Unlocking Attraction: Traits Women Love in Men

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Speaker1: good afternoon good evening wherever you are i hope you have blue skies welcome to that other lifestyle podcast i'm your host jason leave vanilla behind as we talk about men some more last week was thanksgiving in the usa so i took the week off if you didn't notice today i am back and deliver, as promised, part two of the traits women find attractive in men in the lifestyle. Warning, y'all, these may be shocking, titillating, or thrilling. If this is your first time hanging out with me, I thank you very much. Subscribe to the show, follow, like, drop a review, all that good stuff. I am getting close to hitting 50,000 downloads. You ever wonder why every host asks you to do all that stuff with the subscribing and the following and all that on every single video and podcast? I'm going to tell you the truth. Every host, influencer, and content creator out there, our digestive systems have evolved so we can only survive on audience engagement. 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You get that in the wrong place, a place with tender and delicate mucous membranes, like a vagina, and your fun, sexy night just turned into. Screaming. So yeah, if it's on the binnable list, it's something that I, me, Jason, think you could, think it'd be good for you and will not cause screaming, burning, vaginal pain. I hope. As promised last week, for the men out there, I want to share more traits that women find attractive. But you may ask Jason, where did this list come from? I got my sources, okay? I went to the internet for some of it, but for the rest, I went out to women and I asked. It's wild about that. You can just ask, like, hey, ladies, what do you find attractive about men? And they're going to tell you, and you need to listen. There's this disconnect between what the media makes men think women want versus what women actually want. Men tend to see all these traits through the lens of the physical, tangible, measurable, as in muscles or a snazzy car or dick size. The reason I see that happening is because of money. The media and the vanilla world want men to feel inadequate in the eyes of women, so then men spend money to make up for these inadequacies that the vanilla world convinces you have when really the qualities women want, they cannot be bought, they cannot be sold, but they can be cultivated. Take for instance, emotional intelligence. This is a big old umbrella term here. There are components of emotional intelligence. We're just going to show in this category. They all play together. They spend together. They interact well. And women can pick up on a man's emotional intelligence right quick. As soon as you open your mouth, they know. Women want men with high emotional intelligence, high EQ. So what falls under this category? Highness, empathy, the ability to connect, social awareness, and I'm going to throw into the list the ability to give pleasure as a bonus under this category. So come on, come on, we need to go talk about these. Women want a kind man, a man who gives other people spaces to exist around them, a man who opens doors for everyone, a man who holds the elevator for everyone. A man who puts the shopping cart back in the stall even if no one is watching. A man that hugs puppies and kittens. Kindness. They want a man that will be kind to them, not insult them even in a playful way. That's called negging, by the way, and we don't do that. Please don't fucking do that. In my men's flirting course, I have an e-book in there on why negging is the absolute worst. It makes you look really, really bad, and women don't like it. Risqué means slightly indecent or liable to shock, especially by being sexually suggestive. Risqué Lifestyle throws the premier lifestyle parties and takeovers in the southern USA that is slightly indecent, liable to shock, and very sexually suggestive. Risqué parties provide a safe, fun environment for new couples, experienced couples, and everyone in between. 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They want a man that is not out to hurt them physically, emotionally, mentally, which means a lot of the manipulation tactics taught by the vanilla pickup artist are not looked upon very favorably in the lifestyle. But what if you are so good at them that women don't even notice you're doing them? Some men may retort, to which I say, fuck you, all right? Don't do that to women or to anyone. In the lifestyle, we do not have to manipulate anyone. We are adults who can accept a rejection or a no. And y'all, it's weird how often safety came up in the discussions with my lady friends. For me as the husband, I know I want my wife to be safe with another man, whatever we're doing, as in I trust this man not to hurt or physically assault my wife. I want to know a man will respect my wife, but that's my male gaze being applied to this. For women, and I got their feedback on this, okay? That's safety. Feeling safe gets cranked up to 11. This is one of those times when we as men need to listen. We as men need to be the kind of guy that women feel safe with. Safe does not equate to being fuckable or sex in any way. Look, you want to be the kind of guy that another man feels safe and okay, leaving his wife in your care. If he needs to go to the bathroom at a party, for instance, you want to be the kind of guy that a woman can't feel safe being in a room alone with. You want to be the kind of guy that women know will not harm them, push himself up on them, or be too forward. And I've been rolling around in my head on practical advice on this one. And I got a blank mostly. I got a blank because this is basic human decency, y'all. Respect women. Respect