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Hey everybody it is Toronto Unicorn and a very familiar set of well anonymous ladies but not so anonymous in their life that they share with you. Hello Miss R, Curly Vixen, Tanya and Peekaboo. Hello and the reason we are all here is because we are on the eve of going to a very big house party tomorrow in North York that is for me the first of its kind. I know Miss R's wearing cherries, but I could have. I could have wore a cherry because it would have been popped tomorrow.
Because I have had certain experiences in this lifestyle. I went to sex clubs. I have had sex in sex clubs. I've actually hosted my own hotel parties.
But there is so much I I've not done and one of the things that I haven't done is gone to a relatively large up to 50 people house party where they basically from what I'm assuming is like you know put down some like wet blankets on the beds and everybody just has a good time like we did in high school when we weren't supposed to um so I don't know what to expect but that's why i wanted to do this podcast a pre-party and a post-party because i've got and i know i'm not alone here all of the questions like well what do they expect from me do we have to be naked are we all going to be naked you know do you have to have sex or just bring chips like like what is the etiquette what do you wear um what time, right?
And I just, I thought it was valuable seeing a bunch of very seasoned, like, sex positive. I don't know, we're not all swingers, but we are not, you know, new to things often. So, I know, Tanya, this is probably something relatively new for you.
R, you had a bit more experience as going to other bigger hotel parties, but you said it was a bit sexually intimidating with so much sex in the middle of the room and like you're kind of on the outside so you it can be a hit or miss experience right yeah so that's why I wanted to show like they're not all the same just because you've gone to one house party doesn't mean you're going to the similar one the next one off or get off craigslist so, yeah, so I want to go in a circle and talk about it.
So the hosts of this house party are, you know, there's a few people behind the scenes as well. But Miss Curly Vixen and Peekaboo. So they are literally the organizers, the people who decided, yeah, let's fucking take this party and do it like, like in a way. It just, it's a really well-organized event. Right. Um, so I'm going to let you guys introduce the whole concept of the party. And then what I want to do is go through and share in a vulnerable, but honest way.
What are the real thoughts we're having? Like, what are the concerns we're having? Um, and I'll, I'll go first to set the tone. So, um, all right. So Ms.
Curly Vixixen and Peekaboo why don't you tell uh the listeners about the party and what it's the vibe you're expecting or hoping go for it okay so this all started because I went to my first house party um all by myself and then I went to a couple more at the same address and then I brought Curly with me I I believe your first house party if i'm not correct or if i am correct and then um yeah and then we just kind of were like you know what we can do this too right so curly ended up talking to uh the gentleman who will be hosting in his house and he was like yeah i used to do them before covid so the three of us got together and we chatted it out and we were like you know what we have kind of the basis of how to start it and run it and invite people um because of the other house parties the other house party that i had been to and um the host as well mr t he also um had been to the same house parties so we kind of were able to use that as a guide and then just word of mouth i told one person they told the other person they told and she said and he said and she said and same with curly and word got out and now i believe we have about 50 people bunch of couples sprinkling of single men, and a few single ladies.
Yeah, and I mean, I think you've said it mostly. I think we're not putting any pressure on the first one. I think we want it, I think there's quite a few people who are there for more of a social atmosphere.
We're going to have some games out too that will keep people occupied in that way um and i think more of the sexual experiences are going to be more in the bedroom areas so it's almost like you know just like going upstairs at the club at oasis is where most of the stuff goes down but there'll probably be some soft play going on also on the on the main levels so um and I said if anything the ones who aren't participating in the play will have a visual and I know that a lot of you guys enjoy that for our you know dinner and a movie that we all enjoy so much yeah so the expectation when you go to a lifestyle party is not like it's just like when to go to a club, right?
There's no expectation to have to play. And the good thing about our party is you don't have to dress down either. So you can choose to be clothed. You can choose to wear lingerie because there was the question about what do I wear? Whatever you want. Like we don't expect people to come in like sweatsuits.
Like we don't want you looking like you just rolled out of bed or you just came from the gym you know put some effort into it but nice jeans and a nice top whatever you feel comfortable and sexy in is what we expect you to come wearing and then whether you want to change into lingerie or not that's up to you and how comfortable you feel there are clothing only spaces in there because there's a couple of areas especially outside where the rule is you need to be clothed you have to be covered but other than that some people feel completely fine if they go upstairs and have a scene and then come down and they're just wearing their bra and panty or just panties that's fine I don't know if anybody if I'll encourage like walking around completely naked as you're, like, munching on food in the kitchen.
