I am surprised there isn't a group in your area that can provide exactly what you/she seeks. Have you searched for GB groups nearby?
Multiple Guys Fantasy
We - well, she - is talking her first GB and we are also wondering how to go about it. She has loved mfm with me being one of m and occassionaly two other guys with her while I watched and now want to expand on it. We have discussed bringing together previous partners but she is thinking she wants to hold them out as separate fun playmates she enjoys individually. We have posted on profile suggesting someone set it up with their male friends. Problem is she is fit and athletic and, like a previous post here, she only wants the same. Several decent responses so far but we havent taken the plunge.
Please do, sounds like a HOT fantasy. Wish I were invited to that party! Hmmmm....can you say wedding crasher???
Nic, you are completely right and I appreciate the concern. However there is absolutely NO way in the universe that I would subject my wife to the possibility of anything like that! I am actually a bit overprotective... All of the guys (3-4 currently) are members of the wedding party and long time friends of each other. It is almost (but not quite) the stereotypical "Bachelor Party" fantasy. This "party" will be a few nights before the wedding, just based on scheduling concerns. Besides, it has been my experience that bachelor parties should NEVER be the night before the big event! Anyway, I will let you know how things go!
Just one question qwerty, does this guy know all of the guys he is setting up for the GB or is he planning on posting a Hot Date and see who shows up? Since he is coming to town for a wedding it is doubtful he personally knows several single males in your area well enough to have vetted them. You may want to consider checking into a local group who has met and can vouch for the guys before inviting them to fuck your wife. "Cattle calls" can be a disappointing and sometimes dangerous way to arrange a GB.
1313-----------Can't wait to hear how the wife liked her GB.
In our profile i mentioned that one of my fantasies is to watch Mrs. Q as the "center of attention" for several guys. We recently received an e-mail from a young man who is going to be in town for a friend's wedding and offering top set up a gangbang with 3 or 4 twenty-somethings for her. Well, I was absolutely shocked when she expressed a serious interest in the proposal! The arrangements are being made for about three weeks from now, and I will hopefully be posting good news about the adventure soon afterward...
lol funny you should mention number of guys, Trooper and I were talking about this again the other day, and our numbers are a bit at odds!
I've hosted a number of "private parties" with a number of different guys and different combinations and all have been respectful and shared nicely. Obviously it all depends on the guys and my group has several who play well together.
All makes a lot of sense! We are trying to build our "little black book" then get some of those guys together, but populating the black book is not proving easy lol.
The couple of guys we have met have been fantastic, sadly one is in another country lol. But they are vastly outnumbered by the rest we have come accross who think they are doing US a favour lol.
"shmeckel" What a cool word, I will be using that! :-)
"BTW, I don't think it is necessary to have guys who have participated in GBs together so much as guys who have performed in a group setting be it at a club or house party."
Agreed to an extent. My biggest concern is that the dudes are all kind of familiar with each other and comfortable whipping their wangs out in front of a bunch of dudes and 1 chick. And there's a certain flow or rhythm to a gangbang. Need to make sure that the guys understand it's all about her and not them. Don't want them fighting over each other to get at her like wild dogs on a carcass. Everyone gets a turn.
T
" make sure everything is kosher.
HUH! You make them whip out their shmeckel and provide proof that they're not sporting a turtle neck!? ;)"
Yeah, we're not really interested in bottles that still have the cap on.
T
"That said, no matter how exhausting the search is, we will eventually get this done. Hopefully sooner than later."
Happy to help. ;^D
BTW, I don't think it is necessary to have guys who have participated in GBs together so much as guys who have performed in a group setting be it at a club or house party.
- make sure everything is kosher. *
HUH! You make them whip out their shmeckel and provide proof that they're not sporting a turtle neck!? ;)
I know not everyone has the same issue finding SM's that I do that is why I said in my world. The ones I have met have really turned out to be wonderful, I just find it hard to find ones I even want to meet up with.
PG
The logistics of coordinating a gang bang are daunting unless you already happen to know a group of guys who "perform together" to gang bang women.
But if you're just trying to find 5 or 6 random dudes, that is exhausting. We'd prefer to meet each one individually to make sure everything is kosher. Then we'd also like to have a "group meeting" to make sure that the dudes are all comfortable around each other. Just throwing a bunch of strangers together who have never met for the purpose of banging out Miss Cpl just doesn't seem like a great idea.
That said, no matter how exhausting the search is, we will eventually get this done. Hopefully sooner than later.
T
In your world, yes. Not in mine.
While I'd never make a claim that any particular demographic is hard to find, single females based on what others are saying are hard to find (not in our experience, we actually hide our profile from single females because we're not interested, and when we rejected the last one, she went ballistic on us). Single males, at least for us, has never been a problem. In our entire time of swinging on SLS we had a problem with TWO, that's right TWO single males. One was young, nervous and got wasted in no time. The second one, would lose his erection while with me, but whenever would get near hubby, his dick would spring to life! Eventually he admitted to being bi (which he concealed initially).
We have no problems at all with single males, at any given moment I can either pick up the phone and makes arrangements, or meet someone new.
Perhaps there might be a problem with getting many guys for a gang bang. I wouldn't know about that, gang bangs is not my thing, I prefer a smaller, more intimate experience.
Well then I like it in your world.
;-D
In my world? Yes.
PG..............does that make the "good" SM the new unicorn? lmao
" Once established, a good SM is a damn good find for most couples."
yes and hard to find and hard to keep. I get amused at those that say that SM's are a dime a dozen. Well there might be large quantities out there but finding the good ones is just about as hard and as frustrating of a search as for a Bi-female. Trying to find multiple? Yeah right. Although my husband teases me about my SM friends in truth they span several states (only one is local, and inaccessible 99% of the time) and even they sort of come and go.
PG
UK, sadly, this is very true. The last GB I attended, there were 15 SM's invited. Of which 12 responded that they would be in attendence. Only 2 other guys showed up. Yes, we still had a nice evening with a gorgeous woman, but it just spoke volumes for the integrity of some of the SM's on the site. They give good guys a bad rap. But us guys who actually do show up need to understand that there is a lot to overcome as a SM and take it in stride. Once established, a good SM is a damn good find for most couples.
This is something we have tried to get of the ground a couple of times, and sadly failed. Seems to be a common thing that good, decent and genuine guys are hard to find, and even harder to get to turn up.
If there are some nice genuine guys from the Phoenix AZ area, hit us up, we are actively trying to expand our black book :-)
Well, hell, spread the wealth. I'd be happy to join in.
;-D
I have done this a few times and it is always satisfying. Sometimes I have the same people come over. They get to know each other pretty well and that seems to add to the excitement. Sometimes I screw one while sucking to another one and a couple of them start jacking off until it is their turn, or will decided to stand on either side of my face and jack off into my mouth which is always a real turn on. Anal is great too.

