Join host Jason on an exciting journey into the world of ethical non-monogamy and lifestyle parties. In this episode, we delve into the art of organization, sexual spontaneity, and gearing up for epic lifestyle events. Discover tips and tricks for packing efficiently, maintaining pleasure without interruptions, and exploring the benefits of planning ahead for adult-themed parties.
Be prepared to embark on fun and adventurous adult activities with expert packing advice, from the importance of having hoe bags to the brilliance of travel bags. Learn how to maximize enjoyment at themed events like the Risqué Lifestyle Glow Party, with creative costume tips and must-have party essentials.
This episode is a blend of humor, practicality, and candid insights into making your lifestyle experiences more fulfilling and hassle-free. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just curious, everyone can find valuable takeaways on embracing and organizing a vibrant lifestyle.
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Transcript
Speaker1: Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Wherever you are, I hope you have blue skies. Welcome to that other lifestyle podcast. I'm your host, Jason. Leave vanilla behind as we talk about organizing your life. This podcast is for adults only. We'll be diving into adult and sexual topics with plenty of colorful language, so it is not safe for work. If you are under 18, this is not the place for you. This show is all about exploring the lifestyle and ethical and do my best to use inclusive language, you might hear terms like husband, wife, or partner for simplicity's sake. This show is for everyone, lifestyle, vanilla, or the curious. You want to connect with me, you can send me an email to host at thatotherlifestyle.com, or you can hop on over to my website, thatotherlifestyle.com. Everyone is welcome here because the lifestyle is so much more than you think. This week, I admit, not the sexiest topic in the world. Packing, organizing, getting your shit together. But hear me out. Nothing kills the mood faster than playing Indiana Jones in the Condom of destiny while a naked horny goddess is sprawled across the bed like a gift from the universe. I have been there. She is moaning and I'm groaning. And not in the good way because I'm crawling around on the floor digging through the luggage like a raccoon in heat whispering, babe, where'd you see the condoms? And then you have to leave the room. Momentum is dead, the vibe is buried and your erection is on a timer. And here's the easy fix. It takes 30 seconds. That's it. Put the damn condoms on the nightstand before the date starts. Be the sexy boy scout you were meant to be always prepared. But, but Jason, what about spontaneous hookups? Look, there's no such thing as spontaneous to plan. You pack a toothbrush for a sleepover, you need to pack your condoms. Get your priorities together. A little bit of prep equals a lot more pleasure. Don't let disorganization cock block your cock. This episode comes from two places. The first is we have a risque party this weekend. If you're interested, go to risquelifestyleparties.com. It's a hotel takeover, so we have to pack and travel over there. This weekend, the themes are Area 69, so space, aliens, and the second night is a glow night. Being a middle-aged man who completely missed the raves of the 1990s, I admit I had no idea what a glow party is, and I bring people to Riske who then ask me, what exactly is a glow party? So no worries if you don't already know. A glow party is akin to a rave. It is a better organized rave with air conditioning and lighting. The whole party space is decked out in black lights and neon decorations. This time around, a production company is coming in with mind-blowing visuals. I have been promised, and I've seen videos, of holograms and lasers is going to be wild. Dressing for a glow party, you want neon. Bright neon everything. So you glow under the blacklight. See, it makes sense. The other night is Area 69 themed. Space aliens, like I said, sci-fi, sexy green-skinned aliens ready to make out with adventurous Starfleet officers. My wife and I, we go hard on costumes. It's a reason to dress up as an adult outside of Halloween, and we embrace it. For Friday night, the Area 69 theme party, my wife is going as Barbarella from the 1960s movie Barbarella. She's been planning and wanting to wear this costume for a whole year. If you're curious, go online, go look up green outfit from