REALLY looking forward to not seeing those we've "not interested" in our online list. But... just came across a MAJOR flaw. There is a couple who's blocked us and we would really like to not have to look at their profile in the list. But, we can't get into their profile to "not interested" them.
someone send me a wink, id love to see if i get it
The "wink" is a feature on another, not so well appointed, site. People can click on a link that will send you a wink. From there you can check their profile. Its a feature that lots seem to use for some OTHER reason than to meet people. If you look at the previous posts, you'll see that lots of people receive them, but they go nowhere. S&J
So, Im a little confused. What are these winks that several of you mentioned?
I don't really understand this new star feature. And on seeing who has viewed me... honestly, I don't even want to know ;)
"very new...is there a way to check who views you or winks at you"
Nope. Pretty much the topic of dissusion here.
very new...is there a way to check who views you or winks at you
Nothing wrong with being shy, but in this lifestyle, good things come to those who take it in their own hands to act. If you wait around for someone to wink at you, or to write to you, you may be waiting for a long time.
If you see a profile you like and are interested in, read it carefully. If you fit their preferences, write to them. Yes, I know there's a chance they'll say they aren't interested, or not answer at all. But for all the no answers, there will be people who will thank you for writing and mean it. Susan
If I wanted cheesy winks I would use yahell 8-)
If I read a profile we find to be appealing. We send them an email and talk about us and what we liked about their profile. Something to show we did more than peek at the pictures and hit wink. Its been very helpful and good for us.
I totally agree PrincessAnna. We are quite willing to go that extra mile, so to speak, but only with those who are willing to take that first step and who know what they want. Ditto on the "shopping around". As I've said before, on another site, I've gotten to the point where I just delete the winks without even looking at the profile. If they're interested, they'll write. If not, they're shopping. S
Newbee here but I came from another site and I do agree "winks" and "who viewed me" don't leave me with a warm fuzzy feeling. It just says to me they are shopping and not serious enough to make the effort for contact. Don't know about anyone else but a little effort goes along way with me.
Slo, we've had new couples write to us only to be (in their words) cautious about wanting a meet. That's the thing I don't understand. I understand about the being hesitant to send emails. I even understand that some folks need a little push (hence the request for "interest" markers), but I don't understand the "well, we're not ready to meet, why don't we just chat?". S
The way I understand it, eventually the "no interest" profiles will be unshown during search, but I'm still seeing them as of now.
Mrs 2, I think Florida via Texas is a rather interesting way to get to Mr Caruso. I'm game. Of course, I'm the one who walked into Hugh Grant in London at the Hard Rock Cafe and wanted very badly to lead him out of there. Damn J anyway for making me believe I'd be creating a scene! rofl S
Thanks for the welcom sensuous and thanks for the reply and info Tech. So, is there a way to just view the people you marked as intereted?
ROFL!
Definitely gonna be a dangerous situation for David. I bet he would do his damdest to please us all too. I'm game!
I have natural red highlights. Can I cum too?
You know, Mrs 2, perhaps a road trip is in order. We can leave Mr 2 and Mr SandJ here in Vermont. Hmm, I wonder if Mr Caruso has a thing for tall redheads? S
I fell in love with David Caruso on NYPD Blue and I'm still lusting after him. S
Joy,
David Caruso (Horatio Caine) has that "tantra" look in his eyes when he stares at women. It always makes me melt (:
Mmmmmmmmm Mmmmmmm Mmmmm!
Makes mental note.......
Techie is shy. Techie is a computer geek.
Hmmmmmmm! My most favorite and most talented playmates have been shy computer geeks.
Winks at Techie ( ;
cb3some,
No one but you sees your rating. It is for your eyes only.
Sending someone a personalized message means so much more to most people than some automated feature. Just say what comes natural. The worse they can do to you is... nothing, no reply back.
I doubt there are many people more shy than I am. If I can send dozens of messages everyday, I know you can.
Tech Support -W
Welcum to the forums cb3
You are correct
Ok...I thinking Ive got this straight with everything Ive read. If I click very interested on someones profile, they dont see it? Correct? I was hoping that they would see it so it would break the ice a little. I have that slight shyness to get things started so, that would be perfect for me.
We're like Perm, we're online at different times during the day, and while the Notes are a good feature, I like the "interest stars" too. If he marks a profile with one star, obviously, I won't bother wasting my time.
Your missing what web said.. he said you and your spouse are the only ones who can see the stars at all. My hubby and I search the net at different times. we use notes alot of the time to communicate with each other and what we think of who and if emailed and the response. it helps us narrow our searches more and more. Lots less time spent viewing things we already have. We have been using sls for many years.
The stars now make me not have to open notes and click my interest and him his and we can check out the others likes. See if we both feel that way.
Noone sees the stars.. so noone knows what you said.. you may get an email from someone who you found not physically appealing and decide to change it and the star not an issue. Noone is setting prejudice or hurtful anythings by using them just able to know what you have already done.
