Plaisir4Nous

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Rope play

Rope is a wonderful medium for multiple reasons, the intensity of your connection is greatly magnified, it also provides subconscious permission to play in ways one would not normally play, it intensifies anticipation, the intensity of pla…

Anyone ever been to a swing/BDSM/kink club

@Ymichael14, I live in both worlds and to me the difference boils down to different concepts of consent AND what you seek. Sexual bliss or kinky bliss. The LS is open to sex, the BDSM community is open as well but much more circumspect whe…

BDSM without humiliation

Humiliation/degradation is one aspect of play, but it’s specific play and it’s not the mainstream. I’m not into humiliation as a general rule, I’m much more into the sensuality of playing and find most others are as well. My advice is don’…

BDSM Workshop?

The most expansive list can be found on Fetlife. Look for groups in your area and find events that meet your interest. Munches are public meeting for group members where they can meet and meet others. Some groups require you to be vetted b…

FetLife vs SLS

Both sites are easy to use, but each have their own peculiarities. Fet is geared more to connecting at events and people with similar fetish. You’re not able to search for people by age or sex, so it’s not geared toward dating , yet connec…

Allow free members to reply to paid members

I believe that allowing free members the ability to reply to paid members for beneficial yet limited manner would actually grow the membership and limit the number of perpetually free members who are eye candy at best. I don’t pay for eye…