Just Wondering

That's REALLY nice.

It's nice to be nice to the nice.

Everybody else can just....

Nope. Not gonna say it. It wouldn't be nice and being from Minnesota, we kinda have a reputation we're supposed to live up to.

What Molly just said!

VVVVVVVVVVV

What hotluvrs said.

I'm not talking about the kind of nice that self-described nice guys exhibit, which is mostly whiny entitlement covered by a veneer of a few social graces. I'm talking about generous, essentially sweet and thoughtful people whose intellect might or might not set the world on fire but who are a pleasure to spend time with.

Nice = “It’s the beige of adjectives”

I disagree. When I say someone is nice I think they are kind, attentive, considerate, friendly. That’s not beige. That’s bright sunny yellow, and makes me happy.

“ But, yeah, nice also is attractive.”

Define nice? I think it’s a social behavior and flail that people chastise you with.

It’s the beige of adjectives.

“ I know that he was extremely intelligent because that is what he frequently told us.

I wonder WHY he needed to tell you? It should be self evident.

Truly wealthy people rarely need to insist that they can pay for something.

Good people will show you their value instead of telling you.

Yes?

Really, I just want any partner to be fun and enjoyable to be around. That can come from a lot of places.

I find smart people to be more interesting, but I think I'm attracted to a narrower lane than just smart. I want that spark where you can understand each other's jokes, or you could if you told each other jokes instead of fucking. That spark might be an interest in others, now that I think of it. Blowhards, regardless of raw brain power, are going to bore me as easily as the really, really not smart.

But, yeah, nice also is attractive.

"Nice trumps smart every time."

I tend to agree with you.

I do seem to recall one extremely intelligent person who used to post frequently on the fora. I’m pretty sure my wife and I wouldn’t be able to stand being in the same room as him, naked or otherwise.

I know that he was extremely intelligent because that is what he frequently told us.

Nice trumps smart every time.

"Smart people are better in bed. Do you want enthusiasm or a starfish?"

We (the wife and I) have both experienced intelligence being poorly correlated with sexual chemistry. One of the Mrs fave dude is (her words) dumber than a box of rocks. I'd have to agree- the guy is an idiot. But he's a nice guy and the Mrs likes having sex with him.

Likewise, I've had girls - even repeat business - that were definitely not so smart. But I still enjoyed their company both sexual and otherwise.

That's not to say we don't enjoy the company of more intelligent people, and we've had some great long-term friends who were definitely brighter than the average bulb. It's just not a major factor if our principle interest is sex and they don't act like idiots.

So, if you wipe your butt with the word of the day, can you quote the raven and say "nevermore?"

"This is better than the Word of the Day toilet paper my kids gave me for Christmas!"

So now you are a smart ass?

Not that you weren't before...

Rakish… This is better than the Word of the Day toilet paper my kids gave me for Christmas!

BT

Some pervs are appealing. Rakish.

I was aiming for the Gentlemanly Perv moniker.
Silly me.

They say that iPhone 17 will cum with Perv Autocorrection. Which also happens to be a great name for a rock band.

BT

Just wondering; were they the whitest teeth you’d ever come upon?

I suspect the next to last word is misspelled.

Just wondering; were they the whitest teeth you’d ever come upon?

BT

(Sheepishly ducking)

Well Metro twin did have extremely white teeth but he drank HOT coffee through a straw?!

I was working 3 jobs and eating ephedra tabs like candy, while he was silver spoon with a mother living in Trump Park Place.

Although he did loan me a Range Rover for a week…

Different strokes and all that…

Just wondering if Bing Crosby and Louie Prima are rolling over in their graves?

BT

I have twin nephews and they are white collar workers with wives and kids, but they are faaaaaaaaaaar from metrosexual.

A metrosexual... Definitely someone that has an infuriority complex!

:-P

Try to talk*

There is a competing site where you are asked to answer "Looks are important" and "Intelligence is important" with a Yes/No/Medium.
Here's the JW: Does a No/No mean "we don't care how stupid and fugly you are"?

Would appear so. Looks are medium intelligence is very.

Smart people are better in bed. Do you want enthusiasm or a starfish?

I went out with an identical twin. He was very metrosexual. He would call and try to teeth whitening trays in, would stare at himself in every reflective surface.
I couldn’t control myself. I would say things to see how fast he would run to a mirror.

“Rob, i think the wax tech took too much off the left eyebrow.

& Have you ever noticed that your biceps don’t match? “

I ended up fooling around with the non metro identical twin. Steamy : )

Metro twin was too plastered to a mirror to have sex.

Melvin, I can’t help you because we didn’t study rhetoricals in school…or I was out that day.

JW: if poon tang is slang for vagina, is poo tang slang for what I think it is?

BT

“You keep using that word, but I don’t think it means what you think it means.”

Just wondering....

Does the meaning of the phrase "you're only as young as you feel," apply to the notions of not feeling dumb, stupid, ugly, fugly, etc? That's a philosophical, rhetorical question... ;-)