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Responding to emails

Here's what sets us on edge about this, the op asked for other people who share their opinion and examples from those who don't. These things are fine and those who responded as such (including us in our first post) are not the problem. We…

Responding to emails

Right, so everyone obviously has their own opinion about things and rarely does one's opinion change about anything. However, all we've done is offer our own unmitigated opinions. What we've never done is come on here and start calling peo…

Responding to emails

While we reserve the right to not answer any email we get if it's a hard no, the truth is we DO answer most emails from couples. If you're a single guy and you're mad about people ghosting you? Hahahahaha....let me break this down for you.…

Responding to emails

Lmao, just as I was writing this we got a message that consisted of "Hey". Anywho, we always will take CN's side because they're Nashville and we think they're cool. To the rest of the thread....we don't care if someone we have no interest…

When couples look for SM

So here's the deal on this for us. We play with every type, guys, girls, couples and everything in between. Single women we almost never even try to meet on this or any other site for a few good reasons. Men however we almost exclusively m…

Struggling with guilt and anger

So, after reading your previous posts, seeing you basically ignore solid if vague advice from several people and react only to the mildly blunt comments...we're going to make an educated guess followed by more specific advice. One of you w…

Struggling with guilt and anger

Ok, first let us say we're sorry you are having these problems and this sincerely comes from a place of empathy. The first couple we were with is now divorced because none of us were ready for what happened, we handled it in a healthy prod…

Social Clique

Ooohhh this is one of our favorite battlegrounds...we hate cliques, and they exist even on this site, look around you'll see them. Anyway, the fact is that there's two types of people in social settings. Type one needs to have a "shield" o…

Responding to emails

So as a counterpoint...We're probably a lot different than many people in that we don't really feel the need to make everyone like us. In fact, our profile is specifically written to piss off the types we have no interest in playing with.…

New to the site and to the LS

Your profile looks perfectly fine to us, it clearly gets across an idea of who you are and what you want without sounding fake or homogenized. The only thing we would say about your pics is add a few more because they look great. Smiles or…

Why do bicouples block bimales on here

Kind of a necro post here but anyway... We personally have no problem playing with single bi males and do so often. The problem is that the site as far as we can tell doesn't allow blocking of ONLY straight listed guys. This leads to us on…