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If I didn't enjoy watching my wife be pleased and having fun then all of this would be pointless. As far as a one for one, that's not necessarily equal. Pretty much we have never found any sex as good as our get back sex.
MNJFLA According to what studies there are on the matter any measurement beyond 7" puts you in the top 5% of "size". In other non scientific surveys woman have said 7" to 7 1/2" is the perfect balance of size and comfort.
There was a time that as part of the vetting process we would ask a single male would he want a wife or gf to participate with him?
Definition of "hung" would be helpful. Perception versus reality. What "scientific" studies there are on the subject found that 5.75 to 6.00 inches in length makes up 50% of the group. 5% below 5 inches and 5% above 7 inches. The rest betw…
LMK The only thing I would disagree with is married people with hall passes describing themselves as single. The usefulness of labels can be debated. An understanding of the paramount importance of honest and forthright conversation in the…
In another forum a single male posted about his experience in the lifestyle. He stated he had never been married and had been in the lifestyle for ten years with little to no success. One of the first responses was the male half of a coupl…
Crazy how many guys we tell "not interested in single guys at this time" respond with, "I'm not single, I'm married but she doesn't play". Point out to them their profile says nothing about married playing solo... IF they respond.... It wi…
There are at least two possibly three such SM group profiles based in the Dallas, TX area. One is mostly about BBC. The others are a mix of various guys all touted to be battle tested. You send your request as to number, race, and desired…
I believe the largest contributor to the decline in quality single males on this and other LS websites has been the cellphone app. The low barrier to entry, the amount of "hook-up" type apps, the portrayal of "swingers" in pop culture, and…
The "private" album is viewable on the app. Due to Apple and Android restrictions explicit photos cannot be viewed through the app. So explicit photos are only viewable in your "personal" album through the website. Unfortunately the app ru…
Just tonight we had a single male profile (claiming to be a couple) view us from the app. No WVM record on website, it does show on app. We do not have single males blocked. As others have said, the App is useless. Best just to view site t…
qoodgollymsmolly98226 touched on the main reason for asking. These are not initial "screening" questions and are not always asked. And yes, maybe it does lead to a feel of a longer term relationship. One and done male encounters overwhelmi…
RonKathy When meeting couples we are not interested in such probing questions either. Single males are a little more tricky. We have had more than our share of guys who seem to think women in the lifestyle are little more than nymphos and…
Questions we have asked single males: If you were married would you let other men have sex with your wife? If you have a girlfriend that you "swing" with, would you marry her? Some answer. Most never respond or contact us again.
