I need Help with my profile

Fort Payne, AL, Us

I'm with Velma on this one - I have no idea if you are a single male or a couple.

There's not enough content in your profile to give any reasonable advice.

~Phoebert's Wife

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

I agree with others that your profile is a big red flag. The fact that you have a SM profile with a picture of a couple, and a profile so sparse after being on SLS for about 4 years comes across as fake/flake. I apologize if that is not the case, but I hope you can see why it would look that way to many.

If you are actually a couple, fixing/addressing that would help a lot, as would at least taking a stab at filling in some content. For example, are you looking for FWBs, soft/full swap, same/separate room play, do you have any experience either individually or as a couple. There's more, but sometimes people ask for help, make no changes then disappear. The ones that do this tend to have very minimal profiles and even your request for help was just 2 words.

Virginia Beach, VA, Us

There’s a couple of issues and red flags.

I don’t know if you are married, single or if your actual age is 26.

You’ve been on since 2015 and don’t have a single very, so I don’t know if your age is still 25 or you are actually 29 or what.

The lack of pictures and the confusing couples picture on a single male profile are enough to pass you on by.

I’m also not convinced the picture is actually you. I have a hard time believing that a man of 26 or 29 would have that much male pattern baldness already.

This is the culinary equivalent of someone dropping a half frozen fish stick in front of Gordon Ramsey and saying “Fix it.”

Figure out exactly what you are first, then we can help.

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Hi. The critiques here are generally quite blunt. They might even feel mean. The purpose though is to help you find what you're looking for.

It's probably easier to just create a new, free couple'sprofile and then contact customer service to move the billing over.

You need a short tagline, clever or inviting is best. Looking For is about the people you're looking for and then what sort of interaction you want (friends with benefits, one time only, whatever). Don't use the word "we" much at all here. This section focuses on others.

Give enough information in Description of the vanilla sort that people are interested in knowing more.

Fantasies is currently not terrible, but maybe a little less puppy like enthusiasm.

Don't leave sections blank and do end on a high note.

More photos would help too, maybe without wedding flowers. Go looking for Velma's advice.

Good luck. Come back when you have more content.

HollyBlueVeteran
Bangkok Noi, Th

The pic you all have is decent. However, the glaring problem you have is that you have a single male profile. Fix that first and then get a few more pics of the two of you. Filling out your profile is needed as well. You haven't really given much information to go on at all. Try and shoot for a short paragraph that follows each subject heading.

Miami, FL

Anything helps.