Just wondering "why" do we need to go through an approval process on our profile for changing ones interest level on singles, male /female and couples..this should be a no brainier and we changed it as we saw fit in old format?
Amy updates on this feature becoming available to actually use? Thank you!
why can't i change mine. They all say x no interest, i have never marked a profile
Would love for this feature to be seen by mutual people.
This feature is definitely needed. Would like to see the feature enabled and then if there is mutual interest some way that both parties are notified.
Licker_and_Nymph:
It is my understand that the other party never learns what stars you picked. So at least you know that you previously saw profile.
We use the X a lot so we know we had no interest if we see profile again
@NYC_BF_WM Yes I know that. Basically I want to change the "X" on a few to no interest level selected at all. I know you can change one star to two stars or what ever but you can not completely clear out a selection completely.
Licker:
X means "No Interest Hide Member Not Interested"
There stars have been needed for SO LONG. When will this go live?
Is there any way to completely clear your interest level selection from a profile you had originally selected one for? Sometimes people and circumstances change but you don't want to give them "any" of the selection choices. ~ N
When is this feature coming!
Have a way to show always what each interest is also, as well as hovering over them, vs. just showing (no way of knowing what they're 100%) - 3 yellow interest ones.
how can we cam now?
With ever-increasing competition in the online swinger industry word of mouth recommendations as to which websites offer the greatest value to members is also increasing.
SLS WEBSITE ISSUE: I changed my preferences to NO INTEREST (Profile still viewable) for couples and just found out from friends my profile is NOT visible to couples at all. I have been on holiday for over two weeks and wondered why I hadn't heard from any of my couple friends in that area NOW I KNOW why.
Please change the verbiage on this selection to (profile will NO longer be viewable to Couples / SM / SF). When SLS hinders the process of finding 'friends' they are, in my opinion, hurting themselves.
From socialmediatoday DOT
Why is WOM Marketing Important?
Consumers trust their friends. This is why word of mouth marketing is the most valuable source of marketing.
According to a Nielsen study, 92% of consumers believe suggestions from friends and family more than they do advertising - this stat alone solidified the word of mouth use case.
WOM also doesn't stop after just one interaction. One person will tell another, and that person will someone else, then that person will continue the chain and spread the word further, making it a great vehicle for exposure and distribution - if used well.
Of course, the same is true in reverse - negative news can spread just as fast, but the essential benefit of WOM in the connected era is personal endorsement, which is not only more readily available, but is seen as significantly more valuable to modern consumers.
im interested in single white male
Honestly, how do we even chat when I havent been able to add my wife onto my profile?
So I understand how to use this function but what i don't understand is how to see what others mark me as!?! Can some one plz fill me in? Plz and thank you its greatly appreciated
So I take it it's been "new and coming" for quite a while? We are new to this site, and it seems like a great additional feature.
When will the new feature be available? It would be nice to filter out people who aren't a match or you have spoken with and mutually decide there is no chemistry. I keep using the star system, but wondering if it is even saving my edits at the current time?
@rand...
Yes couples in a lot of situations will view ads. This can happen on purpose and by accident.
People block for all kinds of reasons. Just a few might be the person is outside of their age range, or they aren't a fit on the attraction meter. We personally have blocked someone because they worked at the same company. There can be many reasons to block someone and none of them have to do with speaking or learning more about you or even giving you a chance beyond the 1st impression your pictures and profile made.
It happens to couples too. Just have low expectations, write a nice profile and have current pics. Remember you are trying to find a match to your fantasy and couples here are trying to find a match to theirs.
No marking interest level does not block them (at least in our experience)
You actually have to block them.
Quick questions: If you mark someone profile as not interested, does that automatically block them? Do they see how you ranked them? Can they reach out to you? Can anyone answer these questions for me?
Quick questions: If you mark someone profile as not interested, does that automatically block them? Do they see how you ranked them? Can they reach out to you? Can anyone answer these questions for me?
Concur. It is often challenging, as a single male, to know if couples have any interest when they state on their profile "no single men" but visit our pages.
I experience the same as a black man. The couple despises interracial encounters in their profile, but visits my page quite often.
There are too many great people on this site to get hung up on a person's insecurity, the interest feature could surely help men like me save time.
I like it a lot .... it's quick and easy. I like that i can express interest without taking the time to craft a clever intro that may or may not garner a response..
