Welcome to another engaging episode of That Other Lifestyle podcast, hosted by Jason. Available on Spotify, Apple, Podbean, and YouTube, this podcast is your go-to resource for those who have already taken the plunge into the lifestyle. With new episodes every Thursday, Jason aims to provide valuable insights and advice for both newbies and experienced individuals navigating the lifestyle.
In this episode, Jason shares his personal journey into content creation, his background in radio, and the unique niche he fills by offering guidance to those who are already part of the lifestyle community. He emphasizes the importance of simplicity and core tenets in the lifestyle, drawing parallels to fitness exercises like the bench press.
Jason also discusses the inclusivity of the modern lifestyle, contrasting it with the outdated concept of swinging. He shares his personal anecdotes, including humorous and eye-opening stories from his own experiences. From attending a 1920s-themed birthday party to an unexpected medical adventure with a Gainswave machine, Jason's tales are both entertaining and informative.
Whether you're curious about the lifestyle, seeking advice on navigating swinger house parties, or simply want to hear some wild and heartwarming stories, this episode has something for everyone. Join Jason as he explores the complexities and joys of the lifestyle, all while keeping the conversation fun and engaging.
Transcript
hey everybody thank you so much for joining me my name is jason i am the host of the that other lifestyle podcast it is available wherever you make it find podcasts spotify apple podbean youtube so i ask you just very kindly go check out the show. You'll probably like it. I do new episodes every Thursday. And my particular niche in the lifestyle, in the content creation world of the lifestyle is I want to be the resource for the people who've already made the jump.
So there are fabulous, wonderful resources out there for people who are contemplating doing the the lifestyle joining the lifestyle joining the club and i feel my need there there's more than enough resources out there i will personally plug somebody who is amazing a wonderful lexi silver she's also on sdc go check her out she is a good resource if you're thinking about jumping in also want to share that I will be joining a guy named Peter on Sunday afternoon for his show, Better Gents, which is focused more on the men in the lifestyle, gentlemen in the lifestyle.
He wrote a really good book about it. So my niche is the ones who've already made the jump, already decided we want to do this. What do we do now? So this is for the newbies. This is for the experienced people.
This is for the ones who are wondering, what do we do now so this is for the newbies this is for the experienced people this is for the ones who are wondering what do we do next and that's where i want to come in that's where my content comes in hey everybody if you're just joining us yes i'm topless because somebody requested it and i figured i need to show off the traps let's just adjust the lighting a little bit show off all right so with, do you want to share a little bit about myself? Like I said, my name is Jason. I am the host of that podcast, that other lifestyle podcast.
Been in the lifestyle for a while, and I wanted to get into content creation. I did radio many, many years ago, a long time ago.
And lately, last year, i was feeling like creatively i needed to do something and i figure why not a podcast the only thing i'm good at is talking i'm terrible at sports i cannot catch a ball to save my life because i have bad depth perception the same thing johnny deaf has me and him eyeball brothers so i've never been able to play sports i've never been able to run well either because i got bad feet so i can't dance can't well i can't dance can't sing the only talent i have is talking and that's what i got so i figured i might as well use it to help make other people's lives better in the lifestyle and the lifestyle is complicated but it's actually really simple i equate it to trying to help people in the lifestyle.
And the lifestyle is complicated, but it's actually really simple. I equate it to trying to help people in the lifestyle. There's some very basic things that people need to know, people need to do, and they complicate it. So I compare it to fitness because I do work out a lot, as you can tell, boom, guns. So I equate it to fitness.
I equate it it to the bench press the bench press is a super simple exercise you lay down you get the weight on top of you and you push it up and you push it down or let it come down push up go down super simple if you go to youtube though there are thousands thousands of videos to explain how to do a bench press how to do it better how to tweak your technique. And a lot of times in the lifestyle, that's what I feel it's like, that people complicate it. There are some basic core tenants that we need to abide by.
I feel that the modern lifestyle, as opposed to what used to be considered swinging, I feel the modern lifestyle has come a long way in being inclusive of everybody, no matter who you are, your orientation, your gender orientation, your identity, whatever you're attracted to. There is a place for you in the lifestyle. And I really like that. No matter how you identify with yourself, there's a place for you here versus swinging, which has a really negative connotation. And most of the people I know, we don't even say the noun swinging, swingers.
It's we're in the lifestyle and the activity we may do is swinging, but we're lifestyle people. With swinging, there's this connotation, you know, from way back 70s, 80s of two cis heteronormative couples getting together and banging it out. And I don't like that. I don't think people should be put into that box. I don't think people should be forced into those sort of arrangements. However you identify, there is a place here for you. And I want my podcast to be inclusive for everybody. And yeah, there's some basic advice I can give to couples.
There's some basic advice I can give to everybody on this. So that's where the podcast is coming from. This is actually my very first live session ever, ever. So I didn't do TikTok. I didn't do YouTube yet. I chose to do SDC as my very first live session ever. And I thank everybody for hanging out with me. If you want to say hi in the comments or if you want to ask a question, please feel free to do that. I love interaction with everybody. So feel free to jump in and you will completely derail my train of thought.
But I am thankful for that because I have to talk for a very long time by myself. And that is a lot harder than people give credit to. So more about me. Where am I from? Like I said, my name is Jason. I am born and bred a Louisiana Viking. For those outside the US, Louisiana, you probably know it as New Orleans. That's what everybody knows is New Orleans. Kind of like Brazil. Everybody knows Rio de Janeiro, that Buenos Aires.
And from Louisiana, I am married am married my wife is a lovely wonderful vision of just absolute incredibleness it's funny with the podcast when I started I was like oh yeah come on the show I need I need you to talk to me and give me woman perspective you know no no maybe one day she keeps telling me maybe one day she will join me on a show. She doesn't like the way her voice sounds recorded. So, meh. Not much I can do there. But yeah, my wife is a wonderful person. She is a wonderful support for the show. She gives me so many great ideas. She gives me so many great topic ideas.
And whenever I'm stumped or I have writer's block or I'm trying to figure out a script, she can come in here like ah give me an idea and she just starts throwing stuff out there so it is wonderful i appreciate all of her support and love and dedication to this and really she puts up with me and it's one of those things i have no idea how i married her i have no idea how i ended up with somebody so wonderful i think it was all personality because that's all i got charisma that's about it that's what i can offer i got charisma yeah there you go so i am married i'm from louisiana like i said and i still reside here on the gulf coast we just moved a lot closer to the ocean we are ocean people we are beach bombs i love the beach i love the whole beach lifestyle so that really influenced the branding for the podcast because i wanted to be We'll be right back.
bums i love the beach i love the whole beach lifestyle so that really influenced the branding for the podcast because i wanted to be tropical and flowery make you think of sandy beaches and make you think of all the good things that summer has you know chilling on a yacht drinking champagne i don't know if anybody actually does that i've never been on a yacht i've been on a couple of boats i don't know if they qualified as yachts. And I've drank tequila on those boats. So it wasn't actually champagne. But anyway, so SDC has been very good to me. They have been a wonderful platform to me.
