Hot Dates - 1654 Upcoming Lifestyle Member Meetups
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exy hotwife and hubby cummin to KW 5 27 through 5 30. Interested in hooking up DTF Cpls, s. Males bbc, bwc always welcum. We can host at a local hotel.
Sexy hotwife and hubby cummin to KW 5 27 through 5 30. Interested in hooking up DTF Cpls, s. Males bbc, bwc always welcum. We can host at a local hotel.
Celebrating Hubs’ 50th in Louisville. Married, bourbon-loving couple looking for upscale drinks, dim lights, good music, and playful chemistry. Open to couples, or confident singles—no pressure, just vibes. Where’s your go-to drink spot?
Celebrating Hubs’ 50th in Louisville (May 24–29) and doing it right. Married, bourbon-loving, flirty, and ready to make the night unforgettable. Think upscale drinks, dim lights, good music, and playful flirting that speaks volumes. Looking for couples, or confident singles who enjoy good convo, rea
Celebrating a milestone the right way—Married couple visiting Louisville May 24–29 for Hubs 50th — and we’re making it unforgettable. We’re bourbon lovers, a little flirtatious, a lot of fun, and we clean up very well for a night out. Think: upscale cocktails, low lighting, slow music, and lingering
Looking for hot men for her for an eventful day/night. Interested Couples welcome for swap. We would like to meet you first personally, before the hot date and if we like you will be invited for play. No play without meeting personally prior. Please reach out with your face pic and if interested.
Business traveler from SF, but not here to be "all work & no play". DDF, experienced, Open-minded, discreet, and happy to host evenings or travel if the vibe is right. Come say hi and let's have a drink— or be a good distraction and skip straight to “when and where?”
Business traveler from SF, but not here to be "all work & no play". DDF, experienced, Open-minded, discreet, and happy to host evenings or travel if the vibe is right. Come say hi and let's have a drink— or be a good distraction and skip straight to “when and where?”
Our last weekend in Philly before we cruise away.. we enjoy meeting couples and single guys for adventures, conversations, dining or touring. If we click - sexplorations are fun too. (Up next - Cape May, Atlantic City & NYC area.).
Our last weekend in Philly before we cruise away.. we enjoy meeting couples and single guys for adventures, conversations, dining or touring. If we click - sexplorations are fun too. (Up next - Cape May, Atlantic City & NYC area.).
Nomads visiting Philly for the rest of the month. We enjoy meeting couples and single guys for adventures, conversations, dining or touring. If we click - sexplorations are fun too. This is not date or play specific - open to making connections for the remainder of our stay (up next - Cape May, Atla
Will be in town for fun and business. Looking for some sexy couples to meet have dinner, shoot some pool and get into something naughty later. message me for details.
Will be in town next week and it’s my other half's birthday I’m planning a get together for him. Had planned to go to the mountains but the weather cancelled those plans.
Shhhh it’s a surprize. looking for some sexy and naughty couples, females, and males that would like to join in to help me celebr
Seeking a single male and/or couple to fulfill my fantasy (wife) of watching my man suck a large cock. We will also play as a 3some/4some so please reply for more details. If interested please reply with face and cock pictures. Let's have some fun. No BBC please
Seeking a single male to fulfill my fantasy (wife) of watching my man suck a large cock. The bigger the better. I would also love to see the man wearing a cowboy hat and boots naked! I cannot have intercourse with a large cock but love to have my pussy eaten and enjoy watching a man play with himsel
Seeking a single male and/or couple to fulfill my fantasy (wife) of watching my man suck a large cock. We will also play as a 3some/4some so please reply for more details. If interested please reply with face and cock pictures. Let's have some fun. No BBC please
Having a small group playdate Thurs in Portsmouth NH. We have a 4 couples and 3 single ladies coming and have room for a few more but only a few so message us asap if you're serious about joining the fun. Were gonna start around 6-7 and will be done by midnight. Our social hour will be brief as we'r
We have a hotel room for the day and night in Portsmouth NH and are having a small group play date 3 or 4 couples. We have room for maybe 1 or 2 more at most. If you'd like to join the fun let us know please and have your pics open! Chris and Laura
We have a hotel room for the day and night in Portsmouth NH and looking for some naughty fun with a couple or single lady preferably but we're open to single gentlemen as well. We have a sexy solo female friend joining us as well. If you'd like to join the fun let us know please and have your pics o
We’ll be in the Conway / Myrtle Beach, South Carolina area from 6/22 - 6/1 and would love to connect with some fun, like-minded people while we’re there. We’re open to meeting solo men, solo women, and couples who enjoy good chemistry, great conversation, and seeing where the vibe takes us. We’re st
We’ll be in the Conway / Myrtle Beach, South Carolina area from 6/22 - 6/1 and would love to connect with some fun, like-minded people while we’re there. We’re open to meeting solo men, solo women, and couples who enjoy good chemistry, great conversation, and seeing where the vibe takes us. We’re st
We will be in NY, NY midtown and available to host in our hotel the nights or June 26-28th. The 27th is our best open night but we can make all of them work ????????. Let us know! Looking for ?????? female to join us. We are experienced in the lifestyle for years and love this sexy community.
We will be in NY, NY midtown and available to host in our hotel the nights of May 26th or 27th. Sexy single females or couples to the front! We are experienced in the lifestyle and love this sexy community wherever we travel.
We will be in NY, NY midtown and available to host in our hotel the nights or June 26-28th. The 27th is our best open night but we can make all of them work ????????. Let us know! Looking for ?????? female to join us. We are experienced in the lifestyle for years and love this sexy community.
Looking for a couple or single female that would like to meet for a drink, apps or dinner on Wednesday Night. This can be a casual conversation, with some harmless flirting. Maybe it might lead to something, maybe it won’t. But let’s test the waters!!
Hosting a bi party for couples and singles. There will be openly bi playing going on so if you are interested in the bi lifestyle Sind me a bird for more info. The party will be on Wed. May 27 from 6-10pm.