Barbarella. She found the bodysuit and the boots and the jewelry, plus a big puffy wig. Y'all don't sleep on wigs. They can be sexy as hell and they take a costume to the next level. For me, I am going as Zap Brannigan from Futurama, because why the hell not? I got the red tunic, I got gold appliques on it, I got a blonde wig with boots and the gloves. For the vanilla world, when they think swinger party, they think lingerie, I guess? No, we dress up like a movie star and a cartoon character. The second night for the actual glow party, we found a company that can do custom neon outfits, which I appreciate. As most clothes, costumes kind of thing, off the rack, they don't fit me well. This company, they were able to make the shoulders broader and the length longer for me. And my wife got a costume from them as well. It's a bodysuit with these huge flowing sleeves. And her boots are fantastic. They are thigh-high, latex spandex with laces, six-inch boots. If you're counting, that's four outfits with shoes and hair pieces. Yeah, we have to take three suitcases to two days worth of partying and a duffel bag. We have a whole suitcase just for costumes. And this is not unusual among our friends. This is our chance to dress up and we enjoy it. Plus, we're driving over there, so it doesn't really matter how much you bring. We got that party this weekend. The other inspiration for this episode is hanging out with the most lifestyle-organized dude I've ever met. He fully admits he has a touch of ADHD, and all this organization helps him keep his life straight. We need to talk about packing. Again, not a sexy subject, but necessary. I can usually tell who comes to their first risque or any hotel takeover versus the veterans. The new crowd, they either bring one suitcase or they bring way too much stuff they don't need. I think the best analogy and credit to my wife, hotel takeovers are like summer camp for adults. Packing for a hotel takeover, make your life easier and get travel bags that come in all shapes and sizes. Make sure they have a zipper. and I'm going to post a list of travel stuff examples at bennable.com slash that of the lifestyle so you know what I'm talking about these travel bags are a lifesaver you can have a separate bag for each costume and its accessories that makes repacking the costume easier and another benefit of travel bags you can keep all your vanilla clothes and your underwear separate from the sexy clothes, which means if you have visitors in your room, it's easier to clean up before the fun begins. Don't be the person with a messy room when you invite people over. You can have a separate bag for all the sexy items you want to bring, like an extended hoe bag. Do I need to tell you about hoe bags? Also call it a swinger bag or a go bag. The standard ho bag should have a lot of condoms, like at least 20, a small container of lube. And besides that, whatever fits in there, breath mints, bullet vibrator, everything you think you might need in a fun encounter with another couple. The extended ho bag. Well, now we have a bigger bag and more room. So sex toys, definitely sex toys. Make sure you bring their chargers. I recommend investing in a bunch of travel bags. If you go to enough parties, it's easier to keep your travel bags packed all the time. Something we've added and learned from cosplayers, a travel sewing kit. Really useful. Surprisingly useful for both us and our friends because at least twice every party, somebody's going to stop by our room and they need help with our costumes. Back to the other inspiration for this episode. Hanging out with my buddy, he rolled out one of the best, most amazing ideas. I stood in awe. Let me share the problem this solution is addressing first. We show up to takeovers. We have multiple suitcases and bags and just stuff, fucking stuff, that we have to carry into the hotel and then you do the fun and then you have to carry all this back out it might even be a couple of trips to get to your room this is all stuff we need granted clothing toiletries room decoration sex supplies we were talking about hauling our stuff into a hotel for another party this summer, and he jumps up, happy as hell, goes into his garage, and comes back with a stackable rolling work cart. And you've probably seen this before. Stackable organizers, they have little cubby holes on them and plastic tops. He has three. One for sexy time, one for room decorations, and the third for snacks and big stuff. I was stunned. Like a kid showing