Lying single men, goodbye

I guess we have been lucky in the past when we played. Never had a no show single guy.we have met guys who unfortunately looked unkemp and the meeting was very short. I think it’s been our easy going attitude in setting up a meeting and laying out some guidelines like it might turn into a play date or it might not. We are good judges of people, I think. Also what single guy wouldn’t want to meet the wife, she just exudes sexuality without being or looking slutty.

And here I am.... Making sure to fill out a proper profile, take good pics, even have my face up.... I read profiles. Try to construct my email to include a little bit that has me interested, no copy and paste...

Brother can't even get a polite no thanks... And yet we got men on here getting 8-9-10 invites and not even showing up. I should throw this computer at them lol

:)

In the last week. We made plans with 8 diff men. Only one showed and drove 2 hrs. It was a great not very sexy average hung. Put 2 huge loads in me

It ain't Pismo Beach, but when I look around, I do see all the clams I could eat...

BT

bdbdbdbdbd....That's All Folks!

It's "wrong toin at Albuquoikie".
. . . maybe

Seems I took a wrong turn at Albuquerque... I'm looking for the "Laying_Single_Men, Hello" thread. Anyone wanna point me in that direction?

Thanks!

BT

I am sorry so many women can’t find good single men out there, since we have had fairly good success (and there are really great ones out there). I’m thinking it may have to do with one’s vetting process. If you can find a way to ensure that men read your profile, and take the time to write a genuine email, you will hopefully have more success.

It's too bad you feel that way. I've had some really good luck here meeting nice single men. I do think you have to be selective and spend a little time trying to get to know them before meeting but don't give up hope. There are a few good eggs out there. :)

I guess be happy you are happily married......

I keep reading all this and wondering why.

MAKE THEM TAKE A PROOF PIC THAT YOU SPECIFY. Is that so complicated.

It's right there in my profile. Guys who think they would be what I am looking for, write "4 Tam" on a piece of paper and take a pic holding the note. Otherwise, I don't waste any time on them at all.

I recently moved to Florida from California. While in Southern California I had great luck in finding single BBC. I can count on one hand the number of cancelations I have had over the years. My husband and I have been swinging
for well over 20 years. I am most active in the lifestyle. Since I moved to Florida I have got nothing but last minute cancelations and tons of BS. I can't believe it is Florida but I am having doubts. Do you approach men differently here? I NEED SOME RELIABLE NSA WELL ENDOWED MEN. CAN ANYONE OFFER ADVICE?

Why pics? every pic we have seen in the last ten years has been a lie when we meet them in real life. The couple we met on Saturday said that they where 47 and in real life they where around 70.
We have yet to meet anyone online who has honest up to date pics.

Ishawoo, I posted 3 weeks ago that things are better. I took a break for a while. And it wasn't just two guys. It was several. They freaking wasted a ton of my time acting like they were sincerely going to meet for coffee or whatever, to see if we were interested, and either no-show or most often a last minute cancellation.

I found a really nice guy who is totally reliable and respectful. I had to spend 4 months sifting through liars, flakes, posers. There were far more guys who cancelled last minute, after I was all ready to go, than honest men.

Snagged an exceptionally affectionate, kind FWB. Happy ending.

I agree most in here are playing games but not all. If they don't have pics don't waste your time with them

Ishawoo , you have couples blocked so if they were in your area or you in theirs, doubtful any contact would be made but, I agree with you , we have met some wonderful single men in the lifestyle :-)

Ishawoo , you have couples blocked so if they were in your area or you in theirs, doubtful any contact would be made but, I agree with you , we have met some wonderful single men in the lifestyle :-)

You should not classify us all that way. We all don't lie , we all don't cancel. You have two bad experiences and call it quits. Don't you can find the one you seek. If I was near I would show you that some of us are serious and honest. Don't turn your back he is out there.

"People with rightly judge her as Cool, and Awesome if she associates with Puppets."

If it's a Batman puppet, yeah, OK. Beaker, or Link Hogthrob, not so much.

"Pickles glow when electricity is applied; Beaker glows when electricity is applied. Therefore, Beaker is a pickle."

-Dr. Bunsen Honeydew

Don't be a pickle.

It warms my heart when this happens!

It warms other parts of me (...and it puts the lotion in the basket... Wait...that's not for this post...) when I'm given the opportunity to be a part of the turnaround. ...maybe next time...

Happy for you, Ms. Nefarious! Should you find yourself in my neck of the nape, I know a few SMs who might like to say hello...

BT

I don't know why you say goodbye I say hello...

HA HA. I love my original, furious post. Since then I found a great guy and now I'm all happy-happy again. I needed a break for a while. I also made the guys I met here on SLS CALL me on their cell phones the morning of the coffee meeting, not just Kik. And I stopped doing a ton of Kikking in advance. That was a real time waster.

Live 'n learn.

"Also much safer to be hit from behind."

I keep saying that, but none of the fora beauties will believe me! So, I'm stuck with full frontal collisions only...

BT

"I believe that people will judge you far differently if you're riding shotgun to a Batman puppet in a Pinto Hatchback of Wild Monkey Sex pulling up to a single wide than the image of you riding shotgun to me in a 1974 Oldsmobile Custom Cruiser (with wood grain sides) pulling up to a double wide."

Absolutely right. People with rightly judge her as Cool, and Awesome if she associates with Puppets. :)

"It's amazing what all the mere mention of an old Pinto conjures up.... and all the "stuff" that people look at to judge your happiness and success."

Mrs ShePlays, the recent exchange here conjured up a few images for me.

I believe that people will judge you far differently if you're riding shotgun to a Batman puppet in a Pinto Hatchback of Wild Monkey Sex pulling up to a single wide than the image of you riding shotgun to me in a 1974 Oldsmobile Custom Cruiser (with wood grain sides) pulling up to a double wide.

Also much safer to be hit from behind.

Wild monkey sex is possible in the "way back" of a 1974 Oldsmobile Custom Cruiser (with wood grain sides). Trust me on this.

We called it the Way Back. No seat belts, rear facing... That was my dad’s Station wagon. It wasn’t as cool as my uncle’s Ford Country Squire with a 454 though.

BT

"It runs like a horse that left it's tail behind"

I still remember the dashboard logo. Ours was also the 3 door hatch back in that beautiful Dirt brown color. Hard to believe us 6 kids and both of my parents all piled in that thing. My designated seat was "The very back"