My guardian is going to be on conference calls Wednesday night. Looking for a fit Caucasian circumcised guy. I will answer the door and lace see through robe. I will introduce you to him as my boyfriend that is fucking me tonight. I will take you back to the bedroom, We will kiss for a little bit be
My guardian is going to be on conference calls Wednesday night. Looking for a fit Caucasian circumcise guy. I will answer the door and lease robe. I will introduce you to him as my boyfriend that is gonna be fucking me tonight. I will take you in the back bedroom. We will kiss for a little bit befor
We would love to meet up with a few couples for a puppy pile orgy on Wednesday 11:00AM, 27 May in Woodbridge VA. No BBC or Asian couples... prefer BWC and HWP couples to play with and full swap. Message us if interested.
We would love to meet up with a few couples for a puppy pile orgy on Wednesday afternoon from noon to 3PM, 27 May in Woodbridge VA. No BBC or Asian couples... prefer BWC and HWP couples to play with and full swap. Message us if interested.
We would love to meet up with a few couples for a puppy pile orgy on Wednesday afternoon from 3PM-5PM, 27 May in Woodbridge VA. No BBC or Asian couples... prefer BWC and HWP couples to play with and full swap. Message us if interested.
We’re staying downtown by the convention center. Looking to grab some delicious cocktails and dancing, dessert back at our hotel if things work out. Please reach out having pictures open, nice accents and tall men to the front of the line. Will communicate via text to make things easier.
We’re staying downtown by the convention center. Looking to grab some delicious cocktails and dancing, dessert back at our hotel if things work out. Please reach out having pictures open, nice accents and tall men to the front of the line. Will communicate via text to make things easier.
We’re staying downtown by the convention center. Looking to grab some delicious ?? and ???? dessert back at our hotel if things work out. Please reach out having pictures open, nice accents and tall men to the front of the line. Will communicate via text to make things easier.
We will be staying in West Maui with our young daughter 5/25 to 6/4. Except for the following dates we have time at our hotel during afternoons when she is occupied with kid activities. Hoping to connect with couples or single guys. Please read our profile before you reply. Dates not available 5/25
We will be staying in West Maui with our young daughter 5/25 to 6/4. Except for the following dates we have time at our hotel during afternoons when she is occupied with kid activities. Hoping to connect with couples or single guys. Please read our profile before you reply. Dates not available 5/25
We will be staying in West Maui with our young daughter 5/25 to 6/4. Except for the following dates we have time at our hotel during afternoons when she is occupied with kid activities. Hoping to connect with couples or single guys. Please read our profile before you reply. Dates not available 5/25
Hello, we're seeking all those financially free, retired, work from home couples and females that can sneak away DURING THE WEEKDAY and are looking for a very fit couple to play with ongoing weekdays only in the 9am-1pm timeframe. We can often host. We are very open to various sexual scenarios for t
Hello, we're seeking all those financially free, retired, work from home couples and females that can sneak away DURING THE WEEKDAY and are looking for a very fit couple to play with ongoing weekdays only in the 9am-1pm timeframe. We can often host. We are very open to various sexual scenarios for t
Hello, we're seeking all those financially free, retired, work from home couples and females that can sneak away DURING THE WEEKDAY and are looking for a very fit couple to play with ongoing weekdays only in the 9am-1pm timeframe. We can often host. We are very open to various sexual scenarios for t
Wifey and I will be in Cabo San Lucas &
@ Riu Palace. Looking to see how the vibe is and hopefully meet new friends. Open to anything that pops up in the moment since we are newbies and never had any experience in the lifestyle. Say hi and let's bump in to eachother. Anything is possible...single ma
We all have our fantasies/bucket lists.. I'm looking for a female or a couple where the female half is willing to give me my 1st ever pegging.. anyone interested in taking my cherry?
Downtown Wednesday and Thursday evenings. Looking for a guy or 3 to hang out with at a bar and see where it goes. ;)
Hot wife that enjoys multiples alongside her Stag Husband that loves to share her.
If you are down and/or maybe have a friend or two let us know.
Vasectomy safe is def. a plus!
Downtown Wednesday and Thursday evenings. Looking for a guy or 3 to hang out with at a bar and see where it goes. ;)
Hot wife that enjoys multiples alongside her Stag Husband that loves to share her.
If you are down and/or maybe have a friend or two let us know.
Vasectomy safe is def. a plus!
Hot wife seeks bull for date on Wednesday, May 27. I am a safe, sane, highly sexed goddess seeking fun with an energetic, sensual, long-lasting single male. My caged cuck boy friend will be available fir service as well.
We'll be staying at a hotel in the Clearwater, St. Pete, Treasure Island area from May 27th thru May 31st. Looking to possibly find a single male or couple for us to meet and for the wifey to play with if there's a connection.
We'll be staying at a hotel in the Clearwater, St. Pete, Treasure Island area from May 27th thru May 31st. Looking to possibly find a single male or couple for us to meet and for the wifey to play with if there's a connection.
We'll be staying at a hotel in the Clearwater, St. Pete, Treasure Island area from May 27th thru May 31st. Looking to possibly find a single male or couple for us to meet and for the wifey to play with if there's a connection.
We will be staying in Myrtle Friday and she wants to have a sucking for certs get together and BBC's are most welcome. So if you're interested reach out with a pic available please. This will be from 2 till 7pm T&D
We will be visiting the beach and would like to meet a couple or BBC to join us that evening. We will host , have a picture for her to see and be serious. T&D
We will be in Myrtle beach Thursday evening and would like to have a couple, or a BBC join us or maybe both to pass some time away. Have a g rated pic to share if you're interested. We will host
We will be in town for a while and would love to meet some new sexy friends. Looking for HWP couples, single females and the occasional exceptional single males. Read our profile and certs and see if we might be your type. Bi females go to the top of the list
We will be in town for a while and would love to meet some new sexy friends. Looking for HWP couples, single females and the occasional exceptional single males. Read our profile and certs and see if we might be your type. Bi females go to the top of the list
We will be in town for a while and would love to meet some new sexy friends. Looking for HWP couples, single females and the occasional exceptional single males. Read our profile and certs and see if we might be your type. Bi females go to the top of the list
Hiya Frisky folks.. We are a Very Bi Bi couple, which means we can play straight (ish) if that's' the opportunity and the vibe is good .. we do like to just let skin be skin & let everyone enjoy everyone else.. so we are good with Bi Bi too.. not pushy or into making anyone uncomfortable.. This is a
Looking for hotwife fun 5/22 - 5/30. Can host 5/26 - 5/28. Looking for hotwife fun with M or multiple M as well as her playing with a woman or couple. Will be available days and nights.DM if interested
Looking for hotwife fun 5/22 - 5/30. Can host 5/26 - 5/28. Looking for hotwife fun with M or multiple M as well as her playing with a woman or couple. Will be available days and nights.DM if interested
Looking for hotwife fun 5/22 - 5/30. Can host 5/26 - 5/28. Looking for hotwife fun with M or multiple M as well as her playing with a woman or couple. Will be available days and nights.DM if interested
Coming for Americade and looking to play, looking for in shape clean cut (athletic fit) the less body hair the better and if you have a beard just be groomed. Bisexual guys to the front of the line. Couples welcome as well and of course the elusive unicorn. Let us know send us a DM, we can host.