all people. Understand that not every woman or person will want to have sex with you at all times or ever. Just be a good, decent person with no ulterior motive. And this ain't that hard. The only little tip I have, and this is for dudes, keep your hands to yourself. Unless a woman is completely and totally okay with you, you being grabby and touchy comes across very poorly. It ain't something I do. I've seen guys do it and I can read faces pretty pretty well. I don't think the ladies were digging it. I know there are guys, and I have seen this shit in action, who give women the creeps. They touch too much, too quickly, or they come on way too strongly. Don't do that, y'all. Remember, in lifestyle spaces, the goal is for women to feel comfortable and safe. Our role as men is to protect the lifestyle spaces, not necessarily to get laid. There's a big difference in attitude here. Another piece of advice I think I can give is to protect our lifestyle spaces, which by extension means the people within those spaces. In terms of a woman feeling safe with you, it's all about actions on this and what energy are you projecting. So again, going off of my wild fucking analogies, but run with me because y'all tune in for my wild analogies, I think. Dudes, my dudes, think sheepdog, not wolf. And no, I'm not saying that women are sheep. Don't fucking go with that. We're just doing an example for explanation purposes, okay? A wolf is a predator. A wolf is always hunting. What are you hunting for? And in this case, to get laid. A wolf is prowling and cunning and it howls in the nights and is always on the lookout for the next meal. We don't want that energy. You ever seen a sheepdog just like hanging out? Just a chill sheepdog. They're nice and they're they're cuddled up with the sheep. There's no threat or malice at all in that dog towards those around it. It is just existing and protecting. That's the energy you need. That is the energy that will allow women to feel safe in your presence. So think sheepdog, not wolf. Another component of emotional intelligence is empathy. So let's define it because I feel a lot gets lost in the modern interpretation of the word. Empathy means the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. Maybe those feelings are happiness, as in we share in compersion. Or maybe those feelings involve nudity and trying to start a fire with our genitals. Maybe those feelings involve recognizing someone is uncomfortable in a situation. Maybe those feelings involve recognizing you are making someone uncomfortable in a situation. Empathy, the ability to read and understand emotions, is super attractive to women. And as I talked about this and as I was writing the script, I know there are people out there who have trouble reading the outward emotions of others. Look, dude, you're okay. I promise. I feel this is more about the desire, as in I want to understand versus the actual understanding. Trying to understand the feelings of others. That's empathy. That's attractive. Here is another really bad analogy, metaphor, allegory, fuck me. It's a story to illustrate my point. Let's say you're a dude and you're out at a bar looking for a lady friend for the night. You assume that every woman in that bar is out at that bar for the same reason you are to get laid. By virtue of the environment you are in, you think everyone is on the same page. You start talking to a nice lady and she gives you some really stilted answers to questions. Maybe she's very dismissive. Maybe she takes a few steps back from you to break off a conversation. An empathetic person will recognize the signs she is giving off as uncomfortable. A not empathetic person will plow headfirst into continuing that conversation based on the assumption that if she is in this environment, ergo, therefore, she is looking for sex despite all the negative signals she's throwing off. Empathy is recognizing people as people, not non-player characters in your personal story, not just NPCs standing in the background, not people just filling out the room. People are people. They're not just stand-ins for better characters. Me and my wife, we have been to events where honestly my wife and I, we felt like NPCs standing around the background while all the cool kids huddled together. It's not a good feeling. It felt like we were just there to fill out the numbers for the event and no one really cared if we were even there. But people, because of the environment we were in, assigned a certain value to us or a certain something. That's not the way we need to handle people. But Jason, you may ask, how does one get better at empathy? Well, here's a big one. Don't judge people. People do not want to be judged by you. We as a society have forgotten that. People just don't want to be judged. No one is asking to be judged by you. And I dare say, I don't even think I've ever heard of someone having a judgment kink and recognize that people as people with their own emotions and feelings and thoughts are valid. Recognize that every person is a unique individual and they're not just a walking fleshlight or a background character in your personal story. No one is allowed or qualified to judge others in the lifestyle based on whatever fucked up criteria a person may choose. That woman in my story who's creeping away from the dude, her feelings of get me away from this guy are valid and he needs to respect respect it. So yeah, validating and understanding that other people can have emotions and feelings different from you or your expectations. Boom, there's Mimpy. One more under the emotional intelligence umbrella, and there are others, but I've got to keep this show moving along, so you'll keep listening to me. The ability to give pleasure. This has a physical