Join host Jason on an exhilarating journey into the world of ethical non-monogamy in this adults-only podcast episode. Jason sits down with Pharaoh, a professional in the realm of adult fantasies, to uncover the intricacies of black dominance and the unique realm of BBC-induced fantasies. Dive deep into the art of orchestrating safe and consensual adult experiences, where inclusivity meets erotic exploration.
Understand the dynamics of lifestyle parties, the etiquette of communication, and the nuances of diverse sexual expressions. Learn about the detailed process of selecting suitable participants, the importance of communication, and the focus on creating a positive and respectful environment for everyone involved.
Designed for curious minds and adventurous spirits, this episode breaks taboos and sheds light on a facet of the lifestyle many are eager to explore but unsure of where to begin. Whether you're intrigued by the individuality of fantasies or searching for a space to safely indulge in them, Jason and Pharaoh ensure an engaging and enlightening conversation.
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Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Wherever you are, I hope you have blue skies. Welcome to that other lifestyle podcast. I am your host, Jason. Leave Vanilla behind as we talk to one of the most interesting men I have ever met. This podcast is for adults only. We'll be diving into adult and sexual topics with plenty of colorful language. So it's not safe for work. And I got to tell you, I already know what we're talking about. This one is not safe for work. If you were under 18, you need to turn this off right now.
This show is all about exploring the lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. It's open to everyone, no matter your background, gender identity, expression, or your personal truth. While I do my best to use inclusive language, you might hear like husband wife or partner for simplicity's sake this show is for everyone lifestyle vanilla or just the curious today i am joined by a very special guest a man i have been wanting to talk to on this show for a while now pharaoh i have no idea how to describe what you do. Can't put me in a nutshell, can you? Yep.
I was racking my brain trying to figure this out. I want to make sure I do you justice. I want to make sure I do justice to the good stuff that you do. So I figured I'll just kick the ball over to you. What do you do, man? put it simply i make it easy for couples singles to explore their admiration and love for black dominance i like that definition that is a hell of a lot smoother than what I thought of before coming into this. What would have been your intent? That this man that I'm talking to right now, Pharaoh, is a professional big black cock.
And by the way, I'm going to be saying that phrase a whole lot this episode, so I don't know how people feel about that, but he is a professional BBC. He is a professional gangbang organizer. He is a professional bull. Would you say bull? Do you use the term bull? We're going to get into that evolution as well. Let's get into all of that. Go ahead. All that good stuff. And his website is The Sensual Circus. If you want to learn more about what he does, it looks like a fantastic operation. You're basically being paid to do all this stuff. You are a high utmost professional at all this.
And it just blows my mind. And I'm so happy I got to meet you and come across and finally get you onto the show with me. Amen. This is a beautiful thing. I mean, we all know that it is probably easier to be woefully ignorant. It's easy to like, I don't know, it goes both ways because Google is indeed your best friend. You can look these things up. In addition to that, you can go out and go talk to like-minded people. However, what we're doing right now is also making it easy for people to get the information if they seek it.
To dive a little bit into what you do, what your professional job business is, digging around on your website, you organize special activities that some people are really, really into. You work with couples that some couples are really, really into. What parts should we talk about first? I mean, we can try to go as basic as we can down to its nuts and bolts, you know, then try to go from soup to nuts. We can we can do our best attempt at that. So let's just discuss the elephant in the room. Let's just go ahead and do it just because we kind of have to.
And the kind of premise of your show, I've done some research on your show. You don't hold back.
So what do I look like holding back and being a like no oh yeah i think that is most because i got questions too and there's things i want to dive into about this okay cool go ahead man so the black ass elephant in the room pun intended a pun intended is is that we do not live in a post-racial society and the more we try to con each other via the media and all these kind of other good stuff there's obviously a need uh an affinity for a couple singles everybody to reach out for this thing that has been told to you for so long which is so bad you know like if somebody says oh those says, oh, those scrumptious cookies over there, they're so bad for you.
You better not go over there and touch them. That's kind of what it is. We can look at all kinds of systemic things that exist now. And we can also look at relationship norms that happen now and just suppose those to what I do. Basically, I make it easy for people to act out the things that they really want to do in a safe way. And like I said earlier, you're somebody who loves black men. You love big black dick. If you think that 50 shades of gray would have been better if it would have been 50 shades of black, this is probably where you want to be.