They have been so encouraging and so open and helpful with all the stuff I've been doing. That's why I wanted to do my very first live session here with them and i will be joining someone i think i mentioned i'm going to be joining peter from better gent show i'm going to be joining him on sunday we're going to be talking about being present as a gentleman and a lifestyle man stuff and i met peter through phone i haven't met him in person yet but we talked. And it's funny because all of our conversations somehow devolve into dicks. I don't know how this happened.
We constantly talk about dicks and men's health and various issues like that. So just a spoiler for you. Speaking of dicks, I have a buddy of mine. He has a friend who is a chiropractor who has a device called a GainesWave. And this just tells you how weird my life is because I had no idea my Wednesday last week was going to go this way. And this is what happened. So he has a chiropractor friend who happened to get a GainesWave machine.
GainesWave machine uses sound pulses to promote healing, to break up scar tissue, to break up up plaque and arteries one of the uses that's out there that's very popular is on the pecker so normally these treatments are like five hundred dollars a pop and because my buddy had a friend who had a machine the guy's like yeah sure come on over. Come on over and try it out. So he texted me that morning. He's like, hey, you want to go try this? I have nothing to do after work, so let's go. So we take a ride over there. We go in the office, and they proceed to show me how to use it.
So you got to pull your pecker out, and you got this rod, and the rod against there and it just goes like 300 times and you have to do it in nine or 10 different spots. And I'm watching this and the chiropractor is like, all right, I'll let y'all do your thing. And he just leaves the room. So it's just me and my buddy in there, two grown men just playing with the peckers. This is my life. This is totally normal. So we're in the little room. He pulls his thing out and he starts doing the thumpy thumping. He's like, yeah, you're going to put it here and here.
I'm like, dude, this is, this is weird. This is my life though. This, I, I enjoy the lifestyle because I never know where my day is going to go. And never know how my weekends are going to go and i always end up with weird stories so to wrap that up i got the gains wave i took the rod and i put against the pecker and i went thump still don't know if it worked my wife says there was no change so i don't know they also told me i need to go back for like five or six more times.
So at some point, I'm going to end up with my buddy in a small room at a chiropractor's office, just playing with her peckers. This is my life. This is totally normal. Yeah, the lifestyle. I love the lifestyle. I enjoy it. I enjoy it because I never know what's going to happen. I never know where anything is going to end up with my day. I just roll with it. I love the weekends when we can wake up on a Saturday morning and I look at my wife and like, what do you want to do? I don't know. Let's find a boat. And we go find friends with boats. I'm like, let's go in your boat.
And then you end up drunk on the boat. And then you end up super drunk. And one time we went out on the boat with friends and my wife had to work that day. It was a Saturday. She had to work. I commenced to get super drunk. The problem was we were having a heat wave here and it was last summer. It was like 110 outside. So we go out on one of the local rivers, and I'm just parched because it's 110 outside. The river water was 90, 95 degrees, so you could not cool off. I brought a big old cooler with me. I was prepared, brought a big old cooler, and I drank all my water.
Then I drank all my Powerades, and all I had left was those white claws and to stay hydrated i had to drink a lot of white claws a metric fuck ton of white claws just today i cuss a lot so that's gonna happen it was a metric fuck ton of white claws six o'clock in the afternoon sun hasn't even set yet i am hammered my friends get me back home my wife has stopped working she put herself together she's like oh we're going out tonight i'm i'm trashed i'm functional kind of got some food in me took some aspirin figured let's just keep going so that night we ended up at a bar we ended up at another bar somehow around 1 a.m one of our friends is like oh i know these other people who have a pool that sounds like a good idea right 1 a.m drunk swimming we drive across town we end up in like the really rich part of town we end up at a mansion mansion at 1 a.m this couple comes out they're naked like all right i will take off my clothing too so took off my clothes just jumped in the pool and my wife is giving me the look because she's giving me the code word up this is really weird and i don't like it i'm like i don't know i didn't drive here because that's the bad thing we didn't drive we were at the mercy of our friends who drove 4 a.m after more tequila 4 a.m we finally made it back home and I was completely worthless the next day.
That happens. So I really, really enjoy the lifestyle because I just never know where my day is going to end up. I never know where I'm going to do. I never know what's going to happen.
It's kind of like the podcast because I know there's people out there who plan out the episodes episodes way in advance and they have this calendar of stuff i don't it's generally whatever happens that happens to me over the weekend that's what i end up talking about last weekend i have a friend she is glorious and beautiful she is like aphrodite incarnate it was her birthday so she had a big birthday party big decorated the whole house they took furniture out to make extra room she converted her whole garage into a dance floor we got another friend dj fabs if you ever if you ever come across dj fab somewhere oh my god go listen he is fantastic he was nice enough to gift her like a whole dj set so we had good music all night in about the party it was 1920s themed great gatsby roaring 20s so all the ladies had on the flapper outfits all the men had on the suits except for this one guy who was wearing blue jeans for some reason if you're going to a party and there's a theme embrace the theme just wear a costume wear something so we go to the party the party was fantastic the people were in we know I don't know.
party and there's a theme embrace that they just wear a costume wear something so we go to the party the party was fantastic the people were and we know everybody there so everybody got along it was a really cool night just to tell you another story tell you a story from that night there was a single guy there and this segues into something else i'm going to talk about there's a single guy there and that man was working it he was working the crowd he was making friends i'm pretty sure he just banged it out in the hallway with someone goes up to my wife and my wife at this point she arrived in a flapper outfit by this point there's already a costume change because at these parties there's multiple costume changes.
She changed into her second outfit. It was a sheer body suit covered in sequins and rhinestones. Oh my God. She looked fantastic. So she's sitting very calmly, just watching everything. And the guy comes up and slides up next to her. He's like, Hey, you ever, uh, y'all ever talk about doing anything with single guys?
And my wife, with all the grace of an angel, just looks at like we've talked about it but not tonight and that was it and i love the look on the dude's face and just oh he was a little crestfallen so he got up and he walked away the reason i bring up single men is currently developing a course for single guys in the lifestyle there is a problem with single guys being fucking idiots and i apologize if there's any single guys who are listening to me right now don't know if that applies to you but i know and you know and any couple out there listening to me they know they have run across some single dudes who could not pour boot out of a could not pour water out of a boot if the instructions were on the heel they don't know how to talk to women.