But I don't think that will be encouraged, right? But other than that, and I don't think people necessarily would. But, yeah, as far as dress code, it's whatever makes you feel sexy. You're welcome to watch. There's a few bedrooms upstairs, and then there's a living room downstairs. The expectations in the bedrooms are not like, uh, the other clubs where you can go in and out. Um, people can't necessarily refuse somebody coming in. You can refuse somebody coming into your space.
Cause that could be hard when you have only three bedrooms and like, you know, 25 couples.
So if you're using the bed and somebody else wants to use the bed beside you I would say yeah you have a right to refuse you know no we're using the bed right now but if somebody comes in is like can we use this corner over here and I'll just you know I'm going up on the on the dresser and they're gonna lick me is that okay you know yeah that kind of thing like you have to be you have to share the room and the doors have to stay open doors stay open for safety stores stay open again for just you know it's not a private club so you can't go in and shut the door and have a private session with your with your friend kind of thing um is that a thing that you learn from other parties yeah that was one of the that was a rule at the party that I had been at.
And I thought it was a pretty good rule. Because again, like you don't want somebody going in and monopolizing necessarily, like, you know, two people in that room. Like there's 50 people there and three bedrooms. So, you know, and you also want to make sure everybody's safe. Like it's our responsibility. Mr.
Tease, especially as the homeownerowner to make sure legally that everybody in that house is safe yeah so we want to make sure that especially us as hosts we have eyes on everyone and everything that's going on and you know yeah so doors open policy and one thing i did notice and i liked about the invitation was there's also a cutoff time for when you can arrive because one of the things that I've learned without even going to these is that you could be in right in the middle of a vibe and then people just walk in with like you know because they were running late or whatever and it could just change the whole vibe really quickly and some people are very comfortable with that um so it's nice to put a lid on it so to speak and say who, who's here by 1030 is here.
Um, yeah, I really, I liked that detail. Yeah. Especially think about what goes on at a lot of the clubs. It's like a lot of the single guys will stroll in at 11 cause then they don't have to socialize. They don't have to build any bonds. They just want to go and fuck. And it's like, you know what?
That's not the, that's not the vibe we're looking for're looking for there's going to be you know a little bit of sort of icebreakers and again icebreakers if you don't want to participate you don't have to but it's just a way of like getting to know the people that are there in like a more casual atmosphere and like talking to like-minded individuals and just bonding with like different people that you may not have been exposed to before right exactly and then also bringing people from different areas because um you know it's in north york but there's people coming from oshawa there's people coming from barry there's people coming from mississauga like there's people coming from all over so like like curly just said it's building those networks and you know meeting there was one couple that reached out and they were like, you know, we're a bi couple.
So male, female, bi couple. And they're like, it's really hard to meet other bi couples. Do you know if there's going to be any other bi couples there? And I was like, honestly, I don't know. And then somebody else happened to mention that they're a bi couple.
And I was like, oh, unfortunately, the first bi couple can't make it that time anyway but i was like look at that like they could have met and we're hoping that this will continue as a monthly thing so if you're not able to make it to this one hopefully you'll make it to the next one yeah i like that also i got to see the guest list i got to see even if people don't come i got to see you know who was invited and whatnot um it caused some chatter offline a little bit like oh did you see the You know what I mean?
Like, so it's, it was cool.
I really liked the organization i'm sure you know this was uh from a lessons learned with other parties but you don't want to be the contact of well do you know who's coming now or you don't want to be that liaison so having this like well-structured evite system i just thought was genius um yeah so so let's go around in a circle and uh we'll talk about our actual thoughts that we've had or maybe even ask someone on this group chat offline do you think this is going to happen what do you what should i wear like i want to know your inner inner world okay and so i'm going to go first uh one of the first questions i asked before I RS RSVP was, are people expected to swing or, you know, hook up there?
Because if the answer was yes, then I would have politely declined because I wouldn't have fit in with the crowd. And so I got that question answered. But I wonder if there's people out there who just don't even ask. They're just like, what do you think they want from us?
What do you think know do you do you just can do you can you say no like people might be too scared to come because it's like a sex club you don't know do you do you have to um it's it's before you know some people learn the consent is really driven well in this lifestyle so I'm glad that I was bold enough to ask what I know that some people might have those questions. And I think to anybody who does have those questions, it's fair to ask.