component, physical part to it, as in, yes, I have the ability to give a woman an orgasm. And I won't say make a woman orgasm. I was told no one makes a woman do anything. You give them orgasms. And this is more metaphysical and woo-woo, but hear me out. The ability to give another person pleasure can mean more than just physical pleasure. I can have a pleasurable presence around another person. My presence could be pleasurable to another person. Maybe you make them laugh, or you connect really well, or you have a really great conversation. People are going to want to gravitate towards you and your energy based on that. To help with this, we need to use the dual swords of non-judgment I referenced earlier and the other sword, vulnerability. Showing personal vulnerability is a good thing, y'all. It's a positive thing. Being able to laugh at yourself, being able to share your imperfections and accepting the imperfections of others. Women find vulnerability attractive, not in the sobbing, crying, trauma dumping kind of way that some guys do, more in the, hey, I know I'm not perfect and I embrace my imperfections and I'm going to turn these bastards into positives. Being vulnerable makes you much better at giving pleasure to others. It makes you more pleasurable to be around. So think of it like puzzle pieces. Everyone has this imperfect shape. They want and they want to find another imperfect shape to match up to their shape. Y'all have seen puzzle pieces before. Puzzles would be super fucking easy if all the pieces were square, but they're not. And we're human, which means we are not perfect squares. We are looking for another person whose idiosyncrasies match up to our own. So big deal. Maybe you have ADHD, for instance. And hey, look, that lady has ADHD too. Now y'all both can talk a mile a minute and understand each other. Or maybe you carry around some trauma. There are people out there who are receptive and okay with doing what needs to be done to make sure that you're comfortable. Embracing others. Embrace others with the potential to be friends. Do not try to impress them into being followers. Speaking of imperfections, let's talk about physical attributes. And this is going to be a wake-up call for a lot of men. Dudes, women do not care about penis size, flat out. This is a harsh truth for men. Men care way more about their dick size than women do. And for some reason, it is always like the hyper uber straight guys who are most concerned about dick size. And I don't know if gay men really care that much. But yeah, my experience, it's like the really super straight guys that care a lot about their dicks. Here's a chance to embrace the vulnerability I was talking about. You will not have the biggest dick in the room. You may not have the smallest, but your dick size does not determine your personal attractiveness to women. Much more important is, does it work consistently and reliably? Many women I trust have told me that five inches of dick is enough if you know what you're doing. Over seven inches hurts, less than five, they're still on board if your tongue game is good. And I'm going to take women's opinions on this, and so should you. Want to know what matters more to women physically? And sorry to come across as if I'm speaking for all women. Maybe guys will listen to another guy when they hear this. I need men. I need y'all to focus on this. Listen close. I'm going to share something that all women want you to know. Hygiene. Fucking hygiene. Your hygiene is way more important than your dick size. Are you clean? Do you smell funky? Do you smell like balls? Do you shave your balls? This one comes up a lot when I'm talking to women, so I'm passing this along as a good messenger. Hygiene is more important than dick size. What does good hygiene mean? And I know I need to explain this. I shouldn't have to, but I do. Before you go on a date, do a checklist. Did you brush your teeth? Did you floss? Did you get to ear hair, nose hair? Did you clean some stuff? Did you clean out some things? Did you comb your hair? Did you take a shower? Are you wearing clean clothes? Deodorant. Did you know there's a difference between antiperspirant and deodorant? They're not the same thing. One of them makes you smell better, deodorant. The other keeps you from sweating, antiperspirant, which in turn causes you to smell. Women do not like men that smell like balls or body odor or ass. That is a huge turnoff. I have been told that there is a difference between a man's natural smell, which we will call by the super sexy term of musk, versus stinking, which we will call body odor. Body odor can be smelled from across the room and it may induce nausea. A natural musk though though is pleasant. It's the smell of your skin. But look, when in doubt, just assume you fucking stink and go take a shower. Hygiene comes up in discussions with women and I talk to and on forums online, I'm constantly, I constantly see women asking, what do you do about a male partner who may not smell the best or they're dirty or they're just fucking funky? Considering how much I have seen this, y'all, men, collectively, we need to be more conscious of our personal hygiene. So here's a wild recommendation. Just throwing this one out there to you. Go invest in a bidet. I know my international audience is all on board with bidets, either the fountain kind or the spray kind. There are different kinds. Get a fucking bidet. Bidets do not mean that you are any less of a man. It means that you were cleaned and you downstairs. I don't want to get into the mechanics of cleaning routines, but come on. Water works the best. Water is your friend. Water helps. You can get cheap versions online for like 30 bucks that just clip onto a toilet. They take four