Coming for Americade and looking to play, looking for in shape clean cut (athletic fit) the less body hair the better and if you have a beard just be groomed. Bisexual guys to the front of the line. Couples welcome as well and of course the elusive unicorn. Let us know send us a DM, we can host.
Coming for Americade and looking to play, looking for in shape clean cut (athletic fit) the less body hair the better and if you have a beard just be groomed. Bisexual guys to the front of the line. Couples welcome as well and of course the elusive unicorn. Let us know send us a DM, we can host.
Male half in town for work, can host. Looking for couple or singles to have some fun with while I travel. Have pics that I can share. Very open so let me know what kinky fun we can have
Male half in town for work, can host. Looking for couple or singles to have some fun with while I travel. Have pics that I can share. Very open so let me know what kinky fun we can have
Male half in town for work, can host. Looking for couple or singles to have some fun with while I travel. Have pics that I can share. Very open so let me know what kinky fun we can have
Visiting on business and looking to connect while in town. Regular visitor to NYC. Safe sane ddf and experienced. Take a look at my profile and drop me a line and let’s chat to connect
Hi everyone. We're looking for a hook up, some NSA, clean fun. We can host. Just really need to have some fun and de-stress. We'll have booze, take some shots, just have a good time. Hit us up, let us know, we're both very pleasing and giving. Couples and single ladies only. No single males this tim
Hey! We are on vacation and would not mind some social time with some fun people! Let's meet for a drink or do some fun activity. **no expectations** Cheers! Matt & Jan
Hey! We are on vacation and would not mind some social time with some fun people! Let's meet for a drink or do some fun activity. **no expectations** Cheers! Matt & Jan
Hey! We are on vacation and would not mind some social time with some fun people! Let's meet for a drink or do some fun activity. **no expectations** Cheers! Matt & Jan
In town and staying at the Henry Autogragh Collection for the night. Would love to meet some new friends for a cocktail and great conversation. Who knows where it could lead....
In town for some tech work at the University and hoping to meet some new friends later in the evening. Would love to get a drink and some good conversation!
I'll be at the United Center seeing ASAP Rocky if anyone would like to get me a drink, find out if I'm wearing panties or not and see where the flirting goes ;)
Will be with my LS GF for a few nights looking to add a third and or fourth for erotic play - she’s 58 and a sexy dynamo…. Let me know if you may have an interest- we are open to select single males, sexy females or couples - just need to chat and see what you would like and how we can possibly make
Will be with my LS GF for a few nights looking to add a third and or fourth for erotic play - she’s 58 and a sexy dynamo…. Let me know if you may have an interest- I can get pics for you ( one will be added to my public gallery) I will need to meet beforehand and if we click you can join us one of t
Traveling with a free night on Thursday. Would love to meet some new friends in the lifestyle. We have a hotel and can host. Please reach out and say hi, we would love to chat.
Will be in Montreal 5/28 thru 5/31 and looking for some lifestyle fun with couples, single females and single males (BBC welcome). Plan on checking out L'Orange also. Please have up to date pics when contacting us.
Will be in Montreal 5/28 thru 5/31 attending the Luke Combs concert on 5/30 and also looking for some lifestyle fun with couples, single females and single males (BBC welcome). Plan on checking out L'Orange also. Please have up to date pics when contacting us.
Will be in Montreal 5/28 thru 5/31 and looking for some lifestyle fun with couples, single females and single males (BBC welcome). Plan on checking out L'Orange also. Please have up to date pics when contacting us.
We will be in Munising Tuesday night. We were wondering if any couples would like to join us for dinner. If everyone is comfortable we could go from there.
Lady M is open to having a short, first time visit with athletic male during her next San Diego arrival on May 28th. Open all your pics and let us know if 45 minutes to an hour is acceptable. Cool canyon home in City Heights area. I'll show her your profile and will contact you if she is motivated.
We will be staying at the Joia Paraiso adults only resort in a suite with a private pool. May 28-31st. Anyone there at the same time or possibly local?
We will be staying at the Joia Paraiso adults only resort in a suite with a private pool. May 28-31st. Anyone there at the same time or possibly local?
We will be staying at the Joia Paraiso adults only resort in a suite with a private pool. May 28-31st. Anyone there at the same time or possibly local?
Come out and enjoy an evening of some adult fun we have a room at Hard Rock let’s have a couple of drinks and see where things go from there just hit us up
Come out for evening of adult fun have a few drinks n see where things go from there we are open to all just hit us up we have a room at Hard Rock In Bristol Va
We will be staying at Caliente resort from Thurs to Monday and looking to meet like minded couples and/or single males. Please put in your initial message that you desire bi play, a dic pic and when last tested. Staying at Caliente is a plus.
We will be staying at Caliente resort from Thurs to Monday and looking to meet like minded couples and/or single males. Please put in your initial message that you desire bi play, a dic pic and when last tested. Staying at Caliente is a plus.
We will be staying at Caliente resort from Thurs to Monday and looking to meet like minded couples and/or single males. Please put in your initial message that you desire bi play, a dic pic and when last tested. Staying at Caliente is a plus.
