W e also have this problem, but I'm sure its mainly b/c we can't get out as often as we'd like. When we go to clubs we tend to be a bit shy due to feeling like everyone is ONLY interested in full swap. We are not ready for that yet so usually just get really worked up then go home to fick eachother. Lol. Wifey is dying for another girl!!!!!!!!!!!
I can read your profile and, no, it isn't doing you any favors. Plus a lot of us avoid unicorn hunters as a matter of course.
Maybe go read some of the threads in Better Profiles, but your best bet is clubs and parties. You'll find more women there, either single or playing separately.
Part of the problem is absolutely your profile. You best bet of finding a single females is the fem half of a couple that sometimes plays alone. You’ll never find one online if they can’t view your profile.
~rabbit~
Hello missbeachlvr19 hard to determine if its related to your profile as you have couples blocked??
We're also in the "struggle" war of finding that sexy unicorn. Is it our profile or what? What do we need to change or add, thank you for all the tips
It is easier to find a single female on the site or at parties?
It is easier to find a single female on the site or at parties?
Generally, "unicorn" is a term used by others. There are actually a lot of single women or women who play solo in the lifestyle, but very few are on line. For those that are, your profile doesn't offer much that would appeal to us. It can feel a bit like a cage match to start a thread in the Better Profiles forum, but you could also just read some of the threads there and get ideas about improving your approach. Either one would help.
In the meantime, you could improve things immeasurably by cutting your photos down to ten or less.
Well they are called unicorns for a reason... One issue you all may have is that your profile sounds like you are asking for a big commitment out of a unicorn. A lot of people in the LS like to have a little separation between their vanilla and LS lives. That doesn't mean you won't vacation together, etc. You may want to reword things saying that you are primarily looking for fwb's. Some really odd relationship dynamics can take place with what it sounds like what you all are asking for. We know many singles who try and avoid those things. If you really aren't looking for a poly set up then try and reword things a bit and if you are then go ahead and phrase it that way.
Go to places where you may find more couples and unicorns. Get to as many clubs and parties as you can.
Your pictures are also a cause for concern. You cover too much time with them. Cull them out and just use ones that are recent. Is he going to meet clean shaven, 5 oclock shadow, or will your hair be pink or brown? You all have some good pics. Just limit them down to recent ones that are representative of what you will look like when/ if you meet someone.
“We seem to be having the hardest time finding another female to have a 3-some with.”
Maybe you’re not holding your mouth right. Wait, I think that may be advice when fishing for trout.
Welcome to the forums!
~Allen
