Thu, Aug 13, 2026 · 8:00 PM (Eastern Time (US & Canada))
The Shop Pittsburgh
Tickets: Adult Event Ticket $38 / Advanced Couples Event Ticket $60 / Advanced Adult Event Ticket $30
Singles Mingle
For curious singles and couples who want real conversation before chemistry.
Some nights, you want a real chance to meet people without the noise, pressure, or guesswork. Singles Mingle gives singles the room to meet other singles, singles the chance to meet couples, and couples the opportunity to connect with singles who are openly exploring ethical non-monogamy.
The focus is connection, where the conversation comes first, the signals are clear, and the energy stays easy. Show up honest about what you want. Move at your pace. You set the tone for your night.
A Look Inside Your Night
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What Youll Find:
- Connection First: Avibe built around real conversation and chemistry.
- Singles and Couples Welcome: Meet the people who align with your style of ENM exploration.
- Consent Forward: A culture that puts communication and comfort first so you can relax and be yourself.
If you are tired of guessing who is actually open to this life, Singles Mingle gives you a room full of people who are already on the same wavelength.
Meet people who get it. In person.
Unlock Your Play
This event is open to approved members only. Membership and event ticket are required for entry.
Apply for membership now to attend Singles Mingle
First Time Guide
First time at The Shop?
Arrive early, learn the flow, and move at your pace. Connection and passion meet when comfort comes first.
Not a member, yet?
Zero pressure. Zero obligation. 100% your pace.
Arrive 30 minutes before opening
First visit after approval: arrive early for a quick tour and orientation. Meet the team, learn the space, and start the night confident and comfortable.
Quick tour
Consent basics
Q and A
Tip: Bring a valid ID and arrive ready.
Clarity, Consent, Comfort
Everything is optional. Choices stay in your hands, from conversation to dancing to anything beyond.
- Communicate clearly about interests and boundaries.
- Consent is on-going, ask, receive, confirm.
- Comfort first, yours and everyone elses.
Clear communication is sexy. Say what is wanted. Respect what others want, or do not.
Safer Play Spaces
Safety is not a sign on the wall. It is how the space is run, every night.
Enthusiastic and ongoing consent
Clear yes, clear zero, and room to change at any moment.
Inclusivity and respect
All genders welcome. Judgment stays outside.
Proactive education
Better information creates better experiences.
Accountability and safety
Hosts and monitors keep standards consistent.
Dress code
Dress to feel confident. Conservative or provocative is your call. Body-positive and judgment-free, with a few simple ground rules.
View dress code detailsSupport the freedom to explore
A proud Coalition Partner of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Support the rights that protect alternative relationships and consensual adult communities.
Join NCSF ($25 per year)Want free event tickets?
Volunteer and earn Shop Points that can be used for entry and membership discounts.
Apply to volunteerQuick hits
- Arrive 30 minutes early on the first visit
- Consent required, always
- Safer, inclusive environment
- Dress to feel confident
- Support NCSF if aligned
- Volunteer to earn Shop Points
Ready when you are.
Play, Your Way
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