They don't know how to talk to couples. They don't know how to have sex. They need help. I am currently developing a course. I hope to launch it later this summer. In that course, it's going to be a whole bunch of videos, a whole bunch of stuff educating single men on the lifestyle. I know it sounds cool. It sounds super glamorous. There is a whole community out there of couples, of women who just want to have sex. That's it. There's no talking. There's no dating. They're just like, come over and bang. Oh my God. If I had known that when I was 20, I would have been in so much trouble.
I think that's nature's way of protecting me and keeping me safe because I did not know about that when I was 20, but I know about it now. And I know there's guys learning about it every single day. I'm partly responsible for that because I crank out TikToks left and right. if you're ever looking for me on tiktok it's that other lifestyle. Go check out the TikToks. They're mostly cuts from the podcast, but you get the highlights and like and follow and all that stuff. And if you go listen to the podcast, do me a huge favor and subscribe and follow and do all that good stuff.
And y'all, if you have any questions, anything you want to talk about, please feel free to drop it into the chat. I got my eye on it and i'm just a dude sitting here with a headset on and no shirt this is my thursday this is how my life ends up turning out so i am making the course for single guys really want to help them hey i'm not a big fan of the term bull i think there's a lot of bad connotations with that. And what I want to shift the conversation to is lions because lions are cool. Lions are the best, right? Big cats, big attention grabbing cats.
And I feel that a lot more men need to embody that spirit. A lot more single men need to embody that spirit of the lion versus whatever the fuck all they're doing right now and just fucking around so and i hope anybody who's popping in at least is tempted by my shirtlessness and at least can you know see a little bit of skin a little bit of muscles this is the best i got and i don't know what other hosts do on their webinars if things get spicy or not but i took my shirt off i got that going for me thanks guys all right give y'all a chance to ask any questions before I continue.
Now the smiley faces in the chat do make me super happy because, ah, oh, thank you so much. The smiley faces make me happy because that means y'all are listening. The favorite part about starting this podcast. Oh my God, there are so many. I really enjoy it. It is an incredibly cool, creative outlet. I've always been one. It's easy for me to write, easy for me to talk. So generally, I'll start in an episode on Tuesday. I'll write out the first draft. Wednesday, I'll do editing. Thursday, I record. I don't know how other people do it.
I think other people take a lot longer, but I can bust out 5,000 words like it's nobody's business. Being creative, helping the community, because it is a lifestyle community. There's a lot of people who think they exist in a vacuum, who think as a couple, they exist in a vacuum. They don't realize that this is a small community of people. Like your local swinger group is a small community. Everybody knows everybody. We're probably having sex with each other, but we at least know each other. We at least know who we are. We know of each other.
And I feel for the modern lifestyle, there's a lot of conversations that need to happen. There's a lot of things that we need to talk about and normalize those conversations. I talked about peckers earlier. We need to talk about dick health. That is one of the most important things that functionally that you need to have sex. You don't have to have it.
I've seen some stuff that proves you don't have to have it, but for men, our dick health there's this attitude very persuasive attitude that with men if the wind blows right it's hard and that's not true especially as we get older it's not true at all and i feel viagra completely ruined a lot of the conversation because yeah now we have these magic dick pills that get us hard. Maybe. Maybe they get you hard. Maybe it's functional now. For some dudes, Viagra doesn't work. Some dudes have to escalate and go up to like Trimex, which is, if you don't know, Trimex, it exists.
It is a shot you put right into your dick. Yep. It's a mixture of three medicines. You got to pop it in there. And it gets hard. It gets hard for hours. It could potentially get so hard you have to go to the emergency room and get it drained. Yes, Trimex, you do not fuck around with Trimex. There's actually an antidote that you have to have on hand when you use this stuff. Because if you don't have the antidote, you could potentially have a very big problem. A buddy of mine, he and I'm, I'm going to share a story because he's actually really cool with people sharing the story.
He was having issues. So I went to a urologist and urologist was like, I will hook you up. And the urologist gave him his first dose, gave that dude too much of a dose.
And we have a chat group, you know, me and my friends, and he's sending us updates throughout the night to all the people in the chat group like well still hard still hard four or five hours later still hard and everybody the unanimous consensus was you need to go to the hospital dude you need to go to the emergency room right the fuck now and he did and the process he said everybody the hospital was super cool about it they were very nice it it was one of those things that seemed like the kind of, you know, I've seen this before, but the treatment is they take this big ass needle, stick it in there, drain the blood that happens.
I personally don't want men to get to that point. I don't want men to deal with that. There are things we can do. We can get healthier healthier there are things we can do to promote good blood flow in our bodies and supplements and things like that working out is one of the best things you can do for your pecker losing weight is even better and it actually i know this sounds wild i used to do employee wellness a long time ago one of my many many jobs and i would have I would have dudes come to me and, you know, they would talk about losing weight and stuff.
And every now and then I would just get a wild hair up my ass. And I'm like, dude, if you lost 50 pounds, your dick would get bigger. And there was silence. So men who are overweight, who are heavily overweight, if you lose weight, your dick gets bigger because you have all that fat built up around the base of it. And if you lose weight, the fat's gone. So then more of it can protrude out and you can use more of it. Just a little side tip. See y'all tune in. I got all this good advice. I appreciate you hanging out with me too. So that's one of the things I want to address with the podcast.
Normalize those conversations.
Another conversation I to normalize oddly enough is bisexuality strange right why do you want to talk about that it's amazing yeah when we started this we ran into an issue where i find there's a very pervasive attitude that every woman is bi and they're not not every woman is into women we ran into that a lot when we started this and that's something else i want to address like people's sexuality is valid people the whatever they're attracted to however you want to express it is totally good and valid and i want people to feel supported in the lifestyle however you identify whatever you have if you want to hang out and have a good time with us, that's good too.
Something else to normalize in the lifestyle is it's not just about fucking. Okay, it's a big part of us. The fucking is fun. Don't get me wrong. The fucking is fun. But in the lifestyle, I feel that the friendships in the community that we develop and that we make, those are so much more important for me and my wife. We did not realize how lonely we were until we got into this. And I say that because we spent our 30s. I'm 40, y'all, by the way, just to share that.
I'm 40 years old and I started a lifestyle podcast so i have no idea what i'm going to do when i grow up but this seems like it's pretty good gig right years ago when we were 30s and 20s we spent so much time working that we never developed a social network and it really sucks in the modern day it is so damn hard to make friends if you're a millennial or a gen z or Or whatever below that, I think. It is super fucking hard to make friends.