I think it's fair because if it's a hardcore sex party, you're going to want the right people in the room for that. Right. And you don't want to find out, you know, the hard way that someone doesn't feel comfortable. So yeah, so some of the questions I have are, well, what do I wear? And do I have something underneath or should I change in something? And like, I wanted to, I wanted to know like who else was coming.
And then I wanted to know if those people were planning to hook up with other people. Because I was like, am I going to be the only one who's like not really looking to hook up with like another couple? Because I'm going to be with a date, a guy I'm really comfortable with. And me and him are excited. He's brand new to this element of the lifestyle too.
But we're not really swingers like we're not really looking for that so we want to be around lifestyle people we want to maybe you know do some naughty sexual touching or like maybe a random blowjob in somewhere in this cool house um and that's the limit of our sexual fantasies at this house party and so i wanted to make sure there was room for people like that there. And I think there is, because I'm excited, he's excited, and we both know where our limits are. So, yeah.
So, Miss R, you are up next. So I would love to know what are the thoughts that you had or concerns or questions coming into this house party, because this is also kind of a first for you, right? All right. Well, yeah.
So, and again, every house party, I imagine, is a a first for you right all right well yeah so and again every house party i imagine is a little bit different but uh what are you supplying for guests so i'm supplying and then curly can say what she's supplying no but we're supplying but i picked it up which is funny collectively no i'm just laughing because i walked into one of my favorite adult stores and i was like where is that big tub of lube that you've had here forever that i really need to buy so that's why i'm just why i'm just saying like what i had to buy so i pick up the lube so i bought like a big tub thing of lube so each room will have a little pump of lube uh and then there's condoms and curly picked up some food and some drinks um non-alcoholic drinks.
So you are welcome to BYOB, but we will not be providing the booze. And I think the biggest reason is we also don't want people to be completely plastered.
The thing that's successful about these events is that people do stay pretty aware of themselves and you don't want people to be completely out of their minds drunk or high definitely you will be able to go out to the back and smoke he does like other parties that we've been to you're told to like go down the street it's like it's a terrible thing but we know that it's reality for a lot of our guests that they want to go out and just it's it's a stressful thing right especially for a lot of people's first time having a little toke of something may put them at ease and make them feel better so there's no problem with that it's welcomed um and uh we also bought um for all the beds there's going to be sex blankets so we bought um on amazon uh blankets for each of the beds and then um i was also able to pick up a smaller sort of mat, and we'll cover that as well with a with a sex blanket, just so that there's, you know, lots of different safe spaces to play.
There was also discussions for future party if this keeps going. Mr.
T has sort of a place in his basement that may be able to be curtained off a little bit and turned into a little bit of a BDSM type of area which would be some good visuals for some people so there's there's options there's different areas um for play and um yeah like a lot of people say like well what are we spending the money on like what are we paying for so it's it's towards food um evite themselves evite the company only actually allows you to invite eight people for free so you have to pay for a yearly membership in order to um invite and it's not cheap it's not like it's a lot like you know 20 bucks it's like well over a hundred and something dollars for that for the year so that itself costs and then just the initial cost like some of the some of the stuff you know that you that you buy for these parties you'll be able to use um for multiple parties so the first party is always going to be the most expensive that's true right so i don't i don't think that mr t is profiting much at all off of this um and but for future parties hopefully you know a little bit of money can be made back but you know you just also have to think about the um expense that also is for a person in their own home and also setting up you know he has grandkids so he's gotta you know get rid of stuff that you don't want toys lying around and stuff so he's got to do a lot of pre-cleaning and then the aftermath too right and Thank you.
He has grandkids, so he's got to, you know, get rid of stuff that you don't want toys lying around and stuff. So he's got to do a lot of pre-cleaning and then the aftermath, too, right? And washing everything and cleaning everything and putting everything away. But, of course, as hosts, we're going to help with that stuff. We're both going early and then we'll stay behind and help clean up. But that's a responsibility, right?
So that's what we're looking at and i'm just so grateful that it's not so far away and that it's a nice big space that we can fit that amount of people because if you are doing hotel parties you're limited in your space and you're paying for the room right or airbnb or whatever it is you're paying for that space so this is pretty awesome that we don't have to do that oh yeah i was saying this is a it's a big asset to put up for for an event like this that's why like and i hope it works out because it could be beneficial for everyone all around like for us we're getting the opportunity to go to this event right this collection of really cool people in our lifestyle you know it's not it's outside of a club when is the last time we all did that i don't know know.