You know, this is your only place because who else are you going to talk to about this? You're going to tell your pastor that you would love to see your wife getting railed by what we're talking about. You're going to say your psychologist, you're going to tell your therapist. No, this is the only place that you can do that.
And I like how you you bring up i think you said safely respond and i'm taking it safely responsibly indulge in these fantasies that people may have and yeah there is a taboo element to this and i you know we'll just address the thing in the room it's is it racist my thought is well is it sexist for a man to enjoy watching porn with two women is that sexist, and there's this whole fetishization aspect to what you offer.
And again let's also make it also clear and i like your disclaimer that you gave in the beginning i'm not beating anyone over the head with anything i'm not this is all consensual right these are people coming to me. And I'll even give this also caveat. Sometimes people come with preconceived notions that may not be safe. My job is to educate and set you on the right path so that you know, hey, you can engage in this type of play and then do it a way, and then everybody's happy about it. Right. And I like that. I like that about you talking to you. We've had a few conversations.
You're a professional. You make the experience that these people want to have, the couples want to have, or singles, you make it safe for them and allows them to indulge in this in a responsible manner, which I love for the lifestyle because we all got to be conscious of safety and responsibility. And I love that. How did you get started in this? We're going to go to the origins. That's what we're going to do? I need the origin story. Let's do it. Because I know there's going to be a lot of other dudes listening to this, trying to get inspired here, but you've got a hell of an operation, man.
So for me, this is really, for me, a great exercise in human psychology. All throughout life, especially for me, you know, I played college and high school sports. Since high school, I have been admired by my teammates, you know, and my teammates like, and I'll even keep it all the way specific. I played offensive linemen and I was a big boy.
I't look like it now but I was a big boy my teammates used to be like hey man my girlfriend really likes you snap man you're stupid man yeah I know yeah your girl's cool yeah whatever right no my girlfriend really likes you and uh things should maybe happen you know what I mean I'm like get the out of my face crazy ass white boy what the fuck are you talking about because truth be told on a large scale this is another lesson or whatever black men don't don't if i if i admire you i don't admire you that much to give you or offer you my girlfriend or my wife that that's not something done in mass so i I had to get used to that.
You know what I mean? So that's a different thing. But it really, again, this is an admiration thing. He's saying, you're such a cool dude that if you have an experience with my girlfriend, after you have an experience with her, our relationship will be better. We've talked about it. This is not no unconsensual thing. No, me and my girlfriend have talked about it. And we think that it might be a good idea. I'm coming to talk to you because I'm your teammate. She may come talk to you later too, but I just wanted to let you know that this is something that's consensual.
So that's what of set me on the path of that so i started doing parties you know i started doing events you know we can get into the specifics of that but it just became very clear to me that if given a safe environment this type of dynamic can thrive and it already thrives it's out in the atmosphere. How often do you hear about cuckolding? How often do you hear about all of the different dynamics that happen in the vanilla world? And I'm sure your questions are going to get to that. But how often do we see those things done over there in the vanilla world?
We do the same thing over here on our side. It's just controlled with rules, with boundaries, and better communication.
because I can see over the vanilla world we do the same thing over here on our side it's just controlled with rules with boundaries and better communication because i can see over the vanilla side people wanting to engage in this fantasy that they have about cuck holding or whatever not knowing how to do it responsibly and fulfill the communication needs and and figure out the nuts and bolts that they need to in order to do this well safely i guess right um yeah over in the vanilla side i can see them fucking this up but at least in the lifestyle we we have rules and we have etiquette and we we're so much better at communicating all this stuff i mean and think about it i i try to say that i stand like in a nexus between like you know like porn content and actual lifestyle, meaning that there's differences, there's overlap, there's similarities between content creating.
Because it's like usually women that are in the lifestyle, their pictures never do them justice. They always look better in person. So now you see this switch to where you see content create. I mean, lifestyle people get into content, so therefore you see a better situation. Then on the other side, well, porn people are people that are influential.