It is super hard to connect with people and think about it how do you make friends as an adult when you're in school it's super fucking easy because you can just be friends with the kids you sit next to in class in the adult life in our adult world how there's been this death social activities back in the 60s and 70s and stuff people did like bowling leagues there were moose lodges and elk lodges and wherever country you're from i know they had these social groups out there over time it's just not something that really resonated with people or people stayed with or whatever the case may be.
So now, since we're adults, we have a problem. How do we make friends? Oddly enough, I find the lifestyle, amazing way to make friends. I have friends. I have people that I am close to. We may never fool around. Might not happen. It's totally not on my radar and it's okay. There are people I would take a bullet for and walk barefoot through hell for because they're good people. It's not because they have amazing titties or they're giant dicks or whatever. It's because they're just good people and I enjoy their company. I enjoy being with them. I enjoy hanging out with them.
So for us with a lifestyle, that's something else to normalize is making those friendships and those connections and realizing this is not just about fucking. And I know there are some people who are probably hanging out with me right now are like, oh my God, what do you mean it's not about fucking? It's not.
and my wife we identify as lifestyle first vanilla second what i mean by that is there are there's the vanilla world there's a lifestyle world the best way to say the what is the vanilla world is everything that's not the lifestyle y'all i cannot stand the vanilla world i am to the point now i cannot stand it having to go to a vanilla party oh my god punch me in the face just punch me in the face and let me leave like the party we went to last weekend that it was great there were women running around in lingerie people were happy people were having fun you ever been to one of those vanilla parties where it feels like everybody's sitting around waiting for a bus yeah family get-togethers are like that everybody's just sitting around waiting politely waiting and i we don't have kids so of course none of the family want to talk to us because god forbid someone asked me about my job or what i do for fun or the lifestyle they don't know my mom knows i'll tell you the story about my mom knows in a minute someone remind me to tell the story of how my mom knows about what we do for fun or the lifestyle.
They don't know. My mom knows. I'll tell you the story about how my mom knows in a minute. Someone remind me to tell you the story of how my mom knows about what we do. So with a lifestyle, we need to normalize that you can make friends. You can have connections with people. We have websites. We have wonderful websites like SDC where you can make a whole profile of people.
And you can be like, I think you're attractive or you have a hobby i really dig that's a cool thing that we can do a couple uh right before we started there's this post on reddit that i saw where a guy went to the swinger reddit and he's like man it looks like swingers have all this fun they're on boats and there's titties out this is another reason it's called that other lifestyle than the branding is with the boat and the tropical stuff because of that post. So he's like, yeah, I really like this. Like, how do I get into this lifestyle? And everybody's response was like, be a swinger.
Just try it out. You don't have to swap. And that's something else to normalize too. You don't have to swap.
Or something else I want to get away from is the transactional nature of the lifestyle like swingers the old idea couple a couple b everybody does the thing do we really have to do that like you we have to get into you know if two people are attracted to each other let them bang it out i don't have to get reciprocated i don't if my wife's super attracted to a dude go for it get it i don't have to have sex with the other wife you know if someone kisses my wife i don't have to go kiss their wife to balance out the cosmic scales we're free in our sexuality we're free in our attractiveness to people we are free in however we want to express that and just go with the flow you know we don't have to balance out everything like that okay y'all want to hear the story of how my mother knows that i'm a swinger i'm gonna wait for somebody in the comments to say yes so i can at least take a sip of power aid all right nobody's going to encourage me y'all encourage me to take off my shirt earlier yeah, there we go.
All right. I'm going to tell you the story of how my mother knows what I do. So my wife and I started doing this a couple of years ago. Over time, we've made friends. We've done things. We've gone places. And my mother was always like, that's nice. You made friends over there in that town or y'all went on this trip.
I shouldn't really think much of so last year last may the story starts out sad but it gets it gets happy i'm gonna tell you the whole thing it gets happy though so last may my stepdad left my mom sucked it was hard on her it was really bad and for a few months she was really down so we were going out there visiting her a lot and we're sitting on the back porch, getting wine drunk. If you've never gotten wine drunk with your parents, you should try it. Because then you start sharing things. And we're talking, we're talking. And somehow the conversation gets on OnlyFans.
I, personally, fully support ethical pornography. Get it. I support sex workers. I support OnlyFans. I fans i support that yeah sometimes the studio stuff can be kind of brutal but ethical stuff ethically made porn go for it get it which oddly enough as an aside i don't watch porn my life is way too crazy there's nothing on that there's nothing on that porn site that's going to entice me because i've done it all. Anyway, back to my mom. So me and my wife were sitting there talking to her. And we started explaining OnlyFans because she had heard of it but didn't know about it.
I was like, yeah, it's a website that women, usually women, some men, can go online and do things on camera. And people pay a monthly subscription.
And she's like, you mean like porn like yeah i like porn you know i i know some only fans models they are very fucking successful they bought a house bought a house with their only fans money and my mom stops and she looks at us and goes so how do y'all know these people are y'all swingers mother asked me straight out and i look at her big eyes big eyes and my wife god bless her with all the patience and grace of an angel just goes yes that was it that was it we had talked about telling my mother previously i'm not one one for secrets. I don't like secrets.
I don't like keeping things from people. And for me, the lifestyle is such a big part of my life. I want to be open about it. We are open about what we do. If anybody asks, this is what we do on the weekends. I'm not concerned about neighbors. I don't give two shits what they think about me. This is what we do for fun. So with my mom, I had been wanting to tell her, but I was waiting. I was waiting for her to ask. And everyone's like, I know you're all thinking, oh my God, what did your mother say? Nothing. She stammered. She stammered for a good 30 seconds. Just really? No.
And my wife is like, yes, yes, we are. It was funny because all of her questions were logistical. It wasn't like morality. It wasn't like, how could you do this? This is so wrong. It was logistical. First question she asked was, swingers, you mean like key parties?
Y'all, if you don't't know key parties are complete and utter total bullshit i've done research into this other people have done research into this that i then read there is no historical evidence for key parties at the fuck all none it is like totally a hollywood cliche i would love to meet one of the old timers people doing this this for decades. I want to know, did this actually happen? If you don't know, Key Party. It's a Hollywood cliche. You see it in a bunch of movies and stuff, or at least that's the image that people conjure of swingers from the 60s, 70s, and 80s.
Key Party works is you have like five, ten couples that all come over to a house, usually in the suburbs, usually a nice suburban house. And when you arrive, all the men take their keys and put them in a fishbowl. A couple of hours go by, everybody drinks, everybody dances, and then the host gets the fishbowl, sets it down, and the women will walk up to the fishbowl and just randomly pull out fucking car keys. Whoever that keys belongs to, that's who you go have sex with. This is fucked up. This is messed up on so many levels. I always say the lifestyle is built on three pillars.
