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What is a "meet and greet" in swinging?

A meet and greet (often abbreviated M&G) is a no-play first meeting between couples — typically over drinks or dinner at a public restaurant or bar — to gauge chemistry before any sexual encounter. The point is to confirm that the people behind the profiles are a genuine match for an encounter and to surface any deal-breakers before clothes come off. Skipping the M&G is possible but increases the rate of awkward, unsuccessful first encounters; most experienced couples consider it standard.

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