New to Swing

The profile disconnects aside, its only sex and should be fun. For my wife’s first mfm experience she was nervous the week before. We went to dinner with the guy and developed a go no go signal before we left the house. She settled down at dinner, gave me the go sign and we had a really cool time. The other guy and I pleasured her for a couple hours and she thoroughly enjoyed the experience. Remember, it’s only sex, supposed to be fun and the more often you do it, the better it gets.

And since I also failed to answer the OP's question, I would say "maybe, but if it seems hot to you it probably will be".

My first number of MFM experiences were with other men's partners and were totally comfortable. It was always previously (my whole adult life) a fantasy to see my own partner fucked by another man. In practice, it turns out I really enjoy it. My advice is, talk it over, give each other blanket approval to experience it without guilt, and promise that you will share how it felt honestly afterwards. You may find that you want to try it a second or third time, as you will likely find that not all experiences are equally comfortable and enjoyable. It can at the least be a great personal and relationship growth experience as long as you keep the lines of communication open.

Also, if it's not clear, a lot of people found it weird that you posted under a non gender correct profile without explaining yourself. Welcome to the lifestyle.

From my perspective there are some pretty broad generalizations being offered here. We've met quite a number of couples whose long term preference is MFM and it seems to work for them. We've met a number of couples who insisted on playing only with couples but where one half was so focused on their partner as to be unable to relax and enjoy themselves. Our impression was that they would have more fun in a threesome structure (typically in the cases that come to mind, MFM). We have also met a few couples, all newer to play, who are only interested in FMF play. With two of these it seemed to work well for them as the woman was extremely bi (as is my GF) didn't seem to lack any balance. While this seemed understandably enjoyable, given the universal "unicorn" shortage, our attitude, to be honest was: "good luck with that".

I would add that the OP's question did not mention concerns about reciprocity.

Who knows, maybe one day you’ll actually come across a couple that is perfectly fine with it. It’s an eye opener to judging what one thinks they know about another couple in the crowd.

~Allen

"There are plenty of couples who are perfectly fine with only MFM or FMF without resentment."

That may well be. We have just never come across any in our travels where both were healthy and capable and this sort of arrangement has lasted, other than perhaps a cuckold arrangement. Even some of those result in resentment.

What we do see and/or hear about more commonly is one is a giver and the other a taker, and the giver thinks their turn will come some day and it doesn't.

There are plenty of couples who are perfectly fine with only MFM or FMF without resentment.

Resentment can happen when someone has an expectation or desire unknown and/or unaddressed to their spouse.

~Allen

Open - Hopefully there are plans to reciprocate (i.e. MFM), otherwise the FMF only thing may get kind of old after a while and I can see someone resenting that over time, even if you do enjoy playing with girls.

So my husband and I had a threesome for the first time and I felt exactly like you did. But honestly it was fine. I knew my husband loves me and I liked seeing him pleasured by someone that wasnt me.

it's true. you really won't know how you feel until you actually do it. just remember that it's just sex, and your girlfriend loves YOU, not the other guy. enjoy watching her enjoy herself.

The question being asked is the reason more experienced people don't want to play with newbies. You literally won't know for sure until you try. People can tell you how they felt, but that has no bearing on how you will feel.

He does say she has swinging experience. So it's not completely unfathomable that he's using her profile to ask questions.

OP, you won't know for sure until it happens. If you like to,read, there are a lot of books and articles you might fins helpful, but they can't substitute for the actual events.

Boy am I confused... It's a single female profile posting, but sounds like it's written from a guy's point of view

more awkward is its a guy posting as a girl lol

The first time for me was at first then just turned me on. After that we became friends and it was normal after that...

it is awkward you profile is closed to cpls

Hi I am new to swinging but my fiancé is not. I am very interested and want to share this experience with her. Question will it be awkward first time? I mean seeing her with another guy. Thanks for any first time advice