Fun, consent, and safety. This violates a couple of those. Anyway, key parties never happen. But that's the image that my mom had. That's the image that when we do tell people we are swingers, lifestyle, that's why we say lifestyle too, that's the image that they conjure up of key parties. The problem is that there's no good media representation of what we do, like zero, haven't found it. There was an episode of the show Ghost that comes on CBS where they had swingers, and it was like 50% right.
I feel like the people who wrote the show kind of googled it and kind of put some stuff together but it was still fucked up anyway so my mother first question you mean like key parties i'm like no mom those never happened there's all these there's all these violations of consent with that we we don't do that we don't operate that way how you meet these people my mother's very country she's from central louisiana she has a very very thick country accent so i'm trying to do it justice but i grew up there i lost my accent when i started doing radio i just have a flat southern accent works well for me trying to do the country thing and i don't know if it's working it's like how do you meet these people like well we have websites so what do you mean websites like we have websites we we don't randomly just walk around the grocery store with pineapples we have websites that we go and we meet people through the websites like our hobby is having sex with people who meet on the internet more silence her brain is brain is just click, trying to process this.
And she looks over at my wife. And she's like, what? Huh? Her next question. What do we wear? It wasn't specific. It wasn't the how. It was logistics. What do we wear on dates, was her next question. It's like, clothes and then not clothes. She's like, no, I mean, like, do y'all wear lingerie or something? Like, that just gets in the way. Like, we wear clothes and then not clothes. She processes again there.
Next question is, well, like, what do y'all listen to when you're doing this like what do you mean he's like do y'all play music or do you have porn on the background like sometimes music it's it helps cover up the noises and so next question next couple of questions were just fucking great like so when y'all two are doing it with somebody y'all is it the same room are y'all watching like sometimes it's separate sometimes the same room it kind of depends on the vibe and whatever trying to accomplish you know so my mother knows my mother is super cool about it very supportive oddly enough like super supportive and i feel better too now because when i talk to her i don't to hide as much.
I don't have to guard my words. I don't have to keep secrets. Like, yeah, mom, I went to an amazing party this weekend. It was my friend's birthday. She went all out. There was a stripper pole and this big dancing ring thing. And my mom's like, oh, did you get on the stripper pole? I'm like, yeah, mom, I got pictures of that. And it's, it's nice. It's really nice to be open. I know this isn't for everybody. I, I certainly know there are some people who should not know what we do, like my mother-in-law. So, and I had a, I just had a question pop up. All right. Getting wildly off topic.
Y'all remind me to tell you the other half of my mom's story because it's actually really sweet. So what would be my advice for a couple of considering the lifestyle? I'm going to give you the harsh advice. You had better make fucking sure that this is what you want to do because when you see another man dicking down your wife and or your wife getting a good dickening or something you can't't come back from that. And you can't come back from that encounter. Trying to think how to phrase this. People need to make sure that this is what they want because there's no going back.
The only answer after this is therapy. If you start doing this and you decide this isn't for you, that's cool. If there's a mutual decision and y'all decide we're going to take a break, which happens a lot. There's a statistic. Most people are only in the lifestyle for 18 months. Odd. I can't find the source of it. I read it somewhere before I started the podcast and I can't find it again. Most people are in this for like 18 months. And then shit happens. You know, it could be bad encounters. It could be you just don't want to do it anymore, or you got the fantasy out of your system.
It happens. But yeah, for any couple who's thinking about doing this, and I mentioned this way at the beginning, there's resources out there for that stage in the conversation. Lexi Silver, who's another person at SDC, totally recommend her. Y'all go look at her stuff. She does Swinger 101.
She covers covers the basics she covers the conversations how to have the conversations how to approach the conversations but for any couple i just my recommendation is you better make sure you're this is what you want because you can't come back and if it's not you're going to therapy for me my niche in all of this, my niche in the whole lifestyle conversation community is I want to be the resource for the ones who are already in it. There's a lot of resources for should we. I want to be the guy who says, okay, you're in it. Now what? Now, how do you go on a date? How do you navigate this?
How do you help with this? What do you do about this? My last episode of the podcast, I just put it out today. Go listen to the podcast. It's on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube. Go listen. The episode today, how to attend a swinger house party. Could not find jackal, nothing, online. There's no articles about this, which means that there's no one adding to the conversation. There's no one helping with that conversation. There's no one helping newbies who don't know what to do. I go into a house party. You think you know, but you don't know. You've been to vanilla parties.
I've been to vanilla parties. I fucking hate vanilla parties now. Oh my God. They're so God awful boring. Someone pop out a titty.
Swinger lifestyle parties whole different animal there's things that could happen like you need to have a conversation you know before you go to a vanilla party you're probably going to say like okay you can only have two or three drinks you know you're going to talk about limits of alcohol or something or like don't gossip or don't don't whatever before you go to a lifestyle party the thing you got to talk about is are we fucking anybody tonight that's a legit conversation that you have to have like what are we doing are we getting naked and rubbing genitals with other people so lifestyle parties are different that's just how they roll another way they're different is naked nudity you're going to go to this party and you're probably going to see titties i hope you see titties i hope you see titties and all kinds of wonderful things but with that that now adds another layer of like consent and something that's big for me is consent i want newbies to know know about consent, how to navigate it in the vanilla world.
I think there's this attitude of, oh, this woman is naked and standing next to me. I get to touch her. No, you don't. I feel the vanilla world needs to take some stuff away from us, which is another reason I do the podcast, is to educate the vanilla world about how we look at life, how we look at things, like consent. You never touch another person, full stop, ever, without asking. There is no implied consent. You ask first before you put your hand on another person, man, woman, whoever. You ask first.
You ask for that consent, and that is super important and that's something the vanilla world could take away from what we do so y'all ask any questions i have to take a sip a drink because i've been talking for 44 minutes by myself that is amazing i do appreciate y'all hanging out with me i told myself i had five viewers i would think this was successful and i have five and y'all are amazing wonderful people and i do appreciate your time I don't know.
i do appreciate y'all hanging out with me i told myself i had five viewers i would think this was successful and i have five and y'all are amazing wonderful people and i do appreciate your time because i know it's a big deal to sit here and hang out with me i'm not the sexiest person i did look look see oops a little bit nipple there you go there's a little bit nipple for you so i do appreciate y'all hanging out with me so very very much yeah so couples who are looking to do the jump from vanilla to lifestyle there's a lot it's it's a lot more complicated i for me and my wife when we started we we just jumped right in face fucking first full swap first encounter there was no easing it in there was no easing right in.