In town for few days and already have interest from few single males and looking to add couples/females to party. Let’s meet up and go with flow no pressure situation at Fosters Shak around 11ish
In town for weekend for concert and interested for fun before or after. Check out our profile to see if match maybe we can “two step” and have a wild time
In town for few days and already have interest from few single males and looking to add couples/females to party. Let’s meet up and go with flow no pressure situation at Fosters Shak around 11ish
Looking to have some adult fun. PLEASE read our profile and have pics open before you message us. We are one happy fun loving couple that has AMAZING sex. We are just looking to have more fun together as a couple. If you're a couple starting out girl on girl is a must. If you're a male of a couple a
Looking to have some adult fun. PLEASE read our profile and have pics open before you message us. We are one happy fun loving couple that has AMAZING sex. We are just looking to have more fun together as a couple. If you're a couple starting out girl on girl is a must. If you're a male of a couple a
Looking to have some adult fun. PLEASE read our profile and have pics open before you message us. We are one happy fun loving couple that has AMAZING sex. We are just looking to have more fun together as a couple. If you're a couple starting out girl on girl is a must. If you're a male of a couple a
bi play time , all arrangements need to be made , exchange cell by wed eve, no comp while there, all pics open upon 1st male , no time for endless males , kisses
staying at Moose Hillock luxury Campground, looking for attractive bi males , slim chance she will play [ enough Mich Ultras maybe], lol hang by the fire , drink a bit get nakey , make some bad decisions we're bound to regret ! , lol
Might be hitting the fusion party. Who's going? Maybe drinks and meet up before the party? Please open pics before messaging us. Single men, read our profile before messaging.
We have the the whole weekend off and looking to have some fun. We can travel and get a hotel somewhere or stay local. Hit us up if you're interested in making plans.
Single male in town for weekend staying with my best friend in Maryville so not able to host But open to meeting couples/singles in area as i come down often Planning a day in gatlinburg and a day at dollywood If you will.be there feel free to say hi
Single male in town for weekend staying with my best friend in maryville so not able to host But open to meeting couples/singles in area as i come down often Planning a day in gatlinburg and a day at dollywood If you will.be there feel free to say hi
Single male in town for weekend staying with my best friend so not able to host But open to meeting couples/singles in area as i come down often Planning a day in gatlinburg and a day at dollywood If you will.be there feel free to say hi
Heading to Temptation Resort in Cancun, Mexico. Looking for fun couples or singles to hang out with. Send us a message if you will be there the same time. Staying the 28th-31st
Heading to Temptation Resort in Cancun, Mexico. Looking for fun couples or singles to hang out with. Send us a message if you will be there the same time. Staying the 28th-31st
Heading to Temptation Resort in Cancun, Mexico. Looking for fun couples or singles to hang out with. Send us a message if you will be there the same time. Staying the 28th-31st
Gym fit, experienced, low drama married couple in town for Morgan Wallen, available Thursday and Saturday, staying near Mile High. We like lots of scenarios…she is bi and very much wants some girl time. Having said that we love couples and she enjoys the right single guy and I enjoy watching her. We
Gym fit, experienced, low drama married couple in town for Morgan Wallen, available Thursday and Saturday, staying near Mile High. We like lots of scenarios…she is bi and very much wants some girl time. Having said that we love couples and she enjoys the right single guy and I enjoy watching her. We
Ladies Night at Sugars Strip Club in Hager WI! Grab your girlfriends for an unforgettable evening! Sexy male strippers, sexy female strippers- it's gonna be a night to remember! 7pm!
Looking for long term friendship and (Straight )wing man to join us for a game of uno!! BBC ONLY. Anything other will be ignored. Not interested in pic collectors, Flakes, young men or newbies.Select Experience BBC swinger only. Long term friendship and play!! THIS THURSDAY night. May 28,2026.
Couple in downtown looking to meet a mature woman to join us for friendship and sexy fun. We enjoy older women with curves,. We don’t have perfect bodies and don’t expect you to either. Positive and respectful attitude most important. Those who are recently single are most welcome. Looking for long
Fun and sexy couple looking to meet a mature woman (preferably single), who is interested in exploring and expanding her sexuality. We enjoy older women with curves, of any race, who like to dress sexy. We don't have perfect bodies, and don't expect you to either. Positivity, honesty, and playfulnes
Couple in downtown looking to meet a mature woman to join us for friendship and sexy fun. We enjoy older women with curves,. We don’t have perfect bodies and don’t expect you to either. Positive and respectful attitude most important. Those who are recently single are most welcome. Looking for long
Memorial weekend we'll be scouting out the area with our first time to Sunnyrest Resort. No plans except to shoot from the hip and see where the weekend takes us. 5/29-5/31.
Memorial weekend we'll be scouting out the area with our first time to Sunnyrest Resort. No plans except to shoot from the hip and see where the weekend takes us. 5/29-5/31.
Memorial weekend we'll be scouting out the area with our first time to Sunnyrest Resort. No plans except to shoot from the hip and see where the weekend takes us. 5/29-5/31.
After the success of last Saturdays hotel party we want to do another one !! The couples from the last get together are of course invited but we have room for 1 or 2 select couples or unicorns Details will be available to the chosen guests
After the success of last Saturdays hotel party we want to do another one !!
The couples from the last get together are of course invited but we have room for 1 or 2 select couples or unicorns Details will be available to the chosen guests
Pre-Gaming for GLOWfest with a handful of hot Full Swap couples in a private location and curious what other rave couples are in town and might be up for joining in.
We will be in the city for Project GLOWfest weekend with a group of friends but always open to making more! If you are pre-partying for the festival let us know. We have a private house and will be kicking off the event with a HOT group.
We will be in the city for Project GLOWfest weekend with a group of friends but always open to making more! If you are pre-partying for the festival let us know.
We're looking for a lusty house party. But those now seem tough to find. So, we might have our own party room at Mystic Lake with another couple or a M or F, or many more Ms and Fs ~ and that would be a lotta fun!
We're looking for a lusty house party. But those now seem tough to find. So, we might have our own party room at Mystic Lake with another couple or a M or F, or many more Ms and Fs ~ and that would be a lotta fun!
We're looking for a lusty house party. But those now seem tough to find. So, we might have our own party room with another couple or a M or F, or many more Ms and Fs ~ and that would be a lotta fun!
