Intimate Insights: Tales of Passion and Play

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Speaker1: This is Bethany Frankel from Just Be With Bethany Frankel. Listen, I have a bone to pick with these dog food brands calling themselves fresh, natural, healthy. Sounds great, but a lot of these quote-unquote fresh dog foods in your fridge are not even 100% human grade, which is why feed your babies just food for dogs. It's good enough for Biggie and Smalls, my precious babies, so it's good enough for your babies. 100% human grade, real ingredients, beef, sweet potatoes, green beans, delicious. These are foods that you would want to eat. Not that the babies would ever share. Just Food for Dogs is the number one vet-recommended fresh dog food backed by over a decade of research. No marketing fluff. My dogs lose their minds at dinner. They run to the bowl, tags wagging, paws tapping, full Broadway performance every single night. So I do care about the food I feed Biggie and Smalls. So go to justfoodfordogs.com for 50% off your first box. No code, no gimmicks, just real fresh food. Welcome to Hot Couple Chronicles, a podcast exploring the swinging lifestyle. Our discussions may contain explicit content and adult themes intended for mature audiences. While we strive to offer valuable insights and entertainment, please be aware that the views expressed are based on personal experiences and opinions. We encourage listeners to approach the content with an open mind and to prioritize communication, consent, and respect in their relationships. Remember, everyone's journey is unique, so take what resonates with you. and leave what doesn't. Thank you for joining us on our adventure. I'm Russ. And I'm Ashley. And this is Hot Couple Chronicles. overshare. Laugh too loud. And probably say things that we'll regret later. Welcome back, guys. Happy Wednesday. Happy Wednesday. Thanks for coming back. Hey, we're back again. Yeah, we're excited. It's starting to rain outside now. I know, it's getting dreary. It's summertime. I'm starting to hear thunder. Yeah, we're in full summer effect. We've been busy. It's been a crazy last few months and the kids have been home and navigating that and working and lifestyle. Yeah, it's just been chaos. It's been a lot of life. And then I've been traveling nonstop. And this weekend, I am excited. This weekend, I finally get to check out PBR. Oh, yeah. Very nice valley. So everyone for the as long as we've been doing this has always talked about PBR. PBR is a favorite of people around here. And it's not too far for us. It's like three hours or so. Yeah, somewhere like that. It's up north. So I got invited to come along with a whole group of our friends and they got a place on site. So I'm excited. It's supposed to be a big party Saturday. So I'm excited to finally check it out. I feel like we've done the Grove and we know what that's like and we've heard it's very similar. I know that there's more lifestyle of PBR they say anyway and so I'm excited. I've heard lots of things and we're going to definitely check back and we'll let you know that's what we're here for. You know what that's like but it's going to be no matter what it's a good group of people so it'll be fun. Yeah today we wanted to talk. I did a TikTok a few weeks ago talking about just reoccurring issues just stuff that keeps coming. out problems that I've been seeing and I really just wanted to reach out to the community and just kind of say this stuff out loud maybe hopefully help someone or yeah kind of reiterate and talk more about all these things there's like three common themes that keep happening all summer I've been noticing going to all of these yeah we've talked about it a lot we've talked about it to friends yes and yeah we just wanted to kind of we figured it needed a space in the podcast because I mean when I tell you I've been getting daily texts and calls and people are really frustrated and worried worried and concerned and there are things popping up that we just never really had happened before and i just wanted to kind of get on the podcast it's probably not gonna be a very long episode but just kind of get out there get people thinking maybe help someone yeah i don't know but the first one is the amount of couples we say that we have seen lately struggling yeah The space of swinging. So, what we've seen are couples that clearly have intermarital or interrelationship problems. That they are either, they could be working on them outside of a lifestyle space. But they're deciding to go to these events and parties while they're still working through this stuff. And it never ends up good. No. No, it's been, unfortunately, the last few things we've been to have ended up with relationship issues or fighting or a lot of red flags a lot of things that are reoccurring with different people different couples they're not just one couple or two it's multiple couples if you're going to an event or to our house party or to a club and you're going through something you're dealing with something don't go it's as simple as that i know you might have spent money or the time but especially if it's a bigger event if you cancel if it's not last minute if you cancel you can one either resell your tickets to someone else and transfer them or two they might refund at least part of your money back so there's no trust us yeah if you're dealing with an issue if there are deep jealousy issues if there's something going on that's it's anything really that's really deep that you're going through yeah don't go just don't go it's been