Base fucking first, full swap first encounter. There was no easing it in. There was no easing this in. It was just like we met a couple and, well, I'll tell you, we made the profile on SDC because I was like, you know what? Lifestyle. These people might be a good way to meet friends, right? So we were going to be no swap, which is totally valid. Totally fucking valid. If you're a no swap couple, I want you to know you're a totally valid in a lifestyle and people will respect it. We met the right couple and that couple is like, why not?
And me and my wife talked about it for a few days and we're like, yeah, fuck it. Why not? We've been married 20 years. Try it. We jumped in face first and we fucked up.
And there's something else I want people to benefit from is my fuck upsups and the fuck-ups of other people that i have heard about we have a great question right now and i'm going to share this story what is one of my core memories i have since starting the lifestyle oh my god i'm not sure if she's on right now but there's a couple who i adore and we met them a few years ago we went out to went over to florida you know if you're not from the states it's fine just a whole nother state on the beach they had a house over there on the beach and it was our first orgy it was straight up a fucking orgy it was like 15 16 17 18 people i think it was like actually i think i think it was an odd number because we had a unicorn there it was a bunch of people it was our first orgy ever oh my god i need to do a whole or episode about navigating orgies because then some bitches are just in fucking tents anyway my core memory when people ask me about the lifestyle this one always pops in my head so we started the fuckery around like eight o'clock at night maybe nine somewhere around there and it continued for hours until it was 1 a.m i am butt naked my friend and we'll call her suzy she is butt naked too let me tell you suzy is a vision suzy is just fucking wonderfully beautiful me and her are standing in the kitchen over in another room there's still fuckery going on me and her are standing there butt naked eating chicken nuggets talking about homeowner's insurance that's one of my core memories that's just i don't know why it makes me so happy i feel that memory encapsulate encapsulates so much of the lifestyle of what this is and what this is about and what we do that yeah and think about it vanilla people there are vanilla guys i know who lose their fucking mind their fucking mind if they just saw a naked woman in person the thought that there was an orgy going on a room over with 10 15 people just fucking around and me and her eating chicken nuggets like it's just no big deal i'm so desensitized all right i'll tell you another memory tell you another story we had a christmas party here last year and i had a bunch of people show up so it's about 1 a.m you know the party is starting to wind down a little bit people are kind of like saying bye and stuff and i'm standing in the foyer i'm saying bye to people and i hear the scream not bad scream good scream happy scream and i look through the entryway into my kitchen and there is a friend of mine who i adore i i adore her for this four people picked her up one on each arm one person is holding her up one arm one arm one leg one leg and a fifth person just doing the thing with a thing and she squirts all over my kitchen all over my kitchen just all up the kitchen yes so another core memory is just standing in my hall standing in my house at 1 a.m in the morning looking at that looking at this woman just suspended in the air and someone's making her squirt it just it's glorious and beautiful it happens i am so happy that i could be a part of it and hey new friend finders i know them y'all they are wonderful people too so this is it's the lifestyle has afforded me so many great opportunities so many good stories it is very fulfilling and another reason i want to do the podcast is to share those stories with people to share the knowledge and the experience and it's not just mine i go to other people and ask for their input i the episode about the party my friends who were through the party last week and i went to them i was like hey you've hosted parties i've hosted parties what do you want people to know about attending a party?
And they gave me great feedback. They're grabbing great stuff that I was able to put into the episode. Fantastic stuff. So yeah. All right. We've got 10 minutes left. I'm going to take another sip of my Powerade. And to everybody who showed up, yep, I'm just sitting here chilling, no shirt on. I think this might be my thing. Like everybody needs a brand. So it might be mine.
Just sit here, no shirt on i think this might be my thing like everybody needs a brand so might be mine just sit here no shirt on yeah if y'all got any questions please let me know so oh the mom story okay the mom story oh thank you shirtless viking y'all if you're ever curious on stc i have that other lifestyle as the business and then my profile with my wife that you can go check on my wife is scarlet viking when we started up stc we needed a name and your name should always be memorable it your name should be just something that when people are like bam that's i know who that is it's branding so my wife likes the color red i look like a fucking viking actually i lied my wife likes pink more than anything but i didn't want to be pink viking because that just didn't sound as cool so we settled on scarlet viking that's where the name come from because she likes red i thought scarlet sounded cool scarlet viking put it together anyway my wife always like tinkerbell and there's probably people in the chat who will verify yeah she looks like tinkerbell my mom's story so we're sitting there with my mom we told her we were swingers and my mother gets really upset because the conversation just shifts you know and she gets really upset because she's like i'm 62 i'm never gonna find anybody i'm going to be alone the rest of my life at this point now that we've told her swinger like i start telling her stuff like mom i happen to know of a club a swinger club in my hometown that caters to people over 60 like i promise we can find you a date we can find people she's like no i don't want that so then then she tells me, my name is J-A-Y-S-O-N, Jason.
The reason I have a Y in my name, I had always been told my entire life until I was 38 and I'm 40 now. My entire life, I was told that the reason I have a Y in my name is because my mother likes the cursive Y. So I accepted that, right? Made sense. Until I was 38.
And we we were going through these old pictures and there's this picture from high school and my mother was with this dude and you know standing next to him they're both teenagers and then there's a couple more pictures the scarlet letter for adultery i like that too i should go with that there's a couple more pictures of this this teenage guy and he was like in the army and stuff and i'm like mom who is this i've never seen this guy and you ever got one of those things where like your whole universe just gets shicked that someone to shake the shit out of a universe yeah and she tells me well that guy was named brian and that was her high school sweetheart my, who is one of the most evil people ever, my grandmother didn't like him and forced him to break up and then he got in trouble with the law and had to go in the army and stuff and they lost contact.
My mother, as a way to honor him forever, she named her two kids, Kylie and Jason. She put Ys in her names. That's the real reason. I had no clue. So I was 38. I learned this dude existed. We're sitting there talking. We're wine drunk. Told her we were swingers. She was scared she's never going to meet anybody. And then she tells me, remember, my mom's talking to me. She said, you remember when I told you about Brian? I'm like, yeah. She said, I think about him often. And I'm like, well, shit, we have the internet. Let's find him. Oh, no. We can't do that. We can't do that.
