you know What's wrong with Wanting something that someone has Maybe you work harder for it Maybe I work harder in the gym for my body Stuff like that Can't do anything about the cock size Learn to eat pussy and ass Gentlemen Thank you. Maybe you work harder for it.
Maybe I work harder in the gym for my body. Stuff like that. Can't do anything about the cock size, but you know. Learn to eat pussy and ass. Gentlemen. Shit, those cock and balls. Insecurity. Oh, you know. You know, I can see it where people, guys, will be like, oh, she's going to leave me for him. Stuff like that. Because you hear stupid stories where dumbass couples will break up and exchange partners or whatever. You know.
You have those insecurities anxiety you know oh boy this person really like me you know these things like that you're gonna be gonna have all that and it's gonna be okay you just gotta be able to deal with them and talk them out with your partner well-being also means taking care of your health this This isn't very important, all right? Regular STI or STD testing, safe sex practices, and emotional check-ins all keep your adventures sustainable and fun.
Now, listen, if you are deciding you haven't been a swinger yet, you're thinking about it, you're thinking about the hot life lifestyle or cock-cold lifestyle, listen, there is possibilities, even with condoms, to get an STD,d sti whatever you want to call it all right do not if you do contract one hopefully it's not hiv hopefully it's something else that you can live with and manage with medication or get rid of with the pill you cannot be upset because you have gone into this lifestyle knowing feel feel well knowing that what can possibly happen.
It's like when robbers get shot and get killed and the family's like, he was a good boy. He didn't deserve this. Well, he kind of did because, you know, this is what happens when you do criminal shit. You can die just like with the lifestyle.
You can get an STD, all right, do not get upset, if you do get, well, you can get upset, but don't get upset at the people that you were playing with that gave you the STD, because you should have known better, right, and I just don't understand why couples and singles act like std should not are not a problem they are a very problem in the lifestyle they always say oh swingers get tested the most okay great but still there's stds in the lifestyle so you have to be safe so you have to figure out is it really worth it are you worried about it how are you gonna protect yourself i don't think i think you get herpes through oral sex you get comedia gonorrhea through oral sex so you gotta think are you gonna make people wear condos when you do oral sex stuff like that so you know are you gonna let guys eat you out and stuff like that so you gotta really be careful you know my main thing would be make sure if you're really worried about it, have people tested.
And don't play with anybody that's not tested. You've got to see the results. People can say they're tested, but they're really not. Oh, excuse me. So if you really want to take care of this, make sure you have safe sex practices.
Make sure you talk about it because you know especially if you're a woman that's still ovulating and can get pregnant if you're taking cum shots you're taking cream pies it's a chance that your baby will not be your husband's baby so you know you gotta be very careful be smart remember STDs are STIs are in the community as much as they lie to other podcasts. They're very rampant. You gotta be very careful. And of course, fresh prep helps too.
So take a minute to shave your cock and balls and feel the extra boost of confidence before stepping into your next play session. Also, there is HIV preventative medicine you can take. Go to your practitioner, your GP or whatever, or go online and talk to a doctor there and get your prescription and protect yourself from that stuff. There's stuff that you can do now and start to protect yourself. So, you know, be smart about the STDs and all that stuff, all right? All right?
Do what you want to do. I'm not telling you to do this and only this. I'm just telling you to be smart. Don't be surprised if you got one because guess what? If you spend enough time in a lifestyle, you're going to get a scare or two in this lifestyle. Hopefully you don't catch anything. There's also that new bacteria, MGen, that's out there that's sexually transmitted, it is what it is, but just be smart and be safe. There you have it. The Hot Life Lifestyle is unpacked. Way beyond the label.
A pathway to sexual liberation, passionate connection, and adventure.
Whether you're already on this journey, curious to explore, or single-looking, or single looking or single looking to support or participate remember this lifestyle is yours own own to it's your own craft and enjoy on your own terms all right so you know you gotta really think about what do you what are you looking for all right because if you don't there's gonna be problems so let's move on let's talk about more let's talk about making the move from a hot life lifestyle from the hot life so they're hot life so let's see what they said swingers on reddit i love this subreddit so my fiance is 36 years old that she's the female and i the 27 year old male so there's a 10 year difference there almost have been in the hot life for about one year which is which i was the one to propose oh cool all right good i always found the ideal of being in a relationship and being able to explore our sexuality with other people really arousing whether i got i got to fuck others or not a few days ago she told me that she feels comfortable trying a couple swap or a threesome with another woman all right congratulations buddy every man's fantasy to hear which she immediately didn't feel comfortable with and she had simply left it at that so she was only cool with other men and all that her changing her mind doesn't matter bother me quite on the contrary but i want to make sure she's not just trying to please me since what since what we're used to only hooking up with single guys, we're kind of confused.
We are kind of confused on how to start. So how do we approach this possible change? Very simple. You go online. You go to a club. Find a couple. It's not that difficult. Don't overthink this lifestyle. The lifestyle is not very difficult.