like and because it When you're not just going there and you're having a bad night. And you guys are having a bad night. It bleeds into the environment. And everyone can feel the shift change. And everyone is a part of it at that point once you bring it to. Because it's going to come to a head. And usually, unfortunately, it comes to a head at the end of the night. Or when someone's trying to take it to the playroom. And it's never in private. It's never in private. It always blows up. And then you're not just losing out on your night or your event or your club night or whatever. Everyone else is. Because they're soaking in. It just changes the whole night. Well, and they're hurting themselves. Not just their relationship, but their reputation and lifestyle. Word of mouth. We've said it a million times. Word of mouth. As soon as you ruin someone else's night or another group's night that you're with that sees this happen, they're not going to want to hang out with you anymore. It's hard to come back from that. When people start seeing flags being thrown and people see that you're not a solid couple and you're not okay, Word starts spreading immediately. Because people do want to give a heads up to people. You want to play with solid couples. You want to hang out with solid couples. So they have a tendency to like, hey, here's a heads up. Yeah, I'm not telling you what to do, but this is our experience. Yeah, just be careful. Take it as you will, but just be careful. This lifestyle, that's what it is. Everything here, everything is word of mouth. And you have a reputation. And we just, It's hard to watch. It's just been hard to watch. A lot of couples struggling. A lot of couples going through. And what they don't realize is we would and everyone in the lifestyle has more respect for a couple that says we're going through some things. We're just going to sit out for a little bit and focus on us. There's so much more respect there because then you are clearly focused on Yeah. Instead of looking outside of the relationship to fill gaps. Yeah. Or blame. Or blame or, yeah. That we're just going to cause more problems. Yeah. Than trying to figure this stuff out in these highly intense environments. Yeah. Intense environments. Yeah. Because then you add sex and jealousy and just alcohol. Well, in a lot of these events, there's alcohol. and other substances that are just like not helping anything, amplifying everything, if anything. Which brings us to our next thing. Looking to add some excitement to your social life? Meet 3Fun, the free app that connects open-minded singles and couples for fun adventures. With thousands of active users, 3Fun is our ticket to new friendships, flirty encounters, and unforgettable experiences. The best part? It's completely free to use. No hidden fees or subscriptions. Ready to join Join the fun. Download 3Fun app now from the App Store or Google Play Store and start connecting with like-minded individuals in your area. Don't miss out on the excitement. Find the link below and get started with 3Fun today. Yes, next thing on the list. People drinking too much and other substances like regularly. We're nervous about bringing this one up, but we've had so many people reach out to us and concerned and just out of love. I don't want people to get around. Like, I understand having a good time. Oh, yeah. I understand having a few drinks or, you know, I understand smoking or doing what you need to do to just relax and to get out of your nerves. We are not saying that. We are here for a good time. We love a good party. We're legitimately out. And it's alarmingly quickly. It's catching on really fast. And I'm not really sure where it came from. From my perspective, it's a lot of different groups and younger people and people in different scenes and stuff. Yeah, well, so we have really, we've been trying, we've been talking about this for a while between us. And we're really, I think we are onto something. find the lifestyle or be blended in with the lifestyle. Along with the EDM scene and the rave scene, there's these other substances and these party drugs that are being brought to lifestyle events. But it's just alarming how fast it's happening and how many different groups of people. It's not just one specific group. It used to be more of this group of people. you just know that kind of comes along with it and that's just what they do but now i can't believe over the last just this summer how many people and it seems like everyone like it really does feel like i'm seeing a definitely a giant uptick fast this like this past summer but before like it was you know a few people now like that's just like we just knew like oh that's just what they do they don't drink they don't smoke they don't do it like they're not against they'll just do that it just seems like everybody like they're always under control and like it was just something for them to just feel the vibe yeah yeah but what we're seeing now are like a concerning amount of people that we didn't want to bring it up because it's so many people that we know and love that are my biggest thing is i guess is just i feel like we need to figure out i understand it loosens you up and you like the person that you become and i understand that but like maybe we should figure out why we can't do this stuff. Without anything. Yeah. And I feel like there has to be a reason. I understand it's fun and exciting. But what concerns me is like the underlying reasons why you feel like you need to be a different person. Why do you need to transform into