What fraunhubby said. And I still ask if they're married when we meet if there's any doubt - or carry the karmic burden forever if I've assumed based on evidence - which is one of the many reasons I usually default to married and playing solo with verifiable permission.
Fantastic Fran.. great list!
No face photos, cannot host ever even if divorced and wife has kids, very vague on their life once you get to know him... you have done fine so far just use all the tools available these days... as they tell volumes!
We came across 3 guys just this last year who all had single profiles on SLS.. and when Kathy went to meet them admitted they were married after she flat out asked them with excuses on hosting and overnight play..
A cheater, liars is not something we allow in our bedroom along with jerks singles or couples
We had our first MFM experience with the male half of a couple we play with, and it was awesome! Since then, we've opened up our profile to single males in hopes of finding a quality male to join us. We've been bombarded with messages, which we expected, and have communicated with a few. We are finding that there are a large number of men on here that are married and their spouse is unaware. We appreciate when they're honest about it, but we've decided that we have no interest in being part of that situation for a number of reasons. So our question is, other that the usual red flags like can only play during the day, or can't host, what are other red flags that have tipped you off to the guy being married?
Also, we understand that other people don't care about this, and that's fine. We do and that's why we wanted to ask.