People make it it difficult so if you want to go to a club you've seen single guys they talk to you just say we're not looking for single guys today uh thank you very much but try again next time uh go to when you go to the club chat it up with other couples and see which ones you make a connection with see which ones you want to have sex with and stuff like that. That's very simple. It's not that very difficult. There is no, you know, it's not like you move to a new address.
You got to get your driver's license changed, address changed, and all that stuff, your voter registration changed, and all that stuff. It's just basically you walk into a club and say, that couple there, that couple there. That's all you got to do. All right? Old use, man. You're good. All right. Thank you for now your wife doing it. Now the girl, your, your fiance doing it for your pleasure. It could be, but make sure she's not doing it just for you. Ask her, does she really want this?
And whatever she says, be willing to accept it. Okay. And you know what? Maybe she's now comfortable with you because now she knows you're not going to leave her for another woman because you're getting married, right? So maybe she's comfortable now that allow you to have sex with other women. So it's a win-win. You get married, you get to fuck other women and have fun, all right?
So just go to the club or go to events and just find single couples to play with, and that all you got to do nothing very difficult on that all right all right another question about hot wife it's a unicorn question if my hot wife plays alone at a party is she a unicorn if my wife and i go to a couple's single women only party at a club and she is okay to play alone i watch or wait at the bar would it be fair to proposition her other couples that she is a unicorn i want to get her a fun unicorn shirt to make it more obvious because i feel like it will be easier for her to be shared if other couples know they don't need to play that they need to play too let me know what you think what i think all right you don't need to advertise it you just tell the couple hey my wife's over there if you want to play with her go ahead that's what i do i just tell couples well if you want to play with her go ahead she's available just like when i was at secrets i like we met a couple from Beaumont and we were like, I told her like, if you want to play with my girl, go ahead.
She's right there. Go take her. Bye. See you later. Make sure you wear a condom and make sure you fuck the shit out of her and make her happy. It's her birthday and all that. So that was pretty simple. All right. Now, do you want to get her a unicorn shirt? I, kind of false advertising because a unicorn is a single, bi, female. So you are false advertising that your wife is bi, you know, single, all right? Why not just get her a shirt that says, it's not cheating if my husband watches.
Pretty simple, right? Not too difficult. Kind of funny, too. So I would get her that. Don't get her anything. Don't talk about unicorns because your wife is not a unicorn. Your wife is a married woman, and she plays alone. You like to watch her play. She's a hot wife.
So when you're at a couples-only event, you can watch her fuck other couples, but you don't have to call her a unicorn Don't worry about the labels Worry about the fun Worry about your wife having fun Stop worrying about the labels everybody Labels are just labels That's all Alright let's see what else we got Oh here's Here is So Sorry I know the community probably gets these questions once a week but i was just wondering i'm a straight 20 year old male and i have you have and i will be honest here i'm single and a virgin but i have recently been be trying to be more confident in all things including nsfw things i don't know where else to put this but i have every um one of one two one kinks basically a lot of romance stuff so i never thought i would even like the ideal of an orgy but after listening to a a couple audios, I thought it was actually really hot, and here we are, so if you and others don't mind me asking a couple of questions, all right, how do you find an orgy?
Okay, how do you find an orgy? FetLife, SwingYourLifestyle.com, whatever, SDC, all that stuff. Orgies are very, very uncommon.
There are not a lot of orgies in a swinger lifestyle and what is an orgy first of all do you think more than four people five six seven eight nine ten you know what is an orgy so you got to figure out what is an orgy orgy to you buddy is it more than two people because that could be an orgy for you all right so where do you find them go to a swinger website go to a club maybe you have an orgy there sometimes they happen all right what are orgies like like what is the most common orgy like it's all in one room with six or seven people or is it bigger or different i usually think it's less than six or seven people usually just about four people or five people you know six people usually numbers could be just depending on the environment could be a hot wife orgy where you have maybe one or two or three women and 10 guys and fucking everyone's fucking doing stuff so you know orgies all depends there's no it's hard to really say what's an orgy like it's like a lot of sex and a lot of fun all right how do people most commonly act after an orgy well hopefully they get cleaned up and they go home but you know people stay talk bullshit have fun you know it's a it's a community we're a community swingers are in a community buddy and you know we talk to people we tag out stuff like that all right he says how do most people react to different types of people well you know you know, it just depends on who people.
Sometimes it's an orgy of white people, black people, Hispanic people, or it's a mixed orgy of white women and black men, stuff like that. So, you know, you just don't know. That's why he said you got to find your own orgy. You know, self-esteem problems. Yes.
If you have self-esteem problems, you might not do well in an orgy or a swinger lifestyle, because you got to be confident in yourself, buddy, don't worry about stuff like that, your dick size, or how fat you are, or skinny you are, you know, stuff like that, if you're good looking or not, trust me, there's a lot of ugly ass people in the lifestyle that think they're fucking tens, so, you know, be confident, now, this is a really weird one. At least, has anything more come out of orgy?