They want to experience something quote unquote real because the things that you see in porn or on TV or I mean on the in porn, that's not real nope they may have some elements that are real some things that you may want to add add and kind of get into but if you're wanting to have a full-fledged like quote-unquote cuckold relationship well those things need to be ironed out those things need to be really talked about and I think we do that here oh yeah because with the cuckold and things you got to set you've got to set a lot of boundaries, I imagine. Right.
Getting into the stuff that you offer, the different services, the different professional services, I'm highlighting that heavy because it is professional level stuff here. Which services do you offer? All right. So I offer coaching, which is talking to you about these specific topics that you can't talk to with anyone else. So that would be, so for instance, that would be, say, a husband who's interested in diving into cuckolding, BBC, whatever it is, needing somebody to talk to, somebody to bounce these ideas off of. I imagine a lot of them are worried, am I normal? And it's so normal, bro.
It's like, and of course, you know, everyone is different. I get that. But I tell them all the time. A lot of the things that you're telling me is so, like, so common. Like, it just is what it is. Like, goddamn, Shakespeare, Hamlet, they was talking about Cuckody back then. What are we talking about? Like, it's in Game of Thrones.
Like, of course, it's different expressions, of course, but it's in our lex lexicon why not explore it what is the most what's the most common fantasy around cock holding that husbands come to you with the most common thing i would say is these guys come to me and they're like oh my god i wish my wife was just bbd loving slut i wish she was just like crazy for black dick, you know? And it may even be, because I meet more realistically, I meet more lifestyle people. Like, you know, vanilla people that's coming off the street, yeah, that could exist.
But I think the majority of the people I talk to are lifestyle people. It'll be a husband.
And again, they're non-black so they're just like oh we want to experience i would love to see my wife with black men but she hasn't tried or whatever she's not interested and what i notice is it's almost like a every couple doesn't do this but it's a nice little transition that they go through it's like okay the couple gets into the lifestyle and for the most part it's usually the man that brings the woman in okay cool so they're into it and the husband has little things that he wants to do things that he wants to experience it's like okay cool and then he's just like well hey babe i want you to kind of make this your thing kind of get into it right so what's the first thing they go to they go do you know the unicorn thing and they play with a girl and that's cool in the game and then the next thing it's like okay well let's just do you know just regular parties where you know i'm hubby i'm gonna sit over here and chill and kind of be supportive but you know you can play with whomever you want to and maybe at that party she gets her first black dick like experience and it's awesome and it's great.
And then from there, like they say, they never go back.
However, there's still a negative, depending on what circles you're in, there still can be a negative connotation with that to the point that some couples only want to play with black men privately for those reasons right so my coaching is talking about wherever you fall in that gambit your wife is one to get into it what wherever you are that coaching aspect that that's one third of what i do the second aspect of what i do will be like the coordination of gatherings or sessions or invitations to like exclusive events that type of thing i'm really big on that although i meet a bulk of my people swinger type thing i would say the the other majority is online and i'm a big ex or twitter person you know what i mean so it's like from, hey, I saw some sexy shit online to actually going to be social with people.
That takes a lot of education. That takes confidence. That comes from reading the room and all those etiquette things that you just spoke about. So it's a transition from that coaching, depending on what their needs are, to actually getting them to events and parties because I get invites from all over the world and I'd be damned if I put my name on somebody, some couple or whatever, inviting them to a party or I coordinate something for them and they do something crazy.
That's a part of the vetting for me to get you from the coaching to coordinated events and i think my last service simplistically you know that i say i offer is my matchmaking after i've coached you after i've made sure you retain information then you're good to go out into the street you know go out to the parties the parties, go out to go meet people, beautiful, like-minded people. And then the third step is, if you need it, is matching you with like-minded people, either locally or abroad, wherever you want to go. Like-minded people as in the men? Hey, there you go. There you go.
Well, okay.
Matching them with like-minded people, the the men would you say matching them with bulls right so let's talk about that thing let's talk about that i got opinions on that this is this is a topic of contention for me so i moved away from the bull term because at first well it reminded me to talk about queen of spades too because you know we got to talk about that anyway initially bull had this negative connotation bad and you know just a bull just a mindless bull you know bull in the china shop a lot of it right because because then it got cool to be a bull sites say again you go look up bull on porn sites that's where most people know that word from and my attitude towards the term is i don't like it i don't like that because a lot of men who use the term are not bulls you were exactly five foot one a hundred pounds soaking wet pushing four inches of dick and you're like i'm a bull like no you're not sit the fuck down Exactly.