another being to do this stuff? And why do you have to have another like persona? And again, out of love and concern, because I've had so many people come to me and text me and call me genuinely worried about friends. And we love everyone. No. We are not immune to over-serving ourselves. No. Especially with drinking. We are party. People. I mean, the last party and event we went to, the first night, I was excited and got too drunk. Yeah. Ended up just going to bed. Yeah. But the next night, I was sober all night. So it's, I mean, like, I'm not saying we're not immune to doing this to ourselves. Yeah. We understand we're just here for a good time, but we're just worried about the community as a whole. Enough that people are like, we need to bring this up and say something on the podcast. You need to get it out there. Honestly, my concern isn't the people doing it because they know what they're doing. It's, I don't know the source they're getting this stuff from. That's what I'm worried about. And the way fentanyl's been laced through things. That's what scares me. I don't want somebody actually That's where my concern is. Become unalive. Like I understand. Because this whole fentanyl thing. And that brings up another thing we've talked about is should we start bringing Narcan to events and parties just in case something happened? My concern is I've seen it for a time numerous times now with different groups of people. And that's the thing. It's not just secluded to one little group or certain people. It's taking over all of the groups. that we've seen. And it's the amount of things that everyone doesn't know what they're taking. It doesn't know where it came from, doesn't know what it is. And that's scary. I just honestly wanted to bring it up and talk about it and get it out there and get people thinking just because I, again, I'm concerned with their health. I just don't want somebody we care about to actually. Oh, no, I would. Yeah. Yeah. Like, that's where this comes from is we just don't want people. We want people to have fun. But no judgment, no nothing. But also, we want to be able to consent. And we want to make sure that, again, with alcohol and substances, it brings out the beasts in people. Can you really consent? Yeah. Or can I really get consent from somebody that isn't in their right mind? Yeah. Isn't sober, isn't technically sane. No. Get consent, give consent. How can we play safely? Both ways, yeah. That's the biggest concern. Yeah. It's consent and health. The last thing I want to do is play with somebody and then the next day be like, you did that. I'm not okay with that. No. But I thought I had consent. No. There was an enthusiastic yes at that time, but after the fact, when everybody sobers up, it's a no. So, you know, I don't want to put myself in that predicament. I don't want somebody else to find themselves in that type of predicament. I just want everybody to be safe and healthy and okay because I just don't want anyone I don't want to see anything happen to anyone I understand again I 420 friendly I'm all about different things and I'm open to a lot of stuff and I have no judgment at all here whatsoever only love but concern and not just us but a lot of people a lot of event hosts a lot of people have been concerned about this happening and going on and honestly didn't how to really approach it or talk about it because I don't want anyone to get upset or, you know, be called out or any of that. But if it could help somebody or, you know, help. Make somebody think about it. Yeah. Maybe pull back a little or maybe think twice about it or maybe help in any way. I told it like I told everyone that's reached out to me. We are more than happy to bring it up. Not sure how, but we're more than happy to bring it up. At least get the conversation started and people talking. And again, All out of love. And we just have concern. And a lot of people are just worried about their people. And I would never want anything to happen to any of you guys. So if they can help anybody. But it's so good when you actually can be there and present and not gnome. It's so good. And I highly recommend to do that because we want to feel everything. We want to have consent. No questions asked. We want to be able to remember the next day. There's been a lot of alcohol fighting issues and marital issues. Alcohol has been the number one culprit for that. I'm always saying that alcohol is the most dangerous things you could deal with at all. It's terrifying. And I've seen some really bad things go down. And I don't know why, but this summer, this swinger season, it's a lot of just under-influenced problems. And people just, people are wild this year. I don't really know what's going on. People be peopling. People be peopling a lot. Yeah. And then the last thing that I had talked about was what? Consent. The consent problem that we've recently come across. Yes, another thing. I don't know if it's hand in hand with the use of... It could be. Also, I think part of it is we're like, we've hung out with the same people a lot. This is Bethany Frankel from Just Be With Bethany Frankel. Listen, I have a bone to pick with these dog food brands calling themselves fresh, natural, healthy. Sounds great, but a lot of these quote-unquote fresh dog foods in your fridge are not even 100% human grade, which is why feed your babies just food for dogs. 