How are you today is NOT a successful opening line gents
Just got one from a male visiting the area saying he wants to "...fuck me every which way imaginable with his 10" cock."
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How are you today is NOT a successful opening line gents
I had a guy living 400 miles away recently message me detailing everything he wants to do to me. All sorts of BDSM related stuff. I responded that as long as we can incorporate my pegging him into the mix I'm all game. Didn't hear back fro…
Where to vacation on the East Coast as a single female
To add to the above...I'm not interested in Camping or RV'ing.
Where to vacation on the East Coast as a single female
Hi there, Like most during these fun times, I am going stir crazy. I need to get away from the office/house/town/state and go somewhere to relax, play a little, be pampered, nude sunbathe, hike, raft, fish....anything that gets my mind eng…
single male versus single female
Mario609 - Oh my...thank you for compliment! In reading your profile you had me at massage therapist and magic tongue! Unfortunately NJ is a bit far for my taste. I hope you are holding up well during this COV-19 craziness.
Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
@Atipsy - I tell you what, you purchase me one of those larger homes in the Village, one with a lanai, and I will volunteer for anything. I might even consider inviting you to Hedo, should that be of interest to you.
Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
@Sea....that's all you can do, just enjoy the moment. I still hold out hope, but don't think about it. Hopefully sooner, than later, I will meet that person in the lifestyle who also wants to do vanilla activities with me. Hopefully it's b…
Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
@Atip...regarding The Villages....we all know your goal in life is to have a Village drink named after you. Maybe "Atipsy through the tulips"?
Lip kissing
I will never understand the no kissing rule, it's a natural part of foreplay, it doesn't mean I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I have encountered it once while playing and it was a complete mood killer. Firstly, it caught me o…
Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
@mayhem8 - yup, that pretty much sums it up...lol Thank you for the kind words, Happy New Year to you as well!
Etiquette for asking a woman how to best bring her to orgasm
Sorry...that should be Velma....auto correct.
Etiquette for asking a woman how to best bring her to orgasm
Hey Thelma! I remember you two with much fondness! Hope all is well and please give Shaggy a big kiss for me! As I recall I dubbed him my boy-toy.
Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
Aw Scamp, thank you xoxo
Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
@Sea - I had a L/S partner I shared a couple's profile with for about a year. For us it was not to appear more attractive to other couples, it was to make life easier. We could sign up for club events as a couple, otherwise I had to get pr…
Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
@Atip - I have discovered the L/S is not a great way to find a long-term relationship, especially the older I get. Early on I had plenty of opportunities, but I wasn't ready and I thought I had plenty of time. Now it's reversed. I know of…
single male versus single female
@Atip - The M&Gs in this area are very single guy friendly. I have found group dynamics, whether L/S or vanilla, are fraught with drama. I stopped attending one L/S meetup group and just quit two vanilla meetup groups because the drama and…
Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
Thank you Goosebumps :-) I limited my distance to 30 miles because around here 30 miles can be a 1 1/2 hour drive thanks to DC and Baltimore traffic, especially on a Friday evening. Doing anything weekday evenings is out of the question. I…
Etiquette for asking a woman how to best bring her to orgasm
Well, for me menopause really did a number to my libido and ability to orgasm. It had been quite some time since I had one and then I met Mr. Magic Fingers....OMG! I had never felt an orgasm that intense before.... and I discovered I'm a h…
Etiquette for asking a woman how to best bring her to orgasm
@TallMark45 For me there is a difference. While faster and harder is my favorite, slow and hard can be equally gratifying. I tend to switch between the two. It's surprising to me how many men can not get the motion going either way.
single male versus single female
@mayhem8 I have found the best way for me to meet single men offline is through meet and greets, but so far the pickings have been disappointing. The parties I attend regularly don't permit unescorted single males. What is funny is the sin…
single male versus single female
@mayhem8 I took a look at my profile and saw what you are referring to about age, I fixed it. Thank you for pointing it out.
single male versus single female
@mayhem8 I am always experimenting with age. I just recently changed the youngest age from 42 to 48. I have my three go-to guys, so at the moment I'm no longer 100% invested in finding another one. Now it's hoping that my Mr. Wonderful fin…
single male versus single female
@RonKathy It is amazing to me how hypocritical it is. I recently had a partner who I thought I was dating tell me at a meet and greet we were attending together that he would never date me. He doesn't mix the two, then proceeded to get the…
Etiquette for asking a woman how to best bring her to orgasm
@TallMark45 definitely not at the start!
Etiquette for asking a woman how to best bring her to orgasm
@TallMark45 I'm well known among my circle of L/S friends for demanding, "Harder! Harder, Faster! Faster!" Not all can manage...lol
Etiquette for asking a woman how to best bring her to orgasm
It's annoying to me when asked how to make me cum, or the overdone efforts to make it happen. The only way I can have a mind blowing orgasm is via exceptionally talented fingers, who very few have, those who do are on speed dial. With that…
single male versus single female
@Magjoy - I would give up the lifestyle for a monogamous relationship with the right person. I date vanilla, but I'm encountering the same attitude towards age, or they are looking for what my former MIL would say, "A nurse with a purse".…
single male versus single female
I too have the same problem finding a suitable long term partner. The hits I get mostly are married, too far away, not my style, nor exactly pleasant to look at. The "single" men around the same age as me are looking for something much you…
Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
I can relate. I've been in the LS as a single woman for 3'ish years and have wished for "my own person". I hate going to LS parties alone, it's not fun being the odd number. I have a couple of male friends I can call upon when I need a dat…
Blocked for no reason?
People shouldn't take it personally if they are blocked, which could be for a multitude of reasons. Maybe a couple notices a lot of single males viewing their profile and decide to block all single males for a while because they aren't int…
SLS KILLED email? WTF!?
Oops, my mistake, it's only good for a week.
SLS KILLED email? WTF!?
dragonrapide I know of quite a few couples who are starting to turn to LVD. I haven't used them in a couple of years, but a couple of days ago I received an email from them offering me a free upgrade to a premium membership if I came back.…
SLS KILLED email? WTF!?
Jjtexas11 you typed exactly what I have been thinking. I also dislike the fact that I can be seen when on line, which equals to endless IMs full of crap from men who use the "who's online' search option and aren't even bothering to read my…
What's for Dinner
A handful of chocolate covered almonds, mixed nuts and a black raspberry sparkling water.
SLS KILLED email? WTF!?
I just realized today I can no longer generate new mail and my deleted mail is gone, hence my finding this forum. I never used IM unless I had already established communication with the person. Even then I rarely used it. New IM's were del…