minutes to install. I promise, once you join the bidet side, you are never going to go back. And yes, it works a fucking amazing when you got swamp nuts in the summer. One more note. I'm assuming you are over 18. I am assuming you're an adult human who is listening to me. Axe body spray is not a substitute for a shower, cologne, bathing, and general maintenance of your body. Axe body spray. Do not use it. If you are over 18, do not wear Axe body spray. If you own any, throw it the fuck out. Do not wear any product that has the words body spray in the name. You're an adult. We don't wear body spray. We wear cologne. Cologne's okay. Cologne doesn't say body spray. What physical characteristics do women like? And I'm putting this caveat on this section right now. Personality goes a long way, much, much further than your physical appearance. But if you really want to know, I haven't a fucking clue, man, as I can't figure out a clear consensus from women. Some women like body hair. Some don't. Some like facial hair. Some don't. Some like skinny guys. Others want a more full-figured guy who is better at giving hugs, they tell me. I haven't a fucking clue, which means there is no right or wrong answer. It is all based on personal preference. I have seen instances where couples say, the husband, a dude is super skinny and lanky, and the wife, she prefers chubby guys when they play. It happens. If a lady is looking for a variety, yeah, you got a shot, my friend. Facial hair? Since my beard is very near and dear to my heart and attached to my face, I take good care of it. I use products. I use beard oil, conditioners, lotions, and face creams. Using products does not detract from your masculinity. Ladies like it. Ladies like the smell of it. Ladies like a man that can take care of his appearance, and that includes your skin and your beards. Put some lotion on too today. I know there are ladies who don't like beards, and I'm willing to conjecture that they may have had an encounter with a bad beard. A bad beard is coarse and dry and rough. A good beard is happy, soft, and fluffy. Big difference here. Men, if you have facial hair or you want to grow a beard, infest in good grooming products. A beard oil protects your hair from damage and it smells great. Beard conditioner makes the hair soft. If you do grow a beard, get a boar hair brush. No clue what the proper name is. This brush has a that has a wooden handle, these short, stiff bristles, and use it to comb your beard often. That brush is going to help distribute oils from the base of the hair all the way to the tip, which also increases the softness and your facial hair. See, I got all kinds of use of information. Oh, one other tip. If you're thinking about growing out a beard and you're like, no, Jason, it itches. Head and shoulder shampoo or any kind of like dandruff shampoo like that, use that to wash your face as the beard is growing and it gets rid of the itch. Body hair. Body hair is a divisive trait. Men, usually we have hair. We have body hair. There is no answer on whether you should have body hair or not. If you feel you were too hairy, fuck it, shave it. Try shaving it and see how you feel. There is no method I know of that's going to decrease the amount of hair in your body besides shaving and lasers. I have encountered women who say no hair anywhere below the scalp. I have encountered women who are like, yes, I like a little bit of hair. Again, personal preference on this one. Are you tired of your boring vanilla holiday parties? You know the ones where your co-worker Linda tries to talk to you about her cats. Again? Well, ditch the fruitcake and those awkward family gatherings because we're unwrapping something way more exciting next year. Get ready for National Lifestyle Weekend, where the naughty list is more than just a suggestion. It's a way of life. Join us in Las Vegas, June 19th to 21st, 2025, for a weekend of sexy parties that you probably can't tell your relatives about, whether you've been naughty or, well, mostly just naughty. National Lifestyle Weekend is the place to let loose, let go, and let everyone have a very happy holiday. Go to www.thatotherlifestyle.com for tickets. This is a live recording of a friend riding a motor bunny. Oh, fuck. Oh, my God. Oh, my God.! Oh! Okay. I squirted. I'm sorry. Get your own. Go to motorbunny.com and use code thatotherlifestyle at checkout for an exclusive discount. The last set of traits I'm going to share today. Not the last traits though. There are a lot of traits in men that women do and could find attractive. And I just realized I'm beating this topic into the ground. I'm ready to move on to other things. Let's talk about intangibles. The intangibles are qualities in men that are hard to define. Either you got it or you don't. So unlike having big, thick biceps or a kick-ass necklace with a shroom on it like we all used to wear in the 1990s, even though we had no idea what the hell mushrooms were, the intangibles, right? They are personality traits that are not readily visible to the outside world. A huge turn on for women, and add this to your list if you're following along at home is a sense of humor. Make a woman laugh and you are in, my friend. Having a sense of humor, it sounds easy. It is easy. But in practice, men make it super difficult. Overthinking jokes. What if no one laughs? What if everyone turns and stares at me? What if a mob forms and they chase me through the streets with pitchforks everyone at some point in our lives have been in a conversation with a group people and said a joke that fell completely flat no one laughed everyone stared at you like you suddenly grew a second head and then the second head is way funnier than you okay look if this happens to you man just play