The answers to the post MFM vs MFF got me thinking.
Do you believe there is ever a point where it is not that she is not comfortable, it is abuse. She is intentionally saying no for control and punishment?
I had a female FWB. She was very comfortable with the lifestyle. MFM, MFF,FF, group, singles, couples. But she would never let me be Involved in anything. She would tell me what she did and show me the video. She kept saying she was going to share the lifestyle with me. She wanted to go from FWB to a relationship. I said I would not consider a relationship where I sat at home all night watching TV with the cats while she was at an orgy. After 5 years I asked why not and she said because she fell in love with me. Whatever that means. I guess she can only have threesomes with guys she hates.
So,my question is, where do you draw the line between the guy should wait until she is comfortable and she is abusive and he should leave?
I can understand her not wanting me to have a MFF, but I can not understand not being able to meet me halfway and give me something. Even just watching.
How can you be so comfortable with everything in the lifestyle, but you can't share any part of it with the man you love?