Swinging and ostomy

Appreciate the advice. I did go ahead and post a few private pics with my ostomy pouch showing.

Sorry, but, the first thought was your handle was short for bowel movement warrior. It is very important to realize that a major component of swinging is fantasy, especially when it comes to single males. We look for someone who can outperform our husbands and many times that just doesn't happen for one reason or another. (Sometimes your competition isn't stiff). The big thing to understand is that you are in a crowded field and you have to offer something that makes you stand out.

Go ahead and add a few shirtless shots to your default gallery so that people can see up front. Don't wait until you begin exchanging messages. The number of people who will play with you is extremely low. Do your absolute best to present yourself well in your profile and be forthright. As your probably are aware, for most it is a hard "no." There may be someone out there who would consider playing with you. Just be extremely patient and let people see and know from the beginning what they are dealing with. Good luck.

I have swinged prior to having one but now it seems once I disclose having it my messages are not replied back to. It does not affect anything sexually. Just an extra step at the most. Anyone else had issues since getting an ostomy?