So we're, well, every time we do that, it's vanilla world stuff. It's like, hey, we're going to go to a comedy show. But like, so this is for me, the first time we're all kind of congregating and creating our own sexual safe space that way. And I think that's pretty cool. And I'm glad that I'm taking it in from the sidelines and not an organizer, because I would hate to mix the stress of organizing with a sex party.
I just think that would kind of ruin my buzz a bit um but i'm really excited to see how it all unfolds um miss r what other questions did you have um well follow-up question you said you're supplying condoms this might seem like a silly question but do you have two different size condoms to accommodate so i went to costco they only had the one size so i'll have to pick up but also if you are that size like we don't expect like people are expected to bring their own condoms and their own lube right so our condoms and lubes are kind of like backup you can also you can bring your own blanket too right like it's not it's like when you go to a You bring your own condoms, your own lube, because you know what you like.
Right. You don't know if the fuck water that I bought is going to react well with your body or not. Right. So, but, yeah, I mean, we have regular condoms, and I need to pick up, I'll pick up, like, a few larger ones. But, I mean, to me, the expectation is I don't travel anywhere with the expectation of sex without condoms and lube. And I'm going to be sending out a last message tonight, just reiterating the address and also where to park because of the amount of snow buildup.
There's not really, I just went there to drop off the stuff today. There's next to no street parking. He's got a pretty big driveway, but by the time two or three cars are in it, that's it. But luckily, he lives less than a block away from a school, which is actually open at night. And people will be able to just occupy that parking lot, which is like a block, not even a block. So I'll give the address of that so everybody knows where they can park and safe, be safe. Yeah.
And I'll also give that little tidbit about lubes and condoms. And like, even though they're sex blankets on the bed, the last party I was at, you know, being a squirter, I know this is definitely a need for me. But I was ready to get on this frickin bed and there was already a group on there.
It was soaked like like I don't want to lay on that I don't want to lay on a soaked bed and you can't flip those things over because then they soak the bed so I'll bring I'll bring a few of my mini mats right and that's all if I'm playing and I'll also have that so people can use and I'll just wash it all at at T's place after see that comes from someone experienced who's like wait what happens when the wet blanket gets wet do you yeah it's a good point you need to know what to do in those situations right backup blanket's a great idea but i wouldn't have thought of that and laundry he offered the the idea of laundry so we can stick it in do a quick load and get it washed up but i mean those things aren't the easiest to wash and dry in five minutes you know you're looking at an hour or two so this feels like my very first like adult big like sex party there's no like no one's going to be getting in trouble we're allowed to do all of the above right like that's for me like that's so so foreign for me um so one last question yeah one last thing came to mind it seems silly maybe but when we're in there are we allowed to take our keep our shoes on or do we have to take them off i would say take your shoes off okay it's winter yeah maybe i'll even put a little message about that too maybe bring a pair of like socks or slippers that you're comfortable in we also said in the original invite you know if you are you know leaving or walking out and you're you're in your lingerie or you're in your underwear whatever bring maybe a robe that you can wrap up in when you go outside no you have to be dressed to go outside not in a redress right right and that's because there's a like a green room in the what do they call it the sunroom a sunroom in the back and it's completely clear like open so one of the other thoughts was also that we may in the future do like sort of a big wire around the whole thing and put up like uh curtains that cover it the problem is it doesn't stop noise and it's not soundproof so that's the thought you know behind it that's not because it's actually a quite a big sunroom so I was like oh look we could use this as a space and he's like yeah it would be fun but no so yeah so that's part of the so the place like he wants you fully clothed I mean technically like maybe guys would have to put their pants on and and their jacket it's unfortunately going to be like minus 20 tomorrow so people are going to have their big winter coats so i mean me as a woman if i walk out there with my boots on and my jacket on i don't necessarily have to be completely dressed underneath as i'm thinking about this now right like but i probably want to be um but like if it was summer or warmer weather where you could walk outside wearing just a robe that would be a no-no at his house because of his neighbors but not necessarily that would apply at anybody else's house right like where people can't see you like my house you can't see so unfortunately i don't own i rent so i can't do that here because that's another downfall to the lifestyle parties is the stories that i've heard from the previous party that i went the owner uh there was one where somebody had just freshly painted his walls and redone his basement and somebody slipped and red wine went all over the wall oh my god you know and then the other time somebody he has name tags out and somebody took the name tags and stuck them on the wall stuck them on trophies stuck them like like a high school party yeah yeah and there was a squirting incident on his couch he had a specific rule do not play on his couch somebody played on a couch and left a big stain and it wasn't me it wasn't me early yeah i can't imagine the cleanup after a party and being so disappointed but like by those things yeah yeah all right any other questions you have a date though so you're not going there the reason you're not asking about single men is because you're probably not looking for any right that's correct right so you're probably calm cool collected because you're you know you got your date you know you're how your night's gonna go just like me in a way um but if we were both on the prowl for single men i'm sure that we would have more questions like, you know, like what's who or who's invited?