Lowell has a certain connotation, and you're like, I'm a bull. No, you're not. Sit the fuck down. Bull has a certain connotation, and I see it in the bull cuck dynamic, which is a very particular fetish, totally valid, no judgment. Right. It applies in that. Exactly. But a lot of guys misuse the term, trying to act like they're big shit, and they're not. You haven't earned that term, in my opinion. Exactly. So, I push back on I'll see you next time. trying to act like they're big shit and they're not. You haven't earned that term, in my opinion. Exactly.
So I push back on, I get what people mean by that when they say those terms. When I came into this thing, I just wanted to add a certain genocide. I wanted to add a certain flair to where it wasn't just...
Because again, when I first came into this thing, i really didn't see representation like me it seemed like you know there was no organization there was no and really no agency for the and that's again they say bull i say black king that that's what i'm on right now right so like i really wanted if you're looking for a dominant black man to help you make your fantasy of reality well then why isn't he in charge you know of course again consensually but why isn't he running the show if you're coming to him for xyz those are the types of things as you can see you know structure discipline those are the things that i brought to this thing because I felt like it was lacking that.
So by doing those three things, as far as the coaching, the coordinated events, and the matchmaking, I feel like I'm adding to the lifestyle that I love so much or my particular sect of the lifestyle that I love so much. And I can see couples getting tripped up because if they're thinking, need to go find a bull. So they're going to go on the internet, some website, somewhere, find some guy who's calling himself a bull and he doesn't know what the fuck he's doing and he can't give a good experience. And then it's just bad for everybody.
And it just sours the whole thing and sours the potential for them to even enjoy this fantasy. Correct. And it sours the milk for everybody. But that's, again, that goes back to you got to do your research. You got to look people up, you know, see what they got going on and ask questions.
Ask a lot of effing questions to make sure that you guys are on the same book, same page, same sentence, so that once you get into the session or that you're actually in each other's presence, you you can reduce some of that awkwardness oh god the awkward i can imagine the awkwardness is just insane oh gosh i mean i welcome it now because with me what i'm gonna say this is gonna sound fucked up but but you understand what space we're in for me white boys get to be awkward and geeky around me like they really want to be they don't have to be extra cool that type of shit like they could really be dorky like shut up dork like like is this is no denial environment that's what i like about it that and i like i like that phrase no denial environment y'all y'all you've had the conversations leading into this anyway so they're comfortable with you uh and you go out of your way to make people help people get comfortable because it's a bunch of it's different types of personalities like it's different couples like there's a couple i've been hanging out this is like the first couple i met when i got out here these are two prominent multi-million dollar lawyers right and the dynamic is so cool like i hang out with that dude he's a man outside of the cuck stuff or whatever like bro we can talk about anything we hang out we've traveled the world bro he's brought me like it's crazy what you can do when you can actually relate to somebody and then this other stuff is just like icing on the cake.
I gotcha. You know what I'm saying? And that's really what it is. What was the Queen of Spades? Ah, alright, so, you know, we're talking about etymology and all these types of things or whatever.
So, you know, the Queen of Spades originally was a slur to talk about non-black women, mostly white women that like black men, BBD,bc all that other shit right so yeah because because spade was well let me go back a little bit further if somebody ever told a black person oh you're black as a spade that was them talking shit about your skin tone right yeah i've heard so then for a woman to be a queen of spades was a woman that liked dark men, right?
So I said all that to say we took words, just like how we take words and totally flip them on their heads or whatever or give them better meanings or whatever. So that's where the queen of spades thing kind of came from. Oh, I gotcha. I'd never heard that term before. I'm learning something new today. Hey, there we go. So, and because of that, especially within what I do, it's like you want to have those people included. You know, there's women. What if women found out that there's a group of women, a group that they could join where they can get all the black thick that they want and desire?
No denial. It's all good. You don't have to go out there and do all kinds of crazy stuff. You can do this in a safe environment. Hey, black king, did you know there's an environment where you could smash all these baddies that are into you and everybody else included? You know what I'm saying? What could be wrong with that?