47M/34F excited for our first visit to Secrets! Professional, laidback, and friendly couple that value respect, consent, and discretion. I am bisexual and would love to be a unicorn for a special couple. Also very interested in single guys. He doesn’t play with others and I don’t play without him pr
47M/34F excited for our first visit to Secrets! Professional, laidback, and friendly couple that value respect, consent, and discretion. I am bisexual and would love to be a unicorn for a special couple. Also very interested in single guys. He doesn’t play with others and I don’t play without him pr
47M/34F excited for our first visit to Secrets! Professional, laidback, and friendly couple that value respect, consent, and discretion. I am bisexual and would love to be a unicorn for a special couple. Also very interested in single guys. He doesn’t play with others and I don’t play without him pr
We will be in DuPont Circle area that weekend, Saturday and Sunday nights. We like to give massages and play after. Share a drink and chatting is also nice.
Me and the wife will be in Nashville for nascar race looking for a bi man 55 or younger you have to be bi and you have to be serious about meeting if not do not contact wife will be choosing who she wants for the night we will let the man or men know 4 days prior again if you are not serious do not
Straight 60’s couple with a Hotwife. She loves dressing sexy for drinks. We are seeking a gentleman who knows how to satisfy an insatiable female. You must host. We don’t play in seeding hotels only nicer ones. Please include why you could be a good choice. Also, open your pics to give her an opport
Straight 60’s couple with a Hotwife. She loves dressing sexy for drinks. We are seeking a gentleman who knows how to satisfy an insatiable female. You must host. We don’t play in seeding hotels only nicer ones. Please include why you could be a good choice. Also, open your pics to give her an opport
Straight 60’s couple with a Hotwife. She loves dressing sexy for drinks. We are seeking a gentleman who knows how to satisfy an insatiable female. You must host. We don’t play in seeding hotels only nicer ones. Please include why you could be a good choice. Also, open your pics to give her an opport
Who’s going to SRR this weekend for naked fun in the sun? My friend and I will be there. Looking forward to making some friends. 420 friendly is a plus.
Traveling to the Denver/Golden area for her birthday to see Alan Walker at Red Rocks on Saturday night (5/30), and whatever other shenanigans we can find. Possibly Fan Expo and/or Outside Days too. Would be awesome to find some fun peeps to hang out with!
Traveling to the Denver/Golden area for her birthday to see Alan Walker at Red Rocks on Saturday night (5/30), and whatever other shenanigans we can find. Possibly Fan Expo and/or Outside Days too. Would be awesome to find some fun peeps to hang out with!
Staying around the stadium, looking for a man to take care of the wife. We’re available Friday and Saturday night and will host. If your interested have all pics open if you expect a reply.
Staying around the stadium, looking for a man to take care of the wife. We’re available Friday and Saturday night and will host. If your interested have all pics open if you expect a reply.
We will be at the House house party in Raleigh on Friday or Saturday. Friday is a single males and couples. Saturday is couples and females. Feel free to reach out to us at any time. We do message back. A meet and greet that Saturday during the day is not out of the question either. She likes white
We will be at the House house party in Raleigh on Friday or Saturday. Friday is a single males and couples. Saturday is couples and females. Feel free to reach out to us at any time. We do message back. A meet and greet that Saturday during the day is not out of the question either. She likes white
We will be out for the very first Pleasure 365 Munch and Meet & Greet this month. It should be a relaxed chance to grab some food, meet new people, put faces to profiles, and enjoy good conversation with open minded folks.
We always enjoy checking out new gatherings where there is no pressure, just
We might be heading out for Eager’s Freaky Friends Munch. It is always a fun mix of people, easy conversation, and a low pressure night to grab a drink and connect with friends old and new.
It is a casual, vanilla friendly space, so it is all about good vibes, laughs, and just enjoying the company.
Got a free night and heading to Wilmington. Staying downtown on the riverfront. Want to grab a drink and see where things go. Single females and couples to the front of the line.
Got a free night and heading to Wilmington. Staying downtown on the riverfront. Want to grab a drink and see where things go? Single females and couples to the front of the line.
We will be visiting Paradise Lakes for the first time. Interested in meeting likeminded people we can hang out with and enjoy a quick getaway. Couples, Single M and F. We are a laid back no expectations kind of couple.
We will be visiting Paradise Lakes for the first time. Interested in meeting likeminded people we can hang out with and enjoy a quick getaway. Couples, Single M and F. We are a laid back no expectations kind of couple.
Well…. Last outing was a success, so I’m I’m th’ mood to repeat the fun… City Harbor is so much fun….
Levi’s
Nash’s and a condo ??????
Be there Friday and Saturday nite
Day fun could be an opportunity also….????
Smooches!!??????
Hey will be coming in the town staying at the GSR for the weekend looking for a fun couple or single to hang out with and have a few drinks and see where the night takes us
MF attractive couple looking for others to play with in Cincinnati area (my F friend is in town and wants to go wild). We are very open, kiny, bi and love to flirt, and play in public. She squirts, very outgoing and love to have adventures. Love to meet up with couples, groups or go to swing club. W
Wife here. In Las Vegas for the weekend without my husband. Looking for muscular, hung Black and Hispanic men that aren’t camera shy so hubs can see me enjoying myself. Will consider exceptional white men if muscular and hung.
We are visiting for vacation and looking to enjoy some sexy company. Drinks, dinner, or just straight up fun. We're up for a fun night with good company.
We are visiting for vacation and looking to enjoy some sexy company. Drinks, dinner, or just straight up fun. We're up for a fun night with good company.
We are visiting for vacation and looking to enjoy some sexy company. Drinks, dinner, or just straight up fun. We're up for a fun night with good company.
In town for the Shinedown concert. Staying at a motel in New Port Richey on the 29th and 30th. Looking for Bi couples and Bi singles to play with. Hoping to find people to make plans with and let's have some fun !!
We will be at Secrets for the first time ! Is my hot hubby's birthday! I want us to have an amazing time celebrating his bday! Say hi, let's celebrate together !
Hanging out at the Westin La Paloma resort in Tucson and looking for other funds people who might be staying there as well. We aren't leaving the resort to meet anywhere else so please only message us if you will be staying there as well. Let's have some fun!
Friday Bi Day! We're getting together a few bi couples Friday night at the APA hotel for drinks and no pressure fun together. Couples should both be bi (full, curious, or friendly) as this will be a space for bi men and women to enjoy one another. We may add one or two high quality bi single males a
We will be coming down a weekend soon to check out TPA and find some fun. Interested only in HUNG, CERTIFIED, down to earth single men with PICS open on first message!!