it off lean. Pretend to pull out an imaginary notepad and audibly make a joke that, or audibly make a note that you're never going to make that joke again. Humor can be hard, especially if you have a really dry wit or a dark sense of humor, or maybe you're from another country and the nuances of humor always fucking lost in translation. Give you an example. And I learned about this years ago and I've always wanted to tell people about this. Concho. No clue if I'm saying this right. Concho. In Japan, it is a common prank. Kids do this. That people think is hilarious. A person's going to sneak up behind an unsuspecting person, claps their hands together with their index fingers pointing out, and then forcibly poke the other person in the asshole. Kanjo. It's a thing people do in Japan. Would it fly in the West? Probably not. But it's fucking hilarious over there. And it's an example of the nuances of humor. Sarcasm and self-deprecating humor works great in the United States. Other parts of the world, they're not fans. Sarcasm does not translate well. And jokes about bodily functions, like for instance, make people in India super uncomfortable. I ask everyone, please be conscious and considerate of what other cultures may or may not find humorous. No matter where you are though, humor in whatever form is social bonding. It's strengthening social cohesion. Our cave people ancestors, I have no idea what the first joke ever spoken was, but those cave people laughed and thousands of years later, we laugh. Laughter reduces stress, which in the lifestyle environment, reducing stress is a great thing. People are nervous and they're unsure about making new connections. And if you tell a joke, you potentially make a new friend. Are you worried that you don't have a good sense of humor? I can help with that. Go watch comedians. Go watch stand-up comedians. Doesn't matter which one because you're going to watch all of them. Every single one of them, even the ones you don't like. This is an expert's class in learning timing and delivery and topics. when I was a kid, the Comedy Channel. Y'all remember that? That's what Comedy Central was before it was Comedy Central. On Sunday mornings, they would play stand-up comedians for like six hours, and I watched them all. I learned so much about public speaking and delivery and talking in front of people, which may have helped form my personal skills as a public speaker. And by the way, I am available for public speaking engagements and gigs, by the way. Email me at hostethetherlifestyle.com. Do it now because I work cheap at the moment. Yeah. Anyway, watching comedians, it's going to help you learn how to deliver a joke and refine your personal sense of humor. You don't have to copy their jokes. You're learning form and function, not necessarily content. But doing this and practicing, practice in front of a mirror if you need to. It's not weird if you're by yourself. You get more comfortable attempting humor with strangers. And look, I promise your wife probably thinks you are fucking hilarious. And I know other people do too. You just have to get over the mental blocks of being able to tell a joke to others so that they can then appreciate your charm as well. I can't figure out a good segue for this, but I don't care. We're going to put it in anyway. If you find yourself saying often, well, I was just joking, or you can't take a joke. If you find yourself having to apologize or defend your jokes often, like more than once a week, maybe once a month, I don't don't know what the right time i don't know what the appropriate quantity of this is and you're having to defend your jokes and your sense of humor you are fucking up my guy don't get pissy about it learn you'll learn better delivery and context for your next joke wrapping up the discussion right here i figure this is a good list for you men to get started and work on. Will I do an episode in the future of traits in women that men find attractive? Yes, I probably should just to keep the universe balanced. My two courses are available on my website. They make great Christmas presents, thatotherlifestyle.com. They make great presents for any single guys out there or any married men who need help with flirting. I Mention Benable.-e-n-a-b-l-e.com slash that other lifestyle earlier going through my list of cool stuff got that out there a new course is coming later this year and i'm working on a new book if you're interested in national lifestyle weekend tickets i got those on my website as well that other lifestyle.com one.com. One final note, Risqué Lifestyle Parties. So you heard the commercial, their next event is New Year's Eve in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. The other tidbit I want to share is that Risqué is planning a hotel takeover in Destin, Florida, in September 2025, the last weekend of September. So pencil that in on your calendar for next year, and I'm going to keep everybody updated on details. You want a deeper toes into the lifestyle? Go on over to my website, thatofthelifestyle.com, and you're going to find a link to join sdc.com where you can connect with me, connect with sexy people, and be part of one of the largest lifestyle communities on the planet. I always appreciate hearing your feedback and comments on episodes or suggestions for topics, so feel free to reach out to me. Personal disclaimer, I am not a medical professional nor a trained and certified educator of any way and any kind. I'm a guy with a microphone sharing my personal experiences with you. This podcast is for entertainment purposes only. And again, please join us for the next episode. Whatever you may do today, I hope you have a fantastic time doing it. Know that you're appreciated and loved. Have a great day.