What do they look like? Or here's a question I would have is what's the ratio of couples and single men? Yes, that is a great question. Do you know peekaboo?
I don't because i don't understand ratios like that that's a math question i think i think there's actually way more couples than there are singles pretty positive okay i i think there's quite a few single guys but a lot of them are they're not a majority of guys that are coming are experienced in lifestyle they're not like, you know, they're not our typical tower towel mongers that we call them from other set clubs. Yeah. They're, they're like pre, um, pre vetted, if you know what I mean.
Um, so definitely some good guys coming various colors, um, and cultures and, you know, I'm uh just uh just one shade if you know what i mean but there is like there is a ratio there is a way to like i forget what the number is but you do uh from what mr t was saying from his previous parties like you want so many single men to so many couples but we have yeah we have like about 50 people coming so like curly said there's a handful of single guys mind you some of the single guys like i know there's one single guy that's signed up as a single guy but he's actually coming as he's also somebody's date but that date is coming with her husband so her husband and i may play haha so we're I'm glad that her that the wife has a date um but you know like the single guys even though they're signed up as single aren't necessarily coming as single but again like I the I know the people that uh are coming with that I've invited are like they're down to play they're coming to play so and I also have invited quite a lot of um couples or single people who are coming as a couple but they're all open to play.
So, and I also have invited quite a lot of, um, couples or single people who are coming as a couple, but they're all open to play with their partner. My, the person that I'm bringing, you have all met minus, uh, minus T, um, and, uh, and, you know, enjoy hanging out with um and um totally open to, totally open to play, you know, as am I. So I'm in both the couple and the single, but also I'm hosting.
So I'm not going to be able to do as much as I would like, but that's why my, my partner's coming back with me and he's going to get maybe a little bit of a sound next door while she's sleeping in my kid's room. Yeah, that's, we need to discuss that as well as how to balance hosting and playing. Cause Thank you.
a little bit of sound next door while she's sleeping in my kid's room yeah that's we need to discuss that as well as how to balance hosting and playing because I'm making this list and all these people are coming and I'm like geez these are all people that I want to play with how am I going to have time to play with them like my personal playmate is coming as well and I'm like I said to him the other day I was like you know I hope I have time to play with you but there's going to be like 50 other people there so you'll have you know you'll have lots to explore if we don't get a chance to play but um yeah i'm hoping like we'll take shifts or something like okay you get this hour block you get this hour block i like that uh miss tanya so this is your first house party been in lifestyle for a few months now um i know you're getting a ride with me so we've sorted out all like how we're going to get there and stuff um and then you did ask me i think it was you who asked is everyone going to be naked and i was like that's a great question i don't think so um but i don't know for sure so i just that's why i wanted to do this interview for all of us because we do have some thoughts that i think will make us relatable to others who might be going through the same and I wanted to uh to show that so what are your thoughts that you've had before this house party uh the thoughts I've had it's uh I was actually excited when I got the invite and I was like this is kind of cool because I think what you said is like it doesn't happen too often and and what you're saying is you've been in the lifestyle five years and this is your first.
So for me, on the other end, I'm thinking this is pretty fantastic to be able to experience that. And I think everything that I've experienced so far has been top notch, you know, you know, so I can I'm and I'm looking forward to it. But yes, I did ask, what do I wear? What can I wear? What are you wearing?
