HWP is hard to judge and it Really is an individual thing, but in general for us it just means that guys have shoulders wider than hips and when standing at the position of attention can see their belt buckle when they look down lol.
As far as women go...hmmm hard to say. It’s like porn, you know it when you see it.
We didn’t take your comment personally. We just find it ridiculous that people want other swingers to “chill” about their preferences, especially when they feel excluded.
Rabbit, the chill comment had nothing to do with your posts. Just decades of frustrations. My apologies.
Heh. I'm still doing some work around the house before heading in to the shop to finish some of the last tasks on that project. I'll give you an update in a day or so.
Why?
Would you tell single straight men that they should just chill the f out about rejecting the advances of bi men? Of course not. That would be assholish.
If people prefer to play with HWP partners, they should look for HWP partners. Period. So what if they themselves aren't HWP? That's irrelevant. We all have the right to search for the partners that we prefer. Now, it's not a bad idea to be realistic about your chances of success, but that doesn't mean that one should just open the doors to everyone just to get some playtime in. There's a balance between a narrow search for a specific play partner who may be in short supply and having no criteria at all except "warm body, willing to fuck me".
Not a very “chill” first post but welcome to the fora Rex.
~S~
People need to chill the f out on HWP, especially when they should not be throwing stones.
@CT
No one is saying overweight people can’t be attractive, they just aren’t HWP. Then it went off on a tangent (as it always does) about how important personality is. And now you are adding politics?
What does who your friends voted for have to do with HWP?
~S~
IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE PROPHECY
Ct for the days before The Clinton criminal cartel. Business was something that was good and everyone was thinking of trying to live the American dream of starting a business and become rich over time.
The Clinton's took the American dream away and turned goverment into the union run and owned criminal entity that government is today.
I think HWP can be subjective. Sometimes larger couples can actually be quite fit and look very attractive, so I wouldn't be so dismissive of larger couples. It just depends on the people in question. Everything is so political these days, I miss the days when I was in my 20's when I didn't care who was in office or who my family and friends voted for.
Do not listen to any advice from nut job his wife doesn't have sex with him anymore and has him cuck hold He's got a small wiener and is full of shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiittttt
Once you had a woman who keeps her body fit with exercise its hard to have sex with a soft woman.
Thank you. She decided last October that she had had it and she went to a bariatric surgeon. She had the sleeve procedure on June 1st and. 2 months post surgery she is down about 32 pounds (59 from her ‘official’ weighing at the time of her consultation.
In these two months she is down to a size medium shirt and about a 10/12 on pants. Sadly even her boobs have shrunk. Her highlight last weekend was being able to buy a bra from Victoria Sectet from their actual store stock. Small victories.
Surgerybis not an easy way out, but she needed that tool as she could feel physically her body starting to break down as was her confidence.
@Fokkers "This is is about sex, plain and simple and if we are not attracted to the other single/couple it isn’t going to happen whether or not they are HWP. "
So very true!
Thumbs up to your wife for taking the journey to better health. I am still on my weight loss journey, and I know how difficult it can be at times.
Thanks guys, I was wondering about something, and this reminded me.
I’m HWP, Mrs F is not at this moment ( current rate she is going she will be HWP by October). We are fairly attractive and I am looking forward to see if once we are both HWP if all of a sudden things change.
We have never been about the HWP thing (how could we if we were not ourselves) but we did look at attraction and personality.
One night at Tabu, we were approached by this woman. She was a train wreck, not very attractive, lack of personality and she approaches us with her tits hanging out like that was going to make a difference and looking to go play. I was a little tipsy but even then there was nothing about her that made me say - let’s go.
This is is about sex, plain and simple and if we are not attracted to the other single/couple it isn’t going to happen whether or not they are HWP.
We have on our profile "Putting HWP has different meanings to different people. To be more clear, we are only interested in couples that are around the same weight & height proportions as ourselves."
Although I do believe personality has a lot to do with if we would be interested in someone, if they are not visually pleasing to "us" then it's just not going to happen. I'm sorry if that sounds rude, self centered, or shallow, but it is what it is and we all have the right to have our own preferences. ~N
As we have pointed out many times, HWP is not synonymous with attraction.
Height Weight Proportionate is simply one measure of how some perceive attraction. Personality is another, completely different ingredient.
People who are overweight are not HWP but that doesn’t mean they are unattractive. Every conversation that has ever been started here always ends up with “yes but a great personality is important too!” We agree but that isn’t what HWP means.
Perhaps someone needs to start a thread called “The other HWP” (Happy Witty People)
~S~
Well that varies depending on who is answering the question. But it does feel like the definition of HWP is being stretched a bit thin - pun intended ;)
In a strict sense HWP is anyone that's not overweight. Now what's overweight? Well, again that depends on your perspective. Everyone has their own preferences and comfort levels. We can all tell from a good full body picture if we are physically attracted or not. That's really the question we need to answer.
Personally, I prefer someone that's reasonably fit. BUT, a great personality does go a long way. I've met women that look like models with a horrible personality - very unattractive. I've also met women that are overweight that are incredibly sexy because of their demeanor, confidence etc. Everyone is different.
Sorillo, I got this...
Labradoodle dingleberries.
Sorillo tell me one subject that is not political.
IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE PROPHECY
Prty its the liberals in here that always make things political i just respond. But in Ameirica today what is not political? Even sex has been politicized.
ncal......this is a swinger site. Unless you’re talking on a political forum, please leave the politics out of it!! Everyone is really getting sick of hearing it. Keep to the topics. Thank you
