What Does Watch/Soft/Full Really Mean

Those settings are how others identify you as the real deal, or bullshit.

Yeah. The forums have been a little boring lately.

Like a lot of things, it means exactly what they think it means, which obviously did not mean the same thing you thought it meant...

That definitely sounds like a bait and switch. I’m assuming that earlier on in your communications you let them know how new you are, and also informed them of your limits.

My wife and I are relatively new to the LS (two encounters), and one of the couples had watch/soft/full on their profile. Being naive I guess we assumed that this couple were open to all levels of play. Come to find out, after an awkward moment, we discovered that they were a full play only couple with the expectation that if they were not naked and in bed with the other couple's spouse within an hour that it was a wasted evening. We really got along well with this couple until their expectation became known. A real bummer to say the least. Anyway, what does watch/soft/full really mean? I see profiles with just full play noted so that's obvious. I feel like a victim of the ol' bait and switch.