off his toys, he opens up everything, walks me through the logic of each piece and his layout. I was flabbergasted. I see the value in this. You can transport everything from the car with the rolling fucking wheels. Then you get to the room, and you don't need to unpack it. You unsnap the containers, open each one up, just just put it on the dresser or the counter fucking brilliant shout out to him i told him i would do a whole episode about this because it is a great idea when we started going to takeovers we i would admit we were disorganized as hell we had multiple tote bags we brought too much or we did bring something and then you get home and you have to unpack all of this. Nope, with this stackable work chain method, there's no unpacking, and it is all organized. If you attend at least two takeovers a month, or you travel for a sexy time, staying packed is the way to go. And I know you may have small roommates that don't pay bills like children. This is great because you can stash it in the garage and no one notices. of roommates i don't have kids but i understand from friends who do that they will root around and dig through stuff like ferrets the solution is a lockable box preferably with a combination lock because you know you're going to forget the key get a big old box so you can just take the whole container you're taking to the takeover just put it into that box and lock the lid all at once instead of emptying it and then repacking it later. What should you take? I did an episode on hotel takeovers and maybe my recommendations have changed. I now ascribe to a two-trib rule. If I take something with us to a party twice and I don't use it, I leave it at home. Plus, for these takeovers, most of them are within a city and a city has stores. So it's not like you're traveling to the fucking moon. You can just go pick up something if you forget it. A new item, though, that we now bring with us is an over-the-door hanging organizer. It rolls up compatibly and we can just hang it up in the hotel to hold the big stuff like shampoo bottles and flip-flops. Flip-flops and sandals, segue right there. Having a second outfit that is comfortable to slip on later in the night is a big upgrade for us. We learn the hard way not to stay in our sexy outfits all night long, especially if you have on uncomfortable shoes. Now we get dressed in the costumes, we go to the party, we get in our pictures, and usually around midnight, head back to our room to change into our comfy clothes. That outfit switch also gives us time to debrief and talk away from the crowd and the noise. One more unsexy item that has proven useful for organization, a label maker. We can label our outfits, we can label our travel supplies, labels everywhere. If you can't find it, just label it. Lanyards are good to bring too. Depending on your outfit, carrying a credit card, ID, cash, and your ticket, all that stuff without pockets. Yeah, lanyards are a win. And going through my random list of ideas here, my buddy was showing me his stuff that he did. They vacuum pack their clothes. Vacuum packing your clothes. If you're going on a long multi-day trip, I can see how this helps out because they take up less space. The only problem I can see is you can't vacuum and seal the clothes back into the bag unless you bring the machine with you. I know there are bags out there with vacuum spouts on them, but I never found them to work really well. Try it out, though. You might like this as a winner. Risqué is doing it again, bigger and better this time. Three words, glow, holograms, topless. Join that other lifestyle as we party at the Risqué Lifestyle Glow Party, May 2nd and May 3rd in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. Tickets are available at risquélifestyleparties.com. Experience cutting-edge hologram and light show technology as Risqué turns it up to 11 all night long. You can glow and dance and party till 4 a.m. with all your sexy lifestyle friends at this one-of-a-kind hotel takeover. Friday night is an Area 69-themed party when all the aliens will arrive. Bring your best science fiction or alien costume. Saturday is the topless pool party. Yes, topless. Then get your favorite rave costume or outfit ready for the wildest glow party you have ever seen. Tickets are available at risquélifestyleparties.com. May 2nd and 3rd. Join us for an out-of-this-world glow party you do not want to miss. Hey, are you a newbie and nervous about doing your first STI test? It's a great day.
