How do couples feel about going bare and cream?

Definitely bareback.

No, this takes some extreme assurances from the other person. We are very intelligent and perceptive, and you can get a good sense of people by their appearance, the way they conduct themselves, their manners, and certainly the way they dress. Men who take care of themselves their bodies and their general appearance is a good indication that bareback will be acceptable. One minor thing that we look at is fingernails. If their fingernails are well, captain groomed, they were great candidate for bareback sex.

My wife enjoys the feel of a man cuming inside of her, and if he feels like taking it out of her pussy and putting it in her mouth, she doesn’t have the awkwardness of a condom to deal with. Also, sometimes men when they’re getting ready to finish, choose to put it in my wife’s mouth because she does enjoy swallowing as well.

I will also suck his cock if he wants and knowing that it’s bareback is always fun and exciting for both of us. I’m perfectly comfortable with another man’s cum, as well.

I got spoiled early on with a married woman who wanted me bareback, and it's been amazing.... ever since! I've found the older I get and along this SLS journey, the right connection is always bareback. Gotta have like, trust and respect.... but yeah, bareback is the way.

I played regularly with my female boss and her bf, was always bare. That’s what she preferred, she loved us coming in her holes.

After about a year in lifestyle, we opted to go for the full experience. This had the effect,of choosing our parters with even greater scrutiny and placing greater emphasis on timing. This has had the effect of making our meets with others significantly more satisfying

Absolutely prefer bare. Always have. I'll allow a man to use condom if he protests, but I absolutely prefer bare & filled with a man's cum. There's nothing better than feeling that throb & feeling a mans cum fill me up inside!! ;-)

We wrap it up by default.
Exceptions to be made on a case by case basis.

I love sliding into a cum filled pussy, so warm and slippery. Nothing better!!!

We met a very nice couple recently. We chatted, talked about our history and all decided on going bare. We all had so much fun. It had been a long time since all 4 of had done bare back.

I think it demonstrates that, speaking for myself, the optimal enjoyment of sex links the physical with the psychological. It definitely feels better for me without condoms. And the freedom of going bare results in heavier and more explosive deposits of semen due to a heightened thrill mentally.

And, it's true that, in my opportunities with older women and risk of pregnancy was off the table, that added freedom redoubled the pleasure of the experience.

When we play its always bare. When we first started we played one time using rubbers but never did again. We are both very healthy.

we definitely prefer bare. she feels cheated if she doesnt feel a man fill her and i have always liked the feel of seconds

its hot to watch the clean up after a good creampie or two

Love when a lady we play with likes bareback. I love doing the clean up

I certainly didn't. I simply asked the questions.

We are usually open to it, but every one has to be comfortable with it

Who said it was about you? Or any one person?

Was it something I said?

Or something you read?

rememeber when the forums were fun?

I said Oral Sex.

“ That doesn't make a lick of sense. Clearly, lots of folks are uneducated about STDs and how they may be transmitted”

I disagree.

We consider ourselves to be reasonably educated about STD transmission, and we use condoms for coitus.

Your decisions are simply different than ours.
I wouldn’t be so bold to call you uneducated.

It is off-topic, but it's also a very valid point. So many couples who are strict about condom use are still eager to engage in oral sex. That doesn't make a lick of sense. Clearly, lots of folks are uneducated about STDs and how they may be transmitted. They think condoms are the default solution. Wrong.

nbeond- Good perspective. In terms of "safety", we think everyone has a slightly different take. We do know that talking safety is one of the safest things you can engage in within the LS. Good communication and honesty are really your best prevention, we think. Proof of recent test results. Even with condoms you can get things like Herps. And few people take prophylactic measures for oral. Having sex at all is a risk. Especially when communication and honesty haven't been established to minimize the myriad of potential surprises. But that's not what this thread is about. Sorry for getting us off subject.

We love foreplay, making out, sensual exploration and of course intercourse. But with our LS friends we use condoms for intercourse. Old school...maybe and yes I think that alot of "older" couples may have switched to bare its just comfortable, easier and naughtier. Now some guys may have ED and a plethora of other circumstances that "prevent" them from using condoms and its a deal breaker for them, fine. We have been playing together on SLS for 20 years now without as much as catching a cold. BUT we know that alot of folks that go bare on here can still say the same. Plus my wife needs the extra lube for penetration now. We also lost a favorite playpal recently because he caught a STI and dropped out of the LS and SLS and we all know what its like to miss a favorite playpal. SO, in conclusion we will play with condom users and for those who are still interested in us enough to enjoy the other things we bring and enjoy the other qualities we have. There is still hundreds of things and plenty of orgasms to be had even though we need wrapped penetrative sex.

" The average age for those who prefer bare and creampies seems to be quite a bit higher than the average age of those who do not. We hadn't even noticed that before, but seems to check out. "

That is actually something I have always noticed all the times it comes up here in the different threads and sub forums.

This isn't meant to offend anyone, just an observation we saw posted in a similar discussion on another site. The average age for those who prefer bare and creampies seems to be quite a bit higher than the average age of those who do not. We hadn't even noticed that before, but seems to check out. Anyone can speculate as to why that is. Some of the theories provided in that discussion were combinations of lower to no pregnancy risk, more experience, fewer insecurities and inhibitions, etc. Anyway, just thought it was interesting.