"Married can play singly" is one of those things that get shared after meeting, in our experience.
Personally, we have passed on one lady whose SO did not wish to participate or meet. We want to know if there is a marriage and if so if both parties are on board with whatever will happen.
If we came across a "single" who turned out to be married after a while, then he or she would be dropped like a hot potato.
Even if one writes all the hall pass words in their profile , we still want to meet the spouse.