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Thank you. So I will bring in water for everyone before the fun begins. Little things like that, that can elevate your hosting game. If you anticipate a sexy time getting messy, two things I recommend, towels and sheets. You probably already have towels and sheets. Put the towels next to the bed. You don't want to have to go stumble into the bathroom to go get a towel and come back. And sheets. Have a separate set of sheets for fuckery with people. It makes the cleanup so much easier. You strip the bed, wash the dirty sheets, and put your sleeping sheets back on the bed. Ain't nothing worse than a woman squirts all over the bed and then you can't go to sleep until you wash them. Or you could just go to sleep in the wet spot, which would be very cold and unpleasant. This will sound so stupid and corporate, but I don't care. Do a lessons learned after encounters or parties. We do this. When we host house parties, afterward, my wife and I, we talk about what worked, what didn't work, what do we need to do to make the next party better? Any ideas we want to try for the next party? And I do solicit feedback from our guests. I want their honest opinion on how we can make our parties better. I take constructive feedback very well. If you're going to do this, know that sometimes the feedback you get is going to be completely fucking useless, or the person you asked is just a jackass who will never be happy with anything. It happens. Lessons learned. In the corporate world, there might be pages and pages of things that need to improve. Lessons learned, you may have encountered these out there in the world. And because it is the corporate world, there are entire workshops, weekends devoted to this people can go to and learn how to make lessons learned documents. That sounds like the most boring fucking way to spend a Saturday, sitting around learning more corporate bullshit with a bunch of people who actually enjoy that bullshit. I worked at one company a few years ago that required lessons learned documentation after every single webinar we hosted. And we hosted two a week. And anytime someone says, create documentation, I cringe. My team, we had this down to a science and we were good at it. Still, with no mistakes, we had to find five things to improve every time. Every fucking time. Which is bullshit. Bullshit corporate mentality when you work for a company that has a CEO with imposter syndrome and daddy issues. Lessons learned after dates or parties. Nothing formal. Walk through the encounter. Think about what you would have done differently. Please don't make it complicated. You don't have to write anything down. No one needs that stress in their life. But giving a thought, thinking through an encounter on what you wish you had had at hand, placements of items, what did you need or not need. And you can do this after a takeover as well. As you unpack, ask, why did I bring this? Did I use it? Am I going to use it? Is it better to leave it at home? You can do this with dates. Did you like the location? Did dinner than a bar work out well? Did you like the people? There's a value in doing lessons learned within the lifestyle. You may already do this and not even realize it. My wife and I do this after parties and encounters, and one day it slapped me in the fucking face. We were doing a lessons learned. Son of a bitch corporate bullshit invading my personal life. And I can't believe I'm sharing and recommending this to everyone, but it's not a bad thing. It's not a bad idea. But if anyone tells you that they want you to do a team building exercise, tell them to get fucked. Another item that has proved surprisingly useful are binders. All kinds of binders. Granted, we don't have kids, so I can leave these binders around the house. You can get zipper pouches to go into binders, and then you just put them on a shelf. I don't think I have to explain binders to anyone. They are useful for organizing, though. Bikinis or lingerie, they roll up really, really tiny. They could just fit in a binder. You can also have a binder dedicated to all the cups cards that you collect. You get another one for important papers like test results and tickets to events. Surprisingly handy. And you can put labels on them. Woohoo! Labeling. Theme bags work too for play styles. So maybe you have a BDSM bag with all the straps and whips and chains in it. Another bag for kinky night or food play, dildo storage. Oh, I need to share about this one. Not body safe silicone will melt body safe silicone toys. Random facts and science here. I don't know the exact mechanism. We have joke dildos that are not for human insertion. I tell people that. That I got from an unreputable company. I know they are not safe. So we use them for a dildo cornhole outside. I have good body safe dildos that I know are safe for inserting into the human body. Never shall they mix and mingle. One final item for your bedroom or sex room. A mini fridge. Surprisingly useful. You can get one that just holds drinks. This is super useful and I admit it is a bit of a luxury item, but it does save you a trip naked through the house to the kitchen. The next item we need to organize is our calendars. It's funny, people will ask us to hang out and I honestly have no idea what our plans are. I usually lose just weeks of time. I'm terrible with it. My wife is the calendar expert and I show up when and where she tells me. Unless I have that physical calendar in my hand, I ain't committing to shit because that's how you get double booked and then you have to make some hard decisions on where to go on a Saturday. Calendars are useful. The lifestyle is chaos. embodied, liberated, exhilarating chaos. Every weekend and sometimes weeknights, you could be in a different location with a different couple or friends doing the wildest shit. Two ways to do calendars, and they both have pros and cons. I prefer paper. We have a planner book that we keep as our primary schedule. It works for us because it's just us. If I had more to juggle like kids' activities, I admit paper may not be the best option. One time I went to a friend's house and they have this giant big six foot by four foot calendar on their wall in the living room to coordinate their vanilla life and the kids' lives. It was intense. Respect them for that