Looking to host a small group of guys at hotel in Uniontown. Looking for 3-4 fit hung attractive straight guys. Pics and a recent std hiv test if you wish to attend.
I will be visiting Pawtucket this weekend, looking for some fun and entertainment. I’m gonna have a hotel room looking for fun couples to join me along with single female.
****Please read the full description, single males, if you message me, you will not get a response. ***** Hello kinky people! Fire and Ice are hosting again. Same feel as the 1st one. Couples and single females only!!!!! Come hang out and meet new couples, make connections, enjoy music and some game
I (female half) will be in Orlando next week and am looking for a single male to play a game of pool with… and more, if we hit it off. Message early if you’re interested so we’ll have time to chat beforehand.
Diesel make her clothes fall off- catch this Diesel Bunny at the truck show with her Pete! Dm us if ALREADY going in your own truck ( this is not an invitation to come with us- looking for single guys with their own toys and this also confirms similar interests)
We'll be visiting for the night, able to host at our hotel. Looking to meet other couples and select singles. Let’s meet for a drink and take it from there. Please open your pics and read our profile if you decide to contact us.
We’ll be hosting at a hotel. Looking for another couple. Let’s meet for a drink and take it from there. Please open your pics and read our profile if you decide to contact us.
We are staying at the Casino and looking to connect with a sexy single woman or a hotwife who is free to play separately. No expectations of play, just chemistry and vibe and see what unfolds. Our profile says it all!!!
We are staying at the Casino and looking to connect with a single male or a single lady. No expectations of play, just chemistry and vibe and see what unfolds. Our profile says it all!!!
We are staying at the Casino and looking to connect with a sexy single woman or a hotwife who is free to play separately. No expectations of play, just chemistry and vibe and see what unfolds. Our profile says it all!!!
We have a hotel in West Hartford for the night, planning to attend Leisure Time, but if the right couple or person comes along we aren’t opposed to drinks and fun.
Heading to to Leisure Time have a hotel in the area looking for potential fun at the club or possibly after. If you aren’t respectful, clean, disease and drug free please do not waste our time or yours thank you.
Will be in Appleton from Jume 29- July 6. Looking for a fun couple or single woman to explore with and possibly have some adult fun if the vibes are good! Let’s chat and see where it goes:)
Traveling to Orlando this weekend and looking for a couple or single male for some late night fun Saturday night…would probably be around midnight. Can host at our hotel.
We are swinging into Spring with a SeXXXy Spring Safari! Interracial group of friends looking to meet and connect with new sexy friends! Jump on the caravan and let's party like animals. Please have picture galleries open with face pics before reaching out.
Looking to get into something this weekend! Couples and/or single men, check us out and see if you might want to meet up! Please have pictures and check out or profile.
Heading to the falls for some fun. Looking for sexy dates, and/or couples. Love to have some MFM and a hotwife date for my wife. Ladies are welcome as well.
Coming over for a concert at The Fred. That said, this will be for AFTER the show, meaning later at night. Seeking 2-3 CLEAN, STRAIGHT, attractive, well hung (preferably heavery cummers) men to fulfill (double entendre completely intended) her. Not to be brash, but please only reply if you can manag
Hi there! We are from the Savannah area and are looking for a single female to join us while we are visiting Jekyll Island. We are laid back and enjoy hanging out, chatting and having a good time! I would love to find a female to fulfill his fantasy. He is handsome, outgoing and funny and is a true
In town for a couple of fun filled adult nights. Can host, travel, or meet at a hotel if you prefer. Looking for an amazing couple or single woman to join our fun; a single male will be highly vetted and only chosen by her. Not looking for new forever friends, just some great sex!
In town for a couple of fun filled adult nights. Can host, travel, or meet at a hotel if you prefer. Looking for an amazing couple or single woman to join our fun; a single male will be highly vetted and only chosen by her. Not looking for new forever friends, just some great sex!
In town for a couple of fun filled adult nights. Can host, travel, or meet at a hotel if you prefer. Looking for an amazing couple or single woman to join our fun; a single male will be highly vetted and only chosen by her. Not looking for new forever friends, just some great sex!
Looking for single woman to attend our party on the 30th of this month. There will be about 4-5 couples attending if interested please leave me a message and I will respond with time and location.
Hi, We’ll be at the Medusas pool party and looking forward to meeting fun, open-minded couples to chat, share some drinks, good vibes, and hopefully some memorable moments… Maybe the bathing suits will help break the ice ??????.
Us and friends will be at Sloppy Duck on the Bayfront to see New Wave Nation 8pm. If interested in meeting up shoot us a message we have a fun group of friends!
Birthday girl bucket list loading… ???? Looking for multiple confident, attractive, CLEAN, respectful, drama-free men who know how to match energy and bring grown-man vibes only. This is about chemistry, sensuality, teasing tension, late-night fun, and creating an unforgettable birthday experience f
We are interested in Men, Females, or possibly a Couple that can host in Pittsburgh, Meadows Casino, or possibly Wheeling Island for some Playtime Fun
Interested
Heading to Karizma club May 30th. If interested in hanging with a fun laid back couple hit us up we will open our pics for u. We are an experienced couple in the lifestyle and fun times and integrity is number one.
Weekend trip to Old Montreal. May 29-31. Looking for fun and pleasure for Hotwife - MF 1-1 with fit, fun, male. Please read profile. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE have pics open when replying.
