My wife so loves men, male attention and the peacock dance they do trying to get her in bed, that she refused to move in with me way back before we got married unless I agreed to an open relationship and later open marriage.
Its the woman who gets to have her prefect life with an open marriage. She gets the best of both worlds. The excitement of being worshipped by men and the comfort and security of a happy nest and living with the man she loves.
Just tell your wife that you want her happy and that with an open marriage its exciting to hear who what and where. Her fun becomes fun for the both of you as you share her excitement and fun she is having.
The one rule we have is that family and playing as a couple comes first. Only when nothing else is planned is it ok for my wife to go out with another man.
Over the 28 years we have been together she has become so picky with the men she will see that its become a few times a year thing for her. Once in a while she meets that apex alpha nice man who she get all excited about and they have an hot affair for a few months. Its the new that is exciting for her, so the affair ends after the new is gone. Only a couple of relationships have lasted over the years. Only one that is really still hot and heavy. That is a man from college that she loved having in bed but could not live with. They see each other once a year at her conference. He lives in Chicago and we live in Vegas.
One of the benefits for me is that she feels guilty that she has so much more fun them me, Men loved to be used for their bodies. Women tend to want relationships. When one of her women friends at the gym gets divorced they sometimes want a man in their bed for sex and then to leave and go home. My wife volunteers my body for these women's pleasure!
We are both having a fun life together. When a wife has a happy nest with a man that she loves and can be worshipped by other men once in a white she is a very happy wife indeed.
