Some say that they are better lovers then those young ones. That might be true however for me the sexual attraction has to be there otherwise its a no go. Time and effort wasted. We are not looking to play with someone 10 years younger then us nor do we want anyone more then 10 years older. You might feel that you are young at heart and that very well might be, and there might be someone who is looking just for that, but please be honest.
Updating Profiles
We don’t have a picture posted that is more than 8 months old. Pictures are the first element to attraction. We want people to be attracted to who is going to show up to dinner, not the people we were 5 years ago. Age? Unfortunately yes. Why is that unfortunate? At least in our area, the upper limit people are looking for is 55. Tempting though it may be to eliminate one or two years, that’s just dishonest and we do our level best to be more honest than less.
We keep ours updated regularly. We have pics from within the last month in our private gallery, and all stats are accurate
Why? BecUse we’ve met couples who were literally 10 years older than their pics and profile said. It was embarrassing for them, and frustrating for us. We believe you live in the world you create, so we try to make sure we do the things we hope others would do for us
Well, I'm not actually 98, but my photos are current. ;-)
We keep ages and and even weights updated. We're marathon runners so our weights rise and fall with the season.
We also post new pictures about once every two weeks and let the older pictures fall off.
I know not everybody does that. That's actually one of the reasons I think adding a "picture uploaded" timestamp would be very helpful in determining the likelihood of a couple being deceitful.
But they look so much younger! Ask anyone... eyeroll
It's happened to us as well. We actually received an email from someone who told us his age on his profile wasn't right.
Do you keep you profile updated with current age and pictures or are you still 40 years old with 18 year of experience since 2001.
It is hard to understand why active members don't bother to update their profile with correct age, weight and current pictures.
You think you are contacting a 40 year old and you walk into the meet and greet and see a 58 year old friendly couple who does not even look like the pictures in profile.
If you spend time contacting people please spend a minute making your profile true.