Cum help celebrate my friends birthday. Saturday 5/30 in Mira Loma. Check out Events for Gary & Margaret’s House/ Pool Parties for party info! It’s a great place to be naked & meet friendly people! ~wink wink~
In shape hotwife couple at secrets for the day/evening. Mostly looking for single men that will be there or willing to meet us there. Also if your a couple that will be there and ok with the hubby playing alone with her thats good too! We will be both the pool party and the event that evening. Let u
Looking to have a 3-4 Couples for a Lil House Party; hopefully for this sat 5/30 at our place - Have to be Full Swappers DFT - Have some drink, 420, eat some apps, break the ice with all, and then we ALL go up and PLAY! We have 1 Cpl. compatible to us play and look wise. If interested we clearly nee
Hotwife and Hubby visiting Vegas May 29-Jun 5. She enjoys intelligent, handsome gentleman. She’s sapiosexual so you’ll have to be willing to build a connection for everything to be successful. We will be at Mandalay Bay, so we’d need to meet there or close by. Replies with no photos on profile or wi
Hotwife and Hubby visiting Vegas May 29-Jun 5. She enjoys intelligent, handsome gentleman. She’s sapiosexual so you’ll have to be willing to build a connection for everything to be successful. We will be at Mandalay Bay, so we’d need to meet there or close by. Replies with no photos on profile or wi
Hotwife and Hubby visiting Vegas May 29-Jun 5. She enjoys intelligent, handsome gentleman. She’s sapiosexual so you’ll have to be willing to build a connection for everything to be successful. We will be at Mandalay Bay, so we’d need to meet there or close by. Replies with no photos on profile or wi
It's my birthday! To celebrate, I'm having a private pool day with my husband, and would like for a gentlemen to join us for MFM. (My husband is straight and the focus will be entirely on me) Please be upscale, intelligent, and respectful. Good conversation and social skills are a must. I may also n
We are going to Mahem @ the Mansion in St Paul on Saturday. We hope to meet lots of sexy people there. Four floors
6 stages
3 bars
VIP area
DJ dance floor
20 BDSM, kink, burlesque, performers
10 adventure rooms Come explore with us!
We will be in Las Vegas for one week starting May 30 to June 7. We will be busy with family but hope to find extra time so we can meet new friends and have some good conversation and playtime. There is always something about Las Vegas that makes you wanna get frisky. We would love to meet new friend
Heading to scouts Thursday during the day for pool party. Please do not message and ask us if we r going to nite party. We r only going to day party. And again. Day party only not nite party
Heading up to bike week, riding up! Would love to have some fun while there or if there and headed back to akron area can always come to the house!! let us know
Planning on having a few drinks as we start our weekend away without the kiddos. Wouldn't mind possibly meeting someone for drinks to talk with. More points if you're a veteran in the lifestyle and share some wisdom. We aren't necessarily looking to hook up with anyone but if she's into you (m or f)
We are headed to the Korral and would love to connect with new people. Peek our profile. Come say Hi if you see use. We are coming to have fun all night.
Headed out for drinks looking for a third wheel. Start out with drinks and see where the vibe goes. If interested send a picture with face the wife will decide and choose who is meeting us. all fun, no drama.
Staying at the Most Magical Place On Earth and looking to see if anyone can make it more magical!!!! Let’s meet for a drink and head to the room for a real E ticket ride. We are open to couples and single men. We are both straight and full swap. Wife loves to be the center of 2 men’s attention. Reac
Staying at the Most Magical Place On Earth and looking to see if anyone can make it more magical!!!! Let’s meet for a drink and head to the room for a real E ticket ride. We are open to couples and single me. We are both straight and full swap. Let us know ur ideas. Inventiveness is always appreciat
Hi! Headed out for our birthdays! Seeing what’s going on and open to meeting select singles or a couple. Probably head to the casino! Hope to hear from you all!
We will be in Albany NY from 5/31 to 6/3. We can not host
Let's all have some fun !! Daytime or night time is good for us both. We are looking to play with other couples or maybe single women or men . Send us a message we are looking to play not just meet. Please include pictures and an easy way to
Interested in creating some unforgettable memories?? Men...are you 6'0" or taller, athletic build, and have a nice package? Any curvy baby girls out there? Let's have some fun and make some memories. We will be recording. Message for details.
We will be coming to Atlanta from 5/31 (Sunday to Tuesday) and will be at the Lifestyle Club - Tokyo Valentino the one on 1739 Cheshire Bridge Road. we plan to be there about 5pm EST for 2-3 hours.
Visiting Ormond Beach for three nights. Having never been, we look forward to seeing what the area has to offer. Perhaps we get to make a few friends along the way. Feel free to message us with suggestions on food and drink, and of course, play!
Visiting Ormond Beach for three nights. Having never been, we look forward to seeing what the area has to offer. Perhaps we get to make a few friends along the way. Feel free to message us with suggestions on food and drink, and of course, play!
Visiting Ormond Beach for three nights. Having never been, we look forward to seeing what the area has to offer. Perhaps we get to make a few friends along the way. Feel free to message us with suggestions on food and drink, and of course, play!
I would like to spend time with you lovely ladies and couples and to be introduced to the lifestyle, I want to know dos and don’ts, and want to see everyone happy!
On a short vacation. We will be hitting up some wineries in the area. Love to meet some new people and possible have some fun. We have a hotel and can host,
On a short vacation. We will be hitting up some wineries in the area. Love to meet some new people and possible have some fun. We have a hotel and can host,
We’re on vacation and looking to have some fun! We are available anytime for lunch, drinks or dinner. Let’s meet up and see if there is a connection. Send us the bird
We’re on vacation and looking to have some fun! We are available anytime for lunch, drinks or dinner. Let’s meet up and see if there is a connection. Send us the bird
We’re on vacation and looking to have some fun! We are available anytime for lunch, drinks or dinner. Let’s meet up and see if there is a connection. Send us the bird
The wife and I will be visiting Las Vegas June 1-6th and would like to find like minded couples and singles for drinks and ???? We’re open to meeting locals and other visitors.
The wife and I will be visiting Las Vegas June 1-6th and would like to find like minded couples and singles for drinks and ???? We’re open to meeting locals and other visitors.
Visiting the area for a few days with vanilla friends. Other couple has work responsibilities during the day so we were hoping to have some sexy fun. Single bi ladies or couples with same preferred. Down for all kinds of sexy play. We can host. Message and please have face photos open.
Visiting the area for a few days with vanilla friends. Other couple has work responsibilities during the day so we were hoping to have some sexy fun. Single bi ladies or couples with same preferred. Down for all kinds of sexy play. We can host. Message and please have face photos open.
In town for the week and can host! We’re all about the beach days, the country music fest, and just having good times. Looking for other fun loving couples to hang out with
In town for the week and can host! We’re all about the beach days, the country music fest, and just having good times. Looking for other fun loving couples to hang out with
Visiting Post Falls June 1,2,3. Wife is looking to have some fun with a young gentleman. She is not interested in “hung guys”. Look us up if you are interested.
Visiting Post Falls June 1,2,3. Wife is looking to have some fun with a young gentleman. She is not interested in “hung guys”. Look us up if you are interested.