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All that person has to say is, I'm not feeling. Yeah, we can pull back it. And then there's no questions asked. No big deal. No pressure. No. Yeah, no weirdness, no nothing ever. But those are people that we've spent a lot of time with and we've grown this level of trust. And had conversations. And have the conversations. And understand boundaries and limits and things that we have established. But we're talking about people that we've hung out also quite a bit, but haven't had these that they can touch me, touch you. The problem a lot for me, especially when I'm alone at these events and parties and stuff, is that people know me, but I don't know them. But they think that they know me so well and they're so comfortable because they message me on Instagram here and there or something and we see each other's stuff and like it. Or they see my stuff or they share my stuff or like my stuff. And then they're automatically assumed that meant I feel it. same way and it's a lot more like they know me but I don't know them right and not even realizing how weird that kind of is for me because I really don't know who you are yeah just because you followed or you use a link that I use or going to an event or expecting to meet doesn't mean that anything's gonna happen right and another thing that I've noticed is just because you're in a room that an orgy is going on in the consent doesn't mean that you You are automatically involved in said orgy. Orgy doesn't mean a free-for-all. People think that an orgy is just everyone jump in and have sex with everybody. And that's not how it goes. I know it goes down. I know that happens. I know that's the thing. But again, you have to get consent every time. But almost all the time, it's people that have already had a conversation, already agreed, already asked for consent. You just didn't see that part. Most orgies that we see are people that know each other, people that have had a conversation, people who have talked, people who have who were invited. People they wanted to be an orgy. And yeah, I've had to stop play twice over the last few months and make it weird. Because people, like, I will never understand how you just walk up to somebody and smack them. I just never will understand how, like, spank them. I will never understand how someone just grabs, just grabs your butt, smacks your butt. That, like, it irritates me so bad and it happens to me pretty much every single time I go anywhere. I had to have a conversation to you guys and make a TikTok about it because it's got me all worked up. But for some reason, I don't know if it's because they know I'm submissive and they know I'm BDSM. And I have a lot of people who choke me and spank me just unprovoked. And I'm usually out of nowhere. Yeah. And usually like middle of conversation or something, you know, doing something when I'm standing there. And it blows my mind just every single time. I have a lot harder time speaking up for myself than I do for other people. When I've paused things twice in public, it was because of other people. people being violated. Not because of me. Part of that problem for you is because we've talked about like what you need from another guy. And these people have listened to us and watched us on social media and the podcast and everything. So they think they're doing exactly what you want. But they've never had these type of conversations. It kind of goes back to the whole, a lot of people know me really well. And they've watched me and they hear me and I talk to them. But I have no idea. You're a stranger to me. I can't possibly know every single person that follows me or likes myself or shares or uses my code or whatever. I do try, but I can't possibly. And even if I do know of you, we haven't had those conversations. We haven't talked about boundaries and limits and gotten consent from my husband or me. It's just, just don't do it. Just don't touch anyone. So also a lot of people see you by yourself at a lot of these events this last summer. with the people that you're with I've had these conversations with yeah they've they've come to me and asked you know what I'm okay with what I'm not okay with we've had these conversations as groups as individuals but what people see is they perceive one thing but they didn't see all everything that happened in the background before what they saw yeah and people don't understand like oh he just did this to her she must like that yeah yes yeah i know that i know that's a lot of and so they think yeah because you've talked to them you know once once or twice and because you know their name yeah yeah or know their face or something like that you know like they you they're an acquaintance they think they're allowed and it's like no we haven't had these types of conversations that's it i mean i think we've come a long way I think consent, we've really tried to educate. I think all of us as a community, as a whole, have really pushed home consent lately. We've really done a really good job. So it's like when you have these things that happen. These are definitely one-offs, but the one-offs really stick out. It's been every time in the last few months. There's been at least one instance every night that I've done a lifestyle thing. It's enough where, again, it had me all riled up for a TikTok. I had to say something because I do think I feel like we're talking about it constantly maybe I feel like the whole community is talking about it but maybe this will help light some fires and get people back to talking about it because we I know we've had a million podcast episodes talking about consent that's one of our number one things maybe we need to just make sure to go back and reiterate