One of the issues you are running into, without knowing it, is the line about the husband watching and joining as he pleases. You have summarily lumped yourself into a bull category and not necessarily straightforward mfm. If indeed you are a third wheel then rewrite the profile and just essentially sell yourself as an accessory... Well not quite that, but, communicate that you are looking to play the role of assistant, extra spice, etc. Increase your curbside appeal by looking for all couples and not just the small percentage that you have alluded to probably unawares. As mentioned, it is hard work to connect. You have some good pics. However, burn anything that smells like a bathroom selfie. Use the timer on your camera app and get some decent shirtless or full body shots in addition to some of the decent ones you have. You can do well in the Louisville area just be patient and do a little more heavy lifting on your profile. Post in the better profiles section and use the advice given.
