They work very well for me on a late notice. I will put a hot date for a Friday night Friday morning at about seven out of 10 times I’ll find someone that’s suitable. I think the biggest thing is communicating what you’re looking for with as much detail as possible when where why what you’re expecting.
It's weird. Hot dates seem to have worked pretty well on travel or vacation. but they have been lackluster around home.
When I read a hot date I expect it to say what they are, or are not looking for.
As long as you say DTF or looking to connect with no expectations, I do not care and do not expect anything that you didn't list.
I do not think they are intended for only DTF. I think they are more for traveling or attending an event. You can say you are going to a concert in another state or in your city and would like to meet people that are going for dinner before the concert or you can say you are looking for someone to fuck in the parking lot before the concert.
First one would be no expectations, second is DTF.
When we post a hot date it means we are looking to play that day or night.
We'll post a Hot Date when we are looking to play while traveling, or signed upon for an event. Our hope is that we can exchange a couple of messages and unlocked galleries as a bit of foreplay before the time of the Hot Date just to to meet and (hopefully) build some anticipation.
When we post a hotdate we are looking for a man to fuck her
We try to post on HD when we know there will be time to meet someone new. It has worked a few times. A few times we chatted with someone a while and set up a different meet.
Hotdates are hit or miss, we post one when we have the time and looking for an day of adult fun, especially when traveling but they don't always workout which is frustrating but it happens
We have busy crazy schedules and post on hotdate every time we have the opportunity for a night of playing. We have had no success and we know it’s our destination but we still try.
Personally, we only post hot dates when we're traveling and definitely DTF.
Just make sure you word your hot date so people know what you are looking (or not looking) for.
Communication is key to not wasting an evening. God knows we've wasted our share.
Speaking for ourselves, we're always so busy these days that if we do have time to play, we'd rather meet with a couple that is at least onboard with that as an option rather than someone that needs to meet 2 or 3 times first. If someone lived very close and they wanted to come to us, that's an option, but given a choice of plans, that will take a backseat to someone more willing to play.
Perhaps that sounds harsh, but it is the main reason we're even on a site like this. As people likely know already, we'll almost always choose a party over just meeting a couple, for this very reason.
When we've posted a Hot Date we're looking to play provided that everyone is on board after meeting for a drink and/or bite to eat. There is never a guarantee there will be play.
Be specific in what you are looking for
Thong2hot - Whoever told you that about Hot Dates was wrong. As Funly said, they are what YOU want them to be.
I can see someone thinking that's what Hot Dates are for though, considering the purpose of the site. I agree with Funly that it never hurts to be specific about what you're looking to do. Less likely to waste your time and somebody else's that way.
They are wrong, if that is not what you want
Fun, we normally say dancing and drinks but people have told us that putting a hot date up means your are DTF
Be specific when you post your hot date. If you want dinner and drinks say so. If you want to meet and fuck say that too.
When someone puts a hot date up, what does that mean? When we put one up, we are looking to connect with sexy, lifestyle people with no expectations. We've been told that posting a hot date means you are just DTF. Thoughts?