and re-educate and get back to the roots because I think we do kind of assume everyone knows we've covered it and unfortunately we have been talking about it for so long that we just assume everyone's I do feel like we're a broken record when we talk about consent. There's so many new people. There's so many people coming in at all times. I understand. Just because we feel that way. And people that have been in the space might feel that way. One, we can't stop talking about it. We start getting lax because we do feel like we always talk about it. And somebody needs to hear it. We just have to remember how many people are just joining every day. Brand new. Never seen it. it's all brand new to a lot of people on every day so we're gonna just keep on talking about it on here talking about on social media keep keep the conversation going make sure that you ask before you touch we have learned everything we need to know about this lifestyle in kindergarten be kind be respectful and leave your hands off people just don't yeah don't touch people ask first we love touches most all of us love to be touched and most all of us would love you to do all the things but You need to have a conversation. You need to ask. Even us meeting new people. I ask, is it okay if I hug? I'm a hugger. Is that okay? 90% of the time, it's okay. I always make sure that I'm not putting somebody in an uncomfortable position because I'm comfortable with doing it. It doesn't mean they're comfortable with doing it. I have, again, seen a lot of people that are concerned about consent and concerned about that. And it's good. I think it's a good thing. I think that if we keep talking about this kind of stuff and figuring out different ways to educate and advocate, and I think that we just need to all be mindful, consent, just being under the influence, just be careful. We love everyone, and it worries all of us, and we just want to make sure that everyone's being safe and we're here for a good time. And then communicate with your spouse. If something's going down, Just stop what you're doing. Stop everything you're doing. There's no point in bringing other people into your... And don't continue. If you know that it's something and you know your person's struggling and you know that you're not in a good space, don't keep doing whatever it is that's making you mad. It's not a tit-for-tat. That's a turn-off for everyone else as well. I've watched so many tit-for-tats and like, get back at you and I'm gonna do this and it's like a point system and this like weird competition And it's been a lot of that lately. And trying to make your spouse jealous, your partner jealous. And then when it gets to that point, just watching, just disregard for your spouse, which that's your person. That's your person. You're married. So when I see that type of thing, you just disrespected your person. Yeah. So why do you think, why would I think that you're going to respect my person? I was just going to say, Why, if he's not listening to his human or her human, they're not listening to their human at all, why in the heck would they care about my boundaries and my consent and my rules and everything if they don't care about their own person's rules or boundaries or limits or any of that? And that's what I always go back to. It's a huge problem. And I know there have been quite a few couples that have taken a break and stepped back. And it's good. I think that needs to happen for all of us if something comes up. Because again, this lifestyle could make or break your relationship. It will amplify every problem, every issue, every ounce of jealousy that you have. But it also amplifies the good side. But it can be absolutely thrilling and amazing. I think I'm just thankful that we got into lifestyle as a solid couple before. I'm glad we established BDSM. I really do believe that I give it most of the credit for How strong of a couple we became. And living long distance. And then media sound. We've had nothing but communication. And I am glad. I think that people recognize that. I think that's why people listen and hang out with us. And love us. I think it is because they know that. And we might be a little bit more sensitive to all like this stuff. Because we are so solid. And we kind of project that energy. People that aren't so solid. They come to us with their problems. Yeah. I think that part. And so I think we might be more sensitive to a lot of these problems than other people. Yeah. Sometimes. Because. Some point we became kind of like relationship. We had to step back for a little bit and remove ourselves from most of these people. Well, yeah. Because. It stopped being a fun event for us. And we started. We became a therapist. We became relationship coaches. And we were sitting in rooms with people that were. I know speaking of that I went to a party and a couple was not doing well it was it was really bad and I didn't really know them too well but know them enough that I even sat there and was like I had to fight the urge to not separate them I said if Russ was here and this would have been a few years ago he would have taken him into a room I would have taken how many times have we had to separate couples and sit down and fix and remove we remove them from the space and go through all those issues and work through their stuff with them. And we were getting events that we were just spending all of our time. People giving us all of the relationship problems and troubles. And we have always been a couple that believes in also, we're not going to talk to other people