In town for a couple nights and looking for fun. Plan is to try to get to Secrets orrrr somebody's got tub!! We keep everything is flexible/tentative and ready to change on the fly. Couples with bi females to the front of the line. We're into group play, mffm, mfm, mff, mfmm, etc., etc. Please read
In town for a couple nights and looking for fun. Plan is to try to get to Secrets orrrr somebody's got tub!! We keep everything is flexible/tentative and ready to change on the fly. Couples with bi females to the front of the line. We're into group play, mffm, mfm, mff, mfmm, etc., etc. Please read
WE WILL BE AT MASSENUTTEN RESORT COME HERE MULTIPLE TIMES DURING THE YEAR GIVE A SHOUT LOOKING FOR FUN AND FRIENDSHIP ... CONTACT US AND LETS ARRANGE TO MEET FOR DRINKS AND FUN WE ARE LOOKING FOR ATTRACTIVE COUPLES, WE ARE A MARRIED COUPLE WHO WANTS TO LIVE AND ENJOY ALL OF LIFE'S PLEASURES. WE ENJO
WE WILL BE AT MASSENUTTEN RESORT COME HERE MULTIPLE TIMES DURING THE YEAR GIVE A SHOUT LOOKING FOR FUN AND FRIENDSHIP ... CONTACT US AND LETS ARRANGE TO MEET FOR DRINKS AND FUN WE ARE LOOKING FOR ATTRACTIVE COUPLES, WE ARE A MARRIED COUPLE WHO WANTS TO LIVE AND ENJOY ALL OF LIFE'S PLEASURES. WE ENJO
Hubby is letting me play again. Actually I told him I want to play again. We are going to be in Toledo for hubbys work. Looking for one or two guys to have their way with me. I got a strap on for Christmas and want to peg my first guy. Also have yet to try two guys in at same time. Please check out
I will have my motor home set up at a local campground so I can host! I enjoy watching others play. I will host for others just so I can watch, if you would like me to join, take pics or film, I am good with that as well.
Looking for bi or bi curious male, female or couple to play. June 2,3,4 or 5 . In rapid city area. We enjoy off road 4 wheeling, saloons, fossil hunting, panning for garnets and Free Use 3somes and moresome when all agree.
HOTWIFE IS LOOKING FOR A YOUNG BULL. HUNTINGTON BEACH June 2-6. I will meet you in the lobby of our hotel. If I think that she would like you I will take you up to her for a few hours of hot sex.
As of 2026-05-26, 520 Hot Dates are posted across 48 US states and 224 cities by 269 SwingLifestyle members. A Hot Date is a member-planned meetup — distinct from commercial club events and hotel takeovers. Members post the date, city, and a short note; other members message them through their SwingLifestyle.com profile to coordinate.
Frequently asked about Hot Dates
What are Hot Dates?
Hot Dates are upcoming lifestyle meetups planned by individual SwingLifestyle.com members rather than commercial hosts or venues. Each Hot Date is posted by a member who specifies the date, city, and a short description of what they're planning. Other members can browse Hot Dates and reach out through the poster's profile to coordinate attendance.
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On the /hotdates page, use the date-range filter (Today, 1 Week, 1 Month) and the distance filter (10, 25, or 50 miles) to narrow the list to your area. The page sorts by date and distance from your home zip code. State-specific hubs at /hotdates/<state> let you browse by location regardless of distance.
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How is a Hot Date different from a club event or hotel takeover?
Club events and hotel takeovers are organized by commercial hosts and verified organizers and appear under /swinger-clubs and /swinger-takeovers. Hot Dates are member-to-member meetups posted by individuals — usually smaller, more casual, and not tied to a venue. They're the lifestyle equivalent of "anyone want to grab dinner Saturday?"
Are members who post Hot Dates verified?
Members posting Hot Dates have active SwingLifestyle.com accounts that meet the public-profile threshold (single-male interest level above 1). They are not vetted in the same way as commercial event organizers — exercise the usual discretion you would when meeting any new person from an online community. Member profiles include account age, photos, and other members' comments to help you evaluate.
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New Hot Dates are posted daily by SwingLifestyle members across all 50 US states. The /hotdates page refreshes continuously as members add new meetups; date-range filters always show the current set.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What are Hot Dates?
Hot Dates are upcoming lifestyle meetups planned by individual SwingLifestyle.com members rather than commercial hosts or venues. Each Hot Date is posted by a member who specifies the date, city, and a short description of what they're planning. Other members can browse Hot Dates and reach out through the poster's profile to coordinate attendance.
How do I find a Hot Date near me?
On the /hotdates page, use the date-range filter (Today, 1 Week, 1 Month) and the distance filter (10, 25, or 50 miles) to narrow the list to your area. The page sorts by date and distance from your home zip code. State-specific hubs at /hotdates/<state> let you browse by location regardless of distance.
How do I join a Hot Date?
Click into a Hot Date to view the member's SwingLifestyle.com profile, then send them a direct message to express interest and coordinate. All communication and confirmation happens through the SwingLifestyle messaging system — Swing.com Events does not host the conversation itself.
Is posting or browsing Hot Dates free?
Browsing Hot Dates is free on Swing.com. Posting a Hot Date and messaging other members requires a SwingLifestyle.com account. Free SLS accounts can post and read; full messaging features may require a higher membership tier — see SwingLifestyle.com for current account benefits.
How is a Hot Date different from a club event or hotel takeover?
Club events and hotel takeovers are organized by commercial hosts and verified organizers and appear under /swinger-clubs and /swinger-takeovers. Hot Dates are member-to-member meetups posted by individuals — usually smaller, more casual, and not tied to a venue. They're the lifestyle equivalent of "anyone want to grab dinner Saturday?"
Are members who post Hot Dates verified?
Members posting Hot Dates have active SwingLifestyle.com accounts that meet the public-profile threshold (single-male interest level above 1). They are not vetted in the same way as commercial event organizers — exercise the usual discretion you would when meeting any new person from an online community. Member profiles include account age, photos, and other members' comments to help you evaluate.
How often are new Hot Dates posted?
New Hot Dates are posted daily by SwingLifestyle members across all 50 US states. The /hotdates page refreshes continuously as members add new meetups; date-range filters always show the current set.