I'm glad there's a safe people for people to indulge in these fantasies and that's why i want to have you on but to talk about this stuff like this this is a thing and people enjoy this none nothing that we do in the lifestyle should be shameful and there's a lot of conversations that need to get normalized i feel this is just one of those things talking to people that, what's the right word? I don't know how to put it. I'm losing my words. It's something people want to indulge in, but they don't know how. And there's a little touch of shame to it. And it's like, why?
If everybody's consenting and everybody's having fun, go do whatever the fuck you want. Enjoy yourself. Yeah, man. It's a deep thing. And again, the elephant in the room is the race thing. And I'll even take you one step further. So you're familiar with race play, right? Or at least the term? Yes. Within what I do, I give race play. And it's like, how is it done? We pre-talk about things. They have some desires that they want for whatever reason. We even talk about those reasons. You know what I mean? And then within the session, it happens.
And then after the session, we have really, really good post-aftercare that's really like, hey, okay, we did that. You know, you got to go back to the real world. You can't do that type of shit. Da-da-da. Like really in depth. And I feel like that's the only way to consensually do it. I like that. I like you do aftercare. We're going to take a commercial break. And when we come back, you want to talk about gang bangs? Let's get it. All right. Stay tuned, And y'all, we'll be right back. All right. Risqué means.
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Today, my guest is Pharaoh, who is an utmost professional at what he does it is just awesome stuff awesome talking to him pharaoh if people want to learn more about you and what you do and your services where can they find you uh you can find me everywhere but the sensualcircus.com is a very good source for you uh pretty much nice breakdowns and everything you need to see on me if you want to get it in short term of course i'm on x or twitter cuck matchmaker c-u-c-k-m-a-t-c a maker all that good stuff uh i'm there instagram everywhere you can find me get everything really fast or go to the long form thecentralcircus.com good deal man so as i teased everybody before the break let's talk about gang bangs let's do it okay so talking to other people about gang bangs it feels like it's something that there there's this there's a population out there who are interested in it they just don't know where to start they.
They don't know what to do. They don't know what they don't know. So getting started with gangbangs, and I guess specifically the BBC kind of gangbang, and the experiences that are perpetuated by porn and all that, I know there's women out there who are interested in it. Man, how do people get started? Or if someone's into this fantasy, what do we do? All right, so let's just put out a couple of truths real quick and kind of set the tone. If she's a beautiful woman, outside of exterior motives or whatever, it's not hard for her to get a bunch of men to smash her.
What're actually talking about is a team effort amongst let's just say for starting out three to four black men we'll talk about the other numbers later and we'll get into my rules and things of that nature but oh my god the other numbers because you're saying like three to four like that's that's a lot of dick exactly and if i'm being honest with you that shit take you know we talked about football and team that shit takes the uttermost teamwork and the utmost like non-verbal communication it has some verbal communication but i said that to say i've been in situations i've coordinated situations To where the bros and I Are doing things to this woman She's loving every minute of it And we're not even saying a word to each other That is a well-oiled machine The bros and I are high-fiving She's coming all over the place It's great But You have to do the pre-work You gotta do the work prior to Thank you.
coming all over the place is great but that you have to do the pre-work you gotta gotta do the work prior to you know what i mean and so in order to do that to answer your question that woman really needs to know what she wants because again most women or some women may have visions of grandeur oh i want 30 guys okay so let's talk that out you want 30 guys right you want all 30 of these well-oiled specimen men to just be standing around jerking waiting waiting for you i get it you want all all the attention on you my lady you're beautiful you're good so so you want all 30 guys looking at you okay no fluffers either all guys looking at you oh okay and you want that's at least 15 feet of dick all right all right so let's kind of scale that down my lady how about we start wait and this is your first time too wait you've never okay so let's kind of scale this down to one to two black men right hubby can be there too right and we're gonna have those see how you fare with that first before we move on to the 30 guy because see and then you know another thing is okay i spoke briefly about another woman being there some women again want to be the center of attention but then some women think that and then they get in a situation they're like oh shit i do need a fluffer i mean i know i want all the attention but i need help you know what i mean so all of that comes through trial and error to be honest with you because i imagine couples who may have this fantasy think they just need to go out and find a couple of guys to fulfill this fantasy and as somebody who has organized group activities it's fucking hard to coordinate that shit no you gotta find everybody's cool with everybody everybody's feeling each other and that's just for like an orgy i can't even imagine organizing gangbangs that just sounds complicated as hell hey man and you're dealing with personalities this is really like a organized thing i'm orchestrating people and personalities to get together and have a good time and that's not easy if it was easy everybody easy, everybody would do it.