about our relationship like that. If there is issues and trouble, we work on that. We communicate that. So it was like opposite of what we had always done. But it was ruining club nights and events and stuff. We would spend it being And I am very empathetic. I soak all of that in. So it just ruins the vibes and the energy. I love those people. And I don't regret doing that. But we had to start removing ourselves from a lot of that. Because we were soaking it in. And it changes everything. And then you end up spending the night just in a whole different space. And we're not focusing on each other. We're not even hanging out. We're in two different places. And it was a minute where I was just like, should I go separate? Talk through it? issue get them to talk and I was I had to stop myself and we have to start my circus not my monkeys because no it's really not not it's not like it's like as long as it doesn't go too far I'm not going to include myself I mean it depends on the people these were not like close friends either it really does obviously our people and our close friends were going to be there and whatever you need and we will help you work through but It was, like, just random people that would just talk to us about all of their spouse's problems and all of the stuff they hate about them and be dumping all of this stuff. And I think early on, we were very much like, we're not going to be like that. We're not doing any of that. We don't do that here. We're not going to sit there and just talk crap about our spouse. But a lot of people do. And the thing is, is that's what part of what we fell in love with this community. That's what makes me sad. We don't have the people that talk trash about their spouses. We have people that love them. And when you get the couples that are going through things and start doing that, it's like, we don't do that here. We don't. And it's your person. And that's your person. We always say that. How many times do we say that? I don't care how mad and upset you are and sad or whatever hurt you are. That's still your person. Don't forget that. And put all of your energy into that. Because it's very much worth it. And you need to invest everything in your marriage. That's always been our number one is our marriage. And it makes me sad that people aren't just having the best time of their life because if you would just allow it to happen, you could thrive and have so much fun. And I hate to see people just going through things and struggling and a lot. It's just all at one time. It feels like a lot of people close to us. I guess maybe it's just hopefully on our end, it just seems amplified because of the fact that it's been a lot going on with our space we're in lately but i just wanted to bring attention to it and kind of say it out loud and maybe get the conversation started and all out of love again a lot of love we just want people to love each other have fun have the greatest time enjoy yourself be safe get consent you know basic common communicate communication is key how many more things can i say about it all the cliches we just love you guys and i think it was worth talking about yeah If you have something to say about it, or if you want to chime in, or if you have any ideas, or anything at all, make sure to comment below and leave all the things and interact with us. I'll be talking about it on the stories and have all that stuff on social media, Instagram, TikTok, so join the conversation. YouTube. Yeah, YouTube. We want to help if you have any ideas or anything that we can do. We want to start carrying Narcan, I think, is a good idea, I think, just to be safe. There's some ideas that we've and trying to throw around like we can't they're grown everybody's a grown adult we can't really force anyone to do or not do anything but we want to be safe about it and we want to make sure i loved that naughty had two emts right there all times like it's we need to start making sure that there are ivs and there's fluids and everyone's hydrated and we just want it to be safe we want everyone to live the rest of it no matter how that is even if it's different than how we do but we just hope that everyone is very safe and keep each other safe And love each other. Love each other. Love your person. Make sure that you're liking, following, doing all the things. I haven't said that for a minute. I keep forgetting every single podcast. We have Instagram. We've got TikTok. We have YouTube. Multiple, multiple accounts. But everything can be found at thathackcoupleinGA.com. And yeah, that's all we really have to say about that. So as always. Not that serious. Don't make it weird. We love you guys. Bye. Bye. This is Bethany Frankel from Just Be With Bethany Frankel. Listen, I have a bone to pick with these dog food brands calling themselves fresh, natural, healthy. Sounds great, but a lot of these quote-unquote fresh dog foods in your fridge are not even 100% human grade, which is why feed your babies just food for dogs. It's good enough for Biggie and Smalls, my precious babies, so it's good enough for your babies. 100% human grade, real ingredients, beef, sweet potatoes, green beans, delicious. These are foods that you would want to eat. Not that the babies would ever share. Just Food for Dogs is the number one vet recommended fresh dog food backed by over a decade of research. No marketing fluff. My dogs lose their minds at dinner. They run to the bowl, tags wagging, paws tapping, full Broadway performance every single night. 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