You know, because you know because that you know was my first thought because I'm used to not wearing anything right and I'm quite comfortable with that um so that was my my first my first actually my first question what am I wearing what can I wear what should I wear yeah and are we supposed to bring like chips like I don't know like no no no okay with my own chips is that gonna look weird like these are the same questions that i still have you uh hey whatever you want to bring you can bring but there's no expectation for you to bring anything except for yourself um so it's funny because t just mentioned you know that she wasn't sure about what to wear and do i get naked blah blah so in the previous invitation like the previous house party that I went to on the invitation it says dress to impress so I was wearing I think like a little dress or something like a skirt or something but this other woman walks in and she's wearing like a full-on like little like fancy little blue dress and her partner's in like a button down with like suit pants and stuff and they're kind of looking they felt so awkward so that's why I just wanted to make it clear like it's just it's dressed to your comfort yeah as sexy as you want to be just don't look like you're going out of a gym yeah yeah or bend and there's other times where we may you know do a theme um uh the host is also a karaoke host so that may also draw, you know, like do a little crowd that could be a fun little activity to do on the side that also gives people, you know, just like Oasis does theme nights and has karaoke nights.
It may be a fun thing to do for people to another time and maybe not participate in, but maybe view, um, or just listen to.
So it just, you have lots options or we may have a certain you know theme around a holiday or something and maybe all the food will have something to do with that or maybe another time we'll do more of a potluck style you know like there's so many different options but for this one you know i like i said i went costco shopping today and got the basics that will sustain you through the night and give you what you need.
But again, if there's something specific that you want to bring with because you want to, then that's OK. And I've been the one I went to a couple of times. People did bring, you know, they're like, hey, I baked cookies today. I wanted to put them on the table and that's fine.
Like if someone wants to do that that's totally fine um and miss tanya you are a single woman going to this house party right yes i am you you tend to have a nickname dtf tanya which stands for down to fuck tanya so are you gonna be our poster child be it our to like live through like could you just do all the things that we get to see and then we'll live vicariously through you I don't want to let anyone down no no pressure but I think no no uh yeah you know I uh I'm down I'm down for anything you know I'm pretty open to whatever no expectation but always seems to something it will happen so and I don't mean to say I'm going to let you down I'm there to have fun I want to enjoy it I don't want to be sitting in the corner you know and I won't do that that was actually my other question I think you've already answered it though there'll be um because for me it was okay what am I wearing and there's no pool the pool to me is like a comfort you know like and and I was like what are we going to be doing because I may not be the most sociable person um and so it's good that there you'll have activities and stuff because I think that'll be an icebreaker so that's good so I that answered my other question my other angst was what are we going to be doing all you know how is this all going to play out so that's good well also like the way that the house is set up there's like a living room but then there's a huge kitchen with a like massive um countertop like massive um what's it called island so like my thinking is people will gather there like the pool right that's where the food will be that's where the drinks will be so and that's where there will be like no sex allowed in that space right so sex is allowed in the living room sex is allowed in the three bedrooms but no sex in the kitchen because that's where people are eating and stuff and that can be a great place to be social because you're just kind of sitting there munching and you know walking around and talking around food what brings people together better than sex and food all we need is the music well just to interject one of the questions I asked my partner is I'm like do you know how to politely decline someone's sexual invitation because there could be people going to this party really excited to swap or mix it around and so you might get proposition and so you don't want to get flat-footed you don't want to reject someone harshly you want to be prepared right so uh luckily it's ready and uh yeah i think i am too so any other questions uh tanya before you uh before you go to your first house party uh no but i'm looking forward to it i really am can i share a little fantasy that you shared about maybe this might happen yeah i you know i I'm an exhibitionist I like to you know be seen even though which surprises me that I even say that but that's something else that I've discovered about myself so yeah for me I don't know I've always just had this this fantasy of you know maybe you know if there's a room full of people and there's someone that catches my eye like you know that kind of happens sometimes that just wanders by you know just maybe drop down and give a blowjob right right then and there yeah you know but the living room will be perfect for her i got five bucks that says she does two of them tomorrow there's some good looking guys coming there's some really cute guys I should offer pro bono assistance for my orgy directing like if anybody needs some help here oh that's funny that's awesome and I like that you're going with that appetite to be like excited about who's going to walk in the door because it's like hey is that somebody that I'm going to maybe connect with so I like seeing through your eyes that you're going to go and have that side of the experience too yeah and they'll make be you know I'll