스파이스 없이 스왑
Think the only way to heat things up is to swap partners? Not even close. In this episode, Vic and I break down all the hot, non-monogamy-adjacent fun—voyeurism, exhibitionism, and same-room play—that…
From Overlooked to Overbooked in the Lifestyle
We spent our teens in the friend zone—good enough to listen to everyone’s drama, never the ones they wanted. In this episode, Vic and I unpack how that shaped us, how those voices still live in our he…
성능 향상제에 대한 사실
In this episode, we discuss the realities of performance enhancers in the lifestyle. We address common misconceptions about erectile dysfunction, the impact of environment on performance, and the impo…
From Fun To Felony: 생활 규칙을 어기면 안 되는 것들
In today’s episode, we’re giving you a crash course in lifestyle club and event survival. From awkward ‘cash-for-play’ offers to phones popping up in places they shouldn’t—let’s talk security, safety,…
fuck up!
We love that you’re excited to be at the sex club. We really do. But if you're in the play area talking about your colonoscopy or your kids’ soccer schedule while people are trying to fuck—you’re doin…
급식이야? 생활방식은 아니야
Think you’re not hot enough for the lifestyle? Too average? Too old? Not what you think people are looking for? Think again.In this episode, we unpack how swinging isn't about being the hottest person…
바닐라 결혼은 당신의 영혼을 빼앗고 있나요?
It’s not always cheating, abuse, or betrayal that ends relationships. Sometimes it’s boredom, avoidance, and pretending everything's fine.This episode is about the normal-looking relationships falling…
인간들은 일시적인 관계에 적합한지 아니면 조건부인가요?
Are humans really meant to be with one person forever?Or is monogamy just a cultural script we’ve all been handed—whether it fits or not?In this episode, we delve into the biology, traditions, and unc…
우리는 모든 우리의 생활 스타일 규칙을 깨쳤다
When we first got into swinging, we had our rules locked in: couples only, same room only, always together.That lasted… maybe two encounters.In this episode, we share how our rules and boundaries evol…
.swinging을 통해 우리의 결혼이 불가침이 되었음
A lot of couples may try swinging once or for a short period of time. So what made us keep going—and keep growing—for 22 years?In this episode, we share the real reasons we stayed in the lifestyle, fr…
라이프스타일에서 어떻게 실패하고 파산하는지 알아보기
In today’s episode, we’re diving into the wrong reasons to get into the lifestyle.We’ll share:Why swinging is not therapyA story about a female half of a couple who got pushed into it before she was r…
모든 사람은 그냥 장난감일 뿐—왜냐하면
In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the differences between swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and everything in between. We’ll talk about:Why we’re not poly, and never will beThe show Polyf…
그들의 첫 번째 경험, 우리의 공유한 행복
In today’s episode, we’re sharing a real story from a night at our local club.We met a couple who seemed like seasoned pros—but they were holding onto a fantasy that had never actually happened… until…
빅은 거의 \ 呕吐 \ 했지만 \ Dave는 \ 바로 \ 들어 \ 왔다 \ 우리 \ 첫 \ 차례
In this episode, we’re going back to our first time.We’ll tell you:How Vic shocked Dave by signing up for an AFF accountThe couple we met from the next town overWhat really went down that night in our…
качание не исправило нас — оно освободило нас
In this episode, we’re getting real about how we got into the lifestyle.We weren’t struggling. We weren’t bored.Our sex life was already damn good—maybe too good.We’ll talk about:How curiosity evolved…
Messies, Mentors, 그리고 Muthafukkin’ OGs
In this episode, we’re kicking things off by sharing why we’re finally stepping up to the mic after 22 years in the lifestyle.We’ll talk about:The couple that mentored us early on and showed us how to…
컴아웃 스윙에 오신 것을 환영합니다!
Comin' Out Swinging isn't just about non-monogamy. It’s a raw, real look at modern relationships. We’re Victoria and Dave Arena: together nearly 30 years, married over 24, and swinging for more than 2…