Is noise a turn on

I have to side with Mayhem on this one, and you may not want to start on people's site names after some of your infamous postings SLOw.

Is that how you selected your UserID, Mayhem8.......by starting some shit with others relating their experience? Not nice.

SLO

@VoicePlay - I was responding to a post you made about 6 hrs ago. I realize the event itself was a long time ago, but it seemed the point in your posting it was that it was something that did (and would) bother you if it happened again. Based on your current profile, I could see it happening again. That's all.

@mayhem8 - Really? My story took place almost 50 years ago! And, it wasn't what we would call Voice Play anyway.

@VoicePlayers - Your profile says you are turned on by auralism, or sound. I can see others thinking that them making happy sounds while you each played with them to be something you would enjoy.

Perhaps you want to tweak your profile to be more specific because I can see the couple that you mentioned thinking they pretty much did what they thought you were looking for. To be honest, I am not sure exactly what you are looking for. Are you looking for the people you are playing with to be turned on only by your voice/sounds and not by the happy sounds of their mate?

Back in the 70s, my wife (at the time) and I were "swapping" with another couple in our darkened apartment. Our partners responded to each other's noises, leaving us as sex toys for their good time. It was extremely off-putting, although I'm sure there are some who would've found it a turn on. When he came in my wife, his wife began bucking me to death, but only for as long as he was moaning and growling. It really was a "together" experience for them, but we came away feeling like pieces of meat. YMMV

When my ex and I were playing, we made friends with a couple and the first time we swapped with them he warned us that he's loud in bed and it sounds like a horse. He wasn't kidding! He sounded like some loud stallion neighing when he came. My wife and I were laughing out loud talking about it after we left their place. It was not a turn-on for my wife, but not really that big a turn-off either. They were a super nice couple and completely hot, so we accepted his "neighing" and played with them for a few years.

I like to hear a woman's sexy voice and moans during sex. What I found the hard way is I'm not into screamers. I had just started dating this gal and took her to a nice resort in Jamaica (not Hedo). We were having late morning sex in our room and she was screaming to high heaven. I mean ear-shattering. Glad she enjoyed herself, but everyone within a mile probably also heard her enjoying herself! Right after we got done, we left the room and went out to the beach right in front of our room. Several other couples were out there and seemed all eyes were on us.

As a bi male I can hardly ever keep from moaning when getting my pussymouth used. I just really get into it and it excites me to no end ??

On our very first experience we were at a club as guests of another couple. While we weren't quite ready to play with them (or others yet), we did grab an empty section in a public room to have sex with each other. On the other side of the mattress was another couple having sex, and the woman was quite vocal with her man, moaning sensuously and uttering a breathless "fuck me" every 30 seconds or so. Yeah, we were hooked.

Years later we were at a club in MD having reclaim sex after we had finished with another couple. This club has a group of rooms in the middle, but there's no ceiling. I distinctly remember the rapid fire jackhammering sound of a couple in the next room. Really hot.

The right noises can be a fantastic turn on.

Kira, the police probably need a good diversion once in a while. :-)

SLO

We like to hear sounds of pleasure, especially as good affirmations that we’re hitting the right spots! And, I (Kira) am definitely very vocal and find that the release of moans also brings on more pleasure, which leads to more intense orgasms. However, I try not to become engulfed into a “private bubble”, where I’m unaware of how other people feel about my sounds. If other people are more quiet, or any neighbors might call the cops, I definitely tone it down. Maybe that’s why we now live far from neighbors!!

It depends on the noise being made.

• Totally quiet is a turn off. As I guy I need feedback if what I am doing is right or not. Moans are the primary indication.

• With moans, there is a limit too. I have been with women (Kathy on top of list) who scream so loud and for so long, you start worrying about the cops knocking on the door. It is also a distraction in sone situations, especially when the volume of screams becomes painful to the ears. Once Kathy did that at a party (with me) to the point where everyone stopped playing and just watched us. The audience gave us a standing ovation once we were finished. I could not help but say "And, people, this is how it gets done." as I walked to the bathroom.

• I find porno talk "fuck that pussy baby, etc.." annoying and a turn off to intimacy.

• I like Instructional talk" Lick my clit, rub my tits, etc." to be kept to a minimum. Some people don't mind being bossed around but I prefer to use my own approach.

For folks like me with ADD, separate rooms fixes a lot of these issues. Focus and concentration are important too.

We like the feedback. It let's us know that we have hit the right spots. And it's just hot knowing what we're doing is being enjoyed by the person we're playing with. And when we're playing with another couple in the same room, we really, really, REALLY love hearing each other pleasing and being pleased by our respective partners.

I have found it makes a huge difference. There's a girl I always saw at a particular party and I always thought she would be fun to play with. One time, I saw her playing with a guy in the public room and there were virtually no sounds at all from her. As pretty as she was, I'd rather play with a more average looking vocal girl than a sexier quiet one. Wouldn't have thought it mattered that much to me before I got into the LS, but it obviously does.

Sexual vocalizations increases the pair-bonding aspect of sex. The vocalizations are important feedback that help transform the act from two individuals with separate experiences of the encounter into a single shared experience.

I had a girlfriend who would whisper love song lyrics in my ear when we made love.

I get pretty vocal when turned on. Talk dirty to me, I like it. I love to hear my partners moan and vocalize too. It lets you know when you're doing something particularly right.

I love to hear some form of feedback, it doesn't matter who's underneath me. I'm the same way. At the very least it shows your partner (s) that whatever is happening is proving to be extremely enjoyable. Also if they keep it up a happy ending is sure to follow!

I love listening to my wife moaning as our bull fucks her.

The Mrs is a very loud slut. Always has been. It is fun to try to find her at a party by just listening for her.

Oh this bring back memories of my first screamer,up to this point in the ls about a year yes all the normal moaning and grunting with some dirty talk thrown in . Then we meet this one great sexy couple ,the first time she orgasmed she let out a scream that scared the shit out of me .I think it could be heard a block away, My wife who was with her hubby at the other end of the house got concerned and he just told her dam she must really be like him ,

Oh yes.....I like hearing a woman moan, squeal, scream and become hard to hold onto when she orgasms. That makes me feel satisfied, too.

I absolutely love moaning and some dirty talking to. HUGE Turn on!

Yes, absolutely. The noisy ones are a blast. ;)

I remember a house party that we attended, where a certain lady had an unmistakable audible when she crested over the top. I cant write it correctly due to the SLS edit controls, but substitute the letter W for the letter R.

MEORRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. MEORRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.

Drove all of the neighborhood dogs crazy trying to find that damn cat!!!!!!!