be going like this the drool and then what happens if there's calf bites girls because have we planned for this what if there's like dibs dibs you can't call dibs like what happens then so um i guess we'll have to see i have a question he gets to make the choice whoever's being chased gets to make the choice that's all there is r has a question i have a quick question that came to mind is how long are people there before they start getting busy it depends right you know that i get there for five minutes and i get busy this is true the first party peekaboo brought me to I was seriously left abandoned after about 20 minutes I was like all right I guess I'm visiting with people and I didn't know anybody really there so I just kind of wandered around like I mean luckily I'm a social person so it wasn't a problem and honestly i don't think i we got there probably eight like pretty much on time just after and i don't think i actually played with anyone till closer to like 11 30 like like near to the end just because i was getting to know people and and whatever and it just didn't happen for me right away and that's fine and there's no pressure even if you don't hook up the whole night it's it's fine because you're still going to meet a network of people um and there's a lot of people you know like yourselves there's other people too that don't don't have the intention they just want to be with like-minded people and have conversations and build a community and there's there's nothing wrong with that so there'll be no judgment in that regard and some people just like having sex with other people around like they don't necessarily want to watch they don't like but they just like the atmosphere of being in that sexual atmosphere and having sex with their own partner yeah and and that's it and just enjoying being in that atmosphere so like yeah there's no no pressure to do anything and some people a lot of people that are coming uh there's a few that i know that are coming and it's their first time coming to a lifestyle party so that even though they've been in the lifestyle whatever so yeah i think i think it's going to be a really fun group i think it'll be a good mix of lots of different things to see and different people to do and good things to eat perfect uh what are your thoughts before uh your first uh hosted house party and what are your uh nervousness questions in your head uh well i'm just i'm hoping that that it's a good vibe like i'm hoping that we're trusting in the people that we're that we're bringing i did not think that it would get this big and i I didn't think that I really knew that many people.
Because when we first talked about it, that was one of my concerns was I was like, I'm like, I only know, like, you know, these few couples. She only knows, you know, these few people. But then I'm like, oh, yeah, you're talking to that person. I do know that person. Oh, you talk to that person. Yeah, I do know that person. So that was one of my fears was that we wouldn't be getting a good turnout.
um and then just people's respect for for the house because you know as much as we do know most of the people we don't know all of the people that will be coming so that's always a concern is just that you know people some people do tend to get stupid drunk whether you want them to or not and uh nobody ever gets stupid stoned just saying but people do get stupid drunk and you never know what would happen.
And's also a big liability on us as the host like i said especially tea um but uh yeah no i just i hope that it's a good vibe i think it will be and um i'm very excited and like my my biggest concern like i said is just being able to balance hosting and playing yeah because there's there's one friend that's coming that I haven't seen. We played once, sort of. We got interrupted. Because one of my lovely dramatic moments, that peekaboo moment. And he's coming. And he's coming with his wife.
And his wife should be busy. So I'm just hoping that I can play with him. That's awesome. Miss Curly Vixen,ixen we're gonna wrap it up with you what are your thoughts and feelings and maybe nervousness about tomorrow's party yeah i think same thing just hoping everyone has a good vibe and that everyone feels comfortable um doing whatever they want to do and uh also finally finding the balance myself it's pretty much the same as peekaboooo. I'm really glad that it's all come together.
Anyway, so yeah, I'm really excited for everyone to get together. I have lots of different people either that I've played with before or people just that I've met through lifestyle that I've invited. And, you know, just put it out to a few other people and then they've advertised to other people. So I think it should be a really good group. And I'm hoping that once we have one, you know, word travels and other people will then advertise to others.
The location's really great, like not too far off a highway, right and centered.
So I think it's going to be good and it's going to attract different crowds than the parties we've been to in the past just because they've been quite far out of town so um yeah i think it's going to be a really good time for everybody so i'm excited to vlog this house party it'll be one of the first times um i've gotten nervous standing outside the entrance of a party and been like oh my god what am I gonna see on the inside so it's gonna be nice as somebody who's a serious or season somewhat swinger somewhat sex sex club goer for me I want to show you know the vibe that night I want to show my outfit things like that so if I can grab any of the ladies here to take some pictures or whatnot you'll have to come to my fan page which is on only fans and know Miss R's got a fan page as well.
So you can always get some extra content there. So yeah, you'll have to stay tuned. I'm going to try and interview the people who go to this house party kind of while we're crusty fresh the next day, hopefully. And we'll debrief and figure out how did it go? What were we surprised by? What were the highlights and all that? So thank thank you ladies this has been awesome and i'll see you all tomorrow night all right see you tomorrow night ladies when i get to show off my hair
