What are we doing wrong?

Not sure what changes have been done. I did notice the comment about being picky is still there. If you're going to leave that I would at least eliminate the caps on "PICKY". It tends to draw your attention to it. If that's the first thing people focus on then you may get less traffic/interest as a result.

That can be fine to leave if this is really the case, but you asked how to get more traffic/interest and I would agree with the prior poster that leaving this may likely limit that, especially in CAPS.

My wife and I have had the same problem but, we get a lot of response now more than we want sometimes and we only made a few changes . First don’t be too heavy on the wife swiping 3 sums are so much easyer. It’s hard to find a couple where both couples are happy compared to finding one more person for a 3sum, but this is the most important, l the male changed myself as bi ciorius you would believe the response I get from guys that want girls but are interested in a little guy stuff I’m really not gay or bi but let’s face it when your doing a little mfm you gonna have a little contact anyway like my wife likes 2 cocks in her pussy

It’s much better. Great job on the pictures.

I'm told that "four way attraction" can be really hard to achieve and a lot to demand.

Otherwise, it looks like it's very much improved. I like it

And if that's what's meant by "goofy pictures," I like them.

Frankyswinger, start a new thread for your question. When you open Better Profiles, before you open a thread, click New Topic.

That's usually enough to get some comments.

Seriously tell me what I’m doing wrong so I can fix it

Take out the part that says she’s very picky. That will limit you right off the bat as people aren’t looking to stick their neck out to not get a reply or just get turned down. You can address that on a case by case basis as birds start popping up.

We, as a couple, like goofy pictures. Sense of humor and personality are our biggest turn ins. That’s more of what we’re looking for but that’s us.

You guys look like fun.

Hi. I think it's partly content. There isn't a lot of it and what there is isn't tantalizing in any way, so there's no motivation for anyone to want to know more. I think the biggest issue is that you're mostly soft swap (or do you even go that far? I can't tell) and that limits your pool of people. That's not something you can change. Although if you're not just soft swap with single women, you should at least mention that in any emails you send to them. I'd still say no, but those women who would avoid you because soft play is pretty uninteresting would not automatically rule you out.

I would take your pictures and pair them down - 19 is way too many. Keep it a a max of 10 and keep the "silly" pictures to a minimum.

Also keep in mind that I don't like it when the male has facial hair in some pictures, but not in others. I don't want to run the risk of meeting you and not being attracted because you looked good without facial hair, but showed up with a beard.

The only exception to this rule is weekend or vacation scruff.

You profile is way too short. You are yet another boring "hot fun couple looking for hot fun." There's a million of you out there and you don't stand out at all.

I would put some info about hobbies in there. People need hooks to draw you in - points of commonality so that they can engage you about more than sex. I use Basketball, cycling, and baseball as my hooks. Be interesting.

I would rewrite, pair down your pictures and repost here.

We have tried to put together a good profile that accurately describes us. We are getting very few replies to our emails. Quite certain our profile could use some help but Really hoping for some useful feedback here. Thanks in advance for your honesty. It's appreciated even if it's painful.