I'm like yeah she said i think about him often and i'm like well shit we have the internet let's find him oh no no no we can't do that we can't do that i'm like no i i have a phone so just looking around like okay i tell you what i'll go look him up i'll see what he's doing and i know this is completely not lifestyle rate related at the fuck all but now you're all invested in the story so that was like a saturday we get back home tuesday morning after the gym i get back home a few minutes before work i go on google and i look the dude up i find him i find him in the town my mom said he lived in because my mom used to be a sheriff's deputy and used to um turns out run background checks on this dude often so she kept dabs on him learn that too right kind of creepy so not stalker at all so i found the dude i found his phone number so i called my mom i was like mama i found him i got his phone number you want to call him oh god no oh no jay don't do that see what you can find out about him like okay so you look up his name first thing that pops up is an obituary turns out his wife of like 40 years passed away two years ago so i called my mom back mom he's single and she said well how do you know he's like well his wife's dead and so my mom's like oh god oh god you know she's kind of like a mini freak out at the thought that he's single so i tell her look i have his phone number you want to call him no no no don't do that try to find a picture of him so i hang up with her and of course i have more balls and brains yes i have his phone number i called the dude it was eight o'clock on a t morning.
And I called this dude up and he answered, thankfully. And I was like, yeah, man, you know, my name's Jason. Here's where I grew up at. I grew up with some of your cousins and nephews and stuff. And I'm calling about my mom. And I told him, you know, you probably know my mom by, this is her current name. You probably know her by her maiden name. And y'all, it was freaky. It got quiet for a second. I swear to you, I am not lying in this. It gets quiet. And the dude goes, yeah, I think about her often. Shut the fucking door. I hope everybody's just sitting in a gasp right now. He said that.
I think about her often. And I was like, well, man, she said the same exact thing about you two days ago. So look, I, you know, I got, I got your phone number. Do you want to, do you want to talk change? And he's like, well, give me her phone number and I'll call her. So I called my mom. You ever have one of those moments where your mother's like, you can, you can just feel someone freaking the hell out through the phone.
So I called her up and said, mom, I gave him your phone number.'s gonna call you oh you didn't like oh yeah i did so then i had to call my wife in who overheard the conversation so on the speakerphone she overheard it and she had to verify to my mother that oh yeah jason called him he's gonna call you sure shit y'all about four hours later about two o'clock in the afternoon i think he called her and they talked for hours hours every night for like eight hours solid for a week you're all thinking oh that's really sweet it fucking is it is fantastic because it turns out they were high school sweethearts they got separated by time and life and now they just came back together.
It is fucking is. It is fantastic because it turns out they were high school sweethearts. They got separated by time and life, and now they just came back together. It is fucking glorious and beautiful. Yeah. Do you want to hear about the hobag I gave my mother? I'm just going to wait for somebody in the comments to just say yes because it gets even better. So my mother knows what we do.
And bag oh a hoe bag a hoe bag is a little bag think like a makeup bag or a little clutch or something i don't have one in here i guess i need that for the next show prop the hoe bag is this little makeup bag you put the condoms in you put the lube in you put whatever you need whenever you go to have an encounter so condoms are good lube is good wet wipes wet wipes are fucking gold man these little things like nobody ever thinks about because if you're ever in a situation and you need to do something and you want to do something you don't want the lack of protection to stop you and i've been in places ain't gonna lie been in places been with people and they're like oh no we don't have condoms i guess we'll just not use them i'm like the hell you won't i have a hoe bag even set our we have like four or five of them one of them even says hoe bag on it we got a personalized and you can find on my amazon they say hoe bag so anyway i had to give my mother a whole bag y'all so this was like september-ish we go back to here for christmas and the the conversations are progressing with this dude and i'm like mama we need to have a talk about protection my mother is 62 maybe 63 i'm 40 and i'm i'm flipping the script yeah i'm telling her we need to have a talk about protection because if you do something with this dude you need to be protecting she's like oh no i can't get pregnant you know my mom's 62 oh no i can't get pregnant and i'm like no mom i ain't worried about that do you know about stis do you know about this And she's like, oh no, that's fine Oh no Oh no, no, mother So he made her her own hoe bag Do you know about STIs?
Do you know about this? And she's like, oh, no, that's fine. Oh, no. Oh, no, no, mother. So I made her her own hoe bag. Yes, I gave my mother a hoe bag. It has condoms in it. And I'm pulling things out to explain to her what this stuff is. Because she hadn't seen a condom in 20 years ago. I don't know. Pull the thing out.
Bust one of them open i enroll it like say it'll fit anything pull out the lube and my mom's like what the hell is that like mom this is lube i don't need that much shut the fuck up and take it because you never know yeah so that that happened just being honest with my mother and i realized i'm probably sharing out way too much with you people but it's a good story right so then we're talking to my mother about y'all forgive me for this grooming because again she's 63 i'm like mom a thing's gonna be happening you need to be prepared for it i came up with a useful song just to help.
You got to shave from your B to your V to your ankles and get all the hair. My mother is aghast. She is just what people do them. Like, yeah, that's kind of the style now. And she's like, oh, no. I mean, come on.
You need to take care of the style now and she's like oh no like yeah i mean come on you you need to take care of the forest she is completely confused my wife god bless her is like okay i can fix this she goes on amazon and she gets all the stuff all the stuff that you may need to clean everything up down there so my mother got her care package in of razors and shaving things and i'm like mom did you take care of the problem you know talked to her a few weeks later she's like oh no no i'm gonna wait till we meet in person like no you really should do a fucking trial run of this before you meet him okay so anyway they ended up smith they spent christmas together, they're still together just to you know spoil the story jump to the end they're still together they are madly fucking in love y'all he sends her songs every morning he will send her a a music video or a song from spotify every single morning i'm talking about like deep cuts like stuff that was on the radio whenever they were teenagers it is the sweetest damn thing he ended up calling me he called me one night just to thank me for reconnecting them it wonderful story i know i just went all around the world this is completely not lifestyle kind of lifestyle related you know being honest to people about what we do yeah so it is now 602 i have been talking non-stop for one hour and two minutes roughly okay do you have any questions anything you want to know hit me take another sip of our aid real quick just want to play the podcast real quick the podcast is called that other lifestyle i have a website called thatestyle.com.
The podcast is available on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, lots of different places. Wherever you get a podcast at, I put it. It is everywhere. I really want to grow this. I really want to make this into something that I can personally do full time. So I need those downloads. If you've never listened, just go catch up on all 19 episodes.
That'd be fantastic the podcast i i will start doing interviews soon that's in the works is to start interviewing people and experts and things but i also want to interview regular people i want to talk to regular people and find out the lifestyle from their perspective you know i can sit here and talk about me all day long and what i've done in my dumb stories, but I love hearing other people's stories. I love hearing how people do with things and that enriches the whole community and enriches everything we do. So go check out the podcast for me. I do appreciate it.