though. For me, I like paper. I use a paper day planner for that or the lifestyle business and scheduling. And it turns out it is super hard to find a day planner that does not give me a stroke by looking at it. I just want a simple piece of paper with a date and a couple of lines. I don't need to schedule out my day to 10 minute increments. I have no idea what I'm doing in an hour, let alone this weekend. I don't even remember what I have for dinner two nights ago. So yeah, calendars are super helpful. Paper. I like paper because I can write it down and erase it easily. And now that I write it out, yes, that's probably one of the few benefits of paper. Well, another one I guess is for paper calendars, you can hide it. With digital calendars, there is a risk of accidentally connecting to another person's calendar, and then your fuckwad of a cousin Brenda will find out that instead of going to the family reunion, you were going to a gangbang. It would make family gatherings more interesting, though. Paper calendars and planners, you can hide easily, but I fully admit that it's not always accessible, and it will require you to follow up with people, which then requires me to remember to follow up or you do that thing where you forget about it and you when you do remember it's been like six days and you feel bad because you didn't respond in a timely manner and you don't know what to do next it happens to me it happens to everybody digital calendars electronic calendars so google calendar outlook something like that pros and cons here pro easy to update, but it does require you to interact with a device which may not always be available. Like at a hotel takeover, it is a social faux pas to bust your phone away from designated areas. And in a lot of sex clubs, they have a strict no phone policy. Another pro, you can color code it. Red for dates, green for parties, purple for days to days to get tested sync it up with your wife's cycle options for data splicing and manipulation here you can also add notes whatever platform you use for your electronic calendar please please listen to me on this keep it separate from your vanilla life i cannot stress that enough because you know technology loves to make connections and figure out who you know and what you're doing based on that. So then they can send targeted advertising to you. I never sync my contacts, my vanilla contacts with any other messaging apps that we use. I don't want people to know who I know what I'm doing over there in the vanilla world. That is a bad idea. A calendar also lets you prioritize events. You know, a big party is coming up that you really want to attend. Then you may have to tell a couple, no, you can't hang out because you have a conflict, which by the way, is a perfectly reasonable answer from an adult. We are busy. We have vanilla lives full of commitments. And then in the slivers, tiny little slivers of time, we can steal away. Wherever you decide to spend that time is your business. Yes, it may take six months for the stars to align with the couple you really want to spend time with. I promise it's worth it. Having a well-maintained calendar is essential too if you have super busy kids. Between sports and school and maybe graduation season, because we're in the middle of that right now, it is insane to watch this as an outsider. And if you're in that boat with a super busy life, I, as someone who does not have a super busy vanilla life, I appreciate the organization. Being able to plan out dates weeks in advance because you have your shit together, it warms my heart. It cuts down on missed days and plan changes. And if you are in that boat, look, don't stress about it. Your vanilla engagements are way more important. And we heathens, we will be here waiting and ready. There are couples out there and I find this really bizarre. They are one and done. They offer up one date, one day to hang out. And if you can't make it, they write you the fuck off. I at least give people three strikes. And I also understand that people have lives. Never automatically assume that someone who can't hang out doesn't want to hang out. There's a difference here. Understand that people are busy. While the lifestyle may be your primary social outlet, it's not for other people. A big advantage of having a calendar too is my ability to block off recovery days or weekends. As I shared before, my wife and I, we do a two-for-one schedule with LS activities. We will party hard for two weekends in a row, and then we're going to take time off. We're going to take a weekend off for our mental health and sanity. If you can handle the drinking and fucking and socializing every single weekend, do it. Go hard. I can't. My wife can't. We have different social batteries, and we have found a good balance for us for us is two for one. If you're new to the lifestyle, you're going to have to find your own balance. One for one, five for one. I'm not giving you hard fast rules here. The suggestion though, that yeah, you need downtime. You also need to avoid activity. For us, we tend to avoid activities on Friday nights, activities like dates with other couples. This is usually our personal date night that we block off where we go out just me and her to reconnect and enjoy each other without other people. If I'm talking electronic calendars, that is an easy pivot over to photo storage. Fact of life and the lifestyle, you will get nudes. You will take personal nudes and you need to hide those nudes on your phone. Ain't nothing worse than showing your mama a nice picture of a cat and then she decides she needs to swipe left or right on your phone. Why do people do that? You hand them this precious personal device and they decide they need to swipe around for more pictures. No, I will show you the picture I want you to see. Don't go, don't go swiping. Most picture apps on your phone, they will allow you to store photos and albums that you can password protect also you may need to double check the settings for that album and make sure they're not uploaded to the cloud the fucking cloud the nebulous place where all our information goes nope don't like that it's a good idea to make sure that your filthy shenanigans photos are not being unknowingly sent to the cloud, where they can then be added to a nice album of pictures that is accessible by your vanilla family.
