I can't see any SM having performance issues with Mrs. Lonjo in attendance, but still very sound advice.
Multiple Guys Fantasy
LMK....LonJo :)
Here in Mi we've found some good luck with single guys. We've had a few GB's with different levels of success. One good rule to follow is invite more than you think or want because at least one will always cancel. In the event they all show well than hang on honey!!! Another successful method is to set up a GB with another couple. On a few occasions we've had a GB with another couple and invited 10 guys. This way the guys are usually attracted to at least one of the girls and there are enough guys even if more than one has performance issues. Just our 2 cents.
1 of our fantasies is 2 BBC's.
Patty,
Wishing you the best in fulfilling your wish list! Or maybe it is a 'fuckit' list rather than a bucket list.
No matter what one calls it, best of luck!
Sophia
Wifey and I both would love to set up a scenario with multiple guys taking her at the same time. She finds it exciting acting the little slut for them all prided hubby is directing the action.
Okay, so I am reading the posts and see this great suggestion to check out local gang bang clubs/groups. So I head over to the groups page and start checking what is in our local area. There is a gang bang group for those serious in gang bangs. So far so good. Sadly, they have been a bit inactive since 2009.
So I check further into the group list and widen my area to search in.......
Well, let's just say, this is gonna take a while to find one near me as there doesn't appear to be many and those that are close by are not 'active' ones.
Guess it will remain a fantasy for quite some time,
Sophia
I don't believe that word has actually ever come out of my mouth, but if a girl really wanted to hear it, I'd oblige. Ms. TWH does consider slut a term of endearment. Getting back to the original topic, and to clarify what I was trying to say before, I tend to be a bit apprehensive about setting up a gangbang for her whenever there are couples present, for the reasons I've given, although the club group room massage table scenario is one of my biggest fantasies right now.
Sed,
But we might be at some point. Good to know that I don't have to curb my language.
Mario,
We're not fucking intensely ;)... The last time I was called a cunt was last week. While in a missionary position, he filled his hand with my hair and hissed: "open your eyes, cunt!"
Mr B has been calling me his little whore, and while relatively tame, is not a part of his normal makeup to call ANYONE anything naughty, which makes it naughtier! It'd be like hearing your grandma cuss up a storm!
Omg, you're such a cunt, Sed (said with the utmost affection).
Roflmao
That's why I am not the other women, I am me.
Slut is so frufru! ;)
There is nothing wrong with calling a woman a slut during amorous activities.....especially in this lifestyle. Kinda a badge of honor.
Sed.......cunt? I think many women might find that way more offensive than slut.
This thread has gotten way off track.
i have a fantasie of trying OMG it would have to be a turn on
I have fantasized about multiple guys , but I guess you were asking the women, huh?
Personally, during an intense fuck session, I prefer cunt to slut. Slut is just beige. Like a geek whose trying to be cool by using hot 'jargon'.
I call Miss Cpl a slut all the time and it's like a badge of honor to her. Nothing wrong at all with loving the wang and being proud of it.
T
I don't see anything wrong with it at all! All in good fun!
"In my world though...slut is a term of endearment"
Well said, Slutty McSlutsalot. ;-)
T
Women will always be the ones branded by derogatory names. It is unfortunately the way things have been and probably will continue to be. I often wince when I hear my vanilla friends refer to single women who openly enjoy sex as "whore" or "slut" or "bitch". I am horrified however, when I hear people who claim to be sexually open refer to women as such. But I have, more than once. I myself am admittedly a sexual snob to a degree. However, if a woman chooses to fuck a football team...so long as it is all consentually done amongst adults...then fuck on. But many swingers have very puritanical views. "Open" is a very relative term to what THEY find open haha. Like Gina said, if being who you are makes you a slut...then slut I am. In my world though...slut is a term of endearment :0).
<--- we don't judge ;-)
I have a feeling when I'm let loose, I may be branded a slut... Lol
The TWHs have a standing invitation to any party I host. She is what I like to call a "Party Starter". And no one was offended how we started my last party off. I still get comments about that party.
;^D
Here's an example: Several years ago I was at our local club with a somewhat younger lady. We had agreed to meet another couple there who were interested in us. After connecting with them upon our arrival, they started mingling a bit throughout the room, so we set out to entertain ourselves for awhile.
My date loved massages, so she wanted to check out the massage table in the "group" room. I warned her that she might get lots of unwanted attention, but that I could sort of screen them for her. She thought it sounded great, so off came the clothes and onto the table she went. Sure enough, the single guys gathered around and as my date gave a nod of approval, I'd tell them to let their hands wander where they may. Needless to say, she was in bliss. One of the guys was an older gentleman with a slightly deformed hand. He was really enjoying exploring her body, and she was enjoying providing the treat. The couple we were there to meet never did show any more interest in us, other than to comment that, "I can't believe you let 'The Claw' touch you." So what we learned was, if others don't approve of your behavior, whatever it may be, you might get yourselves shunned.
Fast forward a few years and I'm at a house party with Ms. TWH. Things were going slow, so after 2 hours she finally decided to be the first one to get out of her clothes. Two men assisted her, one being the host. A guest couple jumped in and helped them all to feast on her, while the other guests continued to sip their drinks and talk television and politics. We later were told that some of the guests were offended by Ms. TWH's behavior in front of everyone. Since then, we've noticed at other parties that if you appear to have too many partners throughout the course of an evening, you may alienate yourself from other guests.
Bottom line, I've found that this lifestyle certainly has its share of judgmental participants, and you can definitely see it from time to time in the fora here.