Do you use protection during oral sex? Nope. It should. You should. I ain't going to lie. You should.
I know you i know you should yeah the whole thing the whole conversation about protection we can sit here for a while and talk about that dental dams are out there if it is a concern with protection any skin-to-skin human contact carries a risk it just is what it is and yeah we should but yeah i know right but nobody does it totally is a thing people should nobody does it could be something fun to experiment with one weekend like hey i got these dental dams somebody sit on my face and everybody who knows me personally knows that is my battle cry whenever i'm drunk is i will will totally walk around and scream out, sit on my face.
And now if I have dental dams, that will be totally better. Cause then I can be like, I have protection. You slap one of those over your mouth. So yeah, I will do episodes about protection in the future. If there's anything you want episodes about anything, you want me to research anything you want to learn about. I do want to dive into the history of swinging and the lifestyle and how it has changed and evolved over the years. It's something I really wanted to get. Another reason I did this podcast, two reasons, two things that inspired me.
One, in the 1970s in Minneapolis, there was something called the Silver Key Club. I'm not going to go into all of it because it turns out somebody else I did a podcast on this thing the story goes in minneapolis there was a safety deposit box that was recently opened per minnesota law minneapolis and minnesota yeah whatever that state any documents like that are the property of the historical society so the historical society they opened it they found the box. There's this big stack of papers.
It was the record of a swingers club from the 70s, like 10 years worth of records of this club in Minneapolis. It is fucking wild. They had newsletters they published every single month. They had secret codes to identify each other.
They did potlucks and and picnics and it's really wild to think about it that this was the social activity this was their social life and i mean for now it's ours too but we've come such a long way and the podcast that someone went and did a whole five or six episode about this so go check that out i don't remember the name of it but you know that in the podcast they talk about how consent that the what consent was like back in those days and how things have changed so really cool thing the other thing that inspired me was fucking swinger myths debunking all those swinger myths there's this video on youtube this lady is sitting there and looks like a trailer park and she like i'm gonna tell you about swinger myths i'm gonna tell you about secret swinger symbols clear the fucking air there are no secret swinger symbols the pineapple is kind of a thing but beyond that no there's none and i'll tell you why there's none because none of those swingles those symbols are strong enough to influence behavior if you go to a bar and you see a woman with a black anklet on or a black toe ring or something, do you really believe in that symbol enough that you're going to walk up to a random stranger in a vanilla environment and ask them if they want to swing?
The answer is no, which means those symbols have no real meaning. They're just propagated by vanilla people who are super curious and just want into our world and want to know what's going on. And it's like, we don't have secret symbols to identify each other. We have the internet. I have SDC if I want to go meet people. Boom. Okay. One more question. Then I'm just going to wrap all this up. Do you think people in the USA and Europe act differently in lifestyle? Oh my God, I want to know more about this. I think the answer is yes. Just me hypothesizing here.
I think Europe has a much more lax attitude towards sex, towards open relationships, towards ethical non-monogamy. I say lifestyle a lot. The lifestyle is under ethical non--monogamy under the same umbrella polyamory is over here and there's other other you know subsects of ethical non-monogamy the lifestyle is just one of them but yeah i think europe has a much more lax attitude about it here in the states it's it's dumb it's fucking dumb and i'll tell you why I don't like it. If you watch any primetime TV show, violence is okay. I'm talking about gratuitous violence.
Let's just show 50 people getting shot and killed, right? If you show a boob, people are going to lose their fucking minds over here in the States. I don't get it.
We're totally okay with gratuitous violence and gratuitous just nasty stuff sex oh no sex is taboo i feel europe some of the countries i know like sweden and stuff they do a much better job with sex ed they do a much better job of educating people about sex if my mother had had a better education about sex i would not have to explain stis too hard it's 62 so that's the difference there is that it's a thing sex is natural sex is normal between consenting adults you know it's a thing it's okay it's valid however you do it however you want to do it is totally valid.
But yeah, Europe, way, way more advanced with that. So I do want to learn more about it. It's something I want to dig into for future episodes of hop around the world and talk about different countries. Oddly enough, like 25% of my audience comes from outside the USA, which I think is just super cool and badass. I have listeners over in Australia. I'm not sure if they're on here or if they list. I don't know. Thank you.
outside the usa which i think is just super cool and badass i have listeners over in australia i'm not sure if they're on here or if they list i don't know i know i have listeners in australia which i'm so fucking thankful for listeners in the uk belgium spain all over the place super thankful that people in other countries can get something out of this you're from the netherlands that is fucking awesome i know the netherlands has this reputation of like the red light district and amsterdam and all belgium oh shit my bad wrong country no wait that's somebody from belgium okay i know there's a much more i don't say lax but accepting better attitude towards sex that is just a natural thing that people do why was i going with that conversation y'all have just totally just derailed me from whatever i was going with i do want to do a journey around the world to show people from different countries how different people swing like it turns out new zealand fucking loaded with swingers for the population there's not a lot of people in new zealand so like per capita per population you, you know, there's a lot over there.
Why? That's why, you know, that's a question there. It's funny here in the States that I have, there's 50 States. I have listeners from like 48 of them. There's two States, Arkansas and Maine. No listeners. Don't know why.
Haven't figured that one out yet yet but yeah that's something else with the podcast is to embrace the globally embrace the different perspectives on the lifestyle that people have and the different ways they express it you know polyamory I always say polyamory has a much better marketing department than the lifestyle because everybody knows about polyamory and they know all the words and the jargon and how all this stuff works and nobody has a window into the lifestyle. So if I can offer that to vanilla people, I will. Okay, I've been talking for one hour and 11 minutes.
I think I did pretty good, right? This is my first, you know, if you came in late, I was sharing that this is my very first live anything at the fuck all. I haven't done YouTube live. I haven't done TikTok live yet.
This this was it scc has been really good to me as i've been starting out so i wanted them to have the first thing i want them to have the very first live session so i do appreciate it i think i'm doing this again next month i don't remember the date i think it's the third or the sixth so tune in then go tell your friends just go tell your friends there's this dude i will be shirtless again if that's going to be my brand let's just rock it everybody's cool with me being topless right now look there's a nipple so i got that going for me thank you everybody for hanging out with me thank you so much for just listening to me ramble i hope i've told you some good stories next time we hang out i will have some more awesome stories because we've got a holiday and we've got this convention thing going on.
So I'm going to have awesome stories for you next time. Thank you again. May you all have a wonderful, wonderful morning, day, night, afternoon, wherever you may be listening to me. I do appreciate it. You're awesome, people. Thank you so much. Y'all have a wonderful day.