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I have heard horror stories. And another thing I've learned, if you have an Amazon Alexa or your TV is hooked up to Google Photos, you know those pictures that your TV plays in the background while it's idle? Yeah, it will pull from all the photo albums it can access. Check for that. I've heard horror stories. The last category we have for organizing is mental organization. What that means is, who does what in the relationship and how do you keep sane? I was writing this and my wife walked in and I asked my wife about this section. I asked her, how do you keep your mental health organized? And her response was, good luck with that shit. Love that response. Not super useful, but funny. Just like we can compartmentalize, and damn it, that is a huge word to say. Our packing, we can compartmentalize our involvement in the lifestyle. No, you cannot make it to every single event or party. That's okay. No, you can't go on every single day someone offers, and that's okay. You have to figure out your own balance and involvement. You can effectively separate your vanilla life and your lifestyle based on your own criteria, and no one can tell you shit for that. The other way to help with mentally organizing the lifestyle is separation of duties, figuring out within a couple who's doing what. One of you may be the extrovert like me who handles all the communication, while the other one, the introvert like my wife, she manages the packing and planning and organizing. That separation of duties keeps one partner from doing everything, getting overwhelmed, and now you know who manages what part of your lifestyle journey. I don't have to worry about packing because my wife's got that. She doesn't have to worry about social connections and all that because I got that. You may need to set limits on how much you participate in the lifestyle every day as well. Now, I'm going to overthinking territory, but that's what you tune in for, right? Overthinking. You can find reasons to be on the dating sites all day long or chatting in groups all day or looking for new couples 16 hours a day until your job and your home life suffer because of it what i call it obsession maybe a little like dancing on the line a little too damn much set times every day when you will do lifestyle communication set aside 15 in the evenings to catch up, or maybe an hour on a quiet Saturday afternoon. If you get to the point where you're putting lifestyle ahead of your life, that is a problem that needs reorganization. The lifestyle is going to be here. Watching your kid hit a home run, or going to a parent's function at school, or spending time with your vanilla friends and family, that's more important. Making a conscious effort to organize your life around and incorporate the lifestyle will enable you to make this a long-term journey versus burning out in six months. Okay, okay, not the sexiest topic out there, but someone on this planet needed this episode to help them out. Next week, I promise I will talk about sex. Some form of sexy talk. Maybe like how to get better at sex or how to connect with people faster and better. I don't know yet, but I will deliver and I will talk about the fuckery. We're going to be at the Risque Glow Party this weekend in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. If you're listening to this, today is May 1st. The party is tomorrow, May 2nd, 2025. As I'm posting this episode, tickets are still available at risquelifestyleparties.com. If you show up, if you're there, I'm going to be there. Come say hi, tell me you listened to the show, and I got some swag for you. Good news, I am now doing videos on YouTube. You can see me on camera ranting about vanilla perceptions of the lifestyle and debunking myths as I go. Go watch, subscribe, like, and comment, please. I always appreciate hearing your feedback and comments on episodes or suggestions for topics, so feel free to reach out to me at host at thatotherlifestyle.com. My website is thatotherlifestyle.com. I am on YouTube astherLifestyle. I am noticing a pattern here. My personal disclaimer, I am not a medical professional nor a trained and certified educator of any kind in any way. I am a guy with a microphone sharing my personal experiences with you. This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and please join us for the next episode. Remember, SDI testing is important and it takes a community to make a difference. Go to stdhero.com and use my promo code TOL15 for 15% off your order. Whatever you may do today, I hope you have a fantastic time doing it. Know that you're appreciated and loved. Have a great day.