This is a curiosity and a bit of more of my freaking romance side talking about. Has there ever been a relationship or something similar to that has spawned from orgy? Yes, of course. Sometimes it does happen where two single people tend to orgy and they fuck and they like each other. They hang out and they become a relationship. So, is it possible? Yes. You know, things do happen at orgies. So, you know, and all that. But, yeah, but, you know, go find your orgy online. Go to a club.
Maybe there's an orgy there. But I'm going to tell you something right now.
You are going to be very disappointed that orgies are very rare in this lifestyle more importantly what you probably should be looking for is a girl that's into swinging and you swap with other couples because that's where you're going to have the most fun i'm going to tell you right now let me repeat buddy orgies do not happen regularly at swiggers events all There are far fewer between Stop watching guys Ladies and gentlemen stop watching porn Porn is not real life In the Swingers lifestyle It is mostly a lot Mostly all talk No action Couples are from mid 30's To 70'ss.
They are mom and dad bods. They're not fucking hot. Average-sized cocks, average-sized tits, stretch marks, saggy tits, butt implants now, faking titty implants now. There is no supermodels walking around looking to get gangbanged by a bunch of dudes.
There's no guys walking around with 8-inch co thicker than a fucking coke can, looking to plow your wife and stuff like that, they are very far few in between, alright, you know, you don't got no man-neagle dick everywhere, a lot of the dudes are ugly as shit, a lot of the women are not that good looking, they're just average to below average, alright, we're're just average people We're not the best looking people in the world We're not the best looking bodies All that stuff Stop watching fucking porn Stop watching those stupid ass podcasts That we only invite hot looking people Because if you go to Secrets You go to Paradise Lakes You go to Caliente You go to H you go to Desires, you go anywhere in Las Vegas, you're going to see average mom and dad bods going all walking all over the place, all right?
You're not going to see a lot of 20-year-olds. So 20-year-olds, if you're looking to get in swinging, you're going to be having to fucking deal with a lot of 30, 40, mostly 40 and 50-year-olds. If you don't like that, stay away. Wait till you're in that age group. All right? But orgies, very uncommon. And stop watching porn. It's fucking on your brain, guys, and all that. Let's see if we can do one more. Let's see. Let's see. Okay, let's do a single male question. I'm a 49-year-old male.
I already did this one from last week, so I'm not going to do that. I'm not going to do it again. I'll see you next time. Let's see. Okay, let's do a single male question. I'm a 49-year-old male. I already did this one from last week, so I'm not going to do that. I'm not going to do it again. Let's see. Let's talk about something good. I'm a single guy. I've been invited to my first male, female, male threesome with a hot couple I met on the app. Congratulations, they're hot.
After sharing a few pics, I noticed the male partner has a pretty big penis, looks about eight inches, and uncomfortably takes two hands. I'm pretty average at just over five. Have any men been in a similar situation? Yes, I have been in this situation most of the time. Usually if I got no performance problems and never had any complaints, but I just want to make sure I don't get feelings of adequacy and end up not being able to perform on the day.
Yep, they just picked you because you probably had a good profile You probably could talk more about sex and stuff like that Just take it, take the win Take the fuck and have a good time Don't worry about it, you're not going to marry her You're not looking for a relationship Maybe she wants to, you fuck the shit out of her real good She wants you to have fun with her more than once There you go But just remember, this is just Think of it as a one and done You you get to have fun she gets to have fun you make sure she's pleasured and all that you make sure hubby's happy and you know what your five inches are going to be adequate enough all right here's a follow-up i will just want to say thank you to all amazing thoughtful responses i appreciate i have never had a performance issue in the past and the female partners i thought of my penis wasn't enough they always seem to have a good time obviously as this is my first forte into being around another hard penis i had the reason the hesitation in comparison would be pretty literal but i'm feeling much better about it now it's no different to being with two women with different busts or tit size or whatever or ass sizes.
I love all sizes. Plus, when we met for social, they seemed like wonderful human beings and very down to earth. Yeah. Just take it. Take the win and have a joint, guy. Don't overthink it. Gentlemen, don't overthink your penis size because I see guys with fucking 8-inches that can't please a fucking woman. I see guys with a 4-incher that can fucking make a girl squirt across the room. Alright? So, you know, it is what it is, gentlemen. Alright. If you're ready to learn more, Thank you.
And I see guys with a four-incher that can fucking make a girl squirt across the room, all right? So, you know, it is what it is, gentlemen. All right, if you're ready to learn more, connect with others in the thrilling path, visit me at SwingingSinglePodcast.com. I'm here to give you the insights, encouragement, and community you need to keep swinging with confidence and style.
I'm AC Max, where I'm reminding you to stay curious, stay sexy, and whatever you do, stay fresh, stay confident, and always shave your cock and balls. Until next time, keep the flames burning and the adventures hot. And keep on swinging single. I want to be the angel when it's over, you'll get lucky like a four leaf glow, baby I'm a holly to your joker, I want to be the angel when it's over, I want to be the for years.
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