It's okay. I got big shoulders. I can handle it. But it's like, it's setting good expectations. Because you know, I get wives that are just like, hey, yeah, I need 12 guys. It's like, well, first of all, have you ever had more than one man at a time? No, no, but I just thought, well, man. Well, yeah, because only, like, maybe two guys are busy at one time. Then you got 10 guys just standing around holding their dicks. Ergonomically correct. As I say, a woman can really only fit three guys at a time. Ergonomically correct. Ergonomically correct.
Like, okay, I got one in your mouth, one in your ass, one in your pussy, right? Well, actually, we can do five. Because if she's on top of the guy, right? Thank you. Like, okay, I got one in your mouth, one in your ass, one in your pussy, right? Well, actually, we can do five because if she's on top of the guy, right, so she got one light tight, right, one in her ass, one in her pussy, one in her mouth, if she's stable enough, she could be jerking off two hands, right? Yeah, that's assuming that, like, she can pat her head or rub her stomach at the same time. Exactly.
We're talking about maximum coordination. And I also talk about this. You have to be in shape to really enjoy this lifestyle really because god forbid you have a health concern in the middle of this how do we explain it to paramedics how are we going to do that how you're going to answer questions that shit would just get awkward exactly so it would probably be in the best idea for everybody to be in the best shape they can be just for. Just for yourself. So when you're putting together these kind of events, what about the men? Like, what are the considerations for the men?
What do you look for? The qualifications in the dudes? All right. So Black Kings, oh man, I'm talking to these guys and I'm vetting them. Have you done this before? What things push you the wrong way? what what do you hate what are your pet peeves are you three pumps and a grind type guy are you a guy that actually likes to please a woman you know uh do you get skittish when other dicks are flailing around like like all of these questions i want to know how you deal like it's really again i know i go back to the sports thing, but how do you deal when the bullets start flying?
We're playing a game right now. We're on the same football team. We need to score. She is the end zone. How are we going to get there? Oh yeah, man, because I can tell you there's some dudes out there in just a full swap situation with two couples. Some dudes start sweating, just having another dick in the room.
So yeah yeah having a bunch more dicks i can see that being pressure and again visions of grandeur setting expectations uh guys hit me up all the time yeah man i see all the bad bitches you fuck like that i could do that shit oh okay well i'll bring you on to a party let you audit real quick like come on you know can you speak to the couple do you know how to engage can you read the room how's your etiquette Thank you.
you onto a party let you audit real quick like come on you know can you speak to the couple do you know how to engage can you read the room how's your etiquette you know how's your actual play do you know how to fucking leave like all of those things determine if you move on to the next stage oh yeah cause I can see making sure that the men know how to respect a woman take direction be part of that oil machine I like the sports analogy I like I don't know. I don see making sure that the men know how to respect a woman, take direction, be part of that oiled machine. I like the sports analogy.
I like the football team analogy because everybody has to work together in order to score and give the woman the experience she wants. And other sides too, because I don't want the guys to feel like just a useless tool. Hey, I'm you enjoy like everybody here should win that everybody here should win. That's my take on this is I, and I never want anyone to feel like a sex object in the life. Exactly. Be a single, be a couple, be somebody in a gang bang. Never. You are a fully realized person with your own dignity and dreams and a soul.
No one should treat anyone else like just a random sex object to fucking throw away you know so i i like that when you're talking about this with the gangbangs that yeah these men are there for a reason they know why they're there they're part of a team part of an effort from the and i've talked to women who've done gangbangs, they always tell me the same thing. All the ones I've talked to, it's empowering for a woman. Right. Well, I just want to talk about, to that point, just juxtapose, compare, contrast. Okay, women are women, be it vanilla or lifestyle.
Let's say there's two type of women that are both the same on all levels. Just one is vanilla and one is lifestyle. Both of these women are supreme sluts. The supreme slut that's in the vanilla world may not do things as safe. She might just pick up a sign and say, hey, first thousand guys come slam me. Whereas the difference on our side is, and I've seen this with my own eyes, I'm watching this woman. There's a line, a woman's in the bed getting slammed. And we already talked about the ergonomics. Maybe she's coordinating us. She got all five guys and they're rotating in and out, in and out.
She's turning them higher, right? Still, at some point, somebody like me is going to come around and be like, hey, babe, you all right? You need some water. You need to take a break. Hey, how about you, let me help you say, like not forcefully, but like, hey, no, let's take a break. You've taken 100 guys in the last 15 minutes. How about you come take a break? Come sit in the pool. I'd the pool, sit in the jacuzzis, have a bite to eat. Let me kind of save you from yourself for lack of better terms, right? And then you're good. Okay. Hey, go back to the fun.
I think that's the difference between what we do and what's going on on the other side. I totally agree with that. Checking in, making sure people are people are okay respecting them as people yeah i love that that works i think that's the only way we can keep it safe yes definitely and speaking of safety it's a thing now testing condoms and all that yeah so i have so again going back to porn people see these images of gang bangs or whatever one uses condoms. They don't use condoms because they're professional porn actors who get tested every week.
But for what you do, tell me about the safety and testing protocols. So again, standing in this nexus between lifestyle and content or porn, like you just suggested, porn people get tested often. Lifestyle and content or porn, like you just suggested. Porn people get tested often. Lifestyle people, you know, not so much up until now. So now it's a situation to where, yeah, if you're coming to this party, you want to do all of these cool things. Well, yeah, we need to see your results. And with the power of technology, we can do so many things.
I'm not saying that you got to go the whole point right and do talent testing or all these other ones but it's like there is a way to make sure that we all stay safe and we don't have to like come back with like negative things so yes testing is numero uno you can't even get into the spot without your testing i don't. I don't care if she's the woman to be gang banged that night. I don't care. No. I love that, man. I love you take I love that you take safety that you hold safety in that such high regard. Shows you are a true professional. Yes, sir. We have covered a lot of ground.
We haven't been close to it done because we got other stuff to talk about that you do. What is up with the Bunny Training Bootcamp? I see on your website. All right. So Thank you.
a lot of ground we haven't been close to done because we got other stuff talk about that you do what is up with the bunny training bootcamp i see on your website all right so these husbands these boyfriends again they offer their their significant others to me and it's just like okay well i got a lot of things i can give to her and show her we can do fashion because i design clothing i mean these women are around me i know how I would like for them to look. I know how they like to feel when they have on certain clothing. I've made a nice amount of connections with this thing.
So, I deal with cool clothing designers. So, when she comes here, she's going to be dressing differently. All right, we're going to go work out. We're going to do fitness. We're going to do like, you know, all kind of cool, fun activity things, go swimming, go hiking, go on yachts and stuff like that. So that's the fitness and the fun aspect of it. This fin dom thing, female domination, I showed them different ways or different things they can do with their boyfriend once they get back. Different little tactics, different little fun things to do.
Of course, they're going to have the clothing on or whatever. So that'll be other mementos to kind of remind them of what experience they just had. That's the fashion. That's the fitness. That's the fandom. And that's the fantasy. We really do really fun things to show off the lifestyle. If you get to look at any of my social media, like I take the wives places. We go do things down here in Miami. So I'm privileged to live here. So we do all kinds of fun stuff. And then she gets to go back home evolved better. So that's what the bootcamp is about. Similar to a boyfriend experience.
There you go. Gotcha. Gotcha. What is up with this mansion? For those who don't, so I'm looking around on the website, the sensualcircus.com. Yeah, man. When you're good to people, people are good back to you. So I was given this place, this mansion to hosting and couples, singles come by. It's very comfortable. It's what you would expect for a Miami experience, Miami cuckold BBD experience. Yeah, you're based out of Miami. I know we didn't cover that. You're based out of Miami. Yes, I am. All the amenities that are here, I offer that and it's a nice experience.
