"It says "for your exclusive use" but i'd appreciate it if someone at SLS would confirm that only the subscriber selecting the interest level sees this."
Yes, only you will see the interest levels that you have set for the other profiles. They will not see what you have selected.
We actually would think it would be great if a separate file could be created so that you can select members you are interested and place them into a favored couple file. While the couples you have selected are in this file, on the other end the person who was selected could see that they are a couple that someone is interested in meeting, but without letting you know who is interested in you. However, even that could be a topic of discussion. We do like the idea of having an upgraded version of the "How many times your profile has been viewed" category...
I'd really like a way to adjust the distance of the "Newest Members" and "Random Members" on the front page. It often shows me a new or random member from more than 2 states away. We have an 8 month old and barely have time to meet folks from 15 miles away.
Seems easy enough to code a variable for the mileage instead of the constant thats there now, which seems to be about 120 miles. I don't know if anyone else would even care, I just hate seeing some super sexy woman with a husband that fits brit's parameters, and then realizing they're halfway through Virginia.
Perm, you got it...no one else should see or know...If we are interested we will send you a mail.
I do not want the members to be able to see our interest level rating for them.
I also don't care to know who has been viewing me or who I have viewed to know either.
Those are tools we use to comunicate to each other. I may be interested and then a few days later hubby searches and is not interested the interest level will change. I set my interest he adjusts to show his.. If we match up we make a note.
-The member you click on should see that someone else is showing interest in their profile
But what happens if you're NOT interested after you read their profile?
The member you click on should see that someone else is showing interest in their profile
I have seen another site that has a "wishlist". if someone comes accross your profile and they are interested they can add you to the wishlist and your profile gets notified. it feels nice to know someone wants you.
Spelling freaks and such. I am the male half of this couple and I usually do the contacts. Personally I can't spell worth a damn. I speak two languages and can screw up the spelling in either one or both at the same time. However does it really make a difference in a possible friendship if one spells it discrete or discreet. I completely understand if someone is illerate and sends a message that shows they probably did not graduate grammar school ( we have had some of those) but just screwing up a couple of words in a paragraph possibly even because of typing fast. Come on give us bad spellers a break. Besides I think people that can only think of one way to spell a word have no imagination.
BAD SPELLERS OF THE WORLD UNTIE !! We're new to this site and so far it is the best one we have tried. However it is hard to learn to navigate.
sox42350,
Please be specific with the problems you are having. You can send me a private message if you wish and I will look into it with you.
kobioha,
You have several issues with your profile, which is why it has not been approved yet. I will send you a private message with the details.
CustomerService -Wayne
if your single you should have a single male profile. and single males are a dime a dozen and people will be very picky about singles.
So to say you don't lie.. but live in a couples profile as a single... well that starts off spelling drama to me...
i want my money back, this is worse site i have been , i can't get messages and i can't send message, this is fucked-up
this is the worse website i've seen desighned by anyone.
They should go to AFF and beg them to find out who did theirs
This is whole thing sucks
Hello there everyone! We hope that all are well and in high spirits! Spring is certainly here and We anticipate the lush summer coming our way to get us out of the whole cabin fever thing.The wife gets it bad! Poor thing. Well....What I would change about this site if I could...Just one thing...I would make it so that the other party see the cool little stars of interest levels so that they could show interest in advance of an e-mail. I believe that that alone would cut down on ALOT of disapointment and frustration. We are on other sites as well and we see how well it works there. The last thing I'd want is for all sites to be the same but some shared traits would REALLY BE NICE !!!!! Anyboboy have a name for "THE GUY TO ASK"? Rob & Mich
Welcome to the forums MrShasta
"does the profile where you click the interest stars get notified that you clicked the interest stars on their profile?"
Nope :)
Couple7958,
The only thing I can suggest by reading your profile is to try to make it more clear as to what you want. I don't mean to sound like a snob. But I'm assuming that English isn't your native language. I know that things get lost in translation. Just take your time, I know that you can't have someone proof read it for you LOL. But if you go slow and make it more clear, I think things will work out fine for the two of you.
Woodbournecouple,
Maybe it's the emails that you've sent. The one we received from you was "wanna meet" that was is. Nothing else, just that one statement. No "Hi how's it going." NOTHING. So you expect us to look at this and say "Hell yes this is the couple for us!" Gimme a break.
Take some time to improve YOUR communication skills and perhaps you may get some positive responses.
woodbournecple,
You sure said it right.
I've been on this site for a few years with out a whole lot of success. I've e-mailed more than 80 different profiles that had the criteria that matched me and my status. There have been only 6 or 7 ever returned any messages at all. and of those, only met 3, and played with none. Seems the criteria is too stiff here for just lil ole me. Then there was a couple of them did email back and forth for weeks, discussed desires and favorite fantasies, then and planned to meet, but then all of a sudden they chickened out, with lame excuses like we know who you are, or we don't know you., (like they would rather screw strangers...) or gee I didn't know how old you were. ( the age is posted right in the front of my profile, WTF cant they read.??) and many other excuses. I'm not real happy with the folks on this site, but I do keep hoping somebody with some sense will join and really want to play someday. Until then, I'll just keep looking here, and on the other sites that I've had success with. Now don't get me wrong. I'm not whining, just putting in my 2 cents worth..... but still wondering about the "realness" and truthful interest in actually playing with most of the folks on this site..... I do hope you have better luck than I did.. sugardaddy14u
I think that would be by far a top priority. Who hasn't experienced the no answer problem? Who hasn't received the "no thanks" answer? Not only would it save time and waiting but also discouragement. The frustration of "what in hell do they want?
"Are they real?" "do we need breath mints?" "should we continue the conversations with them?" "ARE THE REALLY INTERESTED?" YES we need it!
I really like the interest stars. We are on here as a couple so whenever either of us reads a profile we check our interest level. Since we don't get on the site together often, now I can see who he likes and he can see mine! A real time saver for us since we both want to be in agreement before we contact a member. I LOVE IT!
Yes, we seem to agree with many. It would be nice if we had a way of letting other people know that we may be interested in their profile. Then perhaps, if they show and interest also, they may email or note an interest in our profile back, which will then prompt us to send them an email. ...... SLS might send us a note indicating that another member clicked interested ...........thanks
is the show interests feature going to be visible to see interest levels of other couples soon?
This site could help further narrow our searches by providing more exclusions in the preferences section. For example, no bi guys, no couples seeking females only, etc.
If we may chime in on this. We would love a feature to tell other or for others to tell us they are interested... other than email. To be honest I am tired of even trying with emails. IF we get a reply at all it's often 'thanks but we're not interested' or 'we're not looking at the moment'. Yes, we do appreciate the 'no thanks' emails but it would have certainly been easier to have some way of notifying someone of possible interest prior to sending the email.
Is this "show interest" ever going to be up and running. I think it's a great idea, that we can click on it in anothers profile and they would be able to see it. Save tons of time.
Just our opinion, and you know what the're worth. LOL
Mr. n Mrs. P