Basically, fantasy island, basically. A cuckold fantasy island. A cuckold fantasy island. That's wild. Right. Yeah, because I'm looking at the events and stuff you have coming up and the parties and all that. It's just wild. And this is an aspect of the lifestyle that I know people are interested in. I know there's couples out there who are interested. I know there's women who are interested. Definitely want to be able to give time to all the different ways that people enjoy their sexuality. In a safe way. Yes, a safe, responsible manner.
Because yeah, I mean, that's the main thing I've gotten from you is just the professionalism that couples are able to find you, look you up. And if they want to engage in this particular activity, which is totally cool, I don't know.
the professionalism that couples are able to to find you cut look you up and if they want to engage in this particular activity which is totally cool there's a way to do that and that's what i want people to know and to take away from this episode is like look there's a dude out there who does this right you can go do it the other way if you want to you hey it's totally your choice or you could check out this alternative alternative, explore it, and I guarantee the results, you will love it. You will love it. Go look at my results. Go look at my testimonials. Don't believe nothing I'm saying.
Go look at what these people say about how their quality of life has been improved because they took this step. Just check it out. And I just wanted to prove to people out there like, oh, no's a dude who makes a living doing this yeah this is all i do this is all i do i mean before before i got on this with you oh man so this this new cuck boy that just hit me up he wants me to match him with a woman he's in los angeles this okay, right? I mean, really, really okay. And he's just like, yeah, man, I'm just looking to spoil a woman that loves black men. I don't even have to have sex with her.
I don't need to ever have sex with her. In fact, I'll be in chastity if she tells me to for the rest of my life. She can have my key. Master, just find me a woman that will, and we know the terms, FLR, female-led relationship. That is what he wants. He's in, without no uncertain term, non-denial about it, this is what I'm looking for. He's a CEO, dude. He's good, but this is what he desires. Why should he have that? That's my opinion. If you want to do this safely and consensually, rock on with your bad self. I'm not here to judge anybody or tell anybody you shouldn't do something.
As long as it's safe and consensual and you're having fun doing it, do it. I don't care. I'm not here to judge nobody. That's exactly where my head is. It's logical for me. Awesome. Well, is there anything else you want our listeners to know? Anything else you want to share with them? I just want to let everyone know that this is 2025. Everything that you're looking for is like a click away. Google, like we said earlier, is your best friend.
Get out there, better yourself so that if you do find yourself in these situations or around people that you want to be around, that you actually have something to add to it. Again, this is the icing on the cake. This is extra. So if you're in a relationship or whatever, you can only enhance this by first enhancing yourself first. Learn about this lifestyle. Learn about yourself. Better yourself so that when you come around, you really have to add, and we would love to have you. TheSensualCircus.com, CuckMatchmaker, I'm here to assist you. Jason, thank you so much for having me on, man.
Oh, yeah, man. And like I said, I wanted to bring you on to show the world that this is a thing. People do this. People enjoy it. I don't want people to carry any shame about it. And I picked that up in a few conversations. And I don't know if shame is the right word, but that's what I'm going to go with. And no, if you want to experience this, there are ways to do it safely. There's ways to do it with professional people. You can have the experience you want.
Don't limit yourself because you think something is wrong or taboo like if yeah that's that's my takeaway for people is just enjoy it enjoy the ride you want to know what's wrong divorce you want to know what's wrong all of these all the bs that everybody else is going through or whatever why do that when we can do this right that's what i'm saying and i know there's some dudes out there who are just watching the porn and they have all these fantasies. And that's my thing about the cuck thing. It's not my jam. Right. It's not. I don't judge it. Right. If you're into it, that's okay.
Bugs me that there is this perception in the lifestyle and in the vanilla world. It's like, oh, this is a weak thing or it's a bad thing and da da da no it's not it's a perfectly valid kink fetish desire whatever you have whatever you want to call it it's okay man yeah man and it's up to you to really explore it or or don't and and just be over there on sideline wondering, which is a sucky spot to be in. You can't even enjoy yourself. Well, Farah, man, I thank you so much for hanging out too with us. This is one of the most interesting conversations I've ever had with anybody.
So thank you for that. Hey, man, I really appreciate your time. Thank you for this, man. Really appreciate it. All right, man. Y'all take care. Come back for the next episode. Y